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lucenzo

lol! Had a great laugh reading through this. Gurl, this is cwazy.
On a more serious note, guys are as confused as they think girls are! On the 'should a girl do chores for her fiancé' thread they were barking at girls who said no so I really wander why this isn't a best case scenario for them. Lol..

too damn long.

1. Fresh dude
2. Lucenzo

just cant pick one from the other groups. Maybe I'll make up my mind later.

Its obvious that you truly love this gurl but there's a big problem and you know it.
I think that you should be talking to her about your worries cos you are only trying to make us see reasons with you by telling us how wonderful your life is with her. Really sorry to say this but in this case, the bad definitely outweighs the Good.
Marriage is a big step and is not about two people isolating themselves from the rest of the world( i'm sure this will be a best case scenario for her) but its about uniting two families and if she cant accommodate your family then that's a problem. Also, She is carving and moulding her perfect man out of you. I know you dont see anything wrong with that but in marriage you are gonna have to do EVERYTHING her way. If i keep typing you'll be too lazy to read my post so lemme conclude by saying you really need to tell her about your worries also, this might be a serious case of OCD as stated earlier so look into it. Goodluck.

Mrbrownjay- serious n mature
Ikekings- nl hotie n cool flirt
sexkillz- no nonsense kinda guy. Says what's on his mind regardless. Kinda miss the e-fights sha.
190- a clown indeed. Never serious and always poking naija gals(funny)
De_Explorer - need I say more?

Gree-die, vivianchinaza, ishilove, Nayah(where art thou) - strong, smart and intelligent gals.
Abil , shollypopz- nl cutiez, no nonsense smart gals.
idowuogbo- need I say more? Funny and really raz (though the fun is almost always at the expense of others).
onila-proud of herself and wouldn't change to please no one, smart and rumoured to be pretty!.
goldieluks, freecocoa, hotietima- where are y'all @?

the answer is in your question. One is 'fictional' and the other is 'reality'

well I just cant pick one. Mrbrownjay is one dude that has his head in the right place and De_Explorer is really creative and has made this section fun. They kinda comlement eachother like serious+fun. Lol! Anywayz may the best man win..

CFCfan: @Adaeze003: Biko tunyere vote gi for CFCfan. I ga bu Adaeze 1 of nairaland

#teamCFCfan#

aiit.

1. Moonraker n nuttyhinc
3. Jnr prof
4. Flashaldrin
5. Dopejemi n ikekings
6. izukwu
7. Mskata
8. lucenzo (like damn!)
9. Dondav n cfcfan
10. Duke nija

I have to choose him and he has to choose me.

some guys are just meant for the 'friends zone'

Aint nothing wrong with dating a neighbour but dont date her! From the look of things, it seems you only like her Cos she likes you and you feel guilty for not returning the nice gestures. Its all in the mind bro. Think about it, if truly love her you wont be here seeking permission. My half cent.

sweetlemon
#really swt

btw why are the guys claiming too tough/cool for love? Anyway its nairaland..

franchizy: Me I fall in love but my girlfriends no dey fall for me, they only come to my shop, take cream, soap, perfumes and make ups but wen I ask dem to make love wit me they always say they are seeing there period. And now my shop is folding yet I ve not made love to any though I'm still beging and some have promise me this christmas

Lmao !!! You cannot be serious! lawd have mercy! Dont worry, when they come to your house they'll empty it and promise you new year.

Patdedon: On your wedding night

need I say more?

gree-die has said it all! Just cant imagine myself shouting on or even fighting another girl for a guy. My self control and pride wont let me(i hope). Its just sad!

UncleJJ: IF YOU WONT DO IT, SOMEONE ELSE WILL DO IT..

lol! Like that's supposed to change my mind

Sleek05: Thank sis, u jus kiled d topic. God bless u plenty!

Ishilove: Na by force?

@adaeze003, you have said it all.

thanks y'all

free2ryhme: how did you pass your exams anyway.. what part of the post dont you understand?

have you not heard of option c) all of the above?

I think girls that are romantic can handle the not-so-romantic guys. But what about girls that aint so romantic? Using myself as an example, I believe I'm 80% Responsible and to have a guy who is all about the responsibility as a husband will just be disastrous. As we'll just be walking around the house like robots.lol!
And uhm being romantic means showing affection n its not just about opening the door and buying flowers.

To all the dudes in the house: if you aint romantic, you should learn how to be or at least make the effort to be. If not your girl might just start thinking of how romantic her ex was and b4 you know it, she's calling him and that's NOT a good sign! My one cent.

[quote author=D-Explorer]Wait for the next round. The thread is coming up soon, we're done here [/quote]aiit...

[quote author=*Kails*]you have a point.
at the end of the day whether or not she lied
is not the reason we are all here. it's petty!!

this is about the contest..let's focus on that!!! [/quote]I think so too.
A lil

Well gonna nominate now. Hope I aint late.
G.1- sweet lemon
G.2- abil
G.3- dolz and skydeep
G.4- tashamania
G.5- priceless gem

tpacalipse: Don't mind them. A lot of these edeeots complaining about doing chores will give all they have to do it only if they can land a fiance. But the proplem is that they aint gat and can never have. They will die single.

lmao.. Bro don vex! Lol can't believe I almost missed the party. Sorry broda but we won't die single.
Read something about Africans and 'our culture'. Now let me remind him about the African culture. In the east, you're not allowed to have your fiancee in your house till after your trad marriage and in the south, till after the white wedding so forget this trash about spending the weekend if you wanna talk about culture. Now, after marriage is when she is meant to be your helper as another person said/wrote woman means helper lol! If so why not ask any 'woman' for help? Its only after marriage that this woman is meant to help you as you two have become one. Help means to aid if I'm not wrong and that means you must be doing part of the work. In this case, it means the both of you JOINING forces to have a successful MARRIAGE and if her part is to do chores then its no big deal.
About the spending issue, y should a guy spend money on a girl that's not his wife? Its simply because he wants her love but uhm money can't buy you love but it can get you a cleaner . Sometimes, girls are to blame. He's buying your hair, furniture and bought you a lappy/bb then y won't you clean his house and wash his boxers? Lol. Its all in the mind, he's giving you and you feel a need to do something in return(sometimes its as bad as giving your body).
Guys should even be careful about girls who just walk into their lives and start doing the dishes cos she might just be after the marriage.
Bottomline... Washing and sweeping for you is not the only way a woman can show that she's 'wife material' if she always appears neat, her home is always clean, and she serves you delicious meals when you VISIT her odds are she will take care of your home just fine.

Julieccentric: With your several blunders,I wonder the type of ladies that accept to date you.#smh

LMFAO

Lol! Why are some nl guys crying na?
I see nothing wrong with this advise, its only common sense. But unfortunately some of our girls have sold theirs (common sense) for love. Nice piece! Gonna publish this

onila: https://sphotos-b.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/268239_439842676056618_1272276239_n.jpg

Mine
Some of em have TOO MUCH make up on.

ijebabe: I find this too funny and incredulous to even get offended

lol.. Me too!

# joining the celebration.
Congratulations to the red team. So happy because we share the same view!
Congratulations to the blue team's very own MBJ. Good job..