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giselle237:
this is just story. In real life possibility of student or work visa getting is very slim as they’ll keep turning you in the branches

Story.?? I said i saw something with my two eyes u are saying its story....

Do u just want to invalidate my comment or you Have u been there and they said they are not giving you despite u are on tier4??

fineboynl:
If I'm not mistaking Today' is not independence. What are they celebrating today when everyone is carry chicken?

Muslim holiday....
Its not a salah...so most people dont do ram..

Banks92:
Hello sir
It's possible to get PTA from Access bank with a one way ticket? Just to be very certain

The policy of return visa is usually for those on short stay such as tourist or visit visa.

People on student visa or work visa usually cant be on a return ticket...they also need funds too.....so there is usually waiver when u reach a branch by the operations manager

...however like someone said earlier....they can behave like idiotś in some of those bank branches....but all things being equal...u should be able get PTA on one way provided you are on student or work visa... ive seen it with my two eyes

Medianna:
Na now you dey come.

Na now i dey come??

Sigh..!!!

Medianna:
You're not even answering my question you're just debating..
If it was the matter of bride price.
Men were not baring their wife's name before the abolishment.
Furthermore, after a legal annulment, the wife doesn't refund the bride price but stops bearing the name.
I don't think I can buy this your idea of, its because of bride price.

Jesus!!!!...i never said its because of bride price?? Its hard dilaoguing with women here because u can jump to conclusions too quick

I said its the same reason men pay bride price
And that reason is cultural or conventional or widely acceptable norm......which i said in my last comment...

.u can decide not to go with culture or norm if you dont want...

Medianna:
In some places women pay the dowry... You know that right?

U just supported my point....its culture...just as women pay dowry in india.....not a big deal...in tgat same india ..theyve started abolishing bride price.....so if you dontt want to chnage to your husband name....dont ...

If he doesn't want to pay bride price or do wedding ceremony of 500 guest....it shouldnt be by force.....this things are not important....

But as unimpprtant as they are ....one person should be able to allow compromise when someone wants it....and not make a fight out of ego or feminism

VKN23:
The bible made reference to a lot of things considered as a sin
But is there any way you can tell if smoking is a sin as there is no reference of it in the bible

Lol....if we want to stick to what jesus said or ddnt say....we will justify all manner of wrong doings and carnal engagements that is of no value but only increases the strenght of your flesh against the will or spirit of God...

I beleive holiness or staying righteous is not black and white matter....if you say its not a sin to go to club, bar, smoke weed, or sniff cocaine because jesus ddnt mention it...fine...

But i personally avoid some thing becos it leads me to other things that might be outrightly wrong...

hunee:
@rab4sure Come and answer. I think he can get this resolved at the head office of access bank. Should not be an issue.

They do it at branch level...but like u said, they behave like.mad people at some branches ....my colleague wey japa weeks back bought it at access...thats how i know they give part as cash and the rest on a dollar card....

hunee:
Not correct. Confirm from the head offiice. Most of these guys at branches are not well informed.

Did u go to branch and they said they are not paying you PTA because u have a tier4 visa and a one way ticket.??

rab4sure:
Please, is it true I cannot get the forex because I bought one way ticket as access bank customer service told me on call I need return ticket, yet I've already booked the tickets for one way because it's skilled worker visa

Go to the branch....students with one way tickets are buying PTA at access bank......though they will you give only small in cash and the rest in a dollar card...

Reasonwithme2:
I was having couples conversation with my girl. And she told me that she don't want to change her last name after marriage.
She wants us to emulate Olu Jacobs and Joke Silva.

Please what are the consequences of not changing her last name..

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Change of name is a cultural and conventional thing that we have been doing a long time..its like marriage ceremony, like naming ceremony...it not a big deal.but we do it....and it doesnt matter if we dont....

but thats where the redflag lies....if its not a big deal why is she not reaching a compromise since its something you want..... if you say you dint want a marriage ceremony when she wants it...she will say u dont love her and cant give her what she desires....tell her u too will not like to follow the culture of paying bride and other thing culturally collected and hear what she will say...

some women will just be difficult to live with because they will just disagree over everything because they want to show they are feminist....

My advice is let it go but look out for other connecting redflags before you marry her......she might not just like the name change idea as an isolated issue.....
.and it might be more than name change, that she will not agree on for no reason...trust me u dont want to be married to an extreme feminist...

Medianna:
My question is why do women bear their husband name..
And please someone should not come and tell me its because they are one.

Its technically the same reason men pay bride price

Reasonwithme2:
I was having couples conversation with my girl. And she told me that she don't want to change her last name after marriage.
She wants us to emulate Olu Jacobs and Joke Silva.

Please what are the consequences of not changing her last name..

Its has no implication or consequences... just have a legal marriage with documentation

Verifiedcheif:
you guys should pls respect the lady and free her while all the insults .. nairaland are full of bitter men abeg ...someone is just asking for advice una don start dey blast her ...

Op is just catching cruise

Demaxl:
Ah

My plan don spoil

U wan make them send am back to you so u go sell am for aboki for 710naira...??

Thats forex roundtripping...its technically illegal

Demaxl:
Thats probably why the site isnt working again.


So how can i send money abroad at official rate?

No way

MALIGNANTGuest:
Abeg calm down.
Rather push polygamous topics to the front page let's see if we can decongest & settle these numerous ladies still hanging around before we talk of the neophytes.
We can't afford to have our ladies languishing.
Forgive them. The matter don tie wrapper.

Introduce a man to her you will see how picky she is.....its not that these women dont have toasters....their standards is their problem

Demaxl:
Please if i want to send money to a us bank account using western union. What is their naira to dollar rate?

It is Bank rate or official rate which is N450....but im not sure you can send money abroad through western union or moneygram.
..CBN cancelled it sometimes back because of illegal forex rountripping ....

Zonefree:
For you to blur the scammer's number shows you're naturally a greedy girl. I always thank God every morning for taking girls like you away from me. Tueh!

U like violence

Jeweltz:
Don't mind them sister. Dey r always confused. Just focus on what your doing right now. A good man will come. I know it is hard to feel like no man is coming, but hang on

They are confused.? So 20-29year old women dont deserve men men in their life....some of you women are just hypocrites...

Many of you will ignore men chasing you at prime because hes not rich enough....when you are now 35 you will start getting angry at men in general....
.if they introduce a 45 year if man to the op now.."u will hear her say he's too old for me, he's not rich, he's not tall..."the same excuse she gave when she was in her prime..

Same thing for single mothers ...they will complain men ignore them while they dont even want single fathers like them asking them out....
u women will be angry at men for making a choice but want to be choosy as well....is that not witchcraft

Kantebets:
how does your rant relate with your topic of men being wicked
You have no point

She's just frustrated...her mentality is already impaired because she's looking for a man..

instead of being patient and working on her selfesteem amd happiness.....she became a feminist venting unwarranted anger at the men...

imagine saying men are deceiving women because they ddnt chose her but want younger women....so younger girls at 25 dont deserve their own men

.. they are the same set of girls that cry foul just becos a man says he wants a virgin
......
I pity the man that will marry her as she is without working on her selfworth.....

FromZeroToHero:
What matters in marriage is happiness and fulfilment. As a 27years old guy if marrying a 33 or 35 years old woman will make you happy and fulfilled please go for her.

So u know its happiness that matters...why are u saying "dont mind them" as if dating your age circle something wrong ....
Marry your 33 year old in peace....let those that want 27 or 25 year old marry their choice in peace

FromZeroToHero:
My sister don't mind them. I married my wife at 33years and its one of the greatest decision I have ever made.

Whats the meaning of this statement you made?? So its men that are 27 should go for 33 to 35 years old women lile you.??

Men that asś lick women like you are very irritating

Afrobasic:
This thread sweet me die


Evening newspaper don vex

You too like vawulence

Chidi2022:
kai... hit hard with what? biro cover?? or which one? Indeed, if wishes were horse, even AdvanceDNA will ride.... Your fallacy is better imagined because it can never be reality, make i for no wipe you oraimo cord for neck..... guy no sleep, so you can wake up early to wash your daddy's volvo or else no food for you...poor boy...

ewww!!!!! Which man in his right sense will want to sleep with you??....... "hit you hard" was about the insults/cruise we exchanged earlier.....abeg wetin we don talk wey your mind don dey enter gutter.... abeg go call your boyfriend....

.oh i forgot....e go hard make man date someone like you...

Chidi2022:
Ukpo....i mentioned your name since the thread is about mentioning dog breeds... You no be dog? ekuke..

Still the same thing....u cant get me out of your head....that means u go still wake up remeber me....lol....i must have hit you hard....wasn't intentional

Chidi2022:
Lmao.... You dey feel important....Guy i use you dey catch cruise... i no get data watch tiktok .. so i use dey enjoy my evening while snacking on my happy happy biscuit....No go dey catch feelings.. see you see well ooo...

Lol...
U enter new topic yet couldnt get me out of your head, dey mention me?? U sure say u no need help?
Its like you don dey take nairaland matter too serious....

Rayban25:
I obviously know brother...I'm just letting her know what to expect as she gets older...that dosen't require logic for anyone to grasp

U dont get....women will always drag emotions into things....thats why its always a waste of time trying to get them to be reasonable ....
..even if you are speaking sense... the fact that you are man alone can make them not agree let alone when your opinion doesnt favor them

Chidi2022:
Ekuke forming Eskimo....... AdvanceDNA

On a other thread?? Are u that pained?? Did i hit u that hard?? Honestly, I was just stating the obvious...no offence intended at all...

Dont make me live rent free in your head...its not good for you mental health....thats obsession and perhaps, schizophrenia loading..

Rayban25:
Let's not go there oo...do you ladies think you're fair to guys when you receive gifts and money that you're not even interested in having a relationship with?...are you fair to guys when he wants to be genuinely in a relationship and you make fun of him for expressing his feelings?...are you fair when you broke shame men?....when a man finally makes money and has options you cant tell him what to do and tell us to be fair just like we cant tell you what to do when you're in your prime so deal with it.

Nigga...U are trying to be reasonable with a woman... thats not a good move...they are not wired to be reasonable...

women only do what favours them and they want you to do it too even if it hurts you....

thats why a woman will exploit you of money, sleep with another man she likes for free without feeling bad for you....and when u find out and stop giving her, she will still call u stingy and immature..