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Richy4:


I talk too much?... Dude, u have no idea how bored I was having this conversation with you..I was just doing it out of courtesy that's all...

I usually quote selected people that makes perfect sense and 100% clear in their opinion...U quoted me and out of respect I usually accord people online, I engaged you to know what you were driving at.... I don't know the polite way of saying that you don't know what you were talking about without coming out rude.. that was why it took longer than necessary... sorry about that...

To avoid this happening again in future, please check the name properly.. it's Richy4...if u can't answer my questions clearly and precisely, please don't quote me... of course you know I can never dream of quoting u...

Lol...another proud fvcker on a faceless forum
You cant make a point with few words....its not nice and its tiring...that was my point... even you trying to insult me now has too many words

revaultng:
Hello.

I feel I’m impotent and I’m really worried. Extra worried. I’ve never had penetrative sex all my life and I’m 26. Since 2013, I’ve been a chronic masturbator. I felt it was safe since i read online that it had no side effect. So i felt I’m good till i was with my girlfriend. We tried having sex and I couldn’t penetrate her. I wasn’t hard enough. We tried several times again and it was the same thing. She broke up with me. Fast forward to February this year. I was with another babe, we linked up and tried to have sex but still the same thing. I felt I wasn’t attracted to her. Another in June and I wasn’t even erect one bit.

Then i got so worried. Went to the hospital, and the doctor said i was okay medically. Tried herbs and still didn’t feel confident. I read somewhere on nairaland where a guy saiid he used Zinc supplement. I’ve stopped masturbating. And I’ve been using the supplement too. But I’m really not convinced cos I don’t wake up with erections but when I’m awake, i get hard.

Please, I’m dying. I need help ������

U sure u are not a faggót....??

Vulturereloaded:
Do you know that if APC wins, Nigerians have endorsed all the evil that happened in 8 years of APC.

It means we have endorsed banditry, kidnapping, violent agitation.

We have endorsed snakes and monkeys swallowing money.

We are ok with the downward spiral of the Naira.

We endorse a bag of rice for 40,000, flight 80,000, dollar 900.

We have endorsed Muslims lunching christians for blasphemy.

We have endorsed presidents spending tax payers money for treatment abroad.

Endorsed nepotism.

Endorsed outright violation and disobedience of the law.

Endorsed empowerment of terrorists by release and ransom.

Sadly....u see all those party members in various wards...they dont care as long as their party wins and they can get scrap change, small contacts.....make no mistake, these people are many...they are your colleagues at work, church, market women, who do meeting with party women leaders and so on

Peniel13:
You need to use VPN or have someone pay for you from abroad with their card. I had same issue.

Vpn ??

Richy4:

Thank you for answering the (a ) part which was what you considered to be your definition of proof,I liked the fact that u went an extra mile to explain the characteristics of good evidence...

But you omitted the (b) part of the question that says what do you think was concrete enough as an evidence to be tendered before a judge...because I believe he/she (judge) is in a good position to know which evidence presented before him or her was doctored, staged or cooked...

As for your statement on red ink, u made it rocket science actually... You implied that proof would be made simple when a man forced a woman who doesn't want to have sex...
How will the woman proof that she doesn't want to have sex if the man that forcefully took her says that it was consented? Or do you think that the judge and juries should be present while the did was going on so that they can collaborate with the woman and said indeed it was rape because they were there

Nigga..u talk too much....whats your point??

Richy4:
The last time I checked,Proof is an evidence or argument establishing a fact or the truth of a statement...

A woman said she was raped which was her statement and she provided a recording audio device to substantiate her claim as a proof of what she said, and u asked if that was a proof?

Ok based on your opinion;

<<(a) How do you define proof ?
<<(b) what is concrete enough to be an evidence that a woman was raped since you insinuated that audio recording that captured those voices were not good enough ..

Proof is infallible, it doesnt look staged, cooked or doctored....proof is simple when a man forcefully fvcked a woman who doesnt want to be fvcked by the fvcker...nigga it not rocket science...its modeen day feminism that created alot of grey and complicated areas in this matter

Richy4:

I believe you got female fans here in Nairaland who are kin to know your thoughts and opinions... So my question is..Is the Manchester United Greenwood girlfriend's kind of evidence/ recording good enough for marital rape evidence? Since you are looking for proof..

Just say yes and the ladies will swing into action...and starts presenting that kind of proof to judges..and u know that collecting such evidence is simple right? And you know what that kind of evidence is capable of doing right?

U call that proof....??

Richy4:
We might not be of the same view but I believe marital rape is wrong..
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I never said rape isnt wrong...whether marital or not.....i'm asking women to show proof of the rape...and not just claim they were raped
... ask this op which proof she has....she gat nothing...she's just a scorned woman..

u talked about DNA....DNA isnt suppose to be convictable proof btw husband and wife cos his sperm is not a random stranger's sperm...

.why will anyone convict a man for having his semen in his wife's vagina when the sex could have been consetual and the woman lied it isnt since she knows the nigga sperm will be in her...

Richy4:


I guess u think rape is something that happens only between strangers... What the man did is Nonconsensual.. I believe u as an individual have the right to make your own decisions so also what happens to your body...if u were not in the mood to have sex and your wife brought a knife or a gun and ordered u to pull your underwear,I guess u might understand that part better....

In marriage, forced sex is still sexual violence,
Spousal or marital rape is still rape...
The ideas of forcing or manipulating another person into unwanted sexual intercourse is referred to as rape. even if it’s done by someone you’re dating or married to..

It's wrong in all ramifications..Sex should be enjoyed by both parties involved..

U people are just trying too hard to sound politically correct....all these talk is western trash, mixed with feminism, giving women more power to deal with men....

.when u hear a rape case back in the day...the evidence is the body of the woman..very clear.... now ..women will just wake up and claim rape.. and its just the womans word against the man..

I even heard this new definition of rape covers when u are already fvcking with consent....and she suddenly decides its no longer consent...

This op claiming she was raped by her husband is still in the house eating food, using light, staying in the place where she claimed her attacker abused her, the same place where she's claiming what she ddnt want happened to her.....okay ooo....i'm not supporting rape..but lets know when someone is actually raped and when someone is just trying to be vindictive..

Tickles001:
So. He should just sit and wait till the anger is down before doing what must be done?
There could be no better option concerning that house. He can't sell or rent it out because it was built on the family land of the said wife.
People should do whatever helps them vent their anger. So long as they're not the first offender.

What other options do you think would have come up after the anger? Oya answer

U have time dey deliberate with woman...they will never support decisions that makes them lose even though they did wrong......women wey dey destroy their boyfriend property when he cheats atill dey vex say the guy destroy him own property...... i build house u dey spread leg for another man inside that house...no be juju be that??

I remeber one of my guy man exact words..." i buy u iphone eleven, u dey use am send nudes to another man" ...... is that not witchcraft...

Women!! they know how to comminize the sacrifice you made for them...u will hear them say will say "shebi na gift, did i force him"..

..guys... your blood dey betray you...how much more woman wey u meet for street...women dont even count cheating, dumping you or using you for their gain as betrayal .....its simply doing whats best for them....

Thats why as a man u need give urself brain when u spend..some ídiot will even collect loan to buy car or luxury phones for woman.....i mean wtf

DadaHammed:
These Arabs are now very mean to Nigerians.
Thank God say I no get business with any Arab country.

Arabs are mean, to even their own people....

TPGoddess:
Hi! I am back with another topic.

Okay, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months plus and for the most part it has been terrific. We chat, videocall and do what most couples do.

The only main issue I see is that the entirety of our relationship has been long distance. I was completely aware and consented to it, but now I am having second thoughts on the relationship as a whole.

-- Side Track--
In between being in my first relationship and having high expectations of my man, I have this ideology that as a couple we should treat each other equally. Let me explain, if I go out my way for you, I expect the same. I always thought it would make sense that way.
--Side Track --

Anyways, we made time to meet and he agreed on coming over first. When he came over, I made sure I wasn't an inconvenience to him. However when, I want to come over, he gives me the cold shoulder.

I voiced out my anger and he made me feel like my emotions aren't valid. I have been looking at everything he has done to annoy me and I am starting to second guess.

I need your help on this one. Am I overreacting to the whole situation?

There was no issue when he wanted to visit you at your place and shine your congo... but wahala started when u want to go to his place .....lol


madam....u dont need advance rocket science to decipher you are dealing with a married man or a fvck boy that doesnt even have a house to receive you... take the redpill and be objective in your thinking

Kobojunkie:


▪︎James said to resist the devil... how do you resist him? Go back through the teachings of Jesus Christ to realize that the only way to do that is described in John 8 vs 31 - 36 - not by directly engaging the devil in what you folks like to refer to as your battles but instead by resolving the issue of sin in your lives this through obedience of the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ, the only way to know the Truth(Jesus Christ) and have the Truth(Jesus Christ) free you from slavery to sin. Yes, the devil in your life is a result of sin and sin a result of the bad things you have stored up in your heart -lies that keep you chained to the devil.

▪︎ Zechariah 3 - the angel did not rebuke Satan. I suggest you read again for better understanding.

▪︎ Jude 1 also indicated that the angel did not/could not rebuke Satan

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Jesus Christ is written to have directly rebuked Satan, however, on no occasion did He hint to His followers that they had authority given them by Him or by His Name to do the same. What Jesus Christ instead azure them is that He had overcome it all for their sake and all they had to do was live their very lives in continuous submission and obedience to His teachings and commandments in order to enjoy the peace and rest that He promised them.

Lol.....sigh

redseason:
Unfortunately, his lawyer friend is right. Spousal rape does not exist in Nigeria. Simply read the definition of rape under the VAPP act, criminal code and penal code. How do you convict someone for a crime that does not exist.

It just means there is no evidence....

..the west and their stúpid feminism ideology is what made us started hearing about accusing men of rape with no evidence....which the op wants to claim.....if after the sex..they made up, Kiss each other, and he apologized for their previous fight...this thread probably won't be here...many 21st century rape accusation from women is often how they feel after sex rather than the act it self...

...In those days ...when a woman say she's rape....her body is the clear evidence ... Now it's just a woman's words against the man...which will not stand in any nigerian court weda its between husband and wife or other persons

Kobojunkie:
RUBBISH!

In scripture, it is revealed that only God has authority to rebuke Satan. No man, not even angels have that authority. So for a man to claim he was able to rebuke the one called Satan, he either has to be operating under what is severe delusion or he thinks himself equal to God in every way.

Can u try constructive criticism? It makes it easier to correct people without sounding condescending and obnoxious... Maybe your context of rebuke is different from how the op decide to use rebuke..because obviously he used it in the context of resisting an attack or perhaps a negative thought etc.......accusing him of thinking that he is equal to God is a bit of an overkill

Btw....can u explain James 4v7: Submit yourselves therefore to God, rebuke the devil, and he will flee from you....

...zech 3, where the angel rebuked the devil concerning Joshua the high priest??...

...and Jude 1v9 which also record an angel rebuking the devil in the name of the lord

Before u shout rubbîsh at me too and accuse me of equating myself to God....please try constructive criticism

GboyegaD:
A lawyer friend once told me that under the Nigerian constitution, there is nothing like rape in a marriage.

There is rape in marriage in nigeria ooo
.its just hard to prove without clear evidence..

Offpoint1:
I'm not a football fan, but it seems this Ten Naira of a guy is running mad.

You benched him in previous match, he got upset, you punished him' sent him to kindergarten team, denied him today's game and still come out crying you MISSED HIM....

ment

He's just trying to end his punishment quickly