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Maynmann:
Don’t lie on me next time to make cheap points.
And don’t forget to learn what “state laws of employment” means, it’s a embarrassing saying some state laws will tell employers who to employ.

“Lol...If you dont want say what your point is...fine then....i'll assume u have no point to discuss...btw... u are the that started with white man employing white as being discrimination”.

When did i say state laws tell employers who to employ?? Dialogue with you is very hard

Maynmann:
Didn’t you say there’s a difference between preference and discrimination, liar?

Sigh...i did...i never lied about that....

Please make a point

Maynmann:
And this is your statement liar
“Lol...If you dont want say what your point is...fine then....i'll assume u have no point to discuss...btw... u are the that started with white man employing white as being discrimination”.

Stop lying and learn what “state laws of employment” means

Oh that one word is your problem...no vex...

Relayed word dont soumd exactly the same sometimes...

Wordsfrombimpe:
You see this women shooting shot I frown against it

Women respect yourself when it comes to shooting your shot , you don't want your feelings to get hurt

Secondly you don't want to get played because chasing a man , going to his house or trying to make him like you


He won't like you

Always being the one to call him

Always being the one to text him

Always being the one to cater for him

He tells you lies with a bunch of excuses and you believe

This same guy don't even like you in the first place but enjoying what you do for him


Yes we are in the 21st Century but the fact still remains that men are hunters they love to chase and that means if they love you or genuinely like you

They will chase you and that's on it period

Copyright Digital Bimpe The Coach

This idea is one of the reasons some women marry late and also settle for a man they dont really love......shoot your shot dont mean you will be the one to chase him around, give him ring or pay bride price,...

Shooting your shot can be as simple as ..."guy would you like to hang out sometime, i have a wedding this weekend, and dont wanaa go alone....?? Thats enough green light....

As a woman u cant shoot your shot at random strangers....thats a man's game because we are attracted to boobś and asś...
..as a woman.. u can shoot your shot on a colleague, friend or neighbour u have been eyeing eachother....

No biggie... u cannot die....

Feminist will say....a man made her kill the maid

Maynmann:
Stop lying, i said a white man employing only white people is his OWN“preference”. And don’t forget to learn what “state laws of employment” means.

Lol...this is your comment.

...".If an employer “prefers” to only employ a particular race, then it’s not a problem and NO ONE will question it.
White people too should exercise their “preferences”
this was how u brought emplyer and emplyee into the issue...and u keep saying im lying...lying for what guy??

All i said was that you keep dwelling on the employer/employee issue...that u should make a point...


And uve be sounding like i cheated u or something....it funny.

Maynmann:
Start by learning what “state laws of employment” means.

Stop lying, i said a white man employing only white people is his OWN“preference”.

Lying?? Here u go again...

.u dialogue like u have something to gain or prove.... if you have nothing more points to raise....lets call it a day..

mytime24:
what's good for the goose is good for the gander

At least she's not pretending to be faithful while spreading legs around, collecting money from different men....

Ir nice for women to embrace their polygamous nature more often.....instead of pretending to be someone's queen while offing pant elsewhere ..

..but you wome cant because u know no man will be happy to bankroll a woman several other man are offing her pant

Maynmann:
Boy, It was you that brought “state laws of employment” and you clearly know nothing about it.
Go back and slowly read our conversations.


There’s nothing wrong in racism, they just “prefer” their own skin color.

Lol...If you dont want say what your point is...fine then....i'll assume u have no point to discuss...btw... u are the that started with white man employing white as being discrimination.

Blessedmercy8:
I said at that time, I was beginning... Besides I didn't have my baby then

Still the same thing.....ur advice is biased and u are judging women u dont know

Maynmann:
Look up what “state laws of employments” means.
It’s for WORKERS. This is Basic English bro.

There’s nothing wrong in racism, they just “prefer” their own skin color.

Guy...
u keep trying to drag employee/employer into individual prefernce in the dating world

Without tryimg to patronise or sound condescending...what is your point in all of these?? Cos u started with accusing me of changing ...i indulged u with an explanation....

Every time i indulge u...u jump elsewhere....
Whats your point...lets hit it... if we agree, thats great.....if not...thats okay too....

Maynmann:
There’s no state laws that determines the type of people you should employ.
You have to be employed first to enjoy “state laws of employment”. This is basic English.

There’s nothing wrong in racism, they just “prefer” their own skin color.

Sigh!!

Blessedmercy8:
I don't want him but need him to work for me. Not his attention. Wetin concern me when I have my own baby now.

U have your own baby?? Yet you confirmed u like him ... so your advice cannot be objective

Maynmann:
Yawn!!!
There’s no state laws that determines the type of employers you should employ, this is basic.
Employement laws are about pays and rights of employees.
Even in Nigeria, some employers will specifically say they want “light skinned” ladies.

There’s nothing wrong in racism, they just “prefer” their own skin color.

U can even say u want only dwarfs in your company....like i said...as long as it doesnt violate state laws on employment....

Blessedmercy8:
.

Is that how you view the whole thing?

Your opinion Sha.

Thats how it is in this case....
.if you never liked him...then your advice can be objective even though u have no right to tell someone who they can or cannot date....

besides you sont know these women ...so how do u know they are not good for him??

U are a woman...if i judge u based on how u dress or your body count u will say its not fair..


Its common for you women to not want a man and yet want his attention...it is witchcraft

Maynmann:
Weak, Employment laws are created by employers.
If an employer prefer to only employ a particular race, then it’s not a problem and NO ONE will question it.
White people too should exercise their “preferences”.

If you are dating someone solely because of “belief system” it’s discrimination.

Sigh!!!
U are free to exercise your preference as long as u are not violating existing state laws...
Employment policies are created by employers in line with state laws....u should know this....

And state laws meant to satisfy inclusivity to a great extent.....it has nothing to do with individual preference in the dating world.... how many times do u want to me to say this to you

Again. u can call peoples decision, preference or deal breakers whatever u like....i told u earlier the reasons i wouldnt like to date a christain or muslim if i were an athiest.....if it is discrimination to you...well thats your choice of words

Blessedmercy8:

Why e no follow?
If you see your brother wan enter fire, you no go prevent am?

These girls are too wild for him and I don't want them to take advantage of him because he's too gentle. That is why I'm kinda protecting him.

But u are good for him abi?? U advice is impaired/bias because its coming from jealousy..

You are woman pouring sand into another woman's garri.....yet u claim u dont want him

Is that not witchcraft??

Maynmann:
read slowly.
If you choose to only date black women because of skin color that’s discrimination.
Just like a white man preferring to only employ white employees because of skin color, what’s that?

There are employment laws... the law dont directly aplly to individual prefernce in the dating world..... but like i said u can call it whatever u like

Maynmann:
If you are choosing someone base on their belief system It’s discrimination.

So you agree its preference and not discrimination if a man choses to date black women....same for not dating dwarfs....??

But when it comes to dating someone they share common beliefs with its discrimination .

its a free world man...u can use any word u like to drive your point. Heck u can even say its hatred or beleifphobia...Like lgbtq people are tagging people transphobes because they prefer to date and biological men/women....

.some people have even abandoned him/she for they/them pronouns....

So call people's preference whatver u like

Maynmann:
That’s what discrimination means, so there’s nothing wrong in racism. Some people take their skin color serious and don’t want it tainted, the same way you only date someone that worships your particular deity and doctrine.

Maybe you should look up the definition of “discrimination”.

What has dating got to do with “belief system”?

There is a line between discrimination and preference.... a man prefers to date and marry black women...its not racism or discrimination against white women...
A normal sized person can prefer to date a normal sized person..its not discrimination against dwarfs....

Dating has got something to beliefs for those that chose chose to have it that way...same with education, beauty money, . people have preference, standards or rules they make for themselves

.it is very common for man to have create rules, values, or principles ....its a free world man....

Maynmann:
Theists have different religions and deities.
So you only date only those that worship your own deity?
Even in Christianity, not all Doctrines pray in “jesus christ” name.
How come she’s good for sex and not for dating? Is having sex with atheists allowed by your deity?

Everyone choses who they date based on attraction, choice, sex, money, etc...some people take their beliefs, status, convictions seriously than others....
i cant date an illiterate meat or fish seller for so many reasons, its not discriminating ....some other people can for reasons known to them...like i said before maybe u are doing selective reading or reading throw jabs....she ddnt see any point dating some who thinks nothing of what she takes seriously


As for ur last paragraph...i dont know if the op just wants her for sex..i only painted an hypothetical scenario

How u think a naked mad man is sexy to a random woman walking on the road is weird.

Maynmann:
This is what you said
“U be atheist but u want to date someone that belives in something God..why??...”
What concerns dating with the deity or deities you are worshipping?
What’s the “why”?

How is this changing tune ...?? .

I asked him that because putting myself in an athiest shoe....i just dont see how i will date someone who prays when i dont..I dont see myself dating someone who gives thanks and attributes her success to God when i only believe in myself and random luck....
I dont see myself being someone that shows honour and respect, to someone i dont belive exists....
Unless i just see her as a sex object which is easy for men....Men can have sex with illiterates e.g their maid or servants even when they are phd holders as along as they see aśs and boóbs...

..if it comes to sex she probably wouldn't mind...both atheist and christians have a penis

...but women see long term in dating....and she ddnt see herself dating someone who thinks nothing about what she takes seriously

its that simple....but i dont get why u are dragging discrimination into it...

[quote author=Maynmann post=117309497][/quote]Change tune....??
Please explain

Maynmann:
You can’t have ALL things in common. We have different religions, heck even in the same religion we have different doctrines.
If you are discriminating by belief system, then there’s nothing wrong in discriminating by race.

I never said "all things" ..... i said "what is wrong is dating someone u have things in common".... ??

Discrimination?? How did we arrive here??
So a person cant have preference anymore without it being discrimination??

Maynmann:
How does dating correlate with “belief system”?
Are these not extremist attitudes ?

What is extreme about dating someone u have things in common....??

Immanuelsnr:
Good evening sir /ma
I got into a relationship with a girl last year, we started online, everything was going fine, I came back from Benin where I stay to meet her, my parents lives in Akure, so after we met, we had sex and it leads to pregnancy, things was going on fine for me , I told her to keep the pregnancy, since I was almost done with my house, and I'm almost done with schooling, I didn't stay in Akure those period, she agree to keep the pregnancy, I told my parents after that, and I have to inform her parents myself because before we get to know about the preg, I visited her parents once, I came back a week to her delivery date, she gave birth, I went back to Benin when she gave birth , and during her period of pregnancy she stays with my parents, so I left after she gave birth to stay at my own place in Benin, I came back after a month to check on her , so the problem started when I came back I had some terrible dream , that signify backwardness in life , first I didn't take it serious, but the dream went on for 2 weeks, I do pray about it but , I don't know I have to go out to church, I was going out one day and I met a man who said I should pray, I want to give the man money I thought he was hungry, he rejected, I got home that day I didn't tell anyone, that week, I lost all my source of income, meanwhile the previous week before I lost my source, during that time I was forced to tell my mom what is going on with my life , she went out to church,I don't believe in pastors and prophet, she came back, she told me it is something spiritual, so I took a step, after 3months when I saw that things are not going on well with me , I told my baby mama to go to her mom's house, she took the boy along, so fast forward to some month later she asked for breakup ,and I was happy about it cause I noticed somethings when she left ,I gave her what she wants, and I requested for my son , that's where problem started , she has to call my aunt's, her brother and told them that when she left that I never send her anything nor took responsibility over the child, I was surprised when I heard that from my Aunt, my mom has to come in because I don't like to tell my parents what is going on in my life, my mom testified to the way I was sending her money, she has to let me know that it is over her died body that she is going to release the boy to me , I called her Mom, she didn't pick, I was force to use another number to call her before she picked up the call , and told me , that she doesn't owe me an explanation, she hang up , and my dad has to call her , she told my dad that I never took care of the boy, and which is totally a lie, I found out today that the boy she left with her mom , is no longer staying with her mom, the boy has been transferred to another person place which is not even related to them , and during those times that this girl said I never send money I borrowed 50k from my bank gave her 40k , send her money, all the time she asked , I can provide the transaction on my phone, now I'm requesting for the boy to be in my care , please I need advice on how to get him back, I was told if I took the matter to court I will have to wait till 6 years before I can do anything.

Two things are involved:

One...the baby was never yours....she dumped it on your before ....now the real father is in the picture.....if u keep at it...she will play this card....

Two.... she has found another higher bidder that wants to marry her and doesnt eant you to disturb her parole.... she has probably told said u are not in the picture.....

because i see no reason why they wont let u see your son, claiming u ddnt send any money...
..its not like u dissapeared for years....its a fresh matter..

Brunosamel:
I met this girl not quite long it was a coincidental meet up we exchanged contact details before we know things kicked off between us everything was smooth and easy until she asked me about my religion I told her I'm not a religious person I don't believe in God and even if he exists I don't have anything against him I do respect him. I don't judge his servants nor talk evil about them I simply don't believe in anything but I do find gratitude in nature, doing good and mediation.

She have been trying so hard to convince me to accept him and I refused, I told her only Divine intervention will change my mind. Being an atheist has been fulfilling to me and I want to remain like that

After all set and done she told me I shouldn't call her again she is breaking up with me I said cool.
Life goes on I can change my life for something I don't believe in. This one of the reasons I don't like opening up to the fact I'm an atheist due to the fact people will always try to convince me.

U be atheist but u want to date someone that belives in something God..why??....

Hismasterpiece:
LOL.. So clean water destroys us? Haba na

Which clean water?? Dey decieve yourself...do you live by the spring?? Or ur drink rain water direct from the sky??

Wait....na all this cancer causing chemical wey dem use use clean your water u dey call clean....na water wey carbonmonoxide and SO2 don dissolve inside u dey call clean water...?? Well done...


Even oxygen...burns you from the inside because oxygen is the foundation for development of most free radicals

Hismasterpiece:
I found this empty cigarette pack on the floor today. It clearly states a warning about smoking. It shows the difference between the lungs of a smoker and a non smoker.

My question is this: Why do people still ignore this warning and smoke? And why do cigarette companies still, with this knowledge sell cigarettes?

Everything we consume technically destroys us one way or another....some just destroys faster than the other...

GeneralOjukwu:
Might be a long con. Planned work.

A way of tricking foreign countries that her own father will kill her as a lesbian ....#LGBTQ.

Nothing some Nigerians no go do to Japa

Who dey record?? Of course na planned work

The internet and mobile phones keeps makimg prostituteś bolder..... imagine broke women with no value tellimg a man he has no right to date women....