Family › Re: How To Counsel A 5 Year Old Girl by Abemy(m): 12:29pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Mercychen: You people should pump her with enough food because no amount of counseling will do the trick or make her feel better as long as she still looks "smallish" to them and is still being refered to as a baby.
Also remember she spends most part of the day with "them" than you. So, your counseling will only be effective for a few hours and wear off as soon as she gets to school and faces her mates again.
Adding some flesh is the only thing that can build her confidence in no time and make them stop calling her a baby. This is my secret. Tell her to call them baby anytime they call her baby, let her politely answer and also refer to them as baby in response, immediately, all of them will stop. This trick works perfect, not only in kids but in adults too. Call anyone the same name he or she calls you by, that you dislike and see him or her stopping it without being told. |
Politics › Re: AbdulRazaq: Lai Mohammed Stole ₦100m Sent To Me By Igbo Businessman For Election by Abemy(m): 9:31am On Oct 18, 2021 |
NwaNimo1: go research.... Wait until the beneficiary fails to acknowledge receipt of the support funds, we will know. But if he is smart to acknowledge receipt of the funds, it may remain silent. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Suggest A Good Business That #300k Can Start. by Abemy(m): 6:37pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
ThePriceSorcerer: Many people go condemn me for this but na OP I get business with.
@OP I don’t need your penny so make you no go think sey i dey scavenge.
With just 100k, crypto market go bless you at this very time.
Once you have made a reasonable amount, you can then find a certified mentor/coach for premium service.
No allow anybody carry him reggae come spoil your potential blues sey crypto na gamble.
Crypto pays and it will continue to pay.
It has come to stay Walahi I need advice on how it works. I was almost scammed. |
Properties › Re: My Landlord Broke Into My Apartment When I Travelled by Abemy(m): 5:50pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
BryanZino: Hello guys, I'm new to posting on this forum so I don't know the best section this post should be. As I type this, I'm currently sick and there so much anger and pain within, I haven't been able to eat or drink since I got the news from my neighbor who told me that my landlord came to the house with a strange face, broke the locks to my apartment and packed my things out, I sent a relative to confirm and she said everything is outside but he went with my TV set. I called the landlord to ask what he has done, he blatantly lied telling me I sent my 'brother' to clear my things off the apartment that he has reported me to Police. Yes, I owe him 8months rent and I've away for 13 months even before the last year rent I paid expired. I told him I'll be back by November and I'll pay once I get in. Pls even though I owe him, it doesn't feel right stealing my property and throwing the rest in the rain Pls I'm lost and dire need of legal advice Edit: while I'm not absolving my self of the guilt that I owe the landlord this long and purely due to loss of job (covid19 problems) and there's no way I go there and get my stuff without paying the backlog. [code][/code] he freaking broke in and kept what he desired for himself and lied he didn't. Haba, this is wrong na ✓Landlords And Tenants' Rights In Nigeria. . The Nigerian law is all-encompassing and people-welfare oriented that the law went on to provide an avalanche of rights, duties, and privileges for both parties. The law defines the rights, duties, privileges, powers, and remedies open to both tenants and landlords. Here are some of the rights open to Tenants and Landlords as covered by the Tenancy Law in Nigeria, today. RIGHT TO ISSUANCE OF RECEIPT OF PAYMENT The receipt of payment is an acknowledgment from a Landlord or an Agent that a rent payment has been made by a tenant. It must contain the name of the Landlord and the Tenant. The amount paid and the date of such payment. The property for which such payment is made, the duration that such payment will cover, and the receiver's signature must also be on the receipt. It is an actionable offense to refuse to issue a receipt for rent paid and received. It is your right as a tenant to be issued a receipt upon payment of rent. Where the payment is only a part of a whole, it should also be receipted and stated. Remember a written agreement endorsed by the landlord before a witness that he has received rent from his tenant will suffice. No matter how familiar, friendly, corporate, and caring your landlord is, please always demand receipts of your paid rents to safeguard your tomorrow. RIGHT TO A VALID QUIT NOTICE A tenant cannot be thrown out of his apartment unless there is strict compliance by the landlord with relevant Recovery of Premises Law. Recovery of Premises Law provides that a valid “quit notice” of a landlord’s intention to terminate/quit the tenancy of the tenant must be written and served to the tenant. The amount of time given to the tenant, whether weekly, monthly, yearly, depends on his rent. Thus it is advised that a tenant thoroughly read through the Tenancy Agreement before signing as some might even sign away their rights for a ‘quit notice’. Remember, ignorance is not an excuse in law. A valid “Quit Notice” must contain the name of the landlord, the name of the tenant, the address of the property occupied by the tenant, the duration given to the tenant included. RIGHT TO A WRITTEN AGREEMENT Every tenant no matter his status or location in Nigeria has the right to an agreement. Agreements, on the other hand, can be oral or written. However, it is advised that agreements between both parties should be written, hence, any altercations would be easily dealt with, and it comes in handy as references. The tenant is expected to go through the agreements thoroughly before signing. Tenancy agreements contain in detail the names of a landlord and his tenant; as parties to the Tenancy Agreement. The land or house to be rented out ought to be described in detail; showing its location and basic features. The duration of the tenancy, the rent payable and the date at which such rent would become payable should be stated. The modalities for reviewing rent price (price increment) should be included. Before signing any agreement, a prospective tenant is advised to seek the service of a solicitor to break down any unclear terms in the Tenancy Agreement. RIGHT TO PEACEFUL ENJOYMENT OF PROPERTY When a tenant pays his rent and is issued a receipt, the landlord grants him the right to peaceful enjoyment of the property. Once this is done, he determines the entrance, usage, safety and can even sue for trespass against any trespasser; strangers, landlord, and his agents. The landlord, however, can supervise and maintain the property generally, but with the knowledge of the tenant and within reasonable hours of the day. Section 7 of the law states that tenants are to comply with the tenancy agreement which includes paying their rent on time to avoid problems, they are also expected to behave in the right manner, they are to take consent from the landlord before fixing up any structural damage on any part of the building, subletting and alterations. RIGHT NOT TO REIMBURSE A TENANT Most times, the tenant feels the landlord owes him after making repairs in the house and this often leads to disagreements. According to the law, the landlord has the right not to reimburse a tenant. They are only required to reimburse a tenant when the repair is covered in their initial agreement. This is why before signing the Tenancy Agreement both parties should decide who repairs what and what. RIGHT TO REVIEW RENT Every landlord is in business and the aim is definitely to make profits. A landlord can decide to increase his Tenancy rate if he wishes. Though it must be in line with the ‘Rent Review Clause’. However, the new increment does not affect a tenant during an existing tenancy. RIGHT NOT TO ISSUE A QUIT NOTICE Evictions in Nigeria mostly tend to be worrisome, as many Landlords have experienced Tenants flouting court orders after the exhaustion of “Quit Notice” and it seems the only language most complies with is force. An action every civil society should frown upon. According to laws, a Landlord has the right to issue a “Quit Notice” and also a right not to issue one. For Instance, when a tenant has waived his right to a quit notice while signing the tenancy agreement. Or when the tenant has breached a written agreement. Such as using a property rented for residential purposes for commercial purposes or a situation whereby a tenant doesn’t pay three (3) months’ rent in a row. Whichever the case is, the landlord is still required by law to issue a Seven Day to Recover Premises. RIGHT TO A COMPULSORY (7) SEVEN DAYS NOTICE TO RECOVER PREMISES The protection given to a tenant by the Nigerian Tenancy Law prevents Landlords to evict an occupant without issuing a “Seven Days’ Notice to Recover”. The “Seven (7) Days’ Notice of Owner’s Intention to Recover Premises” is a notice from a landlord’s lawyer notifying a tenant upon whom a “Quit Notice” had been served and same had expired; that the lawyer will after seven (7) days from the date of the service of the Notice proceed to court to recover the over- held premises on behalf of the landlord. Discussed above are some of the rights of a tenant covered by Nigerian law. And as laws are protecting the tenant, the landlord has laws protecting his rights under Nigerian law too. Below are some of the Rights of a Landlord in Nigeria. |
Politics › Re: Nigerian Army Building Military Camp In Enugu Not Ruga Settlement - Army by Abemy(m): 6:12am On Oct 14, 2021 |
You said the aforementioned media, but no media name was mentioned, you only said the media source was bereft of credibility. |
Crime › Re: Man Sends Nude Pictures, Pornography To 16-Year-Old Niece In FCT, Lands In Court by Abemy(m): 7:19pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Fear the hijab people |
Education › Re: Why Are False Tears Called Crocodile Tears? by Abemy(m): 1:37pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Charmingrascal: Crocodile cries. Especially when it's out of the water for long, its eyes dry out and to remain lubricated it weeps. Also crocodile cries when it attacks its prey (i.e they shed tears when they're feeding) however it is not clear whether they cry out of pity for their victim or out of excitement. But it is believed that no one will be eating and be crying which rules out the crying out of pity. Though the tears are fake but crocodile weeps. My younger step sister from birth till about age 10, do shed heavy tears while eating, and the tears stops immediately she stops eating. So, I electnto invalidate your claims that no one can shed tears while eating. |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu: Why Abaribe Should Be In Prison - Femi Adesina by Abemy(m): 3:49pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
Like Buhari like Abaribe.
Femi was referring to his boss in disguise. |
Politics › Re: Unizik Student, Chioma, Killed By Suspected IPOB Members (Photos, Video) by Abemy(m): 9:23am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Asgard73: Joe igbokwe deserve what ever he gets.. Hea someone against his people .. feeling funky and making blood money from his people.. Igbokwe have never spoken out on anything for igbos and about igbos..
His kinsmen disassociate themselves from him.. he’s an outcast.. so who are we to judge .. someone his family and immediate family outlawed.. haba!
He’s a fool .. efulefu..
F:G should negotiate with IPOB.. the earlier the better .. Igbos are not complaining about IPOB .. they believe FG is the human behind all this violence and it breeds more support
And for happy yoruba people supporting FG and always quick to make references to bornu people and north east with bokoharam
Igbos are not Muslims and will never be Muslims air Islam Yes, agreed Joe deserve what he gets, how about Chioma, Akunyili, and other innocent souls, who are neither security agent nor politicians? It's unfortunate that those who wish Biafra should be actualize are the ones being killed by those who the have so much faith in their cause. This is the exact way Bokoharam started, from security agencies to politicians, to Christians, to Muslims and now to any one at their disposal. I can bet with Biafra flag that you are not residing in the south east, else, you wouldn't be sounding this way. I doubt the Igbos will still vote for Biafra in a freely conducted, and not coerced referendum, due to these atrocious crimes committed against them by them. God is watching. |
Family › Re: Man Shares Picture After First Sex With His Virgin Wife (Viewers Discretion) by Abemy(m): 3:25pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
I can bet with someone's balls, that the said lady is not a virgin, she just finished her menses and that is what is called, spotting, ladies here know that. The remnants of blood in her system was forced out during the act. |
Family › Re: Man Shares Picture After First Sex With His Virgin Wife (Viewers Discretion) by Abemy(m): 3:21pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
OloshoMan: In this part of the world, People (illiterates mostly) overrate virginity, I had sex for the first time a month before I turned 15, I could remember my classmates laughing at me and saying all sorts of nonsense that I've destroyed myself, I can't lie I regretted having sex at the time... LoL to think, this niggas were making me feel bad just because I had"sex" just "sex" lol
There was this particular nigga, that kept disturbing and bullying me with his words...this guy was a close friend and still a virgin, I noticed some things he had in him that I didn't have e.g he steals from people's lockers, he picks everything he see on the ground (money, keys that doesn't belong to him). I was like I rather be a non-virgin than be thief.
I've met people who are or claim to be virgins that I'd never swap my own life for theirs. Virginity is not everything. People can be virgins and still be terrible. Being a virgin doesn't make you better than the next guy is (illiterates full here wallahi, some even think that once you marry a Virgin it means (loyalty, respect etc)
Africans overrate virginity... To my unborn baby girl...(I'd teach you that you can be whatever you want to be even if you're not a Virgin heck you can even be the first female prime minister or leader... Infact all you need to know about sex Education, Daddy got you... to African women losing your virginity doesn't mean you've lost your dignity, lol if your virginity is your dignity bitch don't come close to me cos you don't have any value, that is some Bush man's mentality.
PS- I'm not discrediting virgins, you can be whatever, just don't shove it down my throat cos I really don't care about it heck I do better than most of y'all tbh there are more important things than that. I don't care if any woman I'm getting married to is a virgin or not. Just be good, that's all. Bye Thanks for consoling yourself. |
Family › Re: Man Shares Picture After First Sex With His Virgin Wife (Viewers Discretion) by Abemy(m): 3:19pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
duro4chang: Disgusting. E be like say they are from my village. Being in the village isn't a crime though. |
Health › Re: What Could This Be? by Abemy(m): 12:40pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
It's an infection, see a dermatologist ASAP |
Politics › Re: Chike Akunyili Death: It's Political Assassination - IPOB by Abemy(m): 8:33pm On Sep 29, 2021 |
P- President. M- Mass B- Burial PMB President Mass Burial. |
Politics › Re: Masari: Northern Children In Danger If We Continue In The Old Order by Abemy(m): 3:36pm On Sep 24, 2021 |
Islam wants to take over the world, it is required by Islamic injunction, that Muslims marry early and many wifes, to give birth to more Muslims to surpass the Christian population in preparation for taking over the world.
Masri is only been hypocritical here, he knows the truth. |
Politics › Re: IPOB's Sit-At-Home Caused The Death Of A Sick Woman (Photos) by Abemy(m): 4:25pm On Sep 23, 2021 |
The reason I moved my pregnant wife out of South East, it would have been terrible if she entered labor on. sit at home Monday.
She delivered at 1am of the same Monday, but outside SE. |
Education › Re: 400 Level Benue University Student Impregantes 14-Year-Old Girl by Abemy(m): 8:44pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
[quote author=CampussNews post=105833673]Gum your body to [url][/url] for trending Gossips covering all Campuses in Nigeria. Visit the website and subscribe to daily update for free  :quote] [color=#006600][/color] Subscribe for free? Hiam, what does subscribe mean and what does free also mean? |
Crime › Re: Ogun Hoodlum Beats, Rapes 27-Year-Old Woman Over Greeting ‘offence' by Abemy(m): 2:20pm On Aug 30, 2021 |
What's the difference between this rapist and the Army in Orlu LGA, who asked me and my two colleagues, to sit in the mud for not gretting them, who later said they thought we were IPOB members? Tueh. |
Health › Re: Please What Is Breaking Out On My Skin ? by Abemy(m): 10:14am On Aug 26, 2021 |
There is no need for test. I believe it started with feeling weak and a slide headache. If you had bathed with Izal the one used in toilets, it wouldn't have come out like this. . Take original Bitcham ampiclox and bathe regularly with Izal. Even if you don't treat it, it will go in few days time, but note kindly that, the skies don't disappear after healing. . . You can take a procane injection and lick vitamin C capsules. . Cheers. . Abemy: This is what aboki call"Sawandawa" Bath with Izal and take original Bitcham ampiclox . . If you ever had contact with a wood or plant, strike by thunder and lightening, go get the ashes from the wood and rub all over your body. Cheers.
[ quote author=ijoba222 post=105184852]it have want to start appearing on my face too
please what's it any drugs suggestion or should I do test? |
Health › Re: Please What Is Breaking Out On My Skin ? by Abemy(m): 9:55am On Aug 26, 2021 |
This is what aboki call"Sawandawa" Bath with Izal and take original Bitcham ampiclox . . If you ever had contact with a wood or plant, strike by thunder and lightening, go get the ashes from the wood and rub all over your body. Cheers. [ quote author=ijoba222 post=105184852]it have want to start appearing on my face too please what's it any drugs suggestion or should I do test?[/quote] |
Crime › Re: Photo Of The 17-Year-Old Girl Who Stabbed Her Neighbour To Death In Kano by Abemy(m): 10:30am On Aug 23, 2021 |
Hijab people, a people used to violence and familiar with killing. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Haji Mullah Achakzai Executed By Taliban (Photos, Video) by Abemy(m): 7:12pm On Aug 20, 2021 |
Taliban are better Muslims than Panthami. |
Politics › Re: Cooking Gas Hits ₦550 Per Litre - What's The Price In Your Location? by Abemy(m): 11:49am On Aug 15, 2021 |
It's N270 in my area, Orlu LGA Imo State. Treasure17: But kerosene is 320/350 per litre. |
Politics › Re: Attack On Diplomat: Timi Frank Seeks Tough Sanctions Against Indonesia by Abemy(m): 11:44am On Aug 15, 2021 |
In other words, Frank is urging Buhari to speak to the Indonesian government in a language they will understand. |
Politics › Re: Top 5 Lies About Buhari By Farooq A. Kperogi by Abemy(m): 8:02am On Aug 15, 2021 |
"In 2014, he lied that he was too poor to afford his own presidential nomination form and had to take a loan from a bank" . This is another fat lie Nigerians actually believe. As bad as Buhari is, he didn't utter such words quoted above. Buhari who is supervising minister in the national genocide ministry actually said, " that the cost of the the APC nomination form was too high, that he had to call his account officer to know if he had such amount of money in his account" He didn't said hetook loan, Nigerians edited and misquoted him and sold it to the masses. . . |
Politics › Re: Suspension Of Sit-at-home Order Remains, Nnamdi Kanu's Family Clarifies by Abemy(m): 9:50am On Aug 13, 2021 |
All family members are now leaders? Like Buhari, like Biafra? Hmmmmm |
Celebrities › Re: Chika Ike Visits Her New House Under Construction And Joined The Workers To Work by Abemy(m): 9:21am On Aug 13, 2021 |
Chika Eke or Chika Nwoke? Finestgal: More pics |
Politics › Re: 2023 Presidency: Osinbajo Is Nigeria’s Future For 2023 – Support Group by Abemy(m): 6:04am On Aug 07, 2021 |
[You quickly forget about Jonathan and are pointing to Biden? Did Jonathan perform after been a Deputy governor, a governor, a vice president, and a president? Osibanjo will disappoint you big time. He is only good at making policy statements without implementation. . quote author=TheRareGem1 post=104514485]Just like Biden,having an experience of a VP will give you a sense of direction on how to govern a country, you won't have to think of where to go, what to do, you already known what's to be done, hence, this man is fit and capable for this job really.[/quote] |
Politics › Re: Abba Kyari Murdered Michael Adiukwu, Offa Bank Robbery Suspect - Gazette by Abemy(m): 6:05pm On Aug 02, 2021 |
The future is Abba |
Family › Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by Abemy(m): 4:23pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
Apply and obtain an injection to that effect or Sue her for parental fraud. MrOposter: It's a bit lengthy pls bear with me
I met a lady through 2go in 2014. I asked her out online and she accepted, weeks later, we met one weekend and had sex on the first day! The sex wasn't great, I stopped half way and went to shower. The following day I snooped and discovered that she already have a boyfriend and the guy is in the same school with her. I dissolved everything between us and left for my lodge (I was schooling too but in another school but same state)
She didn't call to apologise and I also locked up. Fast forward 6 month later, she messaged me on Facebook that she was 7 months pregnant. I did my calculations and Instantly knew something was wrong somewhere. I denied being the father, she went on my friend list and dug up my my uncle's profile and chatted him about the pregnancy. My uncle messaged me
Calm me down and request I go see the baby with my parent. We went to her parent house, saw the baby immediately started investigating about dna test. I was humbled by the price of the dna test (200k as at then) because there is no way I was going to raise that kind of money while in school.
Long story short, my parent and I have been taking care of the baby ever since then, I finished school around 2017, travelled out of the country almost immediately after graduation and assumed responsibility on my own.
I came back late 2019, I requested we do a dna test upon my arrival. I went straight up to a known diagnostic center and made enquiries of the price and what to bring before the dna test will be done..
I was told to bring any official means of identification for myself, the birth certificate of the baby and the mother will also have a means of identification too and she will also be present to sign the consent form.
I told her about the requirements and ask her if she had any means of identification herself. She said No! I went back to the diagnostic centre and told them if there is any substitute, they said she can present her NIN slip. I told her immediately to get the NIN slip, days later she told me there were too much people on the queue and that she can't continue to waste her time endlessly. We went back and forth about the NIN slip till the whole of 2020 ended.
The beginning of this year I told her that I'll stop giving her money for the baby's upkeep if she can't provide the NIN slip. With as low as 2500 she can get hers from the local shops.
She called and called for me to send her money for the first 3 months of this year. I didn't budge. I kept to my words. No dna test, no money. School fees time came, she called, I was forced to go back to the diagnostic center this April and pleaded if there is a way we could do the dna test without requesting any form of identification from the mother of the child. They called the head office in lag and told me that we can do the test without the mum's mode of identification. I was elated and called her to bring the baby with her on the 5th of April (Easter Monday) to the my shop, then from there we will go to the diagnostic center. She said OK.
I waited for her to bring the child over, she didn't. She called me 3 days after saying that she went for a church program. I was furious. I told her to show bring the baby the following day (Thursday) she said she will come. Again she refuse to show up. She called 5 days later to tell me that she's sorry. I ended the call and told her that she isn't serious.
She rang me days ago to tell me that the baby is not feeling too well and that she want to see me, she urge me to pls send her something to take the baby to the hospital for treatment.
I'm in a dilemma, I don't know how to go about this. It's obvious that she is deliberately not allowing me to go for the dna test and I don't want to be a deadbeat dad either.
How do I lure her to go for the test? I don't want my daughter to have a bad perception about me that I wasn't there through her childhood (if eventually she turn out to be mine).
Help! |
Politics › Re: Kukah: Stop Intimidating Nigerians, Ortom Tells Presidency by Abemy(m): 2:29pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: She Takes Too Many Pictures And Videos by Abemy(m): 7:41pm On Jul 10, 2021 |
Go to settings and ask Facebook to notify you before a tagg can be shown on your time line. |