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omidhe: To me , that depends solely on the two parties involved. If both can wait , fine then , if they can't what the hell , knock it off and enjoy it . Have seen ppl who dated for years without it , and end up not getting married , while some do it for years and still end up happily married . It goes vice versa . So it solely depends on the ppl involved , understanding , respect and maturity are the keys

fem30: Foolish men would.

Exponental: Respect urself!

RuuDie: It works both ways. . .she's equally just wasted four years of her life too!

prisc: yea, cause lots of girls out there are seeing a guy who isn't committed to them, and I wonder why.could it be love blinding or stupidity or is it that *confused*

Witty07: Is it our tradition to sample u sex wise b4 marriage, hmm.
And where was it written that men should do nothn

bettymafy: He's romantic and helps with house chores and u still call him a "traditional" man? If that is how "traditional" men are, then who wants a "modern" man?

Witty07: First of all... U are a kid for talking about intercourse b4 marriage. That's why I said u women lack understanding.
If u are a christain dwell on this
“Role of the Wife in the Bible
"encourage the young women to love their
husbands, to love their children, to be
sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being
subject to their own husbands, so that the
word of God will not be dishonored." Titus
2:4-5
"get married, bear children, keep house" 1
Timothy 5:14
"But women will be preserved through the
bearing of children if they continue in faith
and love and sanctity with self-restraint." 1
Timothy 2:15

ATMC: ok, i thought you meant one year of trying to...i for fear o

braine: Ladies are insatiable!

sexkillz: [color=#000030]And to properly answer your childishness, if someone speaks bad about your people and still maintains his relationship with you, don't you think he really loves you, against all odds? And against what he says? He hasn't spoken bad about you, or has he?

You are not here to complain about how he mal treats or dis respects you, are you? You already put your people above yourself and would choose to defend your people over him because of the things he says about them online. Smh. Don't you think you need a self evaluation about your feelings for him?

A wise lady would rather concentrate on making her self stand out in his sight, making herself a shining example, thereby, making him swallow his words about what he said about your people because of the different way you acted out of the norm he was accustomed to, from your people.

But here you are, messkafoing. . . It really is a pitiable dismal pismal.[/color]