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Me like! It's gon be a short story right? And what do you mean by 'real story'? Like from experience?

PocketEconomist: This thread is becoming something else.

I'm telling you! Someone is even now suggesting that women rise to natural disasters and seek equality like wth?

At the end of the day, will one man marry every girl? Or will one girl marry every man? Its one woman, one man rii? Trust me, you'll find someone out of the 7 billion people that will suit you. Stop trying to push your values on other people be you feminist, chauvinist or tradititional.

Yea, I like her dark hair better she should either go back or go full blond coz this is not working for her.

Btw, where are the ladies? More coments please...

@misspea and thatgirlvixen I never knew I was a fashionista.lol

Kim k's outfit is just off to me. I know color blocking is 'in' now but the color of the shoe n skirt r dull and don't look right together. The tank top is too revealing but I guess that's cool for them and the make up? Hmm I've seen better on her plus she looks older unless the pic was taken from a bad angle.

Love the coat sha

No lectures here(UNICAL) yet but some depts released time table yesterday.

Happy married life!!!

It doesn't end here o, the road still far so just try your best to make sure your marriage works and lasts. Wish you luck!

Every girl here don get dimples sha

^^ lmao! Good point! This one guys are denying enjoying it and claiming its the conquest that drives them. I guess they've been conquering prostitutes too lwkm.

kandiikane: Yea, a slut nyashes for free and a prostitute gets paid.

Have you been a slut lately?

Well not in difinition but rather that one is better than the other.

As 4 your question NO. I believe I respect myself too much 4 that.

kandiikane: You still don't get the point.

If you get a woman easy, you complain, call her a slut ho etc
If she makes you work hard for her, you called her a prostitute.
I am certain many would rather be a prostitute that a slut.

I'm just now knowing that there is a difference between a slut and a prostitute

brightnelly: I love you adaeze

Awwww

jakesund: spoken like a true independent lady..
you rock!!!
finally a matured nairaland lady...
adaeze what can we do about the low life, greedy, dependent attention seeking girls on nairaland trying so hard to prove they are all that....
call the exterminator??

Lol @ exterminator. But the thing is that guys encourage it. If you don't wanna spend heavily then don't. It is really that easy. Buying gifts once in a while is ok and should be done by both parties according to pocket size but when a girl expects you to carry all her problems on her head? That's just silly.

To stop such mentality, girls should be encouraged to find something doing and make their own money. Also, they should learn to be content and cut their coats according to their cloth!

Poverty! Yep poverty. Just because they jump around looking flashy doesn't mean they have money. Some of them don't even eat @ home sef ts why they always want to eat out . It's all part of keeping up apearance and 'feeling among' so for it to continue, you have to give em your hard earned money .

I feel sorry for guys who spend more than half their salary just to keep a girl oh oh nope I don't feel sorry for em after all they get what they want .

Come to think of it, why are you guys complaining? I was on a thread the other day and guys were explaining to me why he can't date a classy girl. They said guys consider the amount of money they'll spend for her shopping by assessing their clothes, shoes and etc. That is to say that you guys walk into relationships with this mind set even before she asks so deal with it jor .

And if you don't want to/cant deal with it say NO! Shikina if she treatens you show her the damn door. Stop whining!!!

This thread is taking another turn. Not to be religious but I think to say 'I'm a Christian but I don't care if I sin or not' is just funny and ironic I must say.

And I agree with vicky in all she said @ Lez. Abstinence is a REAL solution. Ideal gases do not exist because the conditions are just IMPOSIBLE and you must know that the 'ideal gas' concept was just brought up to teach us scientific theories plus it is just scientists' version of what gasses should be fromed in an atempt to explain everything. But abstinence is real, people observe it so it is POSSIBLE. It has been there since time immemorial and it will continue to be. Do you believe people still abstain in america of all places? So leave that lost battle talk. Besides I see nothing fun in joining the crowd, I like to be different and life has been fun!

NB. I'm not agaist people doing what they please and like I said no one can impose anything on people, all you can do is state your view. Cheers ma peeps

Everyone wants likes for free

^Lmao! Your mouth will soon cut sha.

Well I am on twitter

Next poster is a player.

Lol @ tear panties and pull bra. When you finish exposing your 'womanliness' you'll still enter inside and life will go on. I'm glad most guys agree with me, others are just trying to ensure they continue their 'skin to skin' kini in peace.

Guys want their sex- they'll go unaffected.
Doctors and chemists(yea o that's where some to go and they just abort the womb) want their money- they'll go unharmed. This is a 'lawless' country.

Nuff said sha. She who has ears, let her hear.

No wooing tonight? How about the guys woo this time? After all its you guy's job

#following

Love tiwa's outfit! Only thing I would change is the shoes. Then maybe make the pants an inch or two inches longer.

Further analysis: I just have to add that this is the ideal love! The guy does not care about boobi n booty and the girl does not care about money

Op you funny sha...

^^ Lez being celibate does not mean you don't enjoy sex and the fact that you can do without it does not mean other guys can and it's like that for girls too. I still don't believe girls enjoy it more, maybe until a proper study is conducted(I don't know how). I'm a scientist and wa only believe facts

Chomzy19: Ooh please sweery don't let them convince you u can't have them all, you can n you will have them all if you are wise and do d necessary things everythinking human being should do... Besides all these girls who engage in premarital sex most actually still end up wit d lil dicks wen they are desperate enuff for marriage and dia big satisfying dick is not ready for marriage abi na u go marry d man??

As an intern when you ask most of this women who complain of small penis, he can't get it up, early ejaculation.. Did they nt sleep wit their spouse b4 marriage as a routine question most of them will say yes they did... For some d problem seemed to develop after marriage buh for most they were ready for marriege than, n he had everything they wanted in a man xcept dt and he was so rich blah blah blah, for others most of their friends hv gotten married n they were just tired of dating...

Lol! I refuse to be confused conviced with shady points.

saintneo: this thread is strong o

I can dilute it if you like.

thymedcurry: Well it all depends on you and what you want...if you view sex as an important in your relationship why would you settle for someone that bores you to death on bed just because you don't want to remain single forever and you want to stop wagging tongues from talking about you.
You trade in your happiness to make other people comfortable. Total BS!
A man never settles for less in a relationship but why do women settle for same? I just don't understand!

Well yea it depends on individuals and to me, happiness is much bigger than sex alone. If sex is all that matters to you in a MARRIAGE then pls by all means, sample till you find the the right penis.

@mr Aboki to conquer the punnani rii? We're saying the same thing.

@Emmyd25 her case is even worse, she knows they won't even end up together SMH. If something happens to her now who will she blame?

Mr Aboki: Are you a Virgin?!

If yes: Then I understand..

If No: Then who is it that moans the loudest during intercourse>!

Ah... Oga, my status changes nothing.

As for the moanings, so girls being loud means they enjoy it more? If I hear. If the guys don't enjoy it why would they go through all the trouble? Tell lies, spend heavily, buy gifts to lure small girls, borrow cars to impress and all that... that is to say they do all these for girls? Please, who is deceiving who?

thymedcurry: Oh pulllzzzz! Ladies have sex as much as you want anytime you want. Never be scared of your sexual prowess! If a guy thinks he is using you well too bad for him cause you are using him too!
But beware. Be smart and safe with it. Protection is key. And at all times use ur head and not ur heart.
Btw ladies, if you are about to get married, don't listen to this talk of abstinence... sample that tool and make sure it works perfectly fine to your satisfaction before your wedding night. No one wants to pull down those pants and see her pinky finger dangling in front of her or have a 2min man as a husband.
A lot of guys are all talk with Lil peens. Since marriage is a lifetime institution you shouldn't be burdened with a lifetime of a small peen that is too Lil to work.
Only the smart ones would understand me and the stupid ones wld be found checking out other guys packages and wishing the one they had at home was as big...

Ehm... Abstinence is a choice and a personal one, no one can force it on another person even if they wanted to. If you had read the first post you would ve understood me better. I'm just saying in all the prowess, keep your self safe!

And may I ask how you know you're about to get married? Like will you marry yourself? Or is it when you're of age and dating? What if after sampling the relationship doesn't work out? Or is it when he puts a ring on it then sampling begins? Lmao! You've not heard of those who wore rings for 3 yrs without marriage abi? Just browse romance section and you'll find such topics. If you guys are meant to be, it'll work out whether you sample or not.

And what if the one you're sampling isn't good enough? Onto the next na? Then the next is ok but not as satisfying? Then unto the next rii? You'll keep sampling till you find the one that takes you to cloud nine? Then what if you're just a side chick to the best of em? Unto the next...

Chomzy19: ooh Please can you show us this "SCIENTIFICAL PROVE" I'd like to know how it was carried out? Who did it? And the method used to carry out dis research? I'll also like to find out why the parties who enjoy sex d less seem to be the ones who are willing to do anything to get it like LIE, cheat, punch their hommies, promise heaven n earth, sell their birthright , invest dia last card in a brothel, turn to MUGu 50 all to 'get some'

Don't mind that dude. Who were the scientists that carried out the experiment? I guess that's another lie circulating now.

I guess if I had come here to encourage abortion he would ve been happy.

rigarmortis: why all this victim mentality by girls nowadays.

he takes care of bills and stuff.

you fall in love.

you both do "it"

infact it is scientifically proven that you enjoy it more.

he takes you out again.

and you "take in"

and you want him to "take you as you are"....even though you know he is not ready.


puh-lease......park well

there is no mad person on the streets on moscow

Lol... I'm not sure you know what is happening here.

lomaxx: Nobody forced her to prove "her love". It was her choice.

So if he decide to 'wife' someone else, he's making his choice too. He doesn't need to be forced/compelled.

Anyone who doesn't like the terms is free to walk.

Hope girls can see this! We need to wise up and take responsibility for our bodies! Your body is yours until you're married so take care of it and do what is best for YOU. Yep, be selfish! Guys don't care even if you die in the process.

@Mynd I know that.

@Lez, I don't think your vibration is necessary. If you don't care if it's sin or not then by all means go ahead. My thread is about safty and self protection.

And uhm, even wikipedia listed abstinence as a birth control method the most effective for that matter so you're more or less babbling.

rigarmortis: yes OP...abortion is a proof of love.

if a girl loves a guy and "mistakenly" got preggy for the same guy....

if the guy is not ready to settle down...due to some reasons.......(working on a project that requires full attention, masters degree, has not built his house etc,) then the girl should be able to prove her love and abort the foetus before it becomes a baby.

yes.....its a proof of love.

We're trying to see that that 'mistake' does not happen in the first place. 2ndly, after prooving her love how do you repay her? By dumping her behind when its time for marriage rii? SMH