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Christianity Etc › Re: For Every Bible Question, There Is A Bible Answer. Ask A Sincere Question Here by abdulwastecx(m): 12:22am On Nov 19, 2014

SisterMe:
And the sun is kept from falling by which gravity- The Milky Way gravity right? And the Milky Way Galaxy is kept from falling in space by which gravity- The universe gravity right? And the universe is kept from falling in space by what?

When you get to the end of your wisdom, that's when God's wisdom appears.

No point badgering ourselves over this, you can go on with what you believe and I will go on with mine.

all these doesn't really leads me to the god of your book.

without scince and the discovery of telescopes we wouldn't even know that we have other planet in our solar system not to think of the billions Suns in our galaxy and the billion galaxy in our space.

The only thing we see in your book is how god creates the very insignificant earth its moon and sun...too much emphasis on earth with no information about other planetary body.

I dont really believe all these leads to your book god because your book god seems clueless about the space he created.

Christianity Etc › Re: For Every Bible Question, There Is A Bible Answer. Ask A Sincere Question Here by abdulwastecx(m): 12:16am On Nov 19, 2014

SisterMe:
I do't know who was Cain's wife, I only know Adam had daughters and I know in those days it was permitted for siblings to marry. What is certain is that Cain had a wife, even if she dropped from the moon.

since your book is comprehensive enough and Cain wife is an important character....to be gair with her, she deserved to mention.

if those days siblings are permitted to marry, why are they not permited now.

your book only mentioned Cain and Abel. ..which means they either have no other offspring or God was discriminatory towards female and decided to omit them since they are not important

Christianity Etc › Re: For Every Bible Question, There Is A Bible Answer. Ask A Sincere Question Here by abdulwastecx(m): 12:12am On Nov 19, 2014

SisterMe:
Why does a man's children suffer hunger when the man fails to bring food home?

comparing your omniscient and powerful god to a man that can't bring food home is ridiculous ar best....

what do you make of a judiciary system that punished an innocent man for the sins of his relative?

Properties › Re: Correcting Structural/building Errors To Avoid Stories That Touch (Update) by abdulwastecx(m): 5:44am On Nov 18, 2014

mufutau55:
Hai, Naji manna, kadan-kadan. Sikena.

But true, true, it has been 42 years ago I spoke Hausa last.. I was working with Cadbury Nigeria Ltd. (we were making Tomapep) in Zaria, while I was also enrolled in ABU in Samaru. I used to live in Sabon-Gari. Those were good old days.

Hajji Mufutau

I am from Niger state sir, currently serving in port harcourt. I graduatee from federal university of technology minna, but before then I was a carpenter and form work forman for a small company in Abuja after secondary school. I actually learnt carpentry from a very young age from my dad..

Properties › Re: Correcting Structural/building Errors To Avoid Stories That Touch (Update) by abdulwastecx(m): 5:40am On Nov 18, 2014

mufutau55:
I am not doubting your professionalism sir... I will never do that.

OK.. I have forgotten my Hausa language, the last time I spoke it was about 42 years ago.. at ABU in Zaria.

I understood what you mean by that tie down.. But this kind of tied down (ojagba - lagalaga) has been used in building even before I was born and it has always hold up.. It depends on the carpenter tied down the iron, some of them twist it in multiple times.. others, may be not. But I do understood your concern about it..

On the other example, if the bricklayer did a good job the ojagba-lagalaga should not affect the plastering of the house... the mortar should be thick enough as not to show any sign of the tie-down sheet.. unless that building is not well plastered...

Then this bring me to the last question, if the ojagba-lagalaga is not used, what are the alternatives?
I know if there is a parapet installed, stranger iron rods can be embedded into the parapet concrete mortar and can be used instead of the
ojagba-lagalaga but apart from that I have not seen another modern alternatives.. but then I am not a Builder, so my experience is minimal,
but I just want to learn from the like of you, the Professionals. If you have photos, I will appreciate it too.

My aim is to learn, not to criticize or doubt your work or your professionalism... Thank you.

Hajji M.

Yes sir I am very happy for this conversation. ...you ate 100% on point about your explanation. I am sorry about my last statement ' a well trained carpenter and a civil engineer'. professionally I can't called myself civil engineer until I am a registered civil engineer which will be atleast 4 years post NYSC experience.

Back to the main discussion, I always called the stranger rode, a connector.

most of the modern houses I had work on uses stranger rope because it is a better alternative than ajagba structurally but more expensive. The added advantage of properly tying down the building, pressing the top block from direct pressure of the wall plate ( hard wood placed on top the block where the tie beams and rafters rest on.

so sir, most of the new houses here uses head course and the stranger rode because it is structurally better than lagagala. I am currently in port harcourt and I don't pictures here sir to explain my point

Properties › Re: Correcting Structural/building Errors To Avoid Stories That Touch (Update) by abdulwastecx(m): 11:50pm On Nov 17, 2014

[quote author=barakah post=28110073]What's head course?

head course is a concrete layer after last block layer before the roof. after lintel level in a bungalow, two layers of block is placed on top of the lintel and a week concrete layer is placed on top of the last block to form the ' head course'. a mild steel of R6 is used to form a connectors that will link the roofing ( tie beams) to the wall. these connectors replaces the 'ajagba' and are spaced at 1.2m (4') c/c round the

Properties › Re: Correcting Structural/building Errors To Avoid Stories That Touch (Update) by abdulwastecx(m): 11:43pm On Nov 17, 2014

mufutau55:
Can you please elaborate on this... What is "Lagalaga", first time I am hearing this.
Or are you talking about the iron (Ojagba) used to tie down the woods for roofing?
Thank you.

Hajji M.

yes sir...in the north here ( abuja and it's environs) it is called 'lagalaga' but in the west it is ajagba.

the problem with ' ajagba' includes the following:
1. it makes wall Finnishing not be aesthetically ok.
2. Not enough to tied down the roof (wooden tie beam) to the wall plate and to the wall. hence, when there is wind with higher velocity your buulding may be blown away.

I am well trained carpenter and a civil engineer sir

Properties › Re: Correcting Structural/building Errors To Avoid Stories That Touch (Update) by abdulwastecx(m): 11:20pm On Nov 17, 2014

barakah:
Experts in the house.
Please your comments and contributions are highly vital for this project.

Bungalows are built using load bearing walls because the loar from the roof are relatively low...exceptions includes, when the bearing capacity of the soil is too poor ( water lodged area), when the sancrete block strength is bellow 14kN/m2 ( there will be cracking developing on such wall in the long run). when and overhead tank is to be placed at that part of the building.

I hate the use of "lagalaga" in the building. ..an head course of week concrete running through the building at the roof level with a mild steel connectors spaced at 1.2m (4') could have made ur wok perfect

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Properties › Re: Correcting Structural/building Errors To Avoid Stories That Touch (Update) by abdulwastecx(m): 11:13pm On Nov 17, 2014

barakah:
Hello Nairaland,
Please I just discovered that my builder did not include columns or pillars in my twin two bedroom bungalow.

However, considering the importance of columns and pillars in ensuring the strenght of a structure and in making it stand the test of time, I'm considering finding a lasting solution to this error.

The structure has strong concrete lintel tieing the top together but i'm wondering if the blockwork alone can withstand the weight of the roofing on the longrun, having installed 0.45mm aluminium sheets and Itara planks for wood work.

Please professionals in the house kindly help in providing suggestions to this error so I can have the needed rest of mind to continue with my project.

Nice building but you made one mistake I just noted by looking at those picture.
You didn't provide head course....I always advice my client and all home owners to always put that in the building because it save alot of stress in future expectially in a site like yours where there are no wind breakers ( trees).

In summary, consult somebody when you want to embark on a project like this in future. ...it may be a friend, professionals or online here. all the best bro

Christianity Etc › Re: Akudaya:myth Or Reality? by abdulwastecx(m): 10:16pm On Nov 17, 2014

muib:
Narrated Abu Bakra: We were with Allah's Apostle when the sun eclipsed. Allah's Apostle stood up dragging his cloak till he entered the Mosque. He led us in a two-Rakat prayer till the sun (eclipse) had cleared. Then the Prophet (p.b.u.h) said, "The sun and the moon do not eclipse because of someone's death. So whenever you see these eclipses pray and invoke (Allah) till the eclipse is over."

Narrated Abu Masud:
The Prophet said, "The sun and the moon do not eclipse because of the death of someone from the people but they are two signs amongst the signs of Allah. When you see them stand up and pray."
So chairman the prophet knows about eclipse and has explained it that it's one of the natural occurrence. And the explanation of that Quranic verse is that the sun and the moon have a different orbit, that is they move independently that is they can not catch up anfd collide with each other

this is the hadith you are trying to twist to support your position:

Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume 2, Book 18,
Number 167
:
Narrated Abu Musa:
The sun eclipsed and the Prophet got up,
being afraid that it might be the Hour (i.e.
Day of Judgment). He went to the Mosque
and offered the prayer with the longest
Qiyam, bowing and in prostration that I had
never seen him doing. Then he said, “These
signs which Allah sends do not occur because
of the life or death of somebody, but Allah
makes His worshipers afraid by them. So
when you see anything thereof, proceed to
remember Allah, invoke Him and ask for His
forgiveness.”

What we see is that, terrified and clueless as he was, Muhammad could not understand that during an eclipse the two heavenly bodies, Sun and Moon, catch up each other on the sky, from the Earth- bound observer’s viewpoint. He recorded his ignorance in the Qur’an.

And I want to ask you: if Muhammad was wise,and guided by Allah, why was he terrified like a
schoolboy who thought that he saw a ghost?

Today, are you terrified during a solar eclipse,
knowing that it is just the natural phenomenon of the Sun going right behind the Moon? What’s so scary about that? You are not scared because you know what is going on. But if Muhammad was terrified, it was because he didn’t know . But how could your prophet not know, if he was a real prophet of Allah’s? How could he say that an eclipse is a sign that Allah sends, when we know exactly when an eclipse will happen, just as we know exactly when it will be Friday? Would you ever say that “Allah send Mondays as signs”? No, it sounds stupid, because we know exactly when it
will be Monday. Similarly, to say that “Allah sends eclipses as signs” is equally stupid, because we know exactly when there will be an eclipse.
A “sign” is something that cannot be predicted by science or any person.
But science predicts eclipseswith absolute precision. How could your prophet sound so ignorant, so unguided by Allah?

Politics › Re: What Is South South? by abdulwastecx(m): 9:58pm On Nov 17, 2014

stebell:
Guy I hear yu.
But remove oil money and see if the in de construction industry. like yu dont kno that most of the construction derives funds frm oil proceeds.

what nonsense are you talking about?
how can oil proceed of 25 billions financed a construction sector of over 200 billions dollars or agricultural sector worth over 500billions dollars etc. oil is a major source of foreign exchange becuase our government are clueless and lacks initiative

south Korea with only 55 million poeple, no oil but has a GDP of about 1.5 trillion dollars and with government earning of over 300billions us dollars. They succeeded by developing technical and good labour force that utilized all the materials available to build a solid and dynamic economy. ... keep winning about oil in backward Niger deltas

Education › Re: Internet Revolution Can Destroy Scholarship - Soyinka by abdulwastecx(m): 1:24pm On Nov 17, 2014

LordReed:
It still makes Soyinka (and everyone who agrees with his assertions) seem like they have never heard of ebooks before. What further collaboration between writing and internet use are you going to get at this present stage of technology? If we agree that writing has nothing to do with the medium it is transmitted on then how are all the scholarly endeavours transmitted in pdf and other documentary formats lesser than those written on paper?

Coming up with an original idea is going to become "harder" because more interaction around the world will mean more people are coming up with concepts and sharing them much more than in any previous age. What I believe is more practical will be finding newer ways to use what already exists. For me that is the "easiest" way to originality even though it may take a longer time.

Soyinka should not be afraid of the new methods of communication and information dissemination. The same encouragement we used to give to people to read books is the same encouragement we still need to give to people to get at the scholarly information that are available online. Writers in this new medium are going to have to be even more creative so as to harness the potential for imagination that the internet possesses.

I love this bro...
originality is a bit overrated. most 9f Nigeria problem by easily copy what has been done where. Koreans are producing automobiles because they easily lern and copy american and Japanese model.

Internet has made it possible to access information easier. I can dowlaoad lecture note, video tutorials, engineering journals, softwares etc that would normally impossible to buy at open market here in Nigeria.
Why committing so much to memory when I have my tablet, computers with internet connections closed to me.

information can easily be source now the problem is how to apply the data to better our life. In india a 12 years old boy just built a power plant that powered a village of 300 people through a YouTube video he watched in a missionary school. How many engineering feets have we been able to perform with all our scholars?

Christianity Etc › Re: Akudaya:myth Or Reality? by abdulwastecx(m): 11:22am On Nov 17, 2014

jojotemitopaz:
You really need to read into history objectively, contrary to your opinion, The Quran was the source of a major astrological correction of the Earth being flat where as the earth was oval shapped, this paved the way to correct the months which used to be 10 months being corrected to 12 months, the bane of mordern day arithmetic originated from islamic Scholars who were great scientists,...Algebra, Algorithm etc, mordern medicine was not left out...read on Absinia...those who study medicine should know his history...contrary to ur understanding God Challenges any one to do tje research and see if they can match that genieness. Based on this trust some dod n verified it and dat paved way for better learning and reaearch...read this history properly n onjectively pls. Till today ots not everything that can easily be comprehended by the human brain...u want to prove if Heaven exist or not...id sugest you start by showing the word the proof of all your dreams when you sleep and probably a prediction of what next you would dream about...if you truely read the Quran chronologically as u claimed u did im sure u would understand wat I say but im sure u didnt but just picked up a few verses n chapters to drive home your points that why u claim u have read it all...trust me if u did read it ALLwith an open mind ud understand better

I had read into history and I have been able to come up with the follwing:

36:38 “And the sun runs his course for a period
determined for him: that is the decree of (Him),
the Exalted in Might, the All-Knowing. 36:39 And
the Moon, — We have measured for her mansions
(to traverse) till she returns like the old (and
withered) lower part of a date-stalk. 36:40 It is
not permitted to the Sun to catch up the
Moon , nor can the Night outstrip the Day; each
(just) swims along in (its own) orbit (according to
Law).”

What? “It is not permitted to the Sun to catch up
the Moon?” The above verse is either ridiculous or
wrong, depending on whether we try to understand it from the modern perspective or from the Bedouins’ ( arabs) perspective, respectively.

Here is why:
From the modern perspective, to say that
the Sun tries to catch up the Moon (but is
not permitted to do so) is laughably naïve.
The Moon’s orbit around the Earth has no
overlap with the Sun’s location in space,
since the Moon orbits the Earth once in
around 27.3 days (the “sidereal month”),
and the system Earth–Moon orbits the Sun
once per year (see diagram).
The orbit of the Moon (gray) around the
Earth’s orbit (blue circle) and around the
Sun (red, center).
Note: not drawn to scale, and also the Moon
completes approximately 13 turns in a year,
not exactly 13.
Observation from this diagram: to say that
the Sun, in reality, “tries to catch up the
Moon”, makes no sense at all.
So, because according to what we know today it is
just plain stupid to say that the Sun tries to
catch up the Moon, there is only one possibility:

that verse 36:40 was said that way for the
Bedouins to make some sense of it. But in that
case,... it’s wrong again!
From the Bedouin’s perspective, seeing the
Sun and Moon cruising on the (nonexistent)
dome of the “heaven” (the sky), it made
some sense to think that the Sun might try
to catch up the Moon, and is not permitted
by Allah. But that idea is wrong, too,
because that’s exactly what happens during
a solar eclipse: the Sun catches up the Moon!
Oh, no! The Sun caught up the Moon! (Or the
Moon caught up the Sun, depending on your
perspective.)
It happens every once in a while, contrary to
what Allah (or was it Muhammad?) boasted
about in verse 36:40 , and it’s called a solar
eclipse !
Now, part of our data is that ancient peoples did
not understand what happens during a solar
eclipse. They thought that the Sun simply darkens,
and they panicked. The ancient Greek historian
Herodotus describes how two ancient armies, the
Lydians and the Medians, stopped fighting and
agreed to make peace, terrified during a solar
eclipse that took place while they were engaged in
battle (Herodotus: Histories, Book 1, §74). Ancient
people could not understand that the dark region
of the Sun during an eclipse is the Moon, which the
Sun “catches up” and overtakes from the viewpoint
of the observer on the Earth, contrary to the
claim of verse 36:40 .

so you think such book should be trusted with my life

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Christianity Etc › Re: Akudaya:myth Or Reality? by abdulwastecx(m): 11:01am On Nov 17, 2014

jojotemitopaz:
You really need to read into history objectively, contrary to your opinion, The Quran was the source of a major astrological correction of the Earth being flat where as the earth was oval shapped, this paved the way to correct the months which used to be 10 months being corrected to 12 months, the bane of mordern day arithmetic originated from islamic Scholars who were great scientists,...Algebra, Algorithm etc, mordern medicine was not left out...read on Absinia...those who study medicine should know his history...contrary to ur understanding God Challenges any one to do tje research and see if they can match that genieness. Based on this trust some dod n verified it and dat paved way for better learning and reaearch...read this history properly n onjectively pls. Till today ots not everything that can easily be comprehended by the human brain...u want to prove if Heaven exist or not...id sugest you start by showing the word the proof of all your dreams when you sleep and probably a prediction of what next you would dream about...if you truely read the Quran chronologically as u claimed u did im sure u would understand wat I say but im sure u didnt but just picked up a few verses n chapters to drive home your points that why u claim u have read it all...trust me if u did read it ALLwith an open mind ud understand better

please don't get me started on the position of Quran about the shape of the earth. what do you people think when someone disagree with things that are not logical?

Christianity Etc › Re: Akudaya:myth Or Reality? by abdulwastecx(m): 5:58am On Nov 17, 2014

PenSniper:
Rubbish. Islam is a jumble of beliefs and thoughts founded on astrology.

They know nothing an astrology....it is actually based on some nomads, living in a very harsh condition and one of them at age 40 decided to visit a cave and started putting a believe system based on what he observed and heard. A system that will make him get all the women he ever lust for, all the wealth he ever wanted and all the political power he ever wanted. He was successful in getting that to those primitive

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Christianity Etc › Re: Akudaya:myth Or Reality? by abdulwastecx(m): 5:52am On Nov 17, 2014

Empiree:
Alright fellows, let me be very clear. I think some people here misunderstood my stand (Muslims) on "Akudaya". We simply believe that if someone you know dies he is dead. This is our belief as muslims. The idea that someone sees decease elsewhere is simply illusion and fallacy. They always claim that the decease disappears upon sighting presence of relative. I personal belief there is possibility of that. But the point is your dead relative you saw in another town is not him/her.

We say that it's Jinn at work, taking form to create illusion and confusion. If deceased is truly he/she shouldn't have to disappear. He/she would stay and proof himself/herself. There is no need for repetition as to who and what Jinn are capable of doing. They already described by some muslims above.

As for interjecting religion into this, I'd apologized to op in the beginning because being muslim, it's only make sense for me to explain the theory from islamic perspectives and Op doesnt complain. As for those who want my story continues, you can check out the link where I narrate a little further but it's neither complete nor comprehensive 100% in that thread. Remember though, that I am only narrating a story. No one should hold me responsible should you feel uncomfortable. Also those who think the whole thing about Jinn possession is nonsense, maybe you should check YouTube about Jinn possession and ruqya (resolution) for it. https://www.nairaland.com/1116143/jinn-stories/4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rsvBJFAFBJ8

ou believe that a deceased person saw by a relative is an illusion while the person in him is a jin because it was written in a book you believe in....where is the logic in that statement. it is easier to believe the peraon that says it is the dead person taking another form than to belive in your own tale.....btw both of you are wrong, no jin and no akudaya. when you die you are dead, no life before death and no life after death, no milk, no virgin etx

Romance › Re: .. by abdulwastecx(m): 8:26pm On Nov 16, 2014

fightforchange1:
Awesome.
Like different types of Yoruba

yea different type of yorubas...
do I look like a yoruba?

Romance › Re: .. by abdulwastecx(m): 8:11pm On Nov 16, 2014

fightforchange1:
No. Im not...but uh, just wanted to experience knowing things about naija...
And my family 400 years back were Yoruba...
But I guess the past is irrelevant.

My dad is a yoruba but I felt that 400 years ago there was no yoruba nation since we have oyos, ekitis, akoko, Egba, ife etc

Romance › Re: .. by abdulwastecx(m): 8:11pm On Nov 16, 2014

fightforchange1:
No. Im not...but uh, just wanted to experience knowing things about naija...
And my family 400 years back were Yoruba...
But I guess the past is irrelevant.

Romance › Re: .. by abdulwastecx(m): 8:05pm On Nov 16, 2014

fightforchange1:
Cute...

love it when ladies keep it simple...no make up, no attachments etc...you one big fine girl

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Education › Re: Internet Revolution Can Destroy Scholarship - Soyinka by abdulwastecx(m): 3:43pm On Nov 16, 2014

all4naija:
Stop blabbing,primitive man!

you are a fool

Education › Re: Internet Revolution Can Destroy Scholarship - Soyinka by abdulwastecx(m): 3:08pm On Nov 16, 2014

all4naija:
Check those Japanese Nobel prize winners and how much materials they have in English before they were recognized. You just want to get silly because the Ligua Franca for Nigeria is English. Stop acting like a primitive person.

Gaijin are Japanese who haunt for foreigners who speak English. The fact that Japanese are progressing is not about language but with the efforts of foreigners as well. The Germans contributed to the technology Japan has today. Please, you are annoying to me by letting opportunity pass you by.

I hate abuse but ignorance more...No culture is an island, people borrow element from other cultures to developed. Japan was a good case that we all need to learn from. All the technological advancement was down to Japanese culture, people and yes LANGUAGE.

Japan was initially an agrarian society ( just like how Europeans were before the industrial revolution in Britain in the 18th century)
under the leadership of an emperors they started having contact with European through trading and when they got in contact with the Dutch, British etc. They translate these principles into japanese language so that it can be understood by their people.

These developments would never have
arisen, however, without an abundant
source of low priced and docile
manpower and convenient access to
raw materials, the latter—though vital—
were (and still are) exceedingly rare in
Japan. Access to both were important
factors in Japan's rapid industrial
development.
The average Japanese industrial worker
worked long hours for a low salary.
Before 1940, more than 90% of workers
received less than US$7 per week. In
later years, average pay rose by 50%,
but the cost of living—the articles and
services for which one needs salary—
rose as well. In peacetime, the
Japanese work week averaged 56
hours, compared with 35 hours in the
United States and 39 hours in France.
Furthermore, the war effort exposed a
marked scarcity of specialized workers

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Christianity Etc › Re: Akudaya:myth Or Reality? by abdulwastecx(m): 1:05pm On Nov 16, 2014

daryoor:
point of correction, not everything in the bible is the word of God, i know you will find that offensive but that the fact most of the bible sef is word of man. it seems you've not seen when demons are casted out of people, those this dont sound like being coordinated enough to exist as nomal human beings that will have a family. now you have added your own that a spirit living in the person before the death, so the spirit now flew from lagos to sokoto to create a replica body...bullsit!!! in oyo accent*

what i am very sure of is that all the religious teachings so far are incomplete and not accurate enough and their stories does not add up.

bibles were written by people we are more intelligent that in present world contest...I wonder why people still attach meaning to a ridiculous book like bible

Christianity Etc › Re: Akudaya:myth Or Reality? by abdulwastecx(m): 12:24pm On Nov 16, 2014

Yunus2012:
So this 'heaven' as described by you is something irrellivant. if it is as easy as you describe it then you can make something similar to it.

I have been able to proof that heaven is an illusion, what else do u want?

Christianity Etc › Re: Akudaya:myth Or Reality? by abdulwastecx(m): 11:59am On Nov 16, 2014

marvelito:
dis is my own little story. It happened abt 6yrs ago. A midwife staying in our area. She is a family friend. She was very sick until she finaly was admitted in d hospital. After treatment.she died bt for jst 6mins. . Bt withn 6mins she died sometin happened. She appeared in the home of her dear sister.acording to d sister she refused to enter d house. She said she was in a hurry and jst came to lagos to buy tins and tot on checkng on her. Jst after d nurse left 20mins d sister got a kal dat her sister(nurse was sick and in d hospital for days nw.) cum see argument with d husband of d nurse. She take d nxt bus frm lagos home d nxt day.suprised shocked saw her sister recovering in an hospital bed. Everyone was suprised by her story.when nurse got better d first persn she askd of was her sister who was already there. D sister askd nurse. She was so suprised at d story herself.dat she knew notin. She only said was always dreaming of standing in a very empty space.during her thankgiven in church d sister repeated wot happen we were amazed at wot rilly hapens in d world beyond.

I don't believe. ..pictures or I don't believe

Family › Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by abdulwastecx(m): 11:46am On Nov 16, 2014

Teespice:
why?

because your egos are involved or could it be that you can't digest the fact that wifey cheated. could it also be that society frowns at a woman cheating and it's something you can't live with.

I believe when I marry a woman, I marry her because she is the best and someone I will spend the rest of my life with not because of her virginal. .. the problem is religion and society view women as a mere working virginal or sex object.

sex is part but never more 5% of what marriage should be all about...in such a case, bleeping another woman will never come to mind becuase all women have virginal why risky your life on some LovePeddler because of something you will get readily available at home at your own comfort

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Family › Re: Husbands: Can You Forgive Your Wife After She Confessed She Committed Adultery? by abdulwastecx(m): 11:38am On Nov 16, 2014

zeb04:
I really don't know what will make me forgive a cheating husband (caught in the act) no amount of prayer and fasting or family meeting can solve that.

you are too beautiful to be cheated....ni man in his right senses will have a beautiful woman like you and at thesame time decide ti cheat or caught in the act

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