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PoliticsRe: Subsidy Removal: FG Saves ₦‎400 Billion In Four Weeks by Abemy(m): 9:07am On Jun 30, 2023
What is wrong with Nigeria and Nigerians?

Government paid for subsidy up to June 30, 2023.

It was a heisty pronouncement that led us into this troubled waters. Where then did the government saved the N400bn, or is it a mockery to the FG?
PoliticsRe: Stakeholders To Tinubu: Hasty Economic Reforms Worsening Poverty by Abemy(m): 8:47am On Jun 29, 2023
When you hear "reforms" just know that it is reformation of embezzlement team and nothing more.
PoliticsRe: Police Rescue Kidnapped Herdsmen In Enugu (Video) by Abemy(m): 11:40am On Jun 28, 2023
This could be elsewhere and not in Nigeria at all.
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: Lady Calls Out Another Lady For Editing Her Picture To Fix In Her Head. by Abemy(m): 9:41am On Jun 28, 2023
Yours is only the head, a certain president used another man's whole picture and refused to apologies.

The lady is not to blame, Tinibu started it.
CrimeRe: Usman Buda: Photos From The Burial Of Butcher Killed By Mob In Sokoto by Abemy(m): 9:35am On Jun 28, 2023
Someone who was killed for blaspheming against the Islamic prophet was still accorded an Islamic burial?

What hypocrisy?
Christianity EtcRe: You Have 14 Days To Apologize - Celestial Prophet To David Ibiyeomie by Abemy(m): 4:20pm On Jun 27, 2023
Both of them are not men of God, by their fruits, we shall know them.
The celestial prophet should have enlightened both the pastor and the rest of us about their faith, not this kind of confrontation.
PoliticsRe: You Are A Shameless Merchant Of Falsehood: Ogun APC, Gbenga Daniel Clash by Abemy(m): 6:09pm On Jun 26, 2023
Tinibu told someone to work on his reputation?, how about his?
PoliticsRe: Former President, Buhari, Osinbajo, Gambari Still Listed On State House Website by Abemy(m): 5:38pm On Jun 26, 2023
Maybe they are still being paid as current occupants too.
FamilyRe: Is 6 Months Enough Or Too Early For A Widow To Start Dating? by Abemy(m): 2:06pm On Jun 26, 2023
Once a partner is dead, death has sepereted them as rightly pronounced during the wedding, so, any amount of time you feel like waiting is immaterial.

Death has already done the both apart.

Biblically for men, God said it is not good for him to be alone, so there is no time frame, but for a lady, any time you can endure to be alone is okay, one week, six months, one year, etc.

Remember, "only death can do is part "
CrimeRe: Usman Buda: Mob Beats Butcher To Death Over Alleged Blasphemy In Sokoto State by Abemy(m): 1:21pm On Jun 26, 2023
Science/TechnologyAdventures Gives Rise To Technological Breakthrough by Abemy(op): 6:56pm On Jun 25, 2023
Many of the things whose applications you enjoy today, started off as an adventure whose benefit was not apparent.

I think this spirit of bottomless curiosity is the reason the Europeans conquered Africa.

For in questioning anything and everything, the world and universe around it, gives you its secret a little at a time, allowing you some sort of comparative advantage to those who just value life for life itself.
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The only people I have noticed questioning the rationale of people going to the Ocean’s bottom to visit the Titanic, are Africans.

I might be wrong on this.

Whatever the reality, the spirit behind those five men trapped in that submersible today, is the spirit of curiosity that has propelled mankind to the level of knowledge it has today.

These five men, were just the unfortunate ones.

When the sadness over their imminent death dies down, somebody else will go, then another, then another, and perhaps another will die, until the Ocean gives up another secret that may benefit mankind, or add to our reservoir of knowledge.
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Before Christopher Columbus, Ferdinand Magellan and all the known explorers successfully circumnavigated the globe, I am sure many more tried and probably died, and would not be known beyond a footnote.

The race to the moon by the the U.S and the then U.S.S.R recorded a few casualties.

Today, not only has our reservoir of knowledge increased, our knowledge of outer space has completely transformed the global economy and enriched sectors like agriculture, meteorology and cartography.

Before Edmund Hillary and Tenzin conquered Mt Everest, many died while doing so.

But today, the knowledge we have gathered of the physiological changes of the human body at high altitudes is second to none.
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People will die, but the rule of the human mind is that anything that is explorable, should be explored, because you never know where the secret for the next great leap in knowledge will spring from.

Who would have believed Edward Jenner, the father of vaccine and immunisation when he posited that infecting a cow with chicken pox, would give it a chance to fight the disease?

How can a cow avoid illness with a disease, when you infect it with the virus that causes the disease?

But that is exactly what happened.

Alexander Fleming discovered penicillin, the cure to bacteria by allowing fungus (another deadly organism) to grow in his laboratory.

I am sure had he died of a fungal infection our African brothers and sisters would have asked what the i.diot was doing with a fungus in his laboratory.
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Those men at the bottom of the Atlantic, will probably die.

Chances are one or two of them are dead already.

But you see these Oceans?

They will be conquered.

If not in this generation, then the ones after.

Some of the secrets of our Universe are locked within shells of extreme danger and adversity, and only he who unlocks them, reaps of its benefits.

The human genome has unlimited curiosity embedded in its genes, and with it, the advancement of our species.
PoliticsRe: Why I Hate White Garment Churches – Pastor David Ibiyeomie by Abemy(m): 12:19pm On Jun 25, 2023
Christianity EtcRe: What The Bible Says About Marriage by Abemy(m): 12:14pm On Jun 25, 2023
Jokanem:
What Does the Bible Say About Marriage?

After creating the first man and woman, God brought them together in marriage. He instituted marriage as a special bond between a man and a woman as a foundation for the family unit.—Genesis 1:27, 28; 2:18.

God wants married couples to be happy. (Proverbs 5:18) In the Bible, he provides standards for marriage as well as principles that can help a marriage succeed.

What are God’s standards for marriage?
From the beginning, God created marriage to be a union of one man and one woman. (Genesis 2:24) God does not approve of polygamy, homosexual acts, or couples living together without marriage. (1 Corinthians 6:9; 1 Thessalonians 4:3) Jesus taught his followers to adhere to God’s original standard for marriage.—Mark 10:6-8.

In God’s eyes, marriage creates a permanent bond. When a man and a woman get married, they promise to be loyal to each other and to stay together for as long as they are both alive. God expects them to keep that promise.—Mark 10:9.

What about separation and divorce?

There may be times when a husband and wife must be apart from each other, such as when one mate needs to travel to care for a family emergency. But the Bible discourages separation resulting from marital problems. Instead, it urges couples in such a situation to work toward reconciliation.—1 Corinthians 7:10.

Adultery is the only Scriptural grounds for divorce. (Matthew 19:9) Hence, if a husband and wife decide to separate or to divorce for any reason other than adultery, neither partner is Scripturally free to date someone else or to remarry.—Matthew 5:32; 1 Corinthians 7:11.

Does a marriage need to be registered legally to be approved by God?

God expects Christians to obey secular laws regarding marriage. (Titus 3:1) When it is possible for a couple to register their marriage legally, their doing so shows respect for secular authorities and for God’s standard that marriage is a lasting commitment. a

What roles and responsibilities does the Bible assign to husbands and wives?

Shared responsibilities. Husbands and wives should treat each other with love and respect. (Ephesians 5:33) They should care for each other’s sexual needs in a loving way and avoid all forms of unfaithfulness. (1 Corinthians 7:3; Hebrews 13:4) If they have children, husbands and wives share the responsibility of raising them.—Proverbs 6:20

The Bible does not discuss in detail how married couples should share secular work and household chores. They can decide together what will work best for their family.

A husband’s role.

The Bible says that “a husband is head of his wife.” (Ephesians 5:23) He is the head in the sense that he should guide his family and make decisions that will benefit his wife and children.

He should strive to ensure that their physical, emotional, and spiritual needs are cared for. (1 Timothy 5:cool He shows that he values his wife’s qualities and capabilities by working closely with her and by carefully considering her opinion and feelings when making decisions. (Proverbs 31:11, 28) The Bible says that a husband ought to care for his responsibilities in a loving way.—Colossians 3:19.

A wife’s role.

The Bible says that a “wife should have deep respect for her husband.” (Ephesians 5:33) God is pleased when a wife respects the role that he assigned to her husband.

Her role is to assist her husband, helping him to make good decisions and supporting his headship. (Genesis 2:18) The Bible speaks highly of a wife who fulfills her important role in marriage.—Proverbs 31:10.

Does God require married couples today to have children?

No. In the past, God commanded some of his worshippers to have children. (Genesis 1:28; 9:1) But Christians are not bound by that instruction. Jesus never commanded his followers to have children. Neither did any of his early disciples say that married couples must have children. Couples can decide for themselves whether they will raise a family.

How can the Bible help your marriage?

The Bible contains principles that can help couples get their marriage off to a good start. Bible principles can also help couples to avoid or overcome difficulties.

Bible principles can help a married couple to . . .

show true love.—1 Corinthians 13:4-7; Colossians 3:14.

deal with differences.—1 Corinthians 10:24.

be good listeners.—James 1:19.

show respect.—Romans 12:10.

be forgiving.—1 Peter 4:8.

be loyal.—Mark 10:9.

be patient.—Ephesians 4:2, 3.

work as a team.—Ecclesiastes 4:9.

strengthen their commitment.—Song of Solomon 8:7.

Regarding the Bible’s view of customary or tribal marriages, see The Watchtower of October 15, 2006, page 21, paragraph 12.

Bible verses about marriage
Proverbs 18:22: “The one who finds a good wife has found something good.”

Meaning: The Bible speaks positively about marriage.

Malachi 2:15: “Do not deal treacherously with the wife of your youth.”

Meaning: God wants husbands and wives to be faithful to each other and to treat each other respectfully, even after many years of marriage.

Mark 10:9: “What God has yoked together, let no man put apart.”

Meaning: God intended for marriage to be a permanent bond of companionship.

Hebrews 13:4: “Let marriage be honorable among all.”

Meaning: Couples should place a high value on their marriage and work hard to protect it.

1 Corinthians 7:28: “Those who [marry] will have tribulation in their flesh.”

Meaning: No marriage is perfect; couples need to work together to overcome challenges.
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Does God require married couples today to have children?

No. In the past, God commanded some of his worshippers to have children. (Genesis 1:28; 9:1) But Christians are not bound by that instruction. Jesus never commanded his followers to have children. Neither did any of his early disciples say that married couples must have children. Couples can decide for themselves whether they will raise a family."

Are you saying Jesus' teachings are different from His father's?

Jesus came to strengthen laws, not to discard them. Remember Jesus doesn't teach anything of His own, everything He thought, he received it from God the father.

Are you trying to tell us that, those God's worshippers, whom God asked to bear children were not married couples but all followers? If yes, is that not indirectly invalidating the ten commandments?

This is the only part of your writeup that is controversial.
HealthRe: My Girlfriends Have Left Me Because I Have Erectile Dysfunction by Abemy(m): 7:21pm On Jun 24, 2023
kyber:
My morning erection sometimes comes and sometimes doesn’t, and when it comes it is semi hard.

So I have tried to have sex with girls, whenever I’m being excited I get hard, But after putting on a condom and inserting my male organ into the vagina, it’s becomes soft after 2 or 3 thrust.

It takes minutes for me to get hard after some caressing by the lady and when I put it in it goes soft again.

Mind you I do masturbate but I stopped a month ago. Those were the period these things happened. I haven’t had sex since I stopped masturbation for fear of the repetition.

The girls I had left cause I couldn’t satisfy them, the love they had for me vanished after I couldn’t even perform well like their ex, making them miss their exes .

I haven’t tried raw sex yet to confirm if I can sustain my erection when I feel the inner walls of the vagina and it’s sweetness, because some of the articles I have read here on Nairaland talked about my male organ getting used to my left hand (cause that’s what i use) thereby making it loose sensitivity to the point where my male organ becomes insensitive inside the condom.

Is my condition a critical one or one that can be fixed easily by following few steps of instructions?

What can I do to get this fixed and get my male organ back to its full potential?
My brother. Are you willing to answer some questions for clarity sake?

1:, How old are you?

2:, are you sure, you are sexually experienced?

3:, when last did you deworm?

4:, did you at any point in your life, used enhencers?

4b:, if yes, when did you stopped, and why?

5:, when last did you deworm.

6:, have you treated an infection recently?

7:, what is your body weight?

8:, How many times do you urinate in a night.

9:, How does your feaces look like?
Is it formed, watery, soft, or hard?

Lastly

10:, Have you in your life, slept with a married woman whose husband later suspected or cought you outrightly?

Your answers may help me to help you.

Cheers.
FashionRe: Lady Goes Naked To Fix Nails In A Salon (pictures) by Abemy(m): 6:39pm On Jun 23, 2023
kyber:
The guy couldn’t even focus
This is staged
FoodRe: Prices Of Bread, Paste May Crash As FG Releases Four New Varieties Of Wheat by Abemy(m): 8:29pm On Jun 22, 2023
FamilyRe: My Neighbour's Wife And Her Wahala by Abemy(m): 8:28pm On Jun 22, 2023
"Someone in our yard premises poisoned his children using mirinda and biscuit" that we all are lucky nothing happened to his kids otherwise he will call the police to arrest everybody in our yard.

Do you have evidence to prove the man actually accused your person?

Just like Peter obi, you may have a case, but proving it will be hard, the driver neighbor of yours is smart enough to avoid mentioning any name.

So, let it slide.
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Vs Tinubu: 22th June 2023 Live Court Updates by Abemy(m): 6:21pm On Jun 22, 2023
OfoIgbo:
So far, Peter Obi's people have submitted enough evidence to prove that
1. Shettima had another nomination before he was declared Tinubu's running mate
2. Tinubu didn't get 25% of Abuja votes, which is a constitutional requirement
3. Cast doubt on how INEC arrived at the decision that Tinubu won, especially as there were thousands of blurred results, and huge discrepancies in certain states.

The only point Peter Obi now has to prove is that he actually won that election. Even though I know he has submitted EC8A forms for the election, the prosecution still needs to collate the exact results in those forms, as the court may not have time to go through that mountain of evidence.

All I can say at the moment is that Peter Obi has proven enough points for the judges to cancel that election and call for a re-run. He needs to do a bit more for the courts to have enough evidence to declare him the winner.

Let us wait for the defence, and what points they have
Shetima actually withdrew from being a senatorial candidate, he wrote his constituents and his party, a fresh nomination was conducted.


What I don't understand is when witness' statements are objected but court adminting them.
HealthRe: What's This On My Thighs & Under My Scrotum? Please Help (Viewers Discretion) by Abemy(m): 6:08pm On Jun 21, 2023
Chronicwanker:
Greetings everyone. I've had this on my thighs and under my scrotum for a while now and I've tried to get rid of it but it's still there. Please who knows what it is and how can I truly get rid of it because I'm worried.

I bath twice a day and I don't wear a boxer for more than 12 hours. I shave regularly too so I'm confused.

The skin area is white and sometimes falls off when I scratch it, but the marks are there and the whiteness still.
Is that the skin peeling off?

Do you work in a hot environment?

Get BAFAM, or Hydrocortisone cream from the counter, get also Burn (non poison ointment) and there .

Go for lab test to identify the causative ornagism, be it bacteria, fungus or something, so that the proper medication can be administered.

Cheers.
PoliticsRe: I Doff My Heart To President Tinubu; He Is Courageous Like Awolowo - Reno Omokri by Abemy(m): 7:21pm On Jun 20, 2023
Firing and hiring is not an achievement, he is however preparing ground for proper work, bur he hasn't achieved any meaningful delivery of democratic dividends.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Accent Is The Sexiest In The World - Foreign Lady (pix/video) by Abemy(m): 7:00pm On Jun 20, 2023
Zonefree:
Na only girls outside this shore dey appreciate everything about Nigeria and Nigerians.

I once approached one disjointed godforsaken Nigerian girl with my thick owerri dialect and she said I'm too local.
Why approach a disjointed and godforsaken girl, when there are so many beautiful ladies out there?

Oh oh oh, she is now godforsaken and disjointed because she turned you down.

Kikikikikikikiki
RomanceRe: Is There A Proper Age To Have Sex by Abemy(m): 6:56pm On Jun 20, 2023
I can bet with my two balls that OP is his friends he is talking about.

He needs approval for what he has already done, or is about to do.
PoliticsRe: Tribunal: LP, INEC Disagree Over Election Document by Abemy(m): 5:38pm On Jun 20, 2023
"consequently, the five-man panel, led by Justice Tsammani, adjourned to Tuesday, 21st June, for the cross-examination of the witness and further hearing of the petition"

Op, which calendar are you using?
RomanceRe: Are These Memes About Women True or False? (Pictures) by Abemy(m): 8:47pm On Jun 19, 2023
Anny69:
Why should I care? I don't even know you. grin
It's not about me sis, it's about the self consolatory statement. Most people who claim not to have cared actually cares.

Why claiming to be careless about marriage, most ladies actually are eternally hopeful.
RomanceRe: Are These Memes About Women True or False? (Pictures) by Abemy(m): 8:12pm On Jun 19, 2023
Anny69:
smiley You can think whatever... I don't care.
Lies, on the contrary, you care.
RomanceRe: Are These Memes About Women True or False? (Pictures) by Abemy(m): 6:21pm On Jun 19, 2023
Anny69:
It's better than getting married to the wrong person you mean?
I consider this self consolation, you don't actually mean it that way.
PoliticsRe: Make Sure Another G5 Emerges For APC To Win In 2027, Akpabio Tells Wike (Video) by Abemy(m): 12:24pm On Jun 19, 2023
Wike should be honestly ashamed of himself. He is being described as a traitor, and a saboteur, whom the APC wouldn't want to be with in the same party, but as the devil he is, use a long spoon in dining with him,and as such, he should not bother joining them, but remain in PDP to cause more trouble.

Akpabio, should know that, Wike paid Atiku back, what he did to Jonathan, and Wike would be paid back too, for what he did to Atiku, and even in APC, a leopard can not change its skin.

Wike is a democratic dictator.
RomanceRe: Father Of Four Dies, Married Lover In Coma After Sex Romp by Abemy(m): 1:28pm On Jun 18, 2023
Nigeria has overtaken Kenya and Uganda, in adultery and furnication.
RomanceRe: Rivers Man Dies After Sex Romp, Lover Flees by Abemy(m): 9:59am On Jun 17, 2023
You don't use only strength to satisfy a woman, you combine both skills and strength to do that.

Being skillful helps a lot. Once the woman's body is ready after you must have done due diligence, she may be rushing you inside of her, at this point, she can cum in less than 5 minutes and will be 100% satisfied, at least for that particular round. And men lasts longer in the second round.

Even with enhencers, if you no sabi, you no sabi, you go just de rush in and out without her, feeling anything, you may even succeed in wounding her without satisfying her.

Inexperience make many to diagnose themselves as havein erectile dysfunction, quick ejaculation or weak erection.


Too much caffeine can caus cardiovascular attack.
RomanceRe: Rivers Man Dies After Sex Romp, Lover Flees by Abemy(m): 9:40am On Jun 17, 2023
Sexual hero, he died in active service.
CrimeRe: Woman Rapes Her Daughter’s Boyfriend 300 Times(photos) by Abemy(m): 9:18am On Jun 17, 2023
How was the number arrived at?

By 300 times, are they referring to the number of thrusting?

What's the formula for calculating the number of times one had sex?

I have been married for eight years now, I doubt if I have it up to 150 times self.

How do I calculate my own?
PoliticsRe: Emefiele Implicated Suspended EFCC Head, Bawa In Naira Redesign Scam by Abemy(m): 2:25pm On Jun 16, 2023
I now understand why Bubu jeted out of the country to his hiding abode, Niger Republic.

Emiefile, Bwawa, Bubu don't know who is next, and haven tried to sabotage Tinibu's presidential bid, he is not sure if he will be shield from questioning.

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