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Everyone is saying infidelity and violence but I'll only believe the guys because most gurls basically eat poo from guys for a living. Smh

Lol!

Ignatio: Love works like magic. You don't know when it takes over and controls you. On the other hand you can't know how it leaves you.

I really doubt this. I think 'attraction' works like magic and not love. Therefore, the attraction fades like magic. Making sense?

Don seraphic: [font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] just bring her out at a busy road. Then give her a dirty resounding Slap, if she slaps back dont talk to her just leave but if she did not back kneel down in dat busy road and propose to her.. Reason: this way you will marry a more respectful wife.
OR
Take her to a river, paddle her to the middle of the stream then say to her. Marry me or leave my boat.

I knw I aint the one, just saying how I'll respond if it were me...
@1. I'm gonna leave you right there n walk away. This one you have to slap her to prove that shez respectful, heaven only knows what you'll do when trouble comes.
@2. Well I'm gonna swim off.

pDude: The OP said I am a dog eh? Ok. If you see the mugu wey my first girlfriend for 100 level use me do, you go cry. Instead of me to be reading my books, na Idia hall I dey go every evening go see the babe. Na so she dump me like used pant and started following one 300 level guy. For like 2 years, I was still trying to recover from heartbreak. I had never loved anybody like her before and she used my love to play me mugu. Na so she even tell her roomates say I be 'efulefu'. Can you imagine

You just confirmed my theory.. Players were once played. Not so bad/tough after all.. Lol!


@ op, at this rate you'll blow up."If you hate shyt so much just stay out of the to!let" and you'll be fine.

Idowuogbo: all na runz.. she dey collect pocket money.

Na wa sha

ashmanpolo: Em... Adaeze i don't recycle stories.

Dear brother, I didn't say you did. I only said the story is strangely familiar. Took me back to the hostel chit chats...

sweetrace: Crazy love my foot. Pedophile!!!

My dear o.. All these old men won't leave kids alone and the kids don dey tear eye anyhow! Wander what an 18 year old is doing with a 33 year old man.

korel9: 15 years

Will be 18 this year

Its obvious that she is very immature in every sense of the word so pls sir,with all due respect, leave the baby alone!!!

There's something fishy about this story. Apart from the fact that I've heard it before with different names and location, how can a so called friend not know his fiancée? Besides some people you call friends might just be wolves in sheep clothing or maybe the info was true as in, she used to date the married man but she stopped. Your friend should ask his gf first before jumping to conclusion.

[quote author=gree-die]ok. pls explain how? is it cz of d generalization?
it happened to anita and so many odas. y any girl ll still make d same mistake is beyond me...


anyways, i dnt know, maybe im just foolish.[/quote]Hey. You got me wrong. I just made it bold to stress your point. I referred to the action the guy wants to take as foolish not you or your point cos I agree with ya. Hope you now understand..

[quote author=gree-die]uhm....yes d guy is heartless and d girl is foolish!!!
wt kind of yeye love ll mk a girl pose nude for a guy?girls ll never learn.[/quote]@ post.
That's just foolish.

When you screw around, you get screwed...

binger: With the way you mentioned your tribe with pride,it is okay to infer that most igbo girls are in love with money.i don't like this...nne,i na echu afa.

Lol!

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]God surely took his time when he was creating Dwayne Johnson[/quote]I agree

Don't let anyone push you into marriage. Just make sure its what you want!

Old gist... Why not let them be? If they start chasing barrow pushers and carpenters how is it anyone's business?

We all have standards men and women alike its part of being human. I mean, guys are free to search for who they want and gurls as well the only problem is that gurls are on the receiving side. Also, don't be too fast to judge any single woman in her 30z because it just might be because of time wasters and guys they loved playing them. Or is a girl to know who is gonna play her and who is gonna marry her at first sight? We're are all humans and making mistakes is part of the game so live em alone.

They aint so bad na... But op r they that skinny or ts the picture?

Lmao!!!

kuphid: Wow! I just love you for this explanation...well said

Couldn't agree more!

And sexkillz really nice as well. I agree with every word in your post

Only guys are spilling the beans but I hear girls talking about love almost everyday..hmm

[quote author=acidosis™]we have two types of LOVE...
1. symbiosis-type of love
2. agape love

The agape type of love is the type God has for his children.. the type he asked us to show our neigbour 's daughter.

The symbiosis type is that kind of LOVE that leads to either a broken relationship or a broken home, either way, something must break.. Its the type where you love someone for what you can get (recharge card, s. €x, money, cars, marriage, children, ring, etc)



Yes there is something like "The One", but bear this in mind - anyone can be "The One", even a mad man/woman can be the ONE.. and you can have as many as possible "The One" anytime you loose the present "The One".



Our grand parents never had access to the social networking sites like Nairaland, facebook, twitter etc and Education these are the reasons for break - ups. A typical 9ja girl has atleast 3 boyfriends on each social networking site plus 2 boyfriends each in different offices around her and one boyfriend each in her bank locations.. one in her church, one on campus...one in different faculties

now, when shes ready to get married, it becomes very difficult to settle down with ONE..
Its like eating turkey and all of a sudden you are asked to start eating N30 stock fish..



LOVE knows no HATRED.. People that claims to love you would hate you when they stop getting that ONE thing that made them love you.. It means they only love a part of you [money, looks, beauty, character, the way you make her smile, your ability to crack jokes, humility, etc][/quote]Wow! This kinda contradicts all that 'love' stands for and really got me laughing. Anyways thanks for sharing your view (as weird as it is).

I've heard allot about love and I'm sure you all have too. I've been thinking about all I've heard and I came up with a few questions.

1. Does love exist?
I have come across many posts on nl where people said 'love does not exist' and this is shocking to me because I don't believe that people just bump into each other,get married and live happily. Maybe those who believe it doesn't exist can put me through.

2. Is there anything like 'The One'?
Is there someone out there specifically made for each and every one of us? This is a confusing concept because some men become priests and some women rev sisters, a few others decide that they'll remain single because they want to 'enjoy' life. What happens to their significant other?

3. Can one really love someone enough to live with the person for ever/is love enough for marriage?
It's a fact that most of our parents and grand parents didn't really 'fall in love' before they got married but they stayed married for long and some till death. But in this generation where people 'fall in love' before getting married divorce is in every corner, why?

4. Can love really die?
How can one say he/she loves someone one day and hate her/him the next day? What kills love?

All these questions can be summed up in one, how does love work?

Looking forward to informative posts.
Just wanna know what you think.
Yes YOU.

WTF??

I think its the players and the so called 'bad boys' that are insecure. And most of them are fake! They just put on this lousy (in my opinion) personality coz they think its cool.

The story kinda reeks!!!

WHEN LOVE DIES,REALITY SETS IN..

Before you think of a divorce, try committing to your marriage. Ask all the people who have been married for more than 20 yrs and they'll tell you that love is not enough in marriage. That's why our parents laugh sometimes when we talk of love.

Think of the reasons you fell in love in the first place and always remind yourself of those things when you look at her, take her out or on a vacation, talk to her and try to stay calm while talking, do fun things together,just try something! Don't just give up so fast.

You talked of church marriage, that means you're a Christian so pray and don't cease!

Life is not a ferry tale! You might divorce and remarry and the same thing will happen...
Make an effort man! Nothing good comes easy!!