₦airaland Forum

Lamanii22:
Great article... But that number 20 though... Is there a way the love between your kids and husband be equal? Like what can one do to make it equal.. I don't want children coming between me and my husband... Or is it inevitable?

As you have conceive it its possible,just dont let the way you respectfully and submissively treat your hubby bfr you strt having children changes as soon as u strt having babies cos of alot of things will threaten that bond.only u n hubby will av to make ur stand never to gv a space for any intruder btw u...
And the way u guys flow n cherish eachother is wat the children will imbibe

Madam if you care to listen,i have some observations to make not that am siding your hubby but some things didnt add up to me...let me highlight as follows:
My doubts are on:
You claim u told him politely to go n change and he was angry.i doubt was u said was actually polite or in a polite manner ...yoruba will say "pele o ni ako o ni abo"

-secondly,u told him to lets you guys take family pics and he just started beating u...aunty just like that.

Well,l observe u r trying to act as the saint here,its better u try n meet your husband,drop all the talk of l no do anything to him cos u might have unknowingly do something he doesnt like for such misunderstanding.nothing happen without a cause.Ask him wat u did wrong to warrant such action,he will tell u...
Finally,ur hubby bleeped up big time to have raise his hands on u.i wont support that.but learn to dialogue with ur hubby without doing self righteousness

Danzakidakura:
Northerners are not illiterate as they may want you to believe, illiterates rule the country locate all the military high institution to north,monopolize every resources from south to north, control every institutions of government. Systematically cause fight between two major educated group while they keep fighting. And you call them illiterate if this is signs and symbols of illiteracy them i want to be an illiterate too.

oga having power has no connection to illiteracy.its all about influence.

They are illiterates,lets call a spade a spade.they get to power by influence and rule or govern illiterately.Ask buhari

How many of us think her transparent underwear make her dress look pretty-ugly?

mezarddinny:
see stupid thinking from someone who claims to get reciprocated when flirting. There are various reasons a woman may decide not to wear her ring.

reasons like?

Use to think na only Yoruba ladies do bleach

Una no get work here ooo

I av long vacate myself from nairaland family section cos of the kind of ppl and their kind of ideology. Won't want my home destroyed.

Ppl mindset are often geared towards breakup and divorce not towards happiness in homes

GrabHisBalls:
A 45 seconds man buying useless awards to hold more relevancde than his ex.

why didn't your Lord(tonto dike) go and buy same

yemisolar:
This is strictly the opinion of the writer. And, he is entiltled to it. True marriages these days are not what they should be but there are a lot of people having great times in their marriage. Though the bad ones get more publicity than the good ones but there are a good number of good ones out there.

Anyone can get angry at men, society or even religion but for a woman, having a life companion, -someone you can feel completely at home with, free without any inhibitions or shame, having your back at any point in time. Someone you can look up to as a friend, mentor, a good father to your children and even someone to get vent on - is the happiest thing that can happen to one.

The caveat however is making the right choice.

The truth is that women who know how powerful they are know that they are the ones controlling the home. Not the man. The problem most women have is that they think it's by confrontation. When that doesn't work they start crying foul.

No doubt marriage is a truest test of One's character but if one gets it right it can be heaven on Earth.

I am for finding ways for people to make right choices and making their marriages work rather than discouraging them completely.

Yes, I am married........ 11 years and counting.

yea l like your submission... I think women who CNt take time to discover the password of their men are the one who suffers. Most men l mean most men life are not difficult if u can discover Wat wrks for them. Many men hate confrontation n entitlement mentality, wen a woman humble herself even if u r higher than him financially n academically many men will surrender their entire life unto such women. Not just Wrd, am a living witness.

Am a medical laboratory scientist, and fully aware of what is going on in Nigeria health sector.
Bfr l gv u insight to what n where the problem comes from,let me erroneous fact some ppl are taking around that its ppl that couldn't gain admission to study medicine that are envying or fighting Drs.this is blatantly false,l n my best Frnd initially wanted to study pharmacy after sec sch,I for one dnt like drs arrogancy probably one of the reason it didn't appeal to me,but as God will have it our parent secure another form of another uni which has no pharmacy for instead of the one we initially thought we will b going.presently my best is now a Dr n l a medical laboratory scientist...

On the issue,am aware Association of medical laboratory scientist of Nigeria secure a court victory affirming their autonomy according to Act 11 of 2003,which means only Medical laboratory scientist/technician can wrk n licensed to wrk in the hospital laboratory.there has been a long term battle cos Dr feel they can wrk anywhere, having this erroneous notion they kno it All which is nt true.atimes they will feel they can head evn the core ppl who owns a department n such CNT happn unless u r demanding for war.this is a professional gathering full of intellectuals,on many occasions drs will post their student drs or resident drs to come n do call(like night shift) in the lab wen virtually they kno next to nothing as regard wat is obtainable there...
I feel this days drs are becoming too much n hence looking for where to encroach...but we are saying Medical laboratory is not one of them.
The thing is let all diff professionals be it medical lab scientist, pharmacist, physiotherapist n co that make up health team head their respective department n drs theirs.and let drs stop meddling into the affairs of other professionals,u r not lord over any medical matter, do ur wrk over a patient n let other do their,let respect be mutual n things will go the it shd.
Finally,nothing stopping each medical professionals frm heading the hospital wen qualified.nobody shd expect there shd b harmony wen the fairness n justice is far to being.thanks

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Biglittlelois:
I have noticed the northerners don't complain when it comes to their women depending on them, why?? Cos the women are totally submissive cos they earned it, but down south, the men with their lazy tendencies, want their women to be independent and submissive at the same time forcefully, forgetting that you can't have both at the same time,

Submission, same as respect, is earned not forced, do your duty as a man which is to provide, when your wife sees your hard work and determination to provide, she wouldn't think twice to contribute what she has without you asking, she will respect and submit to you willingly, but when a man lay a rule saying I will provide for this, you provide for that, you have made her a co partner, she will have a say in everything and sometimes a final say too, submission will def be far from her.

wat about women who still do not submit to their husband that we know despite their husband doing virtually every possible things to make life good and meaningful for them

have some comments to make...

I suspect temi's cloth being bought by a man.see d love bling bling on d cloth

-Also why is it that na D's ladies Father always dey around them. where is their mum? I tink their mum shd b there to celebrate with them cos non of d pics shows that..we use to see d father around..kudos ote$

but wait o... dnt give me garri here oo... that he decided to go n eat in a restaurant without security u av already started describing him as being humble, kind, gentle n wat have you...
hmmm... but if u ask me sincerely i dnt see anytin spectacular in wat he did, he only came to enjoy himsef as he know he might not such food in that manner in uk n there u r celebrating him. nigerians sha, na we ourselves b naija prob.
Tell adelabu if he likes he shd go n sit in uk n come bck as usual months to election he will still lose the election again... let him know ppl are getting wiser now

Aragbiji:
APC will win Oyo .
You bloody pdpigz apologist

wen u r ready to wake up from your sleep tell me

U will See buharist and buharideens jumping on this thread right now. the same ppl that rejected the input of international observers cos they already thought due to their evil plan they might be exposed... Then to d matter


Even election that brought yar'dua as president was said to be free and fair n verified by international observers yet yar'adua in his words submit that it was not free n fair. if u know u know... they don't want to go back in body bags

keyamo how do u know? mayb just like Te you didn't collect anything. Apc=Lies. That lady is a reflection of the Effect of Bullivon van

The way your next 4yrs will be experimented so no complain oo

starbuck:
What if she was handed over the PVC by an adult to hold

I have learnt not believe everything on SM

hmmm...l wonder the way u talk ooo... is PVC now a heavy material that someone can't hold for himself again. who does that?

ChiefAzubuike:
Already on my way to za polling unit to cast my vote for Kingsley Moghalu. Nigerians think outside the box. There is more for this country beyond APC and PDP. They just dey play una head like ping-pong.

thank you for wasting your vote knowingly cos u already know he won't win n this is not encouragement contest

optimusprime2:
For me, I would have voted between Sowore or Moghalu... I don't need to make any explanation.

People would be very naive to not see what's going on in Nigerian politics, it's just political recycling going on- if PDP wins, all APC members have to do is change party and swear allegiance by paying and it's business as usual, the same goes for APC- they win, PDP people will switch sides... business as usual.

Nigeria needs fresh air for real. And neither PDP or APC can offer that on a federal level- truth be told.

yes l respect your choice of either sowore or moghalu but with your reason let's assume sowore or moghalu party win the election are you saying these sets of politician can't decamp to their party d same way apc politicians would have decamp to pdp. my point is decamping is not a matter of Party

Lautech is sweet, it's one of the best thing to have happen to me as an alumni. the issue of yahoo things rises in recent years, not only in lautech but in every notable higher institutions in Nigeria due to bad gvt economy policy. thou that shdn't b an excuse so effort shd b put in place to flush out the bad eggs



LAUTECH is full of
-INTELLECTUALS
-CORRECT FOOD JOINTS(MAMA no 1)
-SPORTS PEOPLE
-CHURCHY GUYS
(43%)Muslim faithful (40%),yahoo(10%) and the rest
AND PARTY GUYS WHO USE TO VISIT ILORIN EVERY WEEKENDS.
Surprised why the bad aspect rein more than the more pronounced good side

This is the main reason why igbo won't be Nigeria president in a foreseeable future. they are never United.. even the vice president nomination ceded to them causes wahala which is different from d way the yoruba peacefully receive the nomination of osibanjo

theoldpretender:
Call me an APC supporter...but I don't believe this news.

All we have are two stories

1.Aquote from a resident of a part of Lagos...a single ward.

2.A quote from a woman in Southern Kaduna that 'christians are being denied voters card' (Southern Kaduna is predominatly Christian).

The problem with these stories is that in the abscence of corroborating evidence, there is no valid proof that 'they are true'.

The truth is,fake news is a serious problem in this country. I don't doubt that INEC ,under APC's influence,could be up to some chicanery...but at the same time, let's not run on hearsay.

To me u didn't sound like somebody that went to school. u shd know when an allegation of this magnitude is presented investigation into it is necessary without taking any unbiased side bfr concluding. u r deceiving ppl here u r not Apc member yet u rush to disregard the info as untrue while u avnt make any attempt to at least confirm its authenticity. next time try harder.. we all need this country to b beta, don't let this old octogenarian be using u.l said this cos l av a corroborating info than all this allegations info r true

At least if for once let me commend the effort of the leadership of NLC led by Ayuba wabba(A Medical Laboratory. Scientist) for their resilience thus far in countering the antics of this dullard called buhari to deprive the workers of their legitimate right.... victory will come at last

Fuckuignos:

The CJN was heading an institution that is the last hope of the common man. Is it also the last hope of the PDP?

maybe PDP actually represent the common man

thats how some couple unknowingly thrown knock out at me and my wife, if not for God who made us to spot it on time n ran to safety...

CaptainG00D:
Yoruba ladies and disgraceful fight are like 5&6.

And who told you they are not your people who are posted to Yoruba land?

cool write up but l disagree that to influence in the state of affairs of this nation you have to be BTW 35-50yrs

Hmmmm... this year en better than previous years, if not the best year l ever witness

- Started my Msc this year after two failed attempts

-Got married to my beautiful damsel this year

-Towards the tail end of the year, God crown it up for me with a good state job my heart has longed for,meaning am starting a new work in the new year

Glory be to God!

Faslite:
Congratulations �.. ADEKUNLE GOLD & HIS FAMILY













(My beloved Dad may ur soul continue to rest in perfect peace)

Amen...u av a good heart bro