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Yusufisraelj:
@kbower

Sincerely this guy I quoted is right. You try to micro manage and control everything, let me tell you your wife is feeling suffocated, hence the half truths you're getting and the inconsideration's, I don't advocate that anyways.

I won't tell you how to run your home, but this I have to say, loosen up on trying to micromanage her every move, let her ask, and if you offer a solution that she down plays, leave her to it, down the line demand for ways she sorted out that issue. The best way to get your wife is to give her space and if she have any respect and fidelity for you in mind, she go day give you 30 missed call just to tell you how her day went and all that happens in it.

Let me tell you, if you set your altar right (a dependable relationship you have with God, where he gives you strategies, insight and answers) you will worry less, you're giving yourself BP for nothing. The Best way to keep certain treasured items, is to be willing to lose them, this is where ultimate power lies. The power to lay things down before God and let Him help you, you can't be too sure with your strength.

Don't listen to kids telling you that your wife is this and that and that you will lose her in UK, all those are childish and rubbish talk, you're overbearing on her hence her responses, let her be and she'll come running, if she has you in mind.

OkoAmarashy:
That woman is waiting for you to come there so she can ruin you finally.
I don't want to give advice cos they will work like magic but they are very brutal.
Tell her you are indebted as a result of financial issues and you can't fund her, you will see how she will treat you.

Ordinary UK wey she go, she don begin misbehave. Very unenlightened lady.

Limaqueen98:
yes

Limaqueen98:
don't worry yourself too much I understand your pain

Limaqueen98:
you are wrong try get sense small now there are Alot of women that will do anything for their guys just to make them happy,bros be calming down now wetin woman do you to be behaving like this now

Limaqueen98:
now I understand you,you don't do prostitute and all the lady you have always dated keep on disappointing you,sorry now I fell your pain more

kbower:
Bro the emboldened makes your statement right, and words on Marble, I have spent over 27 million naira on the japa process, and still have more to spend ahead. It is indeed a sacrifice, but bro, she nor even send or appreciate anything, but me nor send cos na the children be the koko. Infact the agent that arranged everything duped me of 3k pounds, I arrested him, going from the station to and fro, only for madam to be expressing sympathy towards the guy that he feels pity for him that hes arrested, but what about me that spent the money and stressing out to arrest the guy and going to and fro? Am i not human, am I not to be the one in the position of being sympathetic towards?

leef2022:
MA and DA applications decision are done separately and possibly different eco. So a letter of consent will suffice in such scenario.

tensazangetsu20:
Well if a man keeps on getting such request then seeing prostitutes is cheaper. Not every man will be handsome or influential enough to have women love him. It's best to look out for yourself in such scenario economically.

tensazangetsu20:
I see this online all the time. Do people do this actually pay women to date them 50k is enough for two rounds of sex everyday for a whole month why spend it paying an ungrateful woman to date you. Anyway, Nigerian men dont love themselves.

Michelle70:
Well, i feel so sorry for u and the kind of girls u always end up with.

tensazangetsu20:
It really depends. If you have a girlfriend that likes you then it's better to get a girlfriend. A girl that likes you won't let you spend money on her anyhow and will always put your needs first but if your gf is the money type it's actually cheaper to see prostitutes or hookup or whatever.

Michelle70:
This is one-sided.

A hookup girl billing is nothing close to a girlfriend billing.

If u give a girl 50k monthly, u can have sex with her whenever u are honey, A girl understands when u are broke, a hookup babe might disgrace u if u had sex and didnt pay

If u treat a girlfriend right, she will give u happiness, a shoulder to cry on.

When it comes to sexual protection, please dont even go there, girlfriends are far safer, u can have raw sex with ur babe but will never try it with an hookup girl.

Even if na boxer and singlets, a girlfriend will get u a gift, a hookup babe will not give u sachet milk as gift

jagbasneh:
M.A
Cos, IELTS general ukvi, tb, pcc, pof if maintenance isn't tick inside ur cos, passport data page.

Dependant partner.
Tb, pcc, marriage certificate, cos number of MA, pof if maintenance isn't tick for the own family, passport data page.

Baby
Tb, birth certificate from national population council, cos number of MA, pof if maintenance isn't tick for the own family, passport data page, consent letter to be sign by both parent.

After u submit application online, u will do biometric on the date u pick when submitting ur application. Hope it help

Limaqueen98:
na your type can't even afford to pay a lady bill but here you are saying things you can't even do a tiny of it,why are you so pain when I talk about how you guys behave,with this your reaction it's enough for me to know that your type is worst than anything that I can imagine,what did you have to share who will date or marry someone like you,you are here telling me rubbish

dazzlingd:
I don’t know how you men agree to become dependent to a woman and follow her to UK, aren’t you a man. The African in you says you are the man and a woman should follow and support your dreams not the other way. You cannot import western standard to an African, there won’t be balance. When Nigerian girls get abroad, the freedom run them crazy and they can’t sustain it.

Limaqueen98:
what are you saying,don't forget that somewoman don't like to depend on a guys money who boyfriend help what some women need is true love not all women are after what you just say abeg I have seen a lady who has give up her dream everything even went against her family just to be with the guy she loves,she was the one that work and provide everything but at the end after the lady gives birth to only one child the mumu run away leave her to suffer and went after another lady men don't have conscious and you are here telling me that woman are after men money,which money did you guys have to give

Limaqueen98:
you don't have to be like this because of what one lady do to you the same things go to you men too infact you men are the worst it's hard to get your true love and attention,when a woman is in love it's very hard to hurt his guy,a woman in love can give up everything just to be with the man she loves and care for nomatter what a woman will stick to her heart and do anything to make his guy happy but you men even if you are in love with a women it's easy for you guys to cheat,and walk away in a relationship so easily than a woman you guys have power to do anyhow with a women because las las una don enjoy wetin una want finish

Qatar2022:
And you think they will not investigate every claim she claim? They're not that dumb bro

Konjiboii:
See this babe, werey wan disguise as man.

Why should he waste money to treat a babe when he can as well pay upfront same amount and smash the babe. This thing called relationship in Nigeria is a scam from both party, it's best you know the outcome and play along with the expectations before you end up as statistics as one of her maga

Wealthbrain22:
I’m good at this point, at least I don’t get to be “considered “ after all I put in to get to this financial level. A female without up to 20k in her account will now be “considering” me? God forbid, if I toast any babe again make I bend.

Evolutionlove:
King Of "Nairaland Resident SIMPS" Welldone..

Qatar2022:
Easier to say than doing, the man will be stupid and leave you with all this trash

kelspinall:
4 sometimes this people forget that you have junior ones too and same time you are also a human that also needs food..omoh some gals sef..

MissLAP:
What a senseless post, Ideas like this comes from gigolos.

Men are becoming weaker Sha!

virginprincess:
You are very very correct op,don't mind what all those clowns called redpillers would say.

Penflame:
Huhmmm...
Could you explain the female genital mutilation further, please?

Flamemignon1:
Duh, there's artistic freedom and God is what you say it is,he never mentioned the "christian" god, he's expressing his spirituality in his own way and cancel culture is a myth,Dave Chappelle is still at the top of his game