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Flamemignon1:
And I ask again who said it had to be static?

Nobody.....culture isnt a state or democratic law ......if u dont want to pay bride price u dont have to....u can marry a tribe that doesnt ask for it....

Samantha123:
That's why I say we must get married in community of property first.. in that way he'll be able to monitor our financials because what's mine would be his and what's his would be mine.

Me winning the contract would simply mean that the both of us will be entitled to a 50/50 share and we can use the entire money to start a family business.

What more do want me to tell you because we're just going round in circles here..

The question already said "husband" and yes came with all sorts of clause just to help your husband.....all i asked...if the tables were turned how will u feel....u are the one going in circles here in an attempt to dodge the question here cos u already know the answer

Flamemignon1:
Are you sure you read what I wrote well because I gave a condition in mine

Dont be condescending...its rude......u implied that culture isnt static but dynamic.....

And i said who made the rule....Who said it has to be dynamic.?? you...??..

Samantha123:
Like I said, you need to consider the possibility of a divorce somewhere in the future when you get married, especially when a lot of money is involved.

When I do something, I always consider the long term outcomes or the possibilities of what may happen in the future.

And don't forget that money can change people, especially when they handle it alone.

Wow.....Now i see why marriages dont last..

Be truthful...if your man says he will not do something nice for you like help u win a contract, or buy u car, or help advance your career because u can change or leave him in the future, how will u feel..??

Samantha123:
This is not about feminism, a lot of marriages nowadays don't last.

And when we get married, we get married with the aim of sticking together until death do us apart, but we mustn't shy away from the possibility of a divorce somewhere in the future.

All those people that divorced didn't plan it, it just happened.

I wouldn't want him to buy me a car or give me millions because I'd want us to invest the money on a family business or a company, so that we can create a legacy for our kids and grandkids.

Only after the business has succeeded, he can then buy me that car and we'll go on countless vacations..

Please explain why you want to do something good for your husband that will even supposedly benefit u both... but you are first thinking of how u will deal with him?? is that not witchcraft

johnson4nosa:
Dear friends please I need an assistant, I operate carwash business and my boys are suffering from this fungi infection under their feet..... Which anti fungi infection can be prescribed for them

First try canesten cream for a site targeted approach....if it persist, which i doubt....fulcin tablet will do the magic....

Samantha123:
I will choose my husband on a condition that we must be married in community of property.

If it happened that our marriage status was out of community of property, we will go to the civil court and change it into in community of property.. in that way, if he dares tries to leave me after I handed him that contract worth millions, I'll make sure that I fight him in the courts for my equal share.

As for my brother, we can give him a position within the company as long as he's proven himself and he qualifies for the job.

U would expect your husband to do things for you naturally because your are his wife..buy u a car without condition...give you millions, etc

But u want to help ur husband with contract now....it is how u will deal with him first that you are thinking about.... i told u yesterday.

that when women want to practice feminism its always about making men suffer...

Now u get it

@Flamemignon1

I know your people wont listen...... they will go amd form victim as usual.....

MDK777:
is the Man also a virgin??

Whats your point?? So wht if the male is not a virgin??

Poor marry rich
Lame marry the able bodied
The blind marry those that can see...
Whos making rules that only virgins must mary virgins.... again i ask ...whats your point?

Jovialjune1:
What is this one saying?



Na gender war your brain fit comprehend? Can't you read?

Clear off please if you have nothing to say...

Flamemignon1:
Culture isn't static,it's a dynamic concept that evolves overtime especially when the masses sees that some people are discriminated by it

Says who?? U??
There are cultures that have remained for centuries even in the west...people started them....its a choice

satelliteDISH:
Please I need your advice. Not abuse.
I didn't go to any ashawo house ooh. It was my girlfriend that gave it to me.
My Penxx is really paining me anytime I urinate.
I have bought one sachet of becham ampiclox. It has finished and my P is still paining me.

Help me recommend a drug to buy. I am dying in pains.

for this 2022? wey many girls dey use 700k phones without any job?? Lol...u dey skin dive?

U dey lose guard be that...u have been warned to practice safe sex or abstain...stop assuming the person u are sleeping with is faithful....

Go to the genersl hospital mr man....it will be expensive but u will get the best care...

If u no get money...go pharmacy and tell them ur problem...with lock and dosage trouble shooting...u might get the right drug

thesicilian:
Why do you care what strangers think of your personal preferences?

Some women will just drop dead if they dont get attention

Flamemignon1:
I thought we were living in 2022,anyway this is the abuse women who want to be sold like a goat or a chair have brought on themselves,the same goes to men in asian countries like India who are also willing to be sold like animals to their wives also meted on themselves

No one is selling anybody....cultural practice exist everywhere even in civilized/morally degraded climes

PT37:
ARINDIN!!!!!

U came here for something else.... na fight u dey fight ..

MDK777:
Who dis virgin them

Only the women can answer who disvirgined them ooo...some disvirgined themselves, some alhajis for money, some yahoo boys.... only women can know who they sleep with...

That question is not for the man that wants to pay bride price

1Sharon:
Why do men get enraged when women want to date rich men?

Lol....Men dont get enraged.....its okay to have your choice ..infact its okay to be broke and want a rich man....rich men date broke women all the time....

Its u women that cry foul a man says he wants a virgin or a working class woman that earns well or a woman with a low body count...

.if a man dares mention he doesnt want a woman that has done abortion....ww3 yaff started..

seanwilliam:
Please quote me when she replies.
Cc odinson1

Women and logic dont go together....

To them, men should only have choices that accomodate them and their wayward life...

nightfox01:
See ehn bro make I clear you if you no fit give you no suppose collect I merely tested them they saw I was thirsty and I had a shopping bag if they had an ounce of humanity they woulda gave since I woulda given to give is pain that is why no one wants to give

Your money...your rules

nightfox01:
You sound very privileged I think you are well to do I pray for you not to come back to square one if you do the pain and heartbreak from people who ya sacrificed a lot for can drive you nuts

These people u decided to test are at the lowest of low....u should know that level their mentality is also impaired... they probably give too but not to people like you

Why? u dont look lile u are in need....just like u wont probably give one neat guy that approach u with begging format.......to them, asking them felt more like you wanted to exploit them cos u saw when they were given 300 naira.....i ddnt expect them to behave any differently

Nonexisting1:
You don't get it, do you? This thread is above you, please check others.

Humans are naturally selfish which is why I now look out for myself first. Even when I have children, I will still look out for myself first before them. If I don't secure my retirement and save enough for my old age, I'm not leaving a dime for the modafucckers in my sperm now because chances are they will look out for themselves first too. Everybody should go and find work.

The vawulence is spreading fast...everybody just dey para

Romanoff:
I don't get angry as long as the man is also a virgin.

Virginity isn't only for women so don't expect what you can't give.

When ur gender go around looking for rich men ....this ur ideology no longer applies abi?? U will say a woman can decide what she wants and go for it...

But once a man wants something....wahala will start

Samantha123:
Yes, it means equal rights for men and women, not that women should hate men.

Either you men feel intimidated by feminist women, or those bitter women are busy misusing the word feminism.

You are still not getting it......

They should have sole right to keep or kill their baby if they want....but they should not also have the right to drag a man for child support.

Its your body...
Killing the baby is your responsibility alone.

Keeping it alive and caring should also be your responsibility alone if you never agreed to start a family with man innthe first place....

Samantha123:
You guys don't understand what feminism is, the same goes to those bitter women.

We understand what feminism is....we can define it....we know it means equal rights for men and women.....you are the one thats not really getting what we are saying....we are just telling you what's happening in reality which is always sifferent from official definition

Feminism in practice is men-hating ..nothing more

Samantha123:
Funny enough, I'm a feminist, but I have nothing against men.

I believe that women should contribute at least 50% into their relationships or marriages... If she's working, she should help with the bills in the house, and if she's not working, then she should just be a house girlfriend or house wife.

And respect should be a mutual thing.

U have not strated practicing your feminism... its just an idea to you.....feminism in practice is witchcraft in every form, shape, and size...

It is what birth all these bias laws against men. In the west the Women dont even pay in anyway for committing paternity fraud, the law still makes the man pay...

sisisioge:
She is a clout chaser ....she couldn't have been serious!

Its not clout...it happens regularly

MelaninGemstone:
Just picked up my Visa today

I had 2 previous study visa denials from USA, I didn’t declare them, but still got my UK visa

I guess I was lucky

Bad geh

stanliwise:
Scamming no dey tire una?

Scamming just dey some pple blood.....even if you give them.job of 2million naira per month dem go still do fraud....

The wife and her demon friends be like...

mymadam:
Baad guy...

Baba No time