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Chigirlpretty:
Good evening every One �
Please I need advice on something �
I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, doing the space of this 2 years, he has seen a lot of money. Just recently, I got a job in his state and I had to move in with him, cos I have nowhere else to go to.

This morning, he called me and said he thought about something and he has come up with a decision that I should leave the house, that ever since we started staying together, that he has not been seeing money ���. He indirectly called me bad luck.

My ex said I was his lucky charm, cos when my ex started dating me then in 2016, he saw a lot of money, he bought so many cars. Am crying right now cos this actually hurts me a lot..

The thing is I have this spirit, whenever people makes me sad or whenever I cry, things becomes very bad for the person that made me cry.. I’ve called him severely for him to make me happy but he has refused.. even if I leave tomorrow as long as am not happy with you, things will never be well with you..
please I want to know if am really bad luck ��

Stop dating yahoo boys.....u will not listen....na them dey think like that...they attribute people around as their good luck charm or even use people as money charm

Btw....u sure say he never use you do jazz and baba tell am say make e no sleep with you again after the jazz...

Location

Mayb she don over-do the guys decided to run am street....
. reminds of that babe that went to order 25k spaghetti when her date ordered just a pie....

I dont get why some women turn dates meant for you to get to know your date into an opportunity to eat what they cant afford....

Is it greed, entitlement, being inconsiderate or just lack of shame??

[quote author=temodent post=117640713][/quote]Ddnt u see that i gave him two options?? I even said the mistake is not a big deal


Abeg leave me jaré...

Merch:
Some people no just sabi mind thier fvckin business

I don learn to always mind my business no matter the situation since the day a woman sue the man that saved her for sexual assault/rape...she say she touch her and gave her mouth to mouth without her permission.. say she felt violated

https://prezi.com/8ktng86hg13p/cassidy-boon/?fallback=1

https://www.globalnea.com/woman-press-sexual-assault-charges-on-a-man-who-performed-mouth-to-mouth-cpr-on-her/

Una go shock when she and her husband go accuse those guys of assault at weapon point..

Zonefree:
Gathering of SIMPle men, an Abuser and a Fish brain.

U like violence

Sleekcode:
Imagine how babes put their mouth on yours

why will i imagine for someone else... i dont know what they find ugly or disgusting....

U dey nairaland matter too serious...no be everytime you go drag gender equality into petty talks

jetwonder:
pussycat

i still dont know how niggas put their tongue there...

philip888:
AN URGENT APPEAL FOR HELP TO LOCATE AND RESCUE MY CHILDREN.
My name is Philip Anochie. I humbly appeal to you to help me rescue my children from Pastor Chris Okafor, the owner of Grace Nation International Aka Liberation City located at Plot 4-12 Oshofisan Street, off Odozi street, By Ereke Bus stop, Ojodu Berger, Lagos , Nigeria. Telephone: 08073375176, 08032729060,08162410229, 08095906161, 08157557605.
Pastor Chris Okafor gave a false prophecy that I want to make my daughter to run mad spiritually. (I HAVE THE VIDEO). Pastor Chris Okafor and my wife staged the prophecy to brainwash my daughter against me. If you watch the video, you will see that my wife and my daughter came out from the crowd even before Pastor Chris Okafor called Lucia my daughter to come out showing that they are aware that Pastor Chris Okafor was about to call them to prophecy about them. A copy of the video can be made available to you if you request it on my Whattsapp Number +2348140624643.
This prophecy made my wife, Vivian Anochie, to pack out of my house in shasha area of Lagos with my six children to an unknown address somewhere in dopemu – agege axis of Lagos State which is near Pastor Chris Okafor’s Church.
Pastor Chris Okafor rented the flat for my wife and used it to detain my wife and children.
A video of the flat can be sent to you through my Whattsapp number ; 08140624643.
Search the name of Pastor Chris Okafor on facebook and youtube. Pastor Chris Okafor has been widely reported widely on facebook and youtube as a 419 pastor and is likely to use my children for rituals to grow his church.
Pastor Chris Okafor made that prophecy against me because of his interest in my wife and to brainwash my daughter against me. He rented the house for her with the purpose of using my children for ritual sacrifices later to grow his church.
My wife put my phone number at “ user busy” and denied me access to the children. Two of my children that passed Jamb could not go for their post -utme examination registration. My children are in psychological trauma as they cannot see me or receive my calls. I humbly appeal to you Sir, to help me to rescue my children.
My wife is not working or doing any business. Pastor Chris Okafor rented a flat near his church and kept my wife and children with a motive to use them for ritual sacrifices to recover his money spent on them. He promised heaven and earth to my children to the extent that two of them that passed Jamb told me that they are not going to university. Pastor Chris Okafor deceived my wife into agreeing to move into the flat and brainwashed my children against me .
My wife put my telephone line on” user busy” , blocked me on whattsapp and facebook and warned my children not to communicate with me or leave the house without her permission.
One of my children that contacted me, sent me these two text messages:
“ Call me in 30 minutes time”.
“ Mummy did not allow me to go out”
I believe that their life may be in great danger if I do not find them on time. My younger children schooled last year in Shasha government primary school but were transferred from there by my wife to another government school probably near where they are living now.
My wife refused to give me their new address and denied me access to my children thereby putting their life in danger.
Sir, I will like you to help me to locate and rescue my children from Pastor Chris Okafor. As a man of God, he is supposed to unite families and not to take people’s wife and children because of his wealth.
It will be very much appreciated, Sir, if my humble appeal is granted.
Thank you very much, Sir, for your kind assistance.

Philip Ifesinachi Anochie.
Telephone: 08166582414.
Whattsapp Number: 08140624643.
E-mail: philipanochie@gmail.com.

Nairaland no fit help you....na police and gistlover on instagram u need....

Oga off your mic......to them, all you are doing is attacking and bashing them.....

Theres one in my office...shes the mama of our unit...38 years old.... theyve introduced many guys to her ..her excuses??

He's short, he's bald, he has only HND
His salary is low...he has a son, he's not my type....ask her what her type is..she will just be quoting hollywood and public acceptable standards of men....yet this lady is fat oooo...

Some people dont want to admit we cant all get what we wish for...thats fate.....still, we can get what fate males available for us and make what we want out of it.......

men adjust their standards easily but most women dont, couple their long throat, thats why many of them are single.

Towma:
What is your ranting about, if any woman offended you before then direct your grievance to them. If any woman generalized men before does that make it right?
Which kain you women this, you women that?

Lol.....
E be like the matter don vex u...na just normal talk for here....sorry no vex say i branch your side come offend you

culf:
which abuja? na story bros, most will rather collect money from guys though they have or start a relationship with someone before sex rather than paying for it.
you guys are getting it all wrong, most lady, married or not, meet men everyday trying to have sex, so why then should I pay another guy for it.

Dont get stuck up in 1992..this is 2022...some women pay for sex....if ive not seen it ...i wont say sooo.... u think say na girls wey dey look for men to buy her her iphone we dey talk

Oga make we dead this matter....no need to argue

Towma:
So one man's story means Abuja women are doing it?

The person that worded this topic has mental problems.

When some.guys cheat..you wome come and say all men cheat...but this story is now from a mental human being......the story ddnt even all abuja women do it... these things happen evwrywhere...it just common in big cities like lagos, abuja, amd port we have more older women who are not married and rich to pay for sex

I still dont get why u women are always triggered when they say your gender did something wrong or shiitty.... its not like you love each other like that..

.na women pull women down pass

underpinna:
Na so Una dey always do. Once the topic dey against una, na Rubbish.

Lol.....na their way.....

culf:
As a guy, when a lady wants to offer you money for sex, you should think critically about it, because on a normal day, a lady will have so many men around (admirers and even strangers) that wants to get down with her, both married and single, so why will such person pay you for it, something she can easily get anywhere and anytime for free.

Go abuja or come island where many divorcee and rich mama dey wey no fit stay husband house cos of pride ....they do coded runs alot...women pretend like they dont fvck so some keep their sexcapades ddiscreet by paying

jojothaiv:
But FESTAC '77 was not all smooth sailing. Nigeria being Nigeria, there was disagreement as to the cost of the event, and the ways the funds were used etc etc.

We've come long way with this corrupt and sharp practices...

Things were still better then..corruption was not high to the heavens like we have now .....after the whole show....the government gave out housing to many nigerians via lottery..

if it were to be now....the entire flats and housing units would be shared among senators..

OldNairalander:
I still believed the West have a hand in Nigeria's current woes.
This country was fast rising to become a rich and powerful black empire of sort that will liberate all black men all over the world. Unfortunately for her,the West can't survive without Africa's resources. Hence the coded Carthage like treatment on Nigeria to destroy it's influence.

Yes...the west was interested in our resources..international trade is a normal thing......we never gave them for free....we exported to make money....
..
We shot ourselves when we abandoned every other thing that gave us revenue and made our naira powerful after we found crude oil.....

the west ddnt do that to us

Stargurl20:
Smiles. To a large extent, you're correct. However, I do not see all men as the same. Just as I don't believe all women is greedy, materialistic, feministic etc like you guys claim. I've just not been able to feel love towards someone else. I wish our emotions are things we have control over.

U will have to try.......sometimes u just have to be patient to get to know people ......the unconscious or unconscious standards we set for ourselves is what makes someone our type or not our type, attractive or not attractive.... .

Sometimes lookimg past those standards will let you see people u thought arent your type are actually your type......

If you dont give people a chance...i.e, u shut pple out, right from when they say hello because they dont look like kiss daniel or dont drive a car or they dont look cool, they ddnt buy u iphone, they ddnt take you to fancy restaurant......u have yourself to blame when u have no one to be with... thats not life being unfair to you...we cant all get a davido, or dangote...

All these he's not my type, he doesnt have money, he has no white or blue collar job, he's ugly, not cool, not lovable, and what not, are all unconscious and conscience standards we have set for ourselves along the way that makes us not even give people a chance...
some women cant even date their course mates, their colleagues, graduates like them, let alone men of lower claibre

....the truth is ...men adjust their standards quickly and easily.....thats why a man can get married easily once he decides he's ready..not because he's a man....... a man can marry a jobless women, a maid, single mothers, fruit seller, pepper seller..etc

...when it comes to women.....he's short, he doesnt have money, he has HND, he has inky OND, he's bald, he's not cool....the day i heard a woman reject a man cos he's too gentle i knew some women will never have anyone to be with...

.some single mothers even reject single fathers like them ..then you say life is not fair..... okay oooo

...every person either man or woman complaining about not being married has turned down opportunities they ddnt even bother to give a shot with conscious and unconscious standaeds they have set

the world is full of 8 billion people.......the odds are stack up in your favor when it comes to having someone to be with and marry....so dont give me that cráp about the world is not fair.

She's not toasting you....she's working you to make you pay for her food....she wont even call you cos the number she collected is just a disguise to make it look like she wants you for real

LewisHamilton15:
I hate my girlfriend and nothing will ever redeem my love for her. I want to punish her for her infidelity before sacking her out of my life. I will do this by openly having another girlfriend.

Usually.....i say payback is allowed....
but a girl cheating on you doesnt rate you ...so having another girl will likely not hurt her.......you were probably nothing to her than an ATM

I dont undertsand why cheaters beg their victim/partner??

How can you be begging the victim of you infidelity to allow you to continue treating him or her like trash

igbotormentor:
For people that doesn't read the Bible, Lazarus was a man that died for four days before Jesus Christ raised him up, he was the iconic man that Jesus Christ wept for, when Jesus Christ got to Lazarus tombz his sister's complained he was stinking (rotten), Jesus Christ do not take away the odious oozing smell rather He ask them to remove the stone and HE raise him up, He turned the rotten dead body back to life but do not take away the bad smell, eventual it goes away within seconds. in fact people still seek to kill him afterward,

Now Tinubu mistakenly said from rotten situation to bad situation is a slip but not out of place, a rotten situation gets better on stages like the situation of Lazarus before it now glorify GOD.

This desperation is not needed....the man made a mistake....not a big deal.... but trying to tag what jesus did as rotten to bad is tantamous to blasphemy because it is degrading the work of God.....

Endtime cousins fvking each other



Anyway...dont pay shi shi.... she won't do jack