Divanona: Eight years ago, with tears in my eye, I held his hand, begged him to stay with me that we will struggle together and succeed, but he refused. He walked away living me pregnant. Now, he's back without anything.
We were friends from the University, I graduated before him because I was studying a 4years course. The very first time, we tried to take our relationship serious was after my graduation. We had s.e.-x for the very first time and I became pregnant. The truth is, the guy have always been good to me throughout my stays in school. I remembered that day he sacrificed his school fees for mine so I could be able to do my final clearance. But when I became pregnant, he walked away after convincing me to keep our baby. I went through everything all by myself. Since last year, he has been apologizing on phone, so last week, I asked him to come. He traveled down to my place. Without being afraid of anyone harming him from my family, he believed in me and came. He's around in my family house, staying in my brother's room for the past 3days. He has opened up everything to me, my family members and have apologized.
now, I'm so confused with my life.
He couldn't graduate, he had problem in school after I left and all this years, he has been struggling, but now he wants to take responsibility and be with us, but he had nothing. No certificate, except diploma which he later did from another school, no job, no place of his own to stay. He had nothing. He wants us to get married and have a family.
I feel I'm about to add more burden to my already stressed life. The only positive thing here now, is the excitement my son is having seeing his father and the relationship they're building.
A part of me wants to see this guy have a great life and have direction and not see him live like this, even if I don't settle down with him. because when I meant him, he was kind, a good person, he had dreams, vision and good plans. But living us alone all this years, with all his explanations, I'm not contented.
Another part of me is confused, afraid and I feel ishould push him away and let him go back to his life and keep moving with my son because I don't have the strength to shoulder all these.
Please matured mind in the house, what do you have to say? This is my life and it's getting more confused. What would you advise? What should I do? I don't want to make more mistakes.
Sorry for my lengthy write-up
Let him go and get a job. Let him see money and see how he behaves before trusting him. Hunger makes some people humble but once they eat wahala will start
Duty is based on valuation. If there is no invoice attached the valuation officer will use a predetermined rate which will be based on his own assessment of the item. If you think duty charged is too high, you can ask for revaluation.
Hello all. I ordered OBJ chicks from someone in Ibadan and the chicks came in plain brown unbranded cartons. Can anyone confirm that a big hatchery like OBJ hatchery sell their products in unbranded packaging. I don't want to believe that I got scammed by a reputable person here.
My grandma made my mum a signatory to her account and made the account "any 1 can sign". She also left many signed blank cheques with my mum. There is no money in her account again but the bank doesn't even know she's dead.
zuma4k: Please fellow nairalanders, I need your opinions on this and if possible front page. It's quite personal and goes like this. 1. Mr Adam (my father) opens a fixed deposit account with X Bank. He subsequently submits his wife's details and makes her a co-signatory to the account with the *express mandate* that upon his demise, his wife exercises automatic access to the account and it's proceeds. Does this amount to a valid contract between him and the bank?.
2. Note that after his death the bank reneged on the primary provision of his directive, stating that a letter of administration must be procured (at an exorbitant cost). Stated Reasons bothers on the fact that under banking laws and the principles of a valid contract, a contract between a depositor and the bank terminates upon the demise of the individual thus rendering the *mandate* unenforceable and invalid. Please mods I need this on front page. Thanks.
seunmsg: Very correct to the extent that APC cannot participate. However, APC can decide to support the candidate of another party who will then decamp to the party after election. The party may also explore the possibility of getting one of the candidates of the smaller parties to withdraw and then substitute with David Lyon.
rasheedatt: I am freaking out about this, My boss asked me out on a date which I think is innapropriate but I love my job and i was looking for a loooong time before i found it so I will be damned if i give up.
I was very kind and told him there is zero interest here so i wouldnt want to waste his time. He told me I should quit the job or accept him and he will increase my salary.
Unnerve: Visual inspection of a passenger plane. Bollocks, Lol.
If Mahan Air was really transporting weapons for Iranian-linked fighters, I wonder how the F-15 pilot was going to see these weapons from the window of a passenger plane at 34,000ft. Is the plane a flying showglass?
Maybe they will be foolish enough to keep the weapons on plane seats
DMPaulSr: Get in here romancelanders. Let's discuss. After i saw this video of a GF burning her BF's car, i want to ask, 'What's the worst thing your BF or GF did to you after a break up'. Did they break your things, burn your things, chase you out from their apartments or did worse.
Kenplay: Apart from the fact this girl husband is a billionaire, I see nothing bright about them that the whole society will keep going gaga about them. The husband is just an irresponsible man who has billions in his account, am still searching for what to admire in him but I found none.
It won't but that looks like a nutritional deficiency which means other birds are at great risk of having it since they have all been eating same feed.