₦airaland Forum

virginprincess:
But i also didn't insult anyone,i said what i said from my own view,so what your problem?

RepoMan007:
Who will reside in the house?

virginprincess:
advanceDNA and phelonrays,Hope you can see why i mentioned nairaland men.

virginprincess:
I mention nairaland men because peole like Zonefree will not see it from the real perspective instead they will start saying words like it is better to save a snake than to save a woman,hope you get now.

virginprincess:
This your statement doesn't add up because if i want love from nairaland i have gotten what i wanted since,if only you know how many pm's i get in a day.

virginprincess:
Very deep and insightful but nairaland men can never understand instead they will start saying rubbish.

budaatum:
I'd love my darling lovely beautiful bees too, so why should I forgive and forget?

PointZerom:
If you're tired pls end yourself and stop complaining.

Titilayo2021:
Pls do IELTS ukvi general

PointZerom:
Who told you you lack nothing?

If your parents had stayed single would you have bn born?

LewisHamilton15:
Helo fellas

I just want to know if staying single the rest of my life is the best decision. I'm well into my 30s and I'm a graduate. I own my business in addition to my Federal Government work. I have a house and two cars and I lack nothing. But i don't have interest in settling down with a woman so i decide to stay single. I have a girlfriend tho, but so far i haven't proposed to her but recently my family members are mounting preasure on me to settle down. I'm hesitant about it. Would getting married be the best option or staying single?

shopwiser:
Hy everyone... I might be sounding daft but pls bear with me, i want to avoid the English proficiency test by getting my transcript and proficiency letter from my University. Pls the proficiency letter, how do I go about it if I want my university to give it to me.

University in reference is UNILAG

BloomingDale:
Yet, you call them gold diggers if they don't make their own money. You guys are your own worst enemies.

ukaface:
Each time I read comments on NL especially those that have to do with women and men, relationship wise; the women are usually the ones being attacked and called derogatory words, spoken bad about.
And I'm wondering, are the men saints?
You can't convince me that all Nigerian guys/ men are perfect. But why are the females always receiving the bash?
Guys dey phuck up, as well as females. Guy don phuck me up before, but I don't get to see thousands and millions of topics and threads bashing males.
Is it immaturity playing out? Or the men just love demeaning Nigerian females?
Una no dey tire to dey complain?

Or what exactly am I missing??

DuBLINGreenb:
Ok Naija girls done spread their dirty laundry for public una done dey copy American women too much now see na

Other people done dey see Wetin we dey see

These South African girls with their big NYANSH and nice characters and feminine vibes go soon carry Naija girls; HOME and AWAY and over 2.5, if dem come I go follow oh, e be like na me go even go find them come

AishaDant:
I am done arguing or commenting on this topic. I literally took care of him but of course find a way to make that not enough because it is a Nigerian female involved.

Have a good day!

AishaDant:
You should know my story before joining me with the rest of the Nigerian females you judge daily.
I am currently single and fine with it.

Why? The last guy I dated had absolutely nothing yet I stayed.

I even looked after him and his needs, wants and fantasies.

What did he do? He still cheated and played games with me.

Tell me, do you expect me to love easily or give my all again?
I have to be smarter because clearly, I was a fool in love.

I am grateful for the experiences.

I will be fine.

AishaDant:
I have forgotten what I wanted to say sef.

Oh I remember some part now.

Well, most Nigerian men don't value love. If you don't value something, how are you going to look after it or even deserve it?

Dareal90s:
It is because u don't know how to love.

Worriedguy6699:
Like how? Leaving her? Thats not a solution but admitting defeat.

You obviously took care of her as a man, she betrayed you, and then you left. That’s defeat.

A lot of men are defeated. That’s why you see them come online to vent their anger, instead of them to release it on the offender (with love of course)

There are too many defeated men in our world today. And too many victorious women, it’s why there so proud and so confident. Because they know highest the man will just leave and she’s free to fvck and suck.

Worriedguy6699:
How is that domestic violence? You’re not throwing punches, you are tieing her down and flogging her bumbum.

Abi when we flog children, why is it not domestic violence? Your girlfriend is a child, the mistake with modern men is treating women like some kind of adult.

Bianca05:
yes na did I force him?

jeromestarks:
Why are you always angry with me?

Bianca05:
One nigga still chasing me since 2020 till date , have told him several times to stop chasing me that I am in a serious relationship , this nigga no dey hear the mumu dey buy me gift almost every month

guys should understand that if a lady is not into you you're just wasting your precious time and heart earned money on her , women will not stress you for months not to talk of years if she really wants you

Cantonese:
"Main while". What an Olodo!

Knowing that English is too difficult for you, why not write in your native language? That is if you even know where you are from.

In your effort to insult people, you ended up embarrassing yourself, with your very poor English. You also ended up exhibiting poor understanding of decent conversations.

virginprincess:
One minute you are creating a sensible thread,the next minute you are creating a senseless one.

Wealthbrain22:
You people that say that nairaland men are always bashing women, it’s not bashing it’s simple truth they are revealing.
Women have no idea what it is like being a man, it’s so unfair. As a man you need to have a lot of money to even stand a chance at respect or love from both society, and women. No woman will respect you if you don’t have money. We struggle to provide for our selves, we provide for our family, we provide for our wives/girlfriends, we provide for our children, we support our friends, we are expected not to complain, we are expected not to cry as well. We carry everything and everyone on our backs daily, we don’t even have time to look good because we are busy providing and when we chase a girl they mock us for not having enough money or looking good enough for them, when we literally spend our whole time and life chasing money to provide for everyone? Can you see our reality as men?

We spend time taking care of others while having nobody to care for us, most of our children even love their mothers more because they feel we are not available enough, they have no idea we spend all our time breaking our backs literally to put food on their table , that’s why they never see us. We have to love ourselves because the most love we ever get is only from our mom, every other person just use us because we are “men” and should provide and provide till we drop dead.

Is this the same men you people say are bashing women on nairaland? The same men that will work so hard to get financially stable only to be rejected as well because you don’t have enough? After all the work you put into yourself? The same men that work so hard they forget to look good and women will reject them for not looking good as well? Is this the same men you people say are bashing women? The same men that only just want to be loved by society for all their efforts yet no matter what they do they end up be mocked and ridiculed??

My sister was insulting a guy that literally gave her his life savings and this girl was telling me that he’s not man enough, that why doesn’t he have more, like cars and houses..a man in Europe who is working in the cold to provide for her only to have himself being mocked and ridiculed for not having more

If you’re a woman reading this, go and pray to God to forgive you if you have ever disrespected any man in your life, if you know what a day is like in the life of a man, you would never troll us online or disrespect us in real life.

Wapgod:
What do you mean by Signing of bond?

OboOlora:
Access bank!

Reasons:
-99.9% of the staff developed BP while working there
-Unrealistic target and KPIs
-Frustrated supervisors
-Zero work-life balance
-Forceful car loans etc
-Your friends and family just feel pitiful for you
-Signing if bond, making it look like witchcraft or 666
-Occultic MD that sacrifices his staff for rituals
-I can go on and on but mehn…I am tired of typing