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shadshadyz: @ acidtalk,i still stand my ground.
i hv lots of male friends but i maintain just one relatnshp.just one.
As for that wasted airheaded,her username suggests she mayb yoruba.
am nt suprised she's one,because they can beef their fellow girls a lot and are very insultive and in most cases smelly.Personally i no send am message,she can jump down 4rm third mainland bridge for all i care,cos she is as meaningless to me as her blank brain!
if you are scared of her,then dont send it,you can as well jump down 4rm third mainland bridge with her.

Fear keh? Kwanu!
Wetin concern Agbero with BRT lane?

Guys don't just like being in the waiting (an option). Every guy wants to be a choice you know?

ayobase: Make God enrich all of us jare!

Ameen oh!
Shey na Bill Gate abi Donald Tump, Warren Buffet or Branson go dey fear to borrow him partner money?

Once God enriches one financially, the fear of anyone not paying back will be minimal.

Idowuogbo: Abeg! Don't bring in assumptions jare! Wot past lovelost? Read her essay again and tell me wot u can deduce from it.

She is STINGY!!!!

Well let's just say, this is an open platform for different views and like they say, everyone is entitled to his/her own opinion. We can't all speak towards one direction. That's the beauty of life.


On the other hand, do you know a great percentage of people shouting "me and my partner are one", "why won't I?", "I will give and never request for a refund" are all going to be worse than her in reality?

Some people don't have now so they assume they are generous and humble. When they get small money you will see the wolf in that so called partner of yours.

You never know ANYONE (even yourself) until you test him with money.

Idowuogbo: U dis runaway boy don land again? Basi bebe! U dey mind am ni? Na so she dey always write d story of Noah and d ark o! Still d tin no dey ever make sense. Imagine! She will push him to great ideas u no! U sure no d tight ones wen u see dem.Mstewwwww!!!!

Babe, You harsh oh!
Did she snatch your boyfriend ni?
Kwanu! See as you attack her.

Well I just feel she is making this judgement from past bitter experiences.
She might have been a victim of "lovelost" all due to financial mistrust.

The story isn't complete.
They forgot to inform us how many filled ghana must go bags they received from from the executives.


Nigerians biggest problem is we don't Judge fairly. We put sentiments in every treatment and judgement we made.

99% of the people shouting MAULAG,MALU, MAU and the rest are definitely not in support of Jonathan's actions. We only feel joyed that the supposed pompous attitude of unilag students have been cut short by that name change.

This will surely make way for many more ridiculous policy change by this government.

National Monuments, Stadia, road, bridges, public holiday and even Name of States and Local governments would be changed in no time by this government.

If a school like Uniben, Ilorin or Ibadan had their names changes I believe the "entire" populace would have kicked against this clueless actions.


Nigerians! Open youe ears clearly. God is already upset with this Nation. The disasters occuring in this country of late are only a warning sign.

The earlier we start speaking the truth and treating people and situations fairly irrespective of Status, ethnic or religious background the better for all of us.

Mayflowa: You are such a good woman!
Sadly, this altitude of yours is not good. You may easily be used and pushed around by fake men. You should be shrewd as a woman and decerning. That way you can lead the home front with your loyal support not gullible support!

Men are like babies, u have to handle them with care less u may live a miserable live. Don't accept anything that come ur way no matter how good u are. Be STRONG woman. Dont be a softy!

Thumbs up bro!
A good advice of how to handle men even coming from a man.


Sometimes people let their emotions make them make life time regretable mistakes.

Not allowing a partner have all, or control their excesses doesn't mean you love them less.

bashr8: to want a better nigeria or do you want a better life for people in nigeria? until we start talking regional govt or seperation people in nigeria will never have a better life.

Okay now, what are your suggestions?

BELIEVE IT OR NOT, OUR GOVERNMENT SURF THE INTERNET AND THEY VISITS SITES LIKE THIS.

OUR SUGGESTIONS AND CONTRIBUTIONS CAN MAKE A LITTLE CHANGE AT LEAST MAYBE EVEN GET JONATHAN TO START ACTING.

slimyem:

gerrout what is making you happy

he will see the true slimyem after you go visiting that ganja joint with that gay boy.

Idowuogbo: Castigating? Guy stop it! If na ur gal u c dey offer options wetin u go talk? I was teasing her earlier about forming and all, den bang! She showed up offering options after she stated she's taken

Abeg she wan commando jare!

Friends indeed! See zobo o!

*Badosky exists*

I don spoil runs o!

Give or take she might just be in her present relationship for the fear that people will mock her when her status changes back to "Single and Searching". How are you so sure she is happy in it?

My girl searching for options? well.....

ijebabe: Ayo, why i no go laff? First you accuse me with Mynd u no wan make i rest shey?
Is this payback for ur thing with Dubem?

before then it was with sexskillz and mr....cork

shadshadyz: Then i guess onila was refering to your kind of girls when she said Nigerian girls and their mentality!
being a facebk friend or having somebody's BB PIN does not mean i want to date dat person.
are u telling me its only ur bf thats d only male person in ur life?
am nt in d least dull my dear,infact i think u are nitwit,for telling me i aint sharp
watch ur language wit me!!!

Sweety no mind am. na so she dey behave.
i will be the bestman for you and the dudes wedding so at least we will show nairalanders that the matchmaking (or whatever they wanna call it actually worked).

But on a more serious note, HOW CAN SOMEONE SATISFY PEOPLE OF THIS WORLD?

A girl acts hard to get, we condemn her. now she is being friendly, are fellow female is castigating her.

No wonder this world is filled with confused, sad and frustrated people.

shadshadyz: nope not true. i have someone else, i dont double date and i hate cheating, perhaps in the future!

Future keh
Okay! See you then. Probably as my 5th wife.

So your own inspiration is to come up with a por*n story shey? Well done!

All the same, sorry for the loss.

ijebabe: Yes u're right, it depends on the person u're dealing with. Well I guess its easy for me to give when I know the kind of person I'm with and the surety that i'll get it back without even asking. Honestly I've never been put in that position but knowing myself I know i'll give and depending on the amount probably work on a payment plan that wud work for us both. I don't like things like money coming in the way of my relationship with family and friends, I won't just allow it.

So Correct!
On this earth presently, I can vouch for only 2 people I know never to default payment if I lend them ('cus they have the Fear of God instilled in them).

I have lost a couple of friends due to lack of financial trust. I only got to know their true colous after I borrowed them money or we had business transactions together.


My motto now is : DON'T HIRE WHO YOU CAN'T FIRE.

No sentiments in life mehn!

ijebabe: I know I would never ask for the money back no matter how much it is. But knowing my man he will not be comfortable till he's paid me back in full, when he can of course, so I have no real problems there. I spend my money how I like anyway and as long as I'm working and earning an income I can always recover. That's me, not sure of others.

True, but definitely not in all cases.
You can't give out a chunk of your 'life savings'. Of say over 3 years and expect to just bounce back like that after the "greedy" partner refuses to make an attempt to pay back.

So many relationships have gone down the drain due to lack of trust in financial issues or default in 'business or monetary' agreements.

Rocktation: The bottom line is if the sum is forfeitable, I'd give anyway no matter how huge it is.

We are saying the same thing.
But if it isn't forfeitable you won't dare venture giving it right.

You be serious politician.

I thought we all yearned for a Better Nigeria? Why don't we come together to work towards that change?

AyoJames: One of the most tragic stories from the ill-fated flight Dana Air 992 that crashed in Lagos on Sunday revolves around Maimuna Anyene, a Connecticut-based Nigerian woman, who died along with her husband, sister, her four kids, two cousins and her mother-in-law.
Ms. Anyene, who is being mourned by friends, relatives and colleagues around the world, was described by several sources as having a boisterous laughter, a happy spirit and an infectiously cheerful disposition.
One of the late woman’s spirits closest friends captured her spirits. “When Maimuna laughed, she was always loud, joyful, and even crazy in the good sense. She laughed spontaneously and excitedly. It was a full-of-life kind of laughter that seemed to come from deep within her belly. She laughed without inhibitions. She was pretty and had cute dimples that made her round face memorable.”
Maimuna was born into the family of Mr. and Mrs. Ndanusa and Birikisu Mijindadi on July 30, 1979. Her father, from Bida, Niger State, was a professor at the Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria. Her mother had worked for a few years as a nurse in the United States before returning to Nigeria where she began and ran several enterprises, including a large grape farm in Zaria.
Maimuna attended primary school in Zaria and completed secondary school at Queens College, Lagos.
She proceeded to the University of Ibadan, where she studied Economics, graduating in 2001 with a Second Class (Upper) degree. At UI, she made many friends, staying close to several of them years beyond her university days.
One friend said she stood out as the most studious in her circle of friends. “Maimuna was the one who talked to her friends to focus on their academic work whenever she found them in danger of getting too distracted by the many temptations of student life,” said the friend. “No surprise that we called her ‘effico,’ a nickname for nerds and bookworms. It meant she was efficient in organizing her study and play time. She was diligent and hardworking, and simply never lost sight of her priorities.”
Another friend said she fondly remembered how she and others called Maimuna “effico.” “It was a term of endearment but also a playful kind of derision. We derided her for keeping us honest by enforcing group discipline. And, at last, we cherished her for keeping us honest that some of us graduated with honors from Ibadan and other universities.”
On graduating from UI, Maimuna returned to Zaria for a few months before heading to Lagos for the mandatory one year stint as a member of the National Youth Service Corps. She served with Citibank in Lagos.
Maimuna was married to Onyeka Anyene, a lawyer who has offices in Abuja and Lagos. Friends described the marriage as one founded on religious tolerance and broadmindedness. A devout Muslim, Maimuna married Mr. Anyene, a Christian.
A few friends disclosed that Maimuna’s parents were at first reluctant to approve their daughter’s choice of husband-to-be. Even so, Maimuna and Onyeka displayed their determination by heading for the Marriage Registry in Ikoyi, Lagos to solemnise their wedding. The ceremony was marked by a simplicity that was characteristic of the couple; it was witnessed only by three persons: a close friend of Maimuna’s from her U.I. days, and a couple who were friends of the groom.
A relative said Maimuna was a woman of great professional ambitions who was willing to work hard to prepare for the realization of her dreams. This led her to Pennsylvania State University in the United States where she earned a Masters degree. In 2005, she relocated to Connecticut and lived there until her death in the Dana Airlines crash. Ms. Anyene and her husband had four children: Kamsi (two-years old), twins Kayna and Kayne (one-year-old), and Kamal, also known as Noah (seven-months-old).
One friend in Connecticut recalled how “Maimuna loved to take pictures, to capture every memorable moment on film whenever possible.”
One source said she had traveled to Nigeria to visit with her husband, who lived mostly in Nigeria. “She also went to attend the wedding of her younger brother, Ndako, scheduled to take place in about a week’s time – on June 9,” added the source. http://www.punchng.com/news/unusual-love-story-of-couple-killed-in-crash/

So so true!!!
Her brother who is getting married is a friend to my own very good friend.

Rocktation: In that case, you have my answer already. There's a big difference between just giving and lending, you know.

So the bottom line is if the money is quite huge, then you will not lend your partner for fear of defaulting in repaying it right?

Konnektions146: alkaliTalk, pls send her a PM, she aint gonna anwer in a pulic forum na

No joh!
Naija babes too dey form.
We all expect the guy to propose openly but the girls will rather dissapear into space than answer a proposal in the open.

Rocktation: I can lend money to anyone that is close to me and needs money. A neighbour, a friend, a church member. So why not my boyfriend? It all depends on the amount that they're asking for though. If it's one that can be easily forfeited, fine. But if not....I'll have to be really sure that they can pay back.

That's the isuue. We are NOT talking of N5,000, N10,000, or N50,000. We are talking of half a million nair or whereabout. Money that if not paid back, you will feel the effect badly.

I think this thread should have longed been locked.

@poster, what was wrong in saying have you ever dated a Northerner or a Hausa before?

Most times we dish out things we won't dare take.

NONESENSE!!!