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@topic, no I can't.

Happy birthday...

Not in naija. Anyone who does has deep rooted/spiritual issues.

Are you a learner??

How romantic...

'I love your shoe'
Girls wear sick shoes these days



Btw all these lines are wack! But I had fun reading tho...

[quote author=Mercy-u]She said d guy is hot tempered,beats her,and anytime they quarel,d bf will destroy every single thing hes ever bought 4 her.[/quote]Lawd have mercy!! I know luv can be weird but let this love not take her to an early grave o. Talk to your friend missy, she should run for her life!

Siena: It's all about individual choice. I have nothing against the larger women, or the slimmer ones, what's most important is how they feel about themselves; if they're happy with themselves, then what the world and his wife think shouldn't matter.
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This makes allot of sense to me. Confidence is the key!

Oldest trick in the book.. Ts a pity you fell for it!
if I were you, I'd toss her aside. Not coz she's not a virgin but coz of the lie.

tny60: see your life. you have exposed yourself as the one with inferiority complex here.
if it annoys you so much, why not go and give the girls money to do their weaves properly? why are you so concerned with their hair? are they your girlfriends?

Don't mind him jor.. Dude nor get case.

I'm not worked up, just wandering how one can think in only one direction.
As for what tny60 said,I just don't wanna believe that the only thing on a woman's mind is men. Or maybe I'll speak for myself. I don't use weaves because I want to attract men. In my opinion that's just lame! After attracting him with hair, what next? Come to think of it, can hair alone attract a man? Hmm.. People really have to start thinking of what's truly important.

Frostyzone: Even if some guys style their hair in Mohawk fashion, it's still all their hairs, no attachment.
And last time I checked Mohawk originated from native Amerindian culture. It has nothing to do with the West whatsoever.
As for fashion trends, their is nothing wrong with looking good and trendy, so far as you do it in an original manner. Our men tend to be more original than the ladies in that department.
Atleast you don't see us attaching fake hairs to our hairs to look good.
Fact is, the ladies will look much better without them if only they will have the patience to cultivate and groom their own hairs.
Every year Africa imported wigs more than all the other continents put together.
Why so dependent on fake hairs? Mostly because they feel unreasonably insecure with their own.
So it all boils down to inferiority complex, Sis.

So now we are also insecure? Wtf? Like seriously, what are you going on and on about? Its not bad to look trendy but girls use weaves coz they're insecure? how is it possible that you have never thought of it as part of the trends and fashion? Why are you being myopic over a trivial issue?
You also said that girls in your family use weaves,does it also mean that they(and 90% of girls in nigeria) are all insecure?
What about white gurls that use extensions? Is it also due to inferiority complex?
"Opinions are like arse holes, every one has one"

I'm a proud Nigerian so I'm gonna answer your question with a question.
What about the mohawk hair style I now see on you guys' head?
What about all the fashion trends that started from the west?
Is inferiority complex also the cause?
Call it fake or anything just don't use the inferiority complex line..

Frostyzone: No, they are not. It's just that inferiority complex is playing a big part in their fashion sense, that's all.

Everything is now caused by inferiority complex. Mtcheew!

congrats sk

not that i'm looking to get married in 2013 buh I'm just tryna picture myself on a date drinking water @op should we use straw? Abi plastic cup?? Or just suck it out of the bottle?? Lol! You peeps won't kill me with advice..

DailyNews: The more u daydream and make long list of the things u want in a potential partner, the more pains u face and the more unhappy u will be thinking and wishing. Stop daydreaming and make urself adorable, n there won't be need for u to dream cos ur dreams will come chasing u. Wake up guyz, we are entering 2013, year of reality!

saying it over and over again does not mean people are gonna listen. Its just for fun dude, relax. Some people dont even mean what they are typing.

@idowu, free the boys let em have their fun

cant believe it made it to the front page. Thanks to those that made it possible.
@lalalosky, I'm blushing. Hehe
@all, thanks for contributing(negatively and positively) and Happy xmas

andyanders: @Adaeze003(f)

I hope the legs displayed in your pic. enclosed is not yours because if it yours, then you must be an ugly lady and shouldn't be looking for any kind of quality from any man, rather, begging to be loved at all cost.

Na only beautiful and educated ladies with good character that will put up this topic. Go drink gari joo

#covers face# and I thought the pic was swt. Lol! Your opinion just cant bug me sha.

lalaosky: nice topic...i've no choices for now.i guess i'll just read other people's choices and learn.might come in handy if i deceide to tow 190 and D-explorer's path(chasing women up and down the forum)

lol! I hope you won't

seunfly: see where many girls missed it, of what good are those things you mentioned if he lack good character and lack love for you and every body around him.
You see everything you mentioned here will be use against you if he has got no good heart. his inteligence, look, physic, wealth and what ever you mentioned here will give you serious problem without his kind heart, Godly character and love for you and everybody around him.

try to read and understand the topic before commenting(#stop trying to be an ITK) . Thanks

Hmm..

lord kpakpando: Weder she is a Virgin or not let her just tell me the truth before marriage becos if not it will definitely lead me to divorce

ladies should see this! Deceit might not be tolerated..

P4VS20: She should be cute, cute, very cute, her beauty should flow from the inside out. crazy for God, not religious. she should be intelligent not smart or cunny, ability to make her own decisions, supportive, have a good sense of humor (has got her own jokes and can make me laugh), generous, teachable, has a team spirit, core values, she should have a vision that makes me wanna support her n be there for her, not for temporary things but things that leave a legacy for her children and grandchildren, a long term thinker not short term. she should have her own goals, working class with a focus on her home.

body structure: average height with apple or onion booty. hmmmmm!

can do without/overlook:

complexion
eloquence
wealth
angry black woman syndrome
small bbs
she wanting to have her way, she can have her way cos it would be for reasons i might not even understand.

"a happy wife is a happy home, an angry husband is long nights at the office, more overtime for the secretary - happy secretary"

glad you came back to drop yours after seeing but uhm this list is just too much don't you think? Me thinks this is the ideal version, lets see the real one

Callotti: Awwwwwwwwwwwwww. . . . . You get time o!
Nor be Nigerian man? When dem wanno 'waka'. . .dem go begin pick unecessary 'fights' hiarrandia! OLD TRICK!
YOU MOVE INTO ANOTHER BEDROOM TOO. . .simple!
This is what I call EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL. . . .I don't give into such crrrrrrrrrrrrrap!
Na club I see so! Nne. . . opportunity comes but once.
THIS IS YOUR CHANCE TO CLAIM 'NEGLECT' instead of 'THE DEVIL MADE ME DO IT'!

Get a goooooooooooooooooooooooood lover. . . before he changes his mind!

If you are a Christian or Muslim. . . too bad!
"Confession of sins" has never been my greatest strength!
Chop and clean both mouth and nyansh is my motto!

Don't be afraid of your future!
Anyone brave enough to get married SHOULD BE SUPER-BRAVE ENOUGH TO CONTEMPLATE DIVORCE!
MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE TO THE NEXT ONE. . . Simple!
Never let ANYONE mess with your self-esteem!

wow!

essy daniels: it is one tin 2 b inteligent and anoda 2 b educated. Wel,he must inteligent and educated. And his personality matters.tall and chocolate/tan in colour.eloquence matters also. I can do without*scratches the head*dnt knw 4 nw. But d tin is dis: i'll find ma dream man wit d ryt qualities dat i can cope with.

guess I have to add educated to my list too..

lol @ pleasant to the eye.
Nice list...

Complements of the season y'all.
So we all have the idea of a perfect guy/girl in our head but in reality we know that person might not exist. For example it's difficult to find a guy who is tall, light skinned , handsome, sexy, rich, loving, faithful, romantic, intelligent and so on which is what some girls(including me) want and it might be difficult to find a girl that will Suit you(the guys) 100% so most times we have to overlook/erase some qualities to ensure happiness or for any other reason we date.
The point of this thread is to share/discuss the quality(ies) we can overlook and those we must have from the list below and uhm its just for fun
1. Looks(facial)
2. Physique(specify)
3. Wealth
4. Personality(specify)
5. Intelligence
6. Eloquence
7. Complexion
8. Other(any other that's not on the list)

Its only reasonable that I start. So, must have:
Intelligence and eloquence.
physique ie should be tall(my height or taller) and at least attractive.
Personality ie mr nice guy/gentle man.
Can do without/overlook:
looks iff other qualities are almost complete and complexion

over to You!
Yes you!

Lol! Like they dont see it on tv(even in cartoons). Peck on the lip is fine but a french kiss will just gross em out like eew..

op I aint trying to diss you but I just wanna let you know that you will NEVER marry the most beautiful gal in naija talk less of the world. There's always gonna be someone better so if that will make you quit your relationship or cheat then your wife to be is in for a ride(wouldn't wanna be her)#

stolen stone: Honey mooooo

for some reason, I said this with a thick igbo accent. Hehe..