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SGANIVA:
I don't know if many people here even understand what am saying ,I sell tricycle, Keke and also gives out on hire purchase bases here in onitsha,I got married and full fill all traditional rite , now fix my wedding and traditional ceremony next year but with look of things and money that is involved .

I approached my in-laws to inform them my plans for ceremony the next year but the refuse because the know there daughter is pregnant already threatening me or all type of foul languages , now with lough calculation this things might cost extra 2milion , first Na season we dey , second as a business man , you will fix things that is convenient for your business , but with all this am afraid to continue with this kind of in-laws and wife ,I don't know maybe the think my business collapse because of the ones we did ,by asking me why I should marry there daughter if I know I don't have money

May be the pikin no be your own seff ....cos i dont see why your wife is not on your side in this matter andnd they are frustrating you...mayb them want make u vex say u no do again

Delay the parole...and see if they will tell you you they are not giving you their daughter again....that way u go knoe say another man dey the show

Flamemignon1:
The first paragraph is the definition of tone-deaf and gaslighting,if you people didn't force queer people to conform to society,then maybe they will live their life out of scrutiny,the next thing you are gonna say is society never did any of that gaslighting our issues as usual and yes PDA in general will attract attention but straight PDA won't receive any scrutiny but yet again straight privilege strikes again as you aren't queer so how will you know what they deal with,y'all are the lot they talk about when they say "when you are so privileged, equality will begin to look like oppression"

The last sentence is just wrong as sexuality and sex are two different things,I know asexual couples straight and queer who don't have sex but they show PDAs, reducing one to the other neglects asexuals who exist on both the straight and queer spectrum of sexuality

No one forced gay people to do anything... this is 2022 where we have have gay sex on television and on every screen.....so what exactly is you point here about forcing you to conform??

Opinions and rovering eye cannot be stopped because of PdA...u put your business in public ..u will attract public eye...its that simple...

.... u want to be gay ?? Be gay....u cant determine or force people to look at you how u want.....thats the problem with you gay folks

I saw a dwarf man yesterday....i dont see dwarf people very often so i looked at him more than 20 seconds.... is weird lookimg?? .maybe... dwarfs are minority...so yes i dont see them often.....

similarly gay people are minority too.....its not a big deal being a minority group..its not a bad thing...
.but your problem is that you want people to automatically treat you like you are not..

. i dont see two gay men kissing in public ..heck! i have not seen heterosexuals kiss in public for god knows how long.... so if i see ....i will look at them weirdly...because i dont see it very often...not because they are gay or heterosexual...
. i have said it before and i will say it again....u make announce your sex lile its special....its just sex....

KunGioKehRah:
Don't blame the producers

Demand breeds supply

It's what the audience wants that the directors and producers feed them

You can't be happy as a producer after spending millions of billions and nobody came to the cinema to watch your film or you didn't even recover the money you spent.

So that's the major issue with Hollywood

They are just "bo bo ing " and "mu mu ing" their audience to keep making box offices and profits.

Though other movies or series too are educative and informative, people will hardly watch them

The case here is not actually demand and supply....the case here is social engineering a deliberate attempt to train the mind..

U see these lgbt people have trusted on fake research that produced fake data saying sexuality and gender is more of an environment or social construct rather than nature's construct or design

...therfore...they belive putting these things out there on the internet, movies, schools, etc...will engineering the mind and thinking of the growing generation to become more gay or atleast have a balance between homosexual and heterosexuals..

Dwalata143:
Good day everyone, I’m going as a dependent with my gf (she got a sponsor work visa) ..Will I need proof of funds (POF) if I want to apply for masters when I get there ?

I will really appreciate your reply , thank

U will already be in the uk....? U will no longer need a student visa to study so what will u need proof of funds for again?

Kayberg:


It is pure evil and wickedness to betray someone's trust, especially if they leave something sensitive under your care.

Its also stupíd to not ensure you are exposed to risk in your dealings ....not being stupíd is common sense .....having leverage is key in any relationship where loss is a possibility......

Be gentle as doves, but be shrewd as serpents.. Na Jesus talk am, as he gentle reach

Mrkrobz:
To her own blood sister that's sending her money too

Street no know blood.....
For street, true loyalty is rare....
U lose guard .....u collect ....

Them run am street......

simongonner:
Good day guys .. please I need your inputs on the image attached below.. a friend visa was refused . She met the UKVI test cut off mark.. please what can she do about this ?

From what they wrote...she technically ddnt meet the mark like you are implying...

..the status change of the employer nullifies everyother thing.... she should speak to the employer.....if the employer is not A rated, they might still be qualified to sponsor under scale up visa...but the employer needs to get the license sorted with home office first.....

sorry for the refusal..

Flamemignon1:
Sure, be tone deaf to the scenario I just made because it's completely obvious you didn't read it, it's what y'all do best. Straight people don't get gaping eyes staring at them if they walk down the street holding hands with their significant other,try that between two men in some places and see what happens? And you still think coming out isn't necessary? But like I said spoke like a true man wallowing in straight privilege

I am not being tone deaf... u are the trying to make a problem where there is none whish is the problem with you gay people....u always trying to come out when u can just blend in.... u fvck women for years, have kids and come back to blame on heterosexuals for not living your gay life...

As common as kissing is...as common as hetresoxuals are...two hetorsexual show public display of affection will still attract attention......

Like i said...its a sex matter....its a private issue.....coming out doesnt chamge the fact that u will still have to go fvck in private .....so why sensationalize your sexuality like its discovering a new drug for cancer....its just sex....just fvck....nobody really cares who u cum with.....u gay folks are the ones making your parade abnormal....

ECASH120:
How can she escort a full grown man to the toilet to urinate?

Any body wey belive woman version of story.... sense no dey the person head

SGANIVA:
Well my wife lacks nothing , my business can't even collapse even if I stay at home for a year but there response towards this issue is so disheartening , seems she married me for the wrong reasons .

This is not the kind of response I expect from my surpose in-laws and there daughter , and definitely this is not the kind of woman I wanted

Some inlaws are not family...they are fvckimg parasites from the day one especially from some Nigerian tribes...

u will pay and its not paying thats the problem
.its the inconsiderate and entitlement behavior thats annoying.... watch how they will still send brother inlaws and sister inlaws to your home for you to sponsor.....

Favvybillionz:
Just scrolling through my newsfeed this afternoon and i saw a post by a blogger whereby Brymo the musician was talking about how he masturbated almost all through his teens
And on going through the comments section i just couldn't believe so many, like so many people go through this same thing
Reading through the comments will make u feel so sorry for our generation, it's eaten so deep into this generation.
But the question is how can this be STOPPED?
Incase you want to visit the page and see for yourself, the pix below shows the name of the page

We dont marry early anymore...instead we get exposed to sexual contents like porń at tender age...pórn and masturbatìon go together...ask anyone that masturbates..there is always a visual or mental assist....which is poŕn.....

Take away poŕn and u will fix a lot of sexual and mind derailment.... some people's mind are messed up because weird poŕn like bdsm and masochism is the first thing thier eyes/minds got exposed to.....

Flamemignon1:
Like I said a man wallowing in straight privilege,go to some areas and don't even announce you are gay,just hold hands with a guy [b]the same way straight people do without anyon[/b]e harassing them and see if you will live to tell the tail

There is nothing like straight privilege....we keep our sex private and blend in lile its suppose to be...if not for pregnancy...no one will know some heterosexuals fvck each other


Gay people can just fvck....its just sex... must u make annoucement

Flamemignon1:
Spoken like a true stryke wallowing in stryke privilege,do strykes like yourself get killed for saying they are straight? Tell your fellow homophobes and bigots to mind their then we will stop coming out

Whats paining you??
...it was never business until u started announcing publicly how you choose to cum .....sex is a natural thing..... just be natural.....but i guess u cant....because there's nothing natural about being homosexual

bigpicture001:
so miss 3 triangles...it been about 11years ssince ur trials of emotional entanglement.....

how did it fimally play out....just curious...

Fear women oooo...she said sex with her elder sister's husband is against her will....even though she confessed she dies it for greed/goodies she gets from him....thats why when women accuse you of rapé...they are lying and also telling the truth at the same time

Just get money ....feminism flies out of the window

Evilblackman:
Google is there stop acting ignorant
I’m trying to insult you oh
You are just acting dumb
Search it now

Oga..i don apologize say i branch your side....people ask quick questions on this forum all the time...there's nothing dumb about that...

. u can rest with all the insults....

Evilblackman:
You can show your self , its why you have the internet a mobile phone and the internet
If you can’t make use of it then remain in your cave of ignorance

Sigh!!!!

Vawulence...
. i just told u i watch many wildlife videos online and ive never seen it... but u just had to be condescending ....no vex so i branch your side

jclassiq:
And this is someone who has been gay all his life. Abi, did he just become gay that day? Well, i guess it might be a way of informing the general public so that he doesn't get scandalized in the future. You know, like tiwa savage telling us that she has a sextape on the way.

That mean she has been looking at Roberto carlos and his other team mates yansh

Fearyourcreator:
Result of working hard and smart plus staying in an enabling environment... This are the news I love to hear not crime.. Any Nigerian citizen is an ambassador out there ... Please give us a good name. Any Nigerian going to those places to commit crime.. Needs to be killed with electric chair...

Check very well....na gay...
.hollywood is full of them young gay directors.....forcing other people into homosexuality with juicy roles and projects is now a norm in hollywood

Evilblackman:
You are hilarious
Go to asia and you’ll see doctors turning men to women
Asia homosexuality is even more than America
You people are just ignorant
Everybody is human and homosexuality is part of nature
Even animals do it rest

Can u show one or more video of male animal ramming penis into a fellow male animal's yansh... ive been watching nat geo wild a long time...i dont think ive seen this your claim of animal homosexual....

Btw...i hope u are aware sex is induced in animals by pheromones....i have 6 dogs at home...i have never seen such behaviour..if the females are not on heat oozing pheromones the males dont even near the female...its as if the males dont recognize them as females until they are on heat.... how they will now mount their fellow males is very strange biology

kyber:
A girl just packed into my hostel
Well she is a beauty I must say, we exchange pleasantries and got talking sometime.I asked her what she does and she said she’s a student of my school,I said okay.

Here is the thing she doesn’t stay at home at night and she comes back home the next day at 6pm in the evening only to leave an hour later. When I asked she said she goes to her aunt house to sleep and also eat free food,she made mention that she couldn’t sleep in the room all alone at night.I don’t know how true that is,but when coming in the evening her mode of dressing doesn’t signify that she is a student and she doesn’t come home with books or leave with any.

I asked her one day to borrow me her pen,she said for where,she doesn’t have any,a whole student o,
She dresses recklessly .

So my Question is if she knows she won’t spend 12hours in her hostel or won’t sleep there at night but goes to her Anut place as she claims,why then did she rent the hostel?

Why doesn’t she carry books and pen to class and how does she attend lectures?

Please can any decipher the real a occupation of this girl or is she just wasting her sponsors funds?

Please I need answers

Anytime u hear aunt, cousin, and uncle as an excuse....its a smoke screen

kay29000:
Why will you announce what is normal. Being heterosexual is normal... Homosexuality is out of the ordinary, that's why they announce it. So that people are not shocked when they see them with a guy or shocked at some things they say. Also, to show solidarity for their other gay people that are being beaten and harrased on and offline.

Lol..heterosexual is normal but homosexual is out of the ordinary......
.i like ur word manoeuvre ...its lile you trying hard to sound politically correct??

Homosexuality is not normal.... there u go

I dont know how male footballers will feel being naked knowing a gay co player is around them in their bathroom or dressing room....

Its career suicide being gay in men's football.... .....

hayoholla:
Yes it's not a big deal if he comes out as gay, but you will, in your normal orientation to believe he's straight, until he comes out to tell you he's gay. Then you will look as weird. Don't lie, this will be your first reaction, isn't it?

U dont get....this is 2022.
...i wont be surprised anyone is gay but fvckimg women...that the normal modus operandi of gay people......

Becoming gay to me is as simple as changing the girl your fvcking....i will never get the big annoucement its a personal issue...

The lgbt folks like to paint a victim picture tgat they have been afraid and scared and they are now now some brave hero.....nigga its just sex

edward1106:
Spainairds behave like the French. They take their love affairs a bit public. It's just their thing just like in Italy, they greet with all manner of kisses where in Africa, it's a different ball game

He doesnt live in africa.....he lives where men fvck men regularly.....he switching is no big deal....he's just trying to make it look like that

hayoholla:
It's not their fault they are making sensations out of this things, it's our fault we are making a big deal out of it. Tell me if your friend comes out as gay, at first you go raise eyebrow, no be so? Even if you later come to accept it later on. On a flip side, accepting someone for his or her sexual orientation is a kind of challenge to our "normal" acceptable social norm. The thing is, we should rather learn to accept the complexities of our biology as human, even if it's hard for us to reconcile to our normal norm.

My point is ...My friend does not have to come out gay....sex is a private issue...he should fvck whoever he wants and chmage when he likes....
so its my friends fault if he decides to make a big announcement about it not mine....they jus like claiming victim ....this is 2022....not 1991

edward1106:
So we don't get surprised with pictures or scenes of events later.

Surprised that what.??..will he fvck a man in public... its playing victim jaré

Myself2:
Idiot.
So all the while he was half naked with normal real men in thr dressing room of Real Madrid, what was going through his mind ?
Pro gay and pro lesbian idiots on nairaland.com are warned to steer clear of my mentions

his former team mates right now:

..."so casillas dey look our yansh all this time for dressing room...you go collect if we catch you"

Its the announcement i dont get....they are always trying to sensationalize their sexual orientation...

The gender or thing you fvck is totally your business ...gay people cant just blend in and be normal....yet they complain people dont treat them normal.....

Imagine all heterosexuals announcing they are heterosexual

fineboynl:
I'm suspecting that it's the people don't didn't kill chicken independence day. Maybe they plan doing it today.

Suit yourself man.....
There's muslim religious holiday tomorrow...so go figure

fineboynl:
it's the christian that's carry the chicken oh. Not even Muslims or Muslim state.

Abeg...i no get time to argue....

Muslims kill ram on salah...but kill other animal or nothing at all on other religious holidays