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See Confusion in the Middle East. Everyone Scatter Scatter, Some people run run run.

a country that is 30 times smaller in population and size than lagos state? is this a country? imagine the leaders primitively dressed or robed in hides and skin to show case what their country has to offer while Bill Gate is thinking of how to Abandon USA and Recolonize Africa to position himself as the largest Tech and IT investors in the world taking over the African market unrivalled because alot of us are dead in our head and cant think. I sorry sorry for Africa. Africa is almost a disgrace

when the enemy of ur enemy is with u, be cool. but when the friend of ur enemy is dealing in business with u, dont be afraid, dont run, just remove your cap and shoes and fly away if you can.

Buharri only achieved one thing which am happy for, deterring the activities and advancement of bokoharam to all Nigerian states, but in fighting corruption as part of his campaign manifestos, it is zero, economic revamp zero.

Am sorry to say that The Buharri administeration and ambition has been internally sabotaged and compromised. Its really a big pity that his barking dogs is now a toothless barking dog. this was why Pastor Tunde Bakare backed off Buharri from inception and washed his hands off Buharri when he aligned himself with the wrong pact just to get in power. Its really a pity when a man eat from his enemy's plate. its really a big pity as Nemesis and the days of reckoning can be unsparing with its swords. You can never be too smart eating with the devil. Its more like the lesser of the 2 evil option. you cant eat your cake and have it Mr President.

When your friends begins to take their bow and walk out on you, there's nothing more honourable and at the same time disappointing as this politically treacherous part. You have eaten from your enemy's plate. To dine with the devil is a life time indebtedness because you continue to fail in all you do. The Enemy has eventually fought back and won with its more subtle strategic options. How treacherous and bewitching is the dirty game of politics Exchanging Bishop, Rooks, Kings, And Queens for Pawns

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Remember The Laguage far back 1983 by Buhari and Idiagbon, quoted and rephrased in Fela Kuti Song, Animal in Human Skin, "My people are useless, my people are senseless, my people are indiscipline? which kind talk be that Let just say the old man is tired of pressure from both left and right. Am sure by now Buharri must have thrown in his towel for 2019 electoral rerun

*"My Misty Violet Moon Of Spring Night By The Oak field Avenue In Throes of Buttercup."*

Like the subligerian to adorn our mortal coil by day and our Shadow by night to trail our path in cloves of Cherry Blossom Under the Musk of our Violet Night.

like the Spades lodged in the heart of man and fish at sea and torches shines forth our fleeting days by dawn and dusk of Spears, lance and Seamen On an Expedition Voyage to a new found world fluttering with butterflies and weightless musical love notes graceful in the air with dews heavy in the Caspian rapids and cascades depths.

like the soft whisper of wind and Tingling Ocean Currents sweeping our oaring and graceful libertine

May heaven continue to grace our field with barleys of gold and distilled heart smothered with unfettered glitters of diamonds, emeralds and sapphire like the potent flames of subliminal ethanol gas and liquor pressured in can, caged in glass, chandeliers and bereaved voices in sunken red scribes.

In glee and wee, we look into the future with a warm, tart and crossed heart, What we would always have is a betrothed bouquet of graceful laughter, faint in the shadow and meadow gone with the wind in the tomb of our scented innocence.

Like the Mornings of May blessed dew in crotchet of Cauliflower, May my love never leave you like a brazen Oak but fastened like a fluttering flag standing a new everyday by her first sworn beloved country and birth ground.

More than the breadth and depth of expanse of land and Sea. May the memories of our love find rest in the green paged chronicles and hard covers of novelty to date 3000 years to come.

May our unsung love be pampered with the misty moon of spring by night enveloped in estranged giddiness, pursued in breathed sigh of relieve like the quietness of the calm and balm of the depths of the deep blue sea.

Like the memoirs lines, Scars and Stars of Vicomtese Josephine de Beauharnais of 1796, and Josephine Baker of 1925, memoirs of Genjis and Oborozukiyoso with Kokiden, so defined is my love in a variable cherry scented scarlet sky, black and vexed by lightning to love unclouded blue at the foot of the Himalayans plains and mountain heights waiting unconquered as a Cavalier wager

As the object of my thoughts, my imagination exhaust itself in guessing what you are doing right now at clock hand in Dandelion and Daisy Colors of banal distance white light house and red ribbon flag.

Reflective Bit:
Africa has long been divided before 1600&1898 when black slavery was trending; The Colonial Masters only saw it & took advantage of it. Today, long after the Colonial Masters had left us, the weight & Scars of Slavery & Division is now by far worse as it is now meted by Africans on Africans. As we blame our misery on God, Satan, Other's & government, how can we win when 98% of every African home, Community & tribe is divided?


Written By Adewale O.

I have contemplated writing this for long for Many years and Today I felt this long overdue burden must be unveiled. It is easy for any one to yarn for change but the true change is a big task that requires a sincere purging process and perspective of life. Reading through this piece will tell us that 99.9% of Nigerians are not ready for the needed change come 2019 as Nigerians are already condition to the lies of politicians which always makes us an open book and an accomplice in the corruption circus funfair games making us both the electorates and the elected a pack of corrupt crusaders in the aid and abait cultural cycle.

Nigerians Wake up & Open your eyes, 2019 is around the corner and as we all are getting set and polishing our PVC to go for another round of poll, I would want us to be all ever sensitive to the games of the regular politicians who like to profit from the share ignorance of the people.

When we say Nigeria is corrupt, then we need to first define the true meaning of corruption because it is most likely that 99.9% of Nigerians are corrupt, and when you build a country with the element and character of the least poverty stricken man in Nigeria with a greedy vain, covetous and insatiable minded fellow by night, be ready for stories of looted government treasury and political office by dawn.

Here are a few things to watch out from political Aspirants and candidacy who feel the government is their inheritance.

1. Anyone who uses hate speech and is unreserved in words no matter who the person could be, be it your brother or sister or mother, please desist casting your vote to such persons because these are people who would lead the nation to anarchy.

2. Any Politician who is quick to go for Holiday or Medical treatment in Barbados or Bahamas, USA Europe, UK or UAE, Rome, Jerusalem, Mecca or Saudi Arabia, believe me such persons do not deserve your vote because these are people who will never pay attention to the failing social infrastructures in the country and will fail to head to the needs of the labour or worker union in the country.

3. Any politician or political Aspirant whose children have gone or are schooling abroad in the USA, Europe, Gulf Countries, or in Saudi Arabia, or married to a white or a foreigner, believe me you would not like to be caught gambling giving your vote to such persons because they will surely run an expensive government of the elites only for those who can afford it thereby pushing the children of the poor masses to the lagoon or to die a man made death with harsh and stringent economy. We need politicians who are not thieves and are humble enough to use or share what we have as social facilities with the masses such our, rail system, airlines, road networks, government universities, polytechniques, secondary and primary schools and government hospitals.

4. Any politician or public figure who have a taste for extravagant and glamorous life style like the ones who enjoy the use of their Porsche rides under the stench of the choking poverty and economic wanes should never be voted in for any political office. Especially the I have arrived and elated show off minded persons.

5. Any politician or Aspirant who have more than 2 to 3 cars in his garage is 98% most likely to be a thief and voting such greedy fellow to represent your interest is most likely at your own peril.

6. Any politician who believe he does not need much of public appearance or regular contact with the grassroot communities and masses but love to go in a convoy of scores of fully armed security men is no doubt a thief because the question remains, if you are not a thief, what are you afraid of? Why ain't you approachable with less reason to fear if truly you are accountable?

7. Any tribalistic, ethnocentric or religious or over ambitious grab power by all con and callous means necessary must never be allowed in power because persons out of over zealousness would heighten fanatism and eventually lead the country into another kind of tribal cleansing Rwanda war.

8. Any politician who does not have a farm providing free food for part of his community needs out of voluntary service and does not own the smallest or least factory on your street at least producing spoon, tooth pick, tooth paste, cloth line and plastic chairs should never be voted into office because such persons will only come to use the political office to steal because they have never at any time had anything to offer but only looking for something big or an opportunity to grab something big. At least such politician must have 80% of their investment here in Nigeria.

9. Any Politician who have not been in the political arena for more than 3 to 5 years of practice are the likes to be voted in power. Nigeria need fresh air, fresh minds, fresh hands and not old weary, uninnovative and tired heads.

10. More so all these big brother Naija promoting kind of youths should never be voted into power else you will have far worse senseless youths in power than the old herald of purposeless and ambitiousless politician in power because they are obviously the part of the lots who have nothing to offer the country and continent other than porn stars, hookers and morally derailed youths wanting to get rich over night playing the delusional Cinderella and Alice in the wonderland drama theme love hoping to wake up the next morning in the treasure island and Palatial Gulf peninsula.

11. And as for age, though age is not a barrier for leadership and political office, believe me if we adopt a strategy of anybody above above 45 years should be considered too old and unfit to be a Politician, believe me, you will surely see greater and faster transformation with a nation and people at work

In the area of security matters and military service, experience minds and international coperation is needed to sustain and maintain such sectors of government.

Our leaders should project the true and bonded identity of an average Nigerian. It is an act of carnage, betrayal and treason for the servants or serving politicians to live a more extravagant and glamorous life than the electorates and the ordinary masses who have called them to service and represent their interest. From the least of masses on the street corner to the electorates, the Judiciary, The Legislative and the Executive, it is obvious from the expository piece that corruption is very much alive like a cancer amongst us without anyone exempted. Not even our jet flying clergy men who needs the jet to fly straight to heaven possibly when they see the country going up in blazes.

Nigeria don't need the likes of grammatically endowed politicians but for action inclined politicians with a deep rooted sense of purpose and urgency for favourable economic stimulus for the masses and common man on the street.

Lets build an enviable country that the white man would be begging to come and spend their dollars, Euro, YChinese Yuan, British Pound, Dinari, and Japanese Yen

Written By Adewale Oladipupo.

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mumu Africans blaming innocent animals for their incompetency and incapacitation in life, guess what was President Bill Clinton Animal Pet in office Make una guess

hmmm Africa. Na wa for black man lack of sense. Now na black Owl, or bat or black cat b d cos of una backwardness? If to say na so d matter be, no graduate of OAU go ever progress because of d plenty bat for d school. If u need bat I hv lots of it on d fruit trees in my compound so make una for sabi say Me self na Mr Bat Man

hmmm, When u are in Afghanistan, Iran and Pakistan, am sure you would want to behave like one for fear of the guillotine for disrespect to the tradition. In a modern age that we are and as a Yoruba man of a 21st century that I am, though this kind of greeting highly unnecessary, I am sure my throat would not be slit if i stand up right to greet the kind or possibly extend a firm hand shake. All these our Inherited primitive African traditions are already facing out. It is we blacks that needs to get our heads checked and gladly warm up to the change and cultural demands of times.

Greeting a Royal King this way by Kneeling down is a bitter truth that we Yoruba, igbos, Hausas and Africans generally must change from for something better like the more interesting talks of the Next Scientific invention and the next medical or technological feat or discoveries. We Africans needs a severe cultural overhauling.

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In an heterogenous society like Nigeria, just like oil and water that never mix; It is true that a lot of economic activities and development is now concentrated in the Southern part of Nigeria instead of both side as in North and South together. It is disheartening that most of this Northern elite have now deserted their own people due to the crisis but have now shifted bulk of their investment to the southern region of Nigeria where they are assured of security of lives and properties living the northern masses to choke under the ashes of their birthed crises. Most of us are not new to the Northern Nigerian Crisis as I have at some point in time interrogated, friends both Christians and Muslims, great scholars, historians and have also asked my late grand parents before their demise about the genesis of the Northern crisis and how they abandoned all they had and ventures in the 1960s to eventually come down and resettled down here in the west where they are assured of a life time of peace and security of lives and properties, The answers have always been the same just as the same reason for the Northern Crisis as been consistent.

My late grand parents once said, "you can become a governor over night in the North as it is the only region where anything is possible in Nigeria and by the next morning you could be worse and more miserable than the beggar on the last corner on the street," I was dumb struck to hear that, but to allay my fears, I have had many close encounter with some herdsmen which most people address as demons and I discovered this people are no different from you and I but just living their ordinary live ridden with ignorance due to academic or educational marginalisation meted on them by their Northern leaders. A lot of these vilified herds men are peace loving people living their everyday life just like you and I with more of the innocence of conscience written all over them.

I believed if the herds men are as bad as a lot of us paint this people, I would have been dead out of the poison that could have been concocted in the Nunu I get to drink from them almost everyday or from the engagement of having the Fulani help me in some of my farm projects at some point in time. These group of people are not demons but people like you and I with the same fears, the same needs, the same wants, the same taste of life and with the same believe of heaven and need for peace. Almost every country in the world today has her own kind of Fulani which exist in the USA, Canada, Europe, Australia, Asia, Russia, China, Brazil, Colombia, Argentina, Mexico, Ethiopia, South Africa and Kenya from which Barrack Obama is also a proud one. (Please endeavour to do a thorough research on history before you judge matters of public concerns). Had it been the Fulani race of Kenya had been wiped out of history before the 1940s, There would never had been any name in history to exist as such as Barrack Obama the First Black American President.

It is ok for anyone to believe or subscribe to any religion but not at the detriment of others.

Some have argued that the reason is because of the staunch conservative islamic values as such as the Shariah Law, which is associated with the Jiahdist movement but, I want believe that this is really not true, because we have Politicians, Legislators, Executives, Judiciary, Security operatives and law abiding citizens who are Muslims, but I also want to believe that the main problem is lack of proper educational values for the majority of the Northern masses. The decades of neglect to educational needs of the Northern masses is what I believe has translated to all these senseless and mindless killings in the North without an end in sight as if the North is going to implode due to a crusade of killings without an end which has now left power to the bush dwelling bandit Jihadist whose militia killing tactics is now strike by night and hide by day.

Among a bewildering and thought provoking question that bugs alot of Nigerian is this.

1. Is the Shariah law the fundamental Cause of poor development in the North or the reason for the endless killings in the North?

2. Could it be that the Movement is Jihadist inclined or a Call for Islamization of the Country Nigeria to further entrench or enforce the religion on others by compulsion or fear of the blades or scimitar?
Is it a conspiracy for power sharing formula amongst the Northern elites?

3. Is poor education or lack of disruptive thinking and innovation the reason for the Northern crisis.

4. Or Could it be that the Northern elites of old and years back have fanned an ember of war and hatred with religious motives undertone which is now misinterpreted and propagated by some bush dwelling ill educated armed bandits who have now become some outlaw dogs, bandits and anarchist calling the power shots of who live and who die in the North. The matter at hand is now so alarming that both the Muslims and Christians are now victimised and caught in the web as rivalry increases and communities decimated and divided.

5. Was there a mistake in calling for an exclusive right to take life by some political and religious elite and dictate cultural trend in the Northern part of Nigeria which has now metamorphosed to the kind of anarchy we now have in the North?

6. Could it Be a deliberate attempt or conspiracy by some Northern elites or Foreigners to have some ill or poorly educated masses reserved to front their political cause through the seed of fear control factor or to economically sabotage the country for their own selfish interest.

7. Could it be that the insecurity and economic instability in the north is a conspiracy of some Southern, Western, or Eastern Nigerian or foreign countries or World Economic power country responsible and master minders?

8. Are these Boko haram, Fulani herdsmen, gunmen, militias and Bandits truely Libyan Nigeria emigrated militias or such gangs are run and financed by some Nigerian top politicians and elite who understand the weakness and deficiency of the Nigerian military and strategies so well along with the details of the geographical structure of Nigeria so well who felt the only way to continue to stay in power is to continue to rule the Northern masses with fear thereby recruiting the bulk of the foot soldiers from Niger, Mali, Libya, Chad and Sudan so that they can carve a political niche and relevance for themselves in Nigeria?

9. Could it be the hand work of some war hungry warlords based outside Nigeria or some old, past or serving military chiefs playing the Chess game of King, Queen, Knights, Rooks, Bishops and Pawns and just interested in selling weapons and only care about the money made from weapon sales knowing they will make more money as long as the impression of an ongoing war is sustained?

I want to believe the lesson learnt if reflection is drawn on the Peace enjoyed in Saudi Arabia, Iran, UAE, Gulf Countries, Afghan, is because they have alot in common in ancestral history contrary to the Malians, Somalians, Uganda, North and South Sudan, Chad, and Nigeria.

The world today is global and no longer an Island, as a people we must continually challenge and question unyielding norms and values that has continue to sabotage and stagnate the country economically and industrially wise. Lets not be afraid of the air around us. Lets ask constructive questions to get useful answers an results.

As far as am concerned, For all the manner of crisis, inadequacy and lawlessness in every part of the country, I blame it on the schools for not living up to expectations, a man regardless of tribe and religion, who is academically empowered will never think of taken law into his hands or taking to arms to become the outlaw dogs and bandits in the society. The war our military and security men are fighting today with bloodshed on both sides of these militia men, bandits and the Nigerian soldiers is supposed to be a long won war by our long innovatively disconnected Educational system and University Authorities who only enjoy lamenting and protesting about poor funding and allowance and salary raise.

Albert Einstein Once said and I quote, "If there's anything we must seek so passionately in life, it is about finding and asking the right questions, then the answer and solution would never be a problem."

I sorry sorry o! Wonder Wonder! Suffer Suffer for world enjoy for heaven! how many Amen we go may. The truth is this, we have some Northern leaders who have sowed the seed of discord and lies to some gullible and poorly educated Majority masses in the North which has now boomerang to hit the Nation and most especially the Northern community. It is high term the Northern leaders come out and put out the fire of lies they once ignited before it consume them and the entire nation up. The only way to stop this continuous killings in The North is to reeducate this bandits, every child and old about the heterogenous features of the country. until then we can seize back the power that has gone to the dogs and bandits in flesh claiming lives like blood sucking demons

I sorry sorry o!

BankeSmalls:
No, my name na Banke, I started hawking agbo jedi jedi of multiple colour from age 2

Your own Banke na for waterside or Banana Island because you got talent right from your tender age na. The Banke I know cant be money conscious at that your age of intellectual prowess outside the four walls of school na

BankeSmalls:
Just another unity begging Afonja lying from between his ewedu stained teeth,

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Lol! I am sure you did not finish your Queen Premier and Lady bird book series before you abandoned school at a very young age to hawk Okpa and breadfruit at just 3years old.

As a part igbo and Part Yoruba Nigerian, I thought i was the only insane person to call the Biafran secession saga a fraud. For the records, people should do a quick history on the cause and trajectory of the American Civil war of 1864 to 1865 between the Noth and Southern USA that cost President Abraham Lincoln his life. I have often said it that the Biafran saga was all about greed in respect to the oil discovered in 1956 in Olobiri and there came some power drunk persons who felt it was their father's property which lead to a show of power between 2 disgruntled security chiefs who made a national menace of the crisis with equal blame on both sides. I have often told people that those who dont pay enough attention to history will surely make or repeat the same mistakes in history. Not until i stormed on this news which i felt it is worth sharing to educate eachother.


A traditional ruler from Mbaise in Imo State, Eze Nwabueze Soronnadi Ezewiro, has dissociated himself from the struggle for Biafra, an agitation he described as fraud.

While in Calabar, yesterday, the monarch said: “I am His Imperial Majesty Eze Nwabueze Soronnadi Ezewiro from Mbaise in Imo State as well as the Lord Mayor of the Igbo Nation and in Diaspora, Eze Agaba-Idu 1 of Igbo kingdom.
Biafra is a fraud. Whichever way they take it but the truth has to be said anyway, the only institutional body that represents Igbo people all over the world is Ohaneze Ndigbo, not Biafra.

Let me ask you one thing, when Odumegwu Ojukwu died, he was a General, he was given a state burial during the time of Jonathan, you saw in Nnewi that day that we, the Ohaneze Ndigbo were making our own preparation but the Presidency was doing the burial.

His body was carried by Nigerian soldiers, so where are the Biafran soldiers to carry the body? “When they’re talking about Biafra, is Biafra only Imo, Abia, Anambra Enugu and Ebonyi states? No.
It should be South-South, South-East all incorporated because these are the old eastern region excluding Edo. Have you seen anybody from those South-South states supporting Biafra?

We will put this thing on the table, get the Presidency, put our heads together and discuss this thing. But you can’t get it by force as if you are inciting to segregate from Nigeria federation. .
The Biafran thing as much as I am concerned is dead gone. It was in the mortuary, it has gone to the cemetery. Its dead, there’s nothing and there would not be anything like Biafra.”

https://www.kemifilani.com/2018/04/biafra-dead-mortuary-cemetery-monarch.html

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FinBalor:
Do I blame the youths of this country if they join cultism? They have a worthless, useless President who have nothing to offer them?

You see people, I get mad when people refuse to learn from there past histories!

This is a man that has never achieved anything in his life apart from being "Incorruptible" (WASH!)
He can tell that to the marines or his almajeric brothers!

Nigerians, have you people not noticed that since this man became President, he has always blamed the past administration from day 1! Thats his life achievement. If you give this worthless fellow another four years, it will still be garbage in, garbage out.

Yes! Buhari is a very worthless and ill fated human being. I say this without mincing words.
Just read further.

Let me proove to you people my point. Back when I was in the secondary school, we had teachers who were so complacent with work that they barely thought us anything! But at the end of the month, they received salaries. After secondary school and we all went to universities, did we all not try to keep up with the curriculum of the university even though we were handicapped from secondary school? Did we blame our past teachers in secondary for not giving us the foundation we need to study maths in the university? If you guys watch, serious students would move on and catch up with the new system. But the iddiots back in class then will continue complaining and procrastinating till its too late and nothing achieved!

These scenario is akin to what is happening to Buhari now. Yes! We agree that money was being stolen under Jonathan. But what were you elected for Buhari? Is it not to stop the robbery and reposition Nigeria?

Buhari when will you ever be useful in your very useless life? Must you always complain? Why not forget the past administration and focus on giving us a better life?

I have never believed in you and will never believe in you! There is a Latin Adage that says "Nemo dat, quod non habet". It means, Nobody gives what he or she does not have.

Buhari you dont have it and will never have it. I know you will probably win again because you have millions of zombies who still look up to you as a Messiah. Personally, I am saving up millions already just in case you win. I know it will be a very tough hell.

You are hopeless, useless, redundant, non progressive, ineffectual, ineffective, kaput, INCOMPETENT, pathetic, inept, retrogressive, renegade, broken retarrd, fruitless and not needed.

My PVC is armed to remove you already.

Omoyele Sowore Is My Candidate. With Love From Anambra live and direct!

Mr man or woman, have you ever been saddle with the responsibility of a leader before? how did you far in the feat? We admit that the country is truely in a bad shape but it is the duty of every community leaders to see to the well been of their youths we all cannot have headaches at the same time waiting for one man or President in Abuja to intervene in our plights.

I came across this pix lately and i felt the need to share it to educate eachother.

Considering that as Africans, we fake alot of things to include wedding in the name of we want to impress thereby we are tempted into undue extravangancy in the name of marriage. It is the reason some would blow a life savings on a day wedding or some would even go and borrow just to feign a fake life.
The question is how many Nigerians or Africans would be bold enough to throw a wedding in this manner without fear of intimidation.

As a yoruba man married to an igbo woman and as a matter of policies and principles, I did my wedding on a budget less than #100,000 naira to include my bride price, traditional and white wedding though i had friends and relatives who caterd for a few things and it all went successfully well on a modest level. I like to be real and not plastic and if anybody call me names, I will welcome it as a complement at least i took up a responsibility that was within my financial capacity and budget range. And if you don't like it, hmmmmm......, I will take you to the lagoon to tell you tales by the moon light.

Some of my igbo, yoruba, and other tribes friends were like guy, na thief you thief your wife or na juju you use for your igbo inlaws? I just reply, the koko be say am married. Let me say am a very lucky man but the truth is this; among the igbo tribes, you will find 75% brides family who would be glad to give their consent to this kind of modest marriage and more often than other tribe as long as the family able to seal their trust and confidence in you as a hardworking, respectful and loving inlaw to be even if your woman is an Havard trained graduate.

Young men and women, go and marry. You don't have to break the bank to host a modest wedding. Break yourself from the chains of archaic culture and move on with your life and don't let your ancestral curse continue to hunt you.

I tell people basic tips and rules about wedding,

1. never borrow for marriage believe me it is by far 100% and safe to go buy what you have.

2. The better you will enjoy your wedding and have your say and respect if you foot your bills yourself no matter how small is your financial contribution.

3. Never approach your friends for money for wedding, if they give your be grateful but dont go begging. Its not a sign that you are capable or man enough especialy when it comes to the matter of bride price, be sure it is your sweat.

4. In some countries, china, india and even in the bible, their are records of women paying the bride price sotherefore, it is not a taboo if you women assist your man to establish in the success of your wedding if the man is not financially bouyant enough and you want a big wedding, with that, the man get to respect you the more. Truly behind every great man, there is a woman, just like Mary Todd Was that Great Woman behind the story of Abraham Lincoln and Mitchelle Obama the great wielding force behind the success story of Barrack Obama. Our African women must understand that men are not ATM or Money vault nor have the POS or money mint on their forehead.

5. Before Marriage, the man must make he has something doing no matter how small your income maybe even if it is #18,000 naira a month you are making, it is something as it gives you a sense of dignity which is better than begging or waiting for alms. Even if your an artisan or into a small scale venture, just be sure you are doing something to make your money no matter how odd the nature of the job his provided you are not into anything illegal. I tell men that no matter how Angelic or holly your wife may be, if you are not doing anything to live up to your financial obligations, dont be suprised to see the devi or demonsl awakened in your once sweet angelic professed dovey lovely fluttering butterflies, else you would be singing Victor Uwaifor mammy water song when sweet love go sour.

I tell people that splashed wedding is not a gurantee of happy or eternal marriage. Dont put your cart before the horse. Dangote, Adenuga and those throwing splash weddings are not better informed nor worse informed than you are because your wedding is your obligation and yours alone and not that of others. Dont lose your marriage before you start while you are too self absolved in throwing a celebrity style grand Wedding.
Throwing a splash wedding is not evil aa if i must, using 0.07% of my worth that could translate to #2 billion naira of my wealth for my wedding or my child's wedding is not too bad just as it was with the likes of Folorunsho Alakija in June 2017 who threw such a grand wedding costing up to £5 million pounds or #2 billion naira for her son in the UK.

Whether you have your money to spend or not, the fact that we go over seas to live a lavished life and come back home feeling elated is a sign or syndrome dated back to the era of black man slavery age and slavery mentality which is applicable to the rich and poor, educated and academically half baked ones amongst us. Its a sign of inferiority complex and incompetency projected to the world about us. And that we are all a failed continent as long as we all believe our heaven and salvation remains within the boarders of the developed world or white people.

The effort to want to impress people is the root of greed and all sort of vices related to finances or money. It is true that alot of us Africans need to go and get our brains clinically checked up with our moronic and follow follow mentality. It is high time we started to challenge some of our cherished achaic cultural values which are no longer in tune with the demands of our time so as to cut down hard on crime, corruption, greed, over ambitiousness, corrupt megalomeniac mentality and also to reduce desperation and coveteousness amongst our African people

lol! check my thread for the best pix and news of the latest wedding in town

another victim of false prophets of the Cherubim and Serabum! How many amen we go make?? Suffer suffed for world, enjoy for heaven. Very soon the false prophet will tell him that his wife or one old woman or his step mother his the cause of his financial challenges. If Fela catch you for that waterside, it would need the attention of all your ancestors to save you

drink 6 gallons of coconut oil

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another psycopath and jobless woman in the USA