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She'll call crying again.

Both of them will come and stay for as long as they want. I don't do rules and regulations to manage my home.

That's the reward of see finish.

That's why it is always good to do these two things:

1. Stay distinctive.
2. Avoid over saturated and over crowded professions/skills.

For a company to offer you 10k, it means that an hungry graphic designer has gone to beg that company for 3k/ month job. I see them everyday on Nairaland. Some of them can offer to design your logo, brand, website, etc., for a cup of garri.

People who don't know their worth, are inexperienced, and too lazy and lukewarm to seek expertise are always a curse to every profession. This is a common trend in nearly all professions without a regulatory body.

Goodlady:
Do you know you are mad but no one has told you in this month except me?
So I deserve some respect for quickly identifying your ailment.
If the woman made asoebi a compulsion, so be it!
You can call it greed. What if she has done other charitable deeds. Afterall, asoebi no dey cost what some glutton like you ll consume at the event!

What if the woman?? what if she has done?? What if, what if, bla bla, bla. You have a video evidence right in front of you, where women of virtue who paid for her useless aso ebi walked out of her curse-inflicted party...yet, you still dey run mouth like crase woman.

If dem no train you for house, I will train on you online. You need some virtues, and I am willing to instill some on you by force.

Goodlady:
My fiance is a lucky man. He's enjoying getting in a relationship with a realistic woman. I v stopped putting my status in public but soon, I ll write something good about him here for people to know that only a man that's born loser will expect women to be ass-licking them.

@emboldened,

Don't let feminism drive you nuts.

Unlike you, elebi (I never chop), sensible women who bought her useless aso ebi also walked out of her useless party. Go watch the video. That's what sensible people do; women with self worth, self-respect, and dignity.

If you have any form of virtue left in you, you wouldn't be here defending an abusive, bitter, and angry woman just because some people refused to fund her greed.

Again, I pity your guy.

Goodlady:
If you say asoebi's a criminal practice, some criminals sneek into party uninvited to eat food meant for those that paid for asoebi and special entertainment. Such people beat security like bouncers but they can't beat the curses that ll follow them just as the woman in the video. I like her.

You really are a vain woman. I pity your husband.

Goodlady:
Vain and empty man. Why must you come and do oshogree for an expensive party?
You think I care about your hunger to feed you thousands of naira worth of food and drinks or consume drinks worth hundreds of pounds and you won't buy asoebi?
Asoebi is part of the tax for every party.

LMAO 😂 Tax indeed. Next time you want to hold your useless party, ensure you have enough money to feed your invited guests.

If crowd control is your wahala, you can regulate the number of guests using simple and basic measures like IV. Aso ebi is a criminal practice.

If money is your problem, humble yourself and beg for funds. Don't use aso ebi to recover the money nobody begged you to spend. Na you wan show off. Wey.rey.

As far as aso ebi is concerned, I will NEVER buy it and I go still dash you money to hold your party

Most politicians do this. Even the one that won the election will take back every penny spent through contracts and corruption. She's just bold enough to own up to her deeds.

Goodlady:
Muyico, it's not a skit.
It happened in real life.
I watched it on Facebook. The woman is now trending. Though it's not by force to buy asoebi and to avoid drama, I advise people doing party that want to cash out from it should desist.
But did she warn people that if them no buy her asoebi make den no come the party? If so, they deserved the curses. If I m her, bouncers ll throw out those that didn't buy clothes.
It's not easy to entertain guests with meals over N2K alone in Nigeria not to talk of in UK where each guest ll eat and drink food worth over N20K - N30K or more. At some events, wine taken cost hundreds of thousands of millions. So if I decided to cash out on my asoebi and some foóls decided to come and eat free food (owo epo), they ll go to clinic after 2 weeks cos the spirit of the money I spent must worry them.
If I give you something for free, it's free. But if I decided to do biz with my party, it's none of your business.
So I support the curses if she had warned dem before.
If you quote me without sense, I ll injure you here on nairaland with my constructive response. So think we'll before saying rubbish especially if you are male. My words ll pepper 🌶️ you to your marrows and blokkos!

Vain empty woman. Why hold a party you cannot afford? Dem force you?

See painment

Nigerians have suffered in this life. So returning to 1996 cars na una survival strategy?! Cars that some grandfathers already dumped more than a decade ago??

Tinubu indeed presented a forged document to INEC. That's all that matters.

pandoragirigory:
Who is Atiku, North was not responsible for the First coup, they weren't Ojukwu that brought the only civil war, they didn't attack and insult pastor Adeboye, Kumuyi, Adefarasin Ooni of Ife, Fela Kuti that is dead, Wole Soyinka even babies like Reno omokri little baby, and Seyi law's small girl, north is not Kanu nnamdi that commanded Igbos to destroy Yoruba properties in Lagos and one Igbo boy Chinasa Micheal burn BRT buses in Lagos? North is not parading and committing Crimes everywhere home and abroad, north is not bereved and grieving like Peter girigory Obi people that want to destroy Nigeria.

See ma d man

From Peter Obi to Ojukwu to Chinansa, chai. All these wahalas because you are scared of Atiku?

Tflex01:
I never liked or cared about Tinubu until about one year ago when all these propaganda against him was getting over the roof. It simply shows something must be really special about that man.

Same way you never liked or cared about Buhari until his Nepa bill propaganda and nationality became a thing? Turned out the special man was an absolute disaster.

IconicR:
So yellow bobo sef sabi dish violence

We plenty for this table na me carry my own Dy hawk

🤣🤣🤣 you no well

saysoo:
Am sorry for your troubles. Are you from a broken home? I can feel the pain.

A broken home is better than your home, where your dad panel beats your mom on a daily basis.

saysoo:
did the op mention that the man is a woman beater? Simple question.

No. You brought it up. According to you, a woman should tolerate anything (including professional lies, polygamy, et al.). You also said that a woman should stay so long as the man is not a woman beater. In response, I gave you an example of a woman who never had a second chance to process her decision to stay or live with a woman beater after one round of merciless flogging. She died on the spot.

saysoo:
he you know the 40yrs midnight dreams, you will scram. Marry now, secure your flower,have your kids and deal with the other things. I did not hear the guy was a woman beater,did you?

The last woman that got flogged' by a man didn't survive it. One was very lucky recently, on Friday precisely. She regained consciousness on her way to the mortuary. Both incidences occured in Lagos. (sources: Twitter).

You can reserve your advice for your sisters. I believe the op has made up her mind.

saysoo:
you for add 15yrs to her age so she would not be dissapointed if the new man does not come before her fortiet birthday.

Of course. It is better to remain single at 40 than marry a scammer with mid-life crisis at the age of 25. What advice do you give your sisters?

Fearlez:
don't console yourself with her post. I will tell you something I learnt, the hard way.

Women will often find older men attractive.

The only people who will revolt like you are women in their 30s and younger broke men like you.

Start hustling, bro.

How do you broke shame people you don't know online? Go and make money yhen yhen.. If I post my weekly earning here, are you sure your annual salary can match??

luminouz:
You are killing that girl slowly with your advice. You should have told her to wait and meet him first and make her decision afterwards. I stead, you assumed dating older men is weird when more than 90% of women date and marry men older than them. You went ahead and gave her this assumption that since all the older men are bullshiiit, she should calm down and wait TILL she gets someone her age. You should have told her to meet him first and find out all the red flags she needs to convince herself it won't work. Then, she can move on and hopefully find another man(young or old). Another red flag could be that he is a dad already and she might not like that, just like many men don't want baby mamas.

If it's abroad she stays, you assume young men are throwing themselves at women over there and eager to marry too. You have no idea how messed up the dating scene is in the western world. Calm down with your advice and be logical next time.

A 40 year old nurse lying and claiming another man's profession is a scammer. There is nothing to meet.

If at the age of 40, you cannot tell people what you do for a living, then something is seriously wrong somewhere.

ahiboilandgas:
Bastard opinion don't matter (people that a happy to insult their Ethinic group online) if population don't matter why is Canada your paradise dishing out visa to repopulate several province why is Russia federation supporting pollution expansion and birth. Why is Italy paying migrants to stay in town where population is down .Why is American taking up more Migrants .Australia paying women to give birth .Japan worried about low birth .But bastard only listen to radio biafra and assume population is the problem . A nation with life span of 55 year want to follow Japan with 80 year life span control population. You must be very dull and was trained in IPOB platforms .Equip the population with right skill and supply manpower to the world and remit USD to Nigeria. Not traveling up and down to so meth distribution in Thailand.

My God! Are you for real? Birthing more almajiris is the way to address our low life expectancy? You see why I will always call you out for failing to call out your useless leaders? Just see how they've messed up your brains with religion.

Do you think Canadian visas are for almajiri kids? Do they know the road to embassy? This guy.

My God. I'm done here for now Omo I regret ever reading the stuff you type about treasury bills.

ahiboilandgas:
shameless Bastard why hide under treasury bill thread to do your ethnic politics ! You supported a failed candidate with zero track record of development .come out and say you are pained obi lost . ( so your taught with 5 obi state and some disgruntled middle belts ) OBi will win election. Your must be a Monkey and listen to radio biafra exclusively. No wonder you are pained Northerner are marrying and giving birth. You want them to become sterile or gay. Very silly Chap. Men say their political opinions out . Bastard hide under several covers.

I have high regard for kids so I won't even insult those innocent kids. I just pity the country because how can a so called investment guru on TBills thread consider overpopulation a thing to be proud of?? E dey call am sterile! Walai, your viewspoints are more than enough to give up on the country.

The countries your useless leaders travel to do not have your kind of population yet you believe any good will come out of your useless leaders? What is the population of Russia? What is the population of the UK? Canada? I can go on and on...

And this is the kind of humans some people rely on for investment tips?? I just pity your followers. No wonder you predicted that dollar will fall to N700 a few weeks back. Same thing you did to your undiscerning followers years ago until the thread almost died. You think the American dollars will respond to your useless ethnic antics and ronu chants??

If only they know the mind of their so called guru. You really are a shame to yourself and your people.

oluayebenz:
I can see your pain 😁

Reason why you are derailing thread for those that are still investing and making ways where you foool thinks there's no way.

Go get a life bastard

To get any further response from me:

Hand over your phone to your youngest kid. I would rather have this chat with him, because your are innately and irredeemably senseless.

oluayebenz:
So you are pained?
Do you even understand why Ahib called you a bastard?
With your responses and post, I also figured it and I can reconfirmed that you are truly a bastard.

I'm a bastard because I refused to join you and other ronu criminals to drag Peter Obi and erosion ravaged IPOB over your inability to invest in treasury bills after Buhari from northern Nigeria dealt with you and your slave masters for 8 solid years??

Hand over your phone to your youngest kid. I would rather have this chat with him, because your are innately and irredeemably senseless.

Someone that overhyped Buhari and Tinubu is bragging about not making any meaningful contributions on the thread again. Shey that statement na threat??

oluayebenz:
Ask your miserable father.

Bastard

You have been throwing the word father around, carelessly. Are you sure you have a father??

oluayebenz:
So you are happy with that kind of unfortunate life you are living?
Seems I'm exchanging words with a dunce.

Bastard

Apart from calling people bast@rd, unfortunate, yhen yhen yhen, what else do you have in your head, please?

oluayebenz:
You better find something to do with your miserable life...

This Oloriburubu is everywhere.

Bastard

The good thing about my life is that my past is better than the future of your generations to come.

oluayebenz:
Thunder fire you there.....
You are one of the idiott that started the issue here, you will be dragging the man and expect him to keep mute for you.

Foo.lish people everywhere.

The man land? LMAO

I am dragging Nigerian governors, sire.

oluayebenz:
You are truly a bastard

Ahib was actually right.

Another ronu criminal that would rather have a dead demagogue from his tribe as president than have a sane human with complete senses to change his fortune.

You are a shame to your generation. Give him a sane genius from Canada (a country he has been hustling day and night to run to) and a dead body from his tribe, he will vote the dead body.

ahiboilandgas:
cos Bastard don't really have people .sons of a 1000 father's. ( watch the Good Bad and ugly)

It is just shameful that Nigeria will always have to depend on people like this for progress in the name of BVAS and election. Omo, this one is ready to vote a stone from Northern Nigeria than have any sane person from another region as president.

You are a shame to your generation.