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Could all be wash too....

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Chigold101: i didnt place any embargo on u but everything we say or do in life is a SEED. A married woman like u praying that another married woman ruin her own home is too bad. However, from ur writeup i can see that u r not enjoyn ur marrige... PERIOD

I'm quite sure the seed part of this post is what they tell u in church

Btw, if all allegations are true, the woman is not trying to ruin her home but to regain her sanity. You call an adulterous relationship a marriage? You need to revisit your bible. That people endure these hurtful things doesn't mean its right. Just coz society turns the other way to adulterous men doesn't mean every woman should. So stop being sentimental with the whole "ruin her home" crap!

Btw, I do hope this boils over n is just a rumour. If it isn't? I just hope the members of the church learn smtn out of it. Tho I don't think you guys will learn anytn seeing as ya'll are already defending him. SMH

^^ I agree with the above see through tops r to b worn with inner wears...

They sexy... finish! Go n work out if you jealous

valdes00: Imagine a guy running after one particular PUZZY for 8yrs.... dat puZZy must av been made wif gold...

There's a difference between chasing "puzzy" and asking a lady out...

djeezy: 8 years and you haven't given him a chance?? I pity the poor dude sha. I ask you out once and you say no, I will just quarantine my emotions for you permanently and find my way.

Talk is cheap....

Every guy on here be forming boss...

No 2 n 3 is no1s biz...

You hv sex today or you have it tomorrow makes no difference...

2ndly, if i'm to be judged by my looks, I gat every gaddemn right to judge a guy by his looks. They say dont judge by wealth then dont judge by looks again? All u mentioned are kul but! It's a personal thing to create your scale of preference...

Lies...

Mama used "mine" pappa used "sweety", "sweetheart".

Their love/home inspires me

haibe: And what if he decides to change it yearly for you?

What if he refuses to buy you an expensive ring? you would cancel the engagement?

You'll rather buy a ring yearly than buy a good one that'll last 4 years? Abeg joor...

haibe: The fact that a man gives you a cheap ring does not mean he is not financially stable. One secret to prolonged and an exciting relationship is contentment and appreciation. What if he uses the money to plan for something better for you? You never can tell. I know a lot of couples who after spending a lot on engagement ring, do not share anything else valuable.

Just to let you know, if you aren't contented with the cheap ring he gives you, it may cause a lot of havoc in that relationship unknowingly because he surely b would never be happy with you.

A lot of marriage that has been successful is mainly as a result of contentment on the part of the couples.

You wanna do something more meaningful with the money rii? Then do just that n 4get engagement ring. I intend to wear the ring always so I dont need it washing away, mixing with sweat n getting into my pores biko.

Just don't deny me a good wedding band. I'm more particular about that.

Mehnnnn... she deleted your female contacts? really? N u proud to say it?
The problem is not your love for her but you are! Loving and caring aint the same as being a doormat. You need to stand up 4 yourself n if you have insecurity issues then work on your confidence. Don't let no body walk over you.

To the girl... hmm, all I have to say is, if you can't feel the love then it aint there! Simplez...

Ishilove: Well it happens very often here. You tie the lady down with a ring but refuse to do the needful because of different flimsy reasons.

I guess that's one mentality we have to get out of our heads... the "tied down" mentality. no1 used rope to put any1 in a dungeon(that's kidnap btw) and as far as you aint married? Girl u as single as the next sister without a boyfriend!

Although these things aint always black n white, some peeps actually get married after years n years of engagement n some don't. Guess we all gotta be careful as not to rush into misery or waste years waiting...

Buoyantic: with your kpomo mouth? Na expensive ring you dey find,u go old

Who r u n y should I care about your opinion?

Lee kwa nu epistles

Maka cheating nánì...

Imoy: U don't have to be beautiful or ugly.......



Jst knw how to fvck

Oh puleese put a dirty sock in it. After a while wont you guys still get tired of the "good" sex? The men allowed to marry 4 wives, dont they still cheat?

Ya'll keep making excuses 4 your silly behaviour.

obiscolly: See beef! I know deep down you so wish you were in her place.

Beef ke? Why? Coz he's a star? I dont wish to be in any1's place... was only making a joke...

So.... wha if u ugly? is he gon stay?

Na swallow e wan swallow the mouth?

A girl 20 n above or when she's ready 4 marriage, guy 25 n above or when he's ready 4 marriage. If you dont believe in the institution(like u dont ever wanna be married) then when ever you're made.

Believe it or not, "relationships" take away from you more than they add. Most times, it's just an excuse for guys n girls to get sex n girls to live above their height, waste valuable time, feel among and so on. You were shocked to see sm1 talk of emotional trauma but uhm, thats exactly wha you're gonna sign up 4(especially at your age) coupled with paranoia, obsession and when the butterfly feeling is gone? Resentment toward the said gf/bf then u break up n look 4 a replacement and the cycle continues.

Bottomline, you too damn young! Read your books and build your career now, if you're a Christian, it's time to fasten that seat belt. Think of ways to be a change in your environment and so on...

But hey! No teacher like experience rii? So do wha u want, this is just my opinion(and u asked 4 it).

joywendy: you are back

Yea... been a lil busy..

To the pic of the day....
An example of too much of everything is bad. Their outfits got potential but the denim is just in excess.

Katy's corset is just darling. Strip everything and add a deep blue big, full length skirt(not in denim tho) to that corset and i'd be in love.
For the riff raff, I like his jacket. Just a white pollo shirt n rocker pants could've pulled off the look.

Rii now, its just an epic fail...

smartchoice: Swerve either contribute or kip quiet..... This is y u fail exams!

Guess all i'm saying is leave my moniker out next time...

Ya'll gotta stop the mass mentions.

Like som1 said, the girl might not accept you. But like another guy said, you cant be just another random guy if you want her to.

You gotta consider age, are you older? If yes then one point 4 u.

Are you un-broke? Another point

Are you tall? Believe it or not, this will give u an edge.

Do you have a great sense of style? I dont mean wizkid type guys o! If yes then another point 4 you.

Are you street smart? This adds to the swagger I guess.

Are you book smart? This will come in to play if she is book smart too.

If your answer is yes on 3 or more of my questions then u can attempt. Its allot I know but if not, look 4 sm1 on your level or lower. Even 4 some gals on your level sef, u need the same criteria.

Such is life...

This tale of spoilt cali girls is just overrated jor...

Is he a successful business man? Mayb then i'll consider but then e go still hard. Y the emphasis on successful? Def not abt the money but if you didn't go to sch the only excuse should be that you found a greener route or if it was finance then I dunno o...

In short, I dont know... it's not a definite no or yes.

Gflat: I don't really mean kneeling to greet....i meant a way to honour the guy your are dating

Ha! The date? 4 what na? Is that the only way to show respect? Anyhoo, no...

Model pls... i dont like tiwa's hair, then the green purse n nude(or is that gold?) pumps? ha, what was she trying to achieve? Then the accessories are just too much

If I had this dress, i'll just go with black flats n silver studs, let the dress talk.

Tymax: [color=#5E2605]All these women empowerment threads sef. Even madam OP won't follow her advice if it happens.

"Nansense"[/color]

Women empowerment? Really?

So can u tell me how doing any of the above will help a cheating situation?

When people realise that other people's opinion about how to live their lives should'nt count, I think the world would be a better place.

Y do guys feel the need to always point out how a girl's life should be? Its kinda irritating. If a girl wants to get married at 18-20 yrs, that's her business, if she wants to get made first, fine! If she wants to wait till 30 it's still no1s damn business. You just gotta know that we hv different personalities and priorities n not try to make yours look like the best.

I dunno much about how things worked back then buh now, kneeling is a yoruba tn I guess, so...it aint my culture.

valkaka: you are just blowing everytin out of proportion based on biased mindset...very far from your personal discretions!!!....w@ of a scenario whereby d husband dont wana eat any food aside frm d one prepared by his wife??

That's my point, why would you not want to eat any other persons meal? That's what I'm tryna get.


@daretyyyy what if there is?