xtervaganza:
So na God de save me since. I can't even count the amount of ex I've had ex with after break up. I even smashed my ex wife twice

Ex wife?

Has he bought the girl or what? The man did not respect her at all.

kennyamusan:
and the videos made by others weren't time stamped ? you said 'her friends ",hahahahaha... was that attack by the NA planned , so how would she have taken her friends. even if her friends did same , na una go still can am , plan work , lozzzzz .... other people bodies are in youtube as a check. Even CNN did a good report on it , the fact that bullet pallet and casing were found is enough and if your brain is not spinning you , how long did the NA waited before they admitted that they shot ? with time , them go admit day them kill, hahahhaha

You are not smart, bozo. By her friends I meant the scores of supporters who were there with her.
I watch the CNN thing, it never showed people being shot or victims of gunshots. If you have any such videos kindly post the link here for all to see.
The idiot DJ switch said they took dead bodies to the feet of the soldiers. Haaaa! Only a dumb person would believe such nonsense. You ran away from the soldiers when they were shooting and later you got the nerve to take dead bodies to them without taking pictures. Nigerians that can take pictures of anything, even accident victims.
I hate soldiers and I have a special hatred for Buhari and the Nigerian system but unlike people like you, I don't allow hatred to blind me to reason and make me believe any kind of nonsense.
The DJ switch girl already got what she wanted: cheap attention which is already fading away because it's built on lies.

kennyamusan:
and Eko hospital admitted that they received dead bodies ? and I never knew a live video can be photoshopped ooo������, yet Army never allowed panel of enquiry to visit the army mortuaries , so , the bullet shot hot were fired at the bird on Twitter ba ? or were the army drumming that night ? what of the bullets casing found in the ground ?, use your brain to think now , haba

Don't be silly, boy. Where are the videos of dead bodies you Are talking about? DJ switch said her phone battery went out, what about her friends? Are you telling me none of them considered it necessary to record a live video of bodies that were taking to the soldiers? Use your head and think.

whitelexi:
First of all, there will most likely be no 2nd chance to even know what i'll think. Once and u're out of the picture. . . I only gave a 2nd chance once, and look where it landed me - in even worse a situation!

Same here! Gave a stupid girl a second chance and it turned scarier. I wonder why men still give girls second chance. People no dey hear word.

kennyamusan:
Emotional blackmail that made the pankere wo coat president made service chiefs ambassadors? Even CNN and BBC acknowledged the fact that it happened, else why are they after DJ switch if nothing happened. Eko hospital acknowledged the fact that they treated lot of victims, even Sanwo Olu acknowledged the same fact........ if all these people acknowledge this fact, Who cares about your myopic ,irrational, and unfounded opinion and thinking, hahahahaha

Which DJ switch? The one that was lying through her teeth. Where are the dead bodies? We took them to the soldiers and the soldiers took them away.
No photos, no videos, nothing tangible on the claimed corpses of gunshots. Only fake photos here and there that have since been busted.

Polynek:
Opinion is like a nose everybody get His/Her own shaa, 4 me wat u did was wrong. Revenge is 4 the weak

Revenge is for the strong willed. A weak man dare not try revenge!!!

Rhodaogunpeju:





I pray someone does this exact thing to your daughter ..so u know how it feels .. how are you so sure everything they said about her was true..

Some men are known for giving a woman a bad image just to spite her for refusing thier advances

Don't be silly. You think the guy would just break up with his fiancee because of ordinary hearsay? He must have confronted her with the whistleblower's claims and the girl would have confessed when cornered thinking he would forgive her.

Wiseandtrue:
When you know that you are ashamed of the black nylon bag, why you buy am in the first place

Nobody can like you more that you like yourself jàré

This one wey y

My guy get black polybag for hand as e come jam the lady.

On a serious note, op needs to develop serious self-esteem.

He won't listen to any of the advice above. He can't because he knows what to do but is not man enough to do it. The girl also knows he is weak. He is finished unless luck sends that girl away from him.

EJEHSON:
I just tire for the guy, being a virgin has nothing to do with being a good or faithful wife.

Don't mind the small boys. If a woman will cheat, marrying her as a virgin will not stop her.
I once disvirgined a girl who was 21. I deceived myself thinking I had found a life partner thinking if she could remain chaste up to that age, she must be really serious. Na she hurt me pass in all the relationships I've had. She was simply heartless. I'm still thanking God she didn't give me a disease. That was about 10 years ago sha, now I don wize up. E be like say the guy is still a learner.

AmazonTopaz:
If only you were this obsessed with your own body after multiple women too.
In the end you won't marry a virgin.

Now get lost

You sef.

Emzenoz:
avoid judging my ones look

I didn't say he was dangerous. Where's the judgment?

He looked dangerous.

Jeon:
whatever

only in Nigeria.

Ode. That's South Africa. Maybe only in your family.

TundeChris:

Neither celebate nor a virgin. Neither am was I born yesterday. If you interact with people, you can judge their character to a good extent. For me, I don't care she is a Virgin or not, I am more concerned about her character. What mindset did she have when she was racking up them bodies. Has that changed? As a man or woman, you deserve to know to make a good decision on whether you have a future together. A girl who cheated on her ex's because she was bored will probably cheat on you. A girl who had a LovePeddler phase and is looking to settle down and is disciplined and trust worthy might be a better choice. It is about the mindset, it is about basic decency if she would be the mother of my kids.

NO man wants to marry a public toilet btw.

To buttress your point.. My friend got entangled with a girl at a difficult time in his life, a guy walked into his room while his girlfriend was with him. The strange guy spilled the beans about how he had been banging the hoe he called a girlfriend. How the girl had been taking money from my friend to come and Cook for him! All this with the girl right there and she couldn't deny. The girl left my friend.
So I encouraged him to go for this other girl at his workplace. They got talking and sleeping together. She told him how a neighbor slept with her at 8, how a colleague slept with her on a desk, this and that. He was happy she opened up. He had found a soulmate, someone to marry!
A year later, she broke his heart by leaving him for a man with two kids, a man she earlier claimed was a relative.

Op, if you love yourself and if this story is true---- run far and fast from that woman. She is damaged. She would destroy you eventually and wonder why you can't take her rubbish in your stride. One of the laws in 48 laws of power says something about avoiding the sad and damaged. Can't remember which one.

Lovethaa:



Lol. ... I'm no gold digging ... I'm from a wealthy family and apart from my own personal money I have inheritances ad a firstborn ... but I have decided not to marry from a broke family ........


yes I can't deal with such silly history... that is why u should be careful with every silly thing you do

I don't know why you are even answering them. They think it's easy to carry an emotional baggage around. Nothing kills faster than it.

It's not sleeping with a married woman that's really the problem here. Problem is that you misused your position. I have a feeling you inferred to her that she wouldn't be getting what she wanted unless she slept with you.

ebicon:
I really like your sincerity about what you both share,
Don’t let society dictate how to love and live , you might get someone younger that will leave you miserable and sad. You can be lucky to get a good paying job , you might not need the forecasted five years , Time are hard but people are making it ,leave societal standards, it does not work for everyone
Do what will make you happy but if you feel you cannot marry 35 yr old woman , please leave her to those that will appreciate

Abi o @ bolded. People like us.

What he doesnt know is that those small girls out there are more problematic than the older ones. Besides, they would have grown much into each other by the end of 5 years. Probably, he's apprehensive because he doesn't like her as much as he claims.

jeff1607:


How you guys take this bitter stuff still beats my imagination sef

You should try it. You'll feel good after. Thank me later.

Xenry:
Lol... Wait till she find someone better than you, then she go dump your sorry ass.

Na so e dey always end.

Truvel:
I Do Not Agree With U Dat Dey Are Always Good & Serious. Some Of Dem May Pretend To Be Good & Serious With U Because Of Ur Financial Status.

Youare right. They're not usually good. It's all pretense. If you date them and they're good, it's because they don't have a man they prefer disturbing them for sex. Being good or bad has to do with nature not age. Married women still sleep around.

Na lie. I got a lot of mercy fvcks during nysc because some of those big yansh babes considered me weak and harmless. A couple of them even cooked for me once in a while.

Kellibae:
Foolish woman
The woman is Yoruba and from the look of things her husband is Yoruba too.
But see how much he hates tinubu to the extent of throwing his wife out of the house.
But Yoruba here always says igbos are the ones hating tinubu.

You are not thinking well. So, if you like a man you would take it easy if your woman tattoos the man's face and name on her naked back? Say for example, your wife tattoos nnamdi Kanu's face on her back, you will let her stay in the house?

These boys sef. Why are you so sure your girlfriend had only you fuccking her? Don't let these small girls mess you up.
Why is she playing holier than thou?

googi:
Whites are a bunch of hypocrites that preach religion, piety and goodwill but their Neanderthal genes will not let go.

Since when has the law of the jungle, atomic bomb and nuclear bomb become the civilized way of life?

Eventually, it leads to self destruction. Look at USA right now. Republicans cannot believe they lost.

So what are they doing? Legalize themselves with less than majority votes. If Electoral Votes cannot do it, suppress others' votes.

Civilization is completely different from survival of the fittest.

I think Acronomist understand all these but would rather be on the winning side by any means. Even by going nuclear!

Look at Europe for example. As recent as 1945 they were at each other's throats killing one another wantonly like animals. One idiot was even burning Jews because their eyes were not blue enough. Talking about monkeys.

lebete3000:


Okay let's agree with your logic on using kids to make it in life. No forget sey no be every pikin dem send go school dey make am ooo. Raising kids is one helluva job meen!

Most parents have even lost their lives in the process sef. And even if one wants to go by this route, then at least 1/2 is enough, so you can channel proper time and resources to them, than having all the way to 4kids in this harshly dystopian Nigerian economy of today.

Incase you don't know, the Nigeria of Abacha era is far better than the Nigeria of today, evidenced in your Uncle being able to raise 4kids to the University level, and 1 of them even becoming a doctor.

If you know how much education costs now ehn, you go almost piss for your body.

Guy hustle b4 you bring pikin come this world oh, no come add to the Bandits wey don full ground already.

Having 4 kids is insane even in the best of times. The emotional burden alone is extraordinary. But for those who already have kids, you just have to hustle like mad. For me, the greatest sin is not taking care of one's kids. No excuse can work unless the man falls sick.

lebete3000:


It is this same mentality that continues to make people create something they can't take care of.

There are men that have no interest in raising kids, and they're those that do. The bottomline is one must be financially and emotionally prepared to raise kids- simple as ABC!!!

If you have none of these, then you have NO business bringing innocent kids into this world to suffer, while hoping for a "better tomorrow" nonsense.

In saner climes, you'll be forced to work your ass to stupor to take care of those kids or end up in jail. Perhaps then and only then would you realise, raising kids ain't for everyone.

Nigerian mentality has already bastardized the psyche of a lot of us. We just tend to do whatever the fvck we want.

The guy said "work hard to raise the kids". I guess you missed that part. Even abroad, people on little income also get married and raise kids. What I detest is when people have kids and fail to educate, feed, entertain and clothe them.

SonOfAfonja:

Lmao...Wetin be this

His head is fvcked up.

iragbmite:


English comprehension is worrying you. I cant see you making it in life.

This one is raving mad this early morning. Why are you so angry? Your poverty, obviously, is both physical and mental. If you didn't notice the humor in my response to that guy's funny comment, you need to ask your teachers for a refund or go back to primary school. You can't make it in life with this whack attitude and level of backwardness of yours. No be curse, my sonny boy.