₦airaland Forum

LivingSage:
This is becoming an unbecoming! Covid-19 is a disaster

give these jobs to young men not old cargoes of more than 70 years of age and then you start accusing Coro

jamiudinho:
guys ur advise are needed ..I'm a graduate from the University of maiduguri business administration with a 2.1 class 2017 have completed my youth service 2019 ..now I'm 31 yrs of age the problem is can I still get a nice job with that age ...
my father friends happen to know some pple who knows those in top govt ..and I don't want to change d age with that opportunity can I still get a nice govt job base on that age as entry-level
for the record and from borno state but born and brought up in Lagos ....
pls need ur advise

you have pass through the school system, then waiting for someone to help you get a job?.education is the bedrock of the society, get capital and start doing something. If you can't use your brain to get something doing,it means if you are employed you might be a shortage to any organisation. Go out and stop waiting for one uncle, if there's no uncle will you remain redundant?

juvewalex:
Unserious government, una do lock down when it was not needed yet . The lock down would have been now and they're scared losing their fellow politicians to the pandemic because they don't care about the common man .

RIP to those who have lost their lives to the pandemic and May God heal those suffering from it currently. Amen.

the basic truth is that our Govt are not thinking about the masses but their own lives, that is just their fear.

raphok1:
Someone also just died of MALARIA bro. It's as real as MALARIA, nothing special. In fact, if u see the stats of people that die every day of MALARIA, u go shock.

you are 101% correct

amakadlite:
op stop devulging your details here because of hardship. some people have already started mocking themselves ontop your situation, please take those details down any one it touches to help with will do so. like someone suggested, relocate to your home state, you find local jobs even this farming season

will you give transport Fare ,accommodation and feeding for the main time if he returns home with his family? Do you expect him to Trek home with empty stomach?

GboyegaD:
What is the rush about? They should please listen to NMA and NUT, they are major stakeholders. We understand they have shared the school feeding money and other monies earmarked for education purposes and they need cover it up. However, it shouldn't be at the expense of the public/masses whose plight they have not improved.

then Govt must stop payment of public schools teachers salaries for them to understand what their counterparts in private school are experiencing. Look the am not saying there's no covid 19, but look very well and see that Our leaders have use it as a tool to make more money and even the so called Coro ve not even taking what malaria will take in a day in Nigeria since march till date. Malaria kills at least one in every local Govt area in Nigeria on a daily basis and how many local Govt area is in Nigeria = 774 . And the so called Coro ve not even taking the so called 774 since march till date, just that our leaders are all afraid to die because who will eat their ill-gotten wealth.

Magnumproperty:
Wedding promo

it's not as you think, don't jump on it because it's cheap. Check the Pro and con of the statutory marriage before you leaps. It's cheap doesn't mean it will favour you

kristisking:
Of course schools should not be opened now since you guys have been receiving your pay monthly even though you have not been going to work. Advising government not to open schools now means our education sector which has suffered serious neglect will further plummel. The earlier we accept that covid -19 has come to stay until a vaccine is discovered, the better for us.This virus is not going away now.What we need now is how to ensure everyone comply to guidelines and whoever flauts any of the protocol should be dealt with.

you are very correct

Lamasta:
But you are opening markets and public places abi is it not the parents of this kids that are plying there and come back home to take care of this kids?
Safety measures should be put in place for schools to reopen and any school who breaks it should be sanctioned and made a scapegoat....
ASUU are always after their pockets which we all know.
The government should pity private school owners and teachers

Govt should not pay any of the lecturers from henceforth so that they will understand what their counterparts in private universities are going through. Because they are part of the crisis rocking the educational system today

Chubhie:
Endtime wife.....

if she is your sister would you ask her to do it?

Let her do what she wants to do. It is not by force to give him her kidney
Also, isn't it difficult to carry a pregnancy with just one kidney in future?

even if she decides to give him, maximum 4 years the man will be no more. So no need because after the man's death, if the man eventually dies who will marry a woman who has just one kidney? This thing almost happen to my wife which I told her that if she had given in, there's no way I could ve married her in the first place. She better be wise

medolab90:

This your own advise be one kind o make we no marry Graduate who we wan kan marry.... village girl abi??


Bro Las Las nothing sure for this life na to risk am just be sure of what you are risking.

I lives in the university environment 90% of girls here are something else. Only 10% are still good here based on tradition and home background. You will ask yourself if these are people's children fucking up and down with no regards. Girls walking naked and you will think they are spirits. Girls striping their fathers of honour.

Niniolahabby:
Distance is not even the issue of the marriage,why is dat when hes around for 2weeks or a month he always misbehave when hes with me aswell.

Dear i understand your plight You are the one wearing the shoe right now like i said earlier some marriages are founded on love, some on Deceit and some on understanding. The only marriage that survives the test of time these days are the ones founded on understanding not even love. My case is a typical example: my wife lied on the about her age to me before i wedded her only for me to discover that she lied to me. I was able to find out three years ago. Just few months in marriage she started complaining of stomach pain. After taking all kinds of ulcer med no solution. We went for scan only to discover she had fibroids. To cut the long story short after the surgery till date no issue for the past 6 years but still I will never lay a finger on her. No member of my family is even aware of the age issue because if i should tell them my wife is a gonna. Lesson 1 : if I send her parking she may decides to take her life or do something foolish to herself or even to me. Lesson 2 : Some household enemies will be happy with her out of the house and they will still be the first to tell me " look at this one that cannot even keep your home or impregnate your wife. Lesson 3 : forget about the lies on the ground of age and move on because if i look around i ve never seen a woman who can fill her space in terms of neatness and hard work. Like I said earlier , there's no perfect marriage on earth it's just our ability to understand and complement each other. My own decisions is to get another woman outside to give me a child first and I'm equally planning on IVF for her. The only issue I have with her now is not even her age, had it been she has been able to give me children to hell with her age. No perfect marriage most of the people commenting are not even married, though not everyone that is married are matured again so it's a very critical issue that must be handled with care and maturity. It may take a very long time for your husband to come back to his senses but your life is equally important for the survival of your child. Every woman's private parts are the same it's just the sizes so men wise up, if your father's behaviour is like yours today probably you may not even be alive or what you are today. My dear has � ( ant ) ever bites you very close to your nipple before and how did you killed that ant � ? So it's a very critical case that requires critical thinking. If you leave to your parents house for now, so that we will not see anything like RIP. If your husband been thinking with his penis rather than his brain pls leave, the one that happened in lekki is still fresh. Pls pardon my errors

Niniolahabby:
I shuld have left him during d domestic violence days but i still stayed in it ,its nt bcis of the video because i know abt the relationship with him and d babes i know all his gfrd because he talk to them in my present at times i just dont care ,have had enough.i was depressed last year after i got to know he was having sex with my neighbour i confronted him he denial it till i sent d audio record wen he used my fone to call her in to the apartment ,he beat me dat day ,family got involve dey pleaded i forgive right now am tired of his drama.

my dear, no marriage Today is made in heaven. I understand your plight and you need to pray very hard before you take any decision. God will comfort you and your child. Again no marriage is perfect. The unmarried should look very well before jumping into marriage. Because Jumping into marriage is very easy but, jumping out is much more difficult. Am not saying you shouldn't get married , many are having a happy Home ,while some regret the day they ever made that decision. Look very well, as a man if you know you cannot tolerate the woman, don't even think of marrying her. As woman if you know that you can't control your mouth and respect a man, that means you are not ready for marriage. Husband love your wife, wife submit yourself to the authority of your husband ( not as slave, but be an helper). Man if you know that you cannot control your Anger then you are not ready for marriage, because your wife is not a punching bag. Control your Libido as man to have a great and happy home. Woman l pray God will comfort you and give you direction and if you know that you can no longer bear with him anymore pls move to your parents house to avoid long story.stay safe and God bless

Ningen:
Use the video as evidence and seek for divorce.

then thank yourself later

Lekozy:
We have over 2millions suscribers here and I believe we are learning something already 2023 is coming let's vote wisely our thinking should be outside pdp and apc now ...

That is if your votes counts

frozen70:
Pls house, I need an idea and advice on which generator I should buy to carry 1hsp pumping machine, freezer, washing machine

All these items are one at a time when I want to use the generator or maybe all at a time depending on the need

I am looking at Thermocool products or Tigmax products

Pls what kva should I look out for

just look for sunshow 6600 if you can get that Generator you are good to go. 96% of Firman generator throughout Nigeria are fake , better still get Thermocool 6kva from any accredited dealer. If you buy Firman generator the Firman generator will fire you with problems every month. Am a Gen mechanic.

nwakibe:
In my tribe, no big deal. You have two options. it's either you pay your Dead girlfriend's bride price and bury her in your own community or you allow your in-laws to bury her in their own community which you will not like, especially as you love her and she has a child with you.

which tribe?

SweetCunt97:
Oh well, you need to let yourself breathe first. Such butterfly love feeling seems to affect ladies in their teen before the reality of deceit hits.

Anyways, you can still fall in love, you simply need to meet a guy who meets ur spec.

if the guy who meets your spec doesn't love you, what will you do ?. Every woman need a man who makes her happy , not your spec where you may never have peace of mind

thesicilian:
Schools, night clubs, churches, mosques and other similar large gatherings should remain closed at least for another two months.

pls tell this to the students not the Govt

Rogosa:
Hi everyone,
I have been having issue with this for a while. I don't know if it is proper to call your wife's elder sister "Aunty" or "Sister so and so" even though you are much older than her.
Can one call such by her name without putting the respective adjective or suffix?

Mature mind pls.

my senior wife is even more better to me

Modesthy:
Nobody forces anybody on a woman in my place. The advice I need is just based on conscience because I use to see the woman as somehow a mother and my uncle as a father. And moreso I'm a Christian. These were the reason I objected. But she keep telling me that I should think about her condition of having only one child.

you are a Christian and you don't even have vast knowledge of the Bible. Gen 38. You are her new husband based on tradition if the elders say so

Ohizman73:
Good enough an ibo person here has chiped in a word on the cultural aspect and the bitter truth. it is not the womans fault to fall into such predicament of losing the love of her life at his prime. with the age ,the woman has all claim to make such request. do you know expect her at that age to go and look for a new husband. moreover she is already approaching menopause fast.it is also not her fault that she did not give birth to another child during the 12 years interval she gave birth to her only child. since you stayed with them you should know better. however this matter still lie your uncles kin. it doesnt mean sleeping with her physically ,if you dont relish the idea. you can donate sperm,

you are very correct, God bless you.forget those hypocrites.

Modesthy:
I'm Igbo and 37 years. She is 42 and her son is 12 years while my uncle was 51 years when he died.

I will advice you to inform the family. The family will definitely do something about it, body no be firewood. Because if she go out to meet another man without the family's consent they will call her names, Africans and hypocrisy are 5 & 6

JeffreyD1:
She should remarry

you think to find another husband is easy, the unmarried girls are attending Shiloh yearly for God's intervention. Some family gives the widow to either the man's uncle or a younger brother depending on culture

Trayceey:
shut d Bleep up. Idiot. Mr know all the reason.

is this how you want to get married?

Trayceey:
your mother and sisters are the ones sleeping around. Bastard!

even when you are insulted why not speak politely. A woman need humility to win a man's heart.

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Trayceey:
you re very stupid and and an idiot. Hopeless fool. When I have men in their 20s and early 30s licking my feet. Idiot

and you are still single?

Msfaith2000:
Am totally confused, anyone is free to judge me but I need an advice on what what to do before I commit murder. ��
I was having an affair with a married man. Although he promised me marriage . I accepted him because he was helping my family alot because am from a poor background. He told me that his wife has been an unable to give him a male child that she has four girls for him. He promised that if I can give birth to male child for him that he will marry me and change the life of my family. So after some months I got pregnant for him and we went to scan and scan detected that it's a baby boy. We became happy so out of excitement the father of my child rented an apartment for me. So when it was time for me to give birth I was in labour for 3 days, because of it my mother went to see a spiritualist. The spiritualist told my mother that the man's wife is not happy with me after that he told my mother to perform some rituals, after my mother has done that,I gave birth and it happened to be a baby girl and to my greatest surprise she has a down syndrom��. Immediately my baby father saw her he left us in the hospital and I never saw him again. Ever since then I have been suffering with the child. The baby is three months now. Last week I went to the man's house to plead with him to be taking care of the child's welfare or I will drop the child in his house. The man said that he can't father a child like this that she is not his daughter. And I attempted to drop the baby the wife came out and said that I must leave with the baby that she can't take care of another woman's child.
Ever since then i feel like killing the baby and myself. Please I need an advice because tears has been my food for the past few months now.���

you are from which state?

hector:
Please take a look

later you will say your village people don't want you to succeed. Don't come back here to complain once you buy it.