₦airaland Forum

Aladetemi89:
My car check engine light keeps blinks while trying to speed up. Whenever this happens, the car won't be able to move well. I will have to off the engine and restart it before it works normal again. This issue happens more than 5times most times on a journey of less than an hour. I have been asked to change so many components by my mechanic with no solution..I changed the nozzle, I changed the fuel pump, air cleaner etc. Yet the problem still persist. Please I need professional advise as I am tired of spending money on the car. Please help a brother if u have ever experienced such issue before. Thank you. cc Gazuzz and othe experts..pls help me o

.i had a similar issue with a honda DC....in fact if i start it in the morning...the engine icon will blink ....and later stop after i move for like 30 minutes.... ..like u, i tried everything..change plug, nozzle, fuel pump...i almost chamged the engine...
then i met a mechanic in ibadan that said the cylinders are blocked with carbon deposit...he charge me 3k to unblock per cylinder....weda he lied or not i dont know....but the car was super fantastic after he was through

Bradford111:
So I just want us to discuss this topic what’s your take on this a girl that loves and do think about you all night long…… can she break up with you? For instance If she sees a better man. For me I think love is something that can’t die easily I mean true love not money kind of love so should a girl truely loves a nigger I don’t see any reason of she leaving him even if he cheats. What’s your take on this?

Lack of Money and comfort of life has ruined many relationship
Lack of sexual satisfaction has also done same

Bad untamed habit also frustrates dating partners

A balance of everything is needed....


Love is not enough

dippyyoo:
Hi @DFmum and @waleshadow.. any updates? Dependant kids just got sorted end of July for an AR overturned 21st February. Visas gotten now.

They got the visa in july since February the denial decision was overtuned.??

Rozross:
This is to save face, I understand.

When did u start becoming this vawulent??

Leyksmanleke:
Thanks bro, but how fast it's if i do it my self online , ?,i think i will walk in to their office , i actually i burget 45k

Whether you do it youraelf or not....passport takes like 2 months more

Miravik900:
I have been seeing signs that my girl is cheating on me from not answering my calls to being on the phone for 2 hours with no reasonable explanation of who she was talking to, and hiding her cell phone from me.

What do you guys advise I do, break up with her or go ahead sleeping with her without letting her know that I know she is cheating on me until when I'm tired, I dish her away?

Your thoughts are welcomed

If you are sure shes heting ...why do u want to keep sleeping wirh someone that is cheating an probably sleeping with multiple guys.?? U no fear for HiV ....u no fear for your life...??

Hope u realise say if he get belle....and she say its yours u wont have choice than to cater for the welfare of a woman u dont trust....if care is not taken ..u may be force to marry her..

Favorolasupo:
Mumu man...if the woman is an olosho..so the two men she slept with are now what?

....The two men that slept with her are the boyfriends she's cheating on....is double dating now a new thing?? .....is lyying and collecting money from several guys a new thing to you women??....but somehow u want to blame the men she used her leg to waka to their houses.

Well done....responsibility has never been a woman's talent anyways....the men tgat dont know shes cheating on them must be blamed

Pssport is 25k....go online fill form do it urself... and go and do capturing at the immigration office..if you are lucky..u will get your passport on time...if not ..you are OyO...

Otherwise walk into their office...tgey will charge btween 50-75k depending on how greedy the well connected the officer is...

Samantha123:
But have you wondered why some of them are selfish and have the entitlement mentality?

Because from a young age they were told that men are supposed to be the sole providers while they're supposed to be the wife materials, and wife materials are not expected to do 50/50 in a relationship or marriage.

Instead, they're expected to do their wifely duties while the man is expected to put bread on the table.

If you spoil someone from an early age, he or she will grow up with a selfish and entitled mentality.

Lol....Its not what they are told....because our mothers dont have this horrible mentality.

..take it from me, 21st century Nigerian women are just a different breed of women.

.....many are just selfish and have entitlement mentality anyway.....imagine meeting a guy today and the next thing.. u telling him your phone is bad and u need a brand new phone plus money for wig and monthly allowance.... which mother told her daughter to behave this way??

News flash....this doesnt even make them faithful....they still keep as many guys as possible causing paternity fraud....some even engage in what is called coded runs....so its just greed.... yes, some men fuel these behavior as they belive they have to pay for a womans love and attention

.btw....the same wifey duties is still a problem for them to do....they deprive their husband of sex and still want to enforce sharing of duties..
So its not really about what tgey were told...some of these women are just greedy...

..imagine a woman that doesnt want to bring anything to the table and still want to be a feminist...claiming her ultimate contribution is her body and nature-given ability to bear children.....

Samantha123:
But you Nigerian men are also responsible for some of your women's behaviors towards you.

I'm not a Nigerian and I've never been in a relationship with a Nigerian before, but with the little I've heard, considering that I've also been a guest here for a while before I even created an account, it's like you guys like being the only providers in a relationship or marriage, while the woman are supposed to be the wife materials and submissive.

Hence they'll always see you guys at their providers no matter what.

You hardly encourage them to also work and put their 50% share on the table, but where I'm from women work for their money and help put food on the table.

They work...they just have a selfish mentality...when u expect or mention to a modern nigeria woman to bring to the table..she call u stingy and uncaring....

Mayb uve not been reading topics here to hear what women say..... the mentality of an average nigerian woman is "her money is hers alone but her man's money is for both of them...
It is standard for nigerian women to feel entitled...a man automatically starts owing a lady money the moment he says "he you look beutiful can we hang out some time"

A woman mentioned here the other day she will take back the money she paid for her own child's school fees from her husband....

see ...its sad...but nigerian women feel that they are doing men a favor by being in a relationship or marrying us... everything is transactional...including sex a man and a woman both contribute their bodies..

Also..the economy is very bad....because men are more hard workers and risk takers...you fimd more men making fraudulent money who dont mind buying women's attention and love.. so this trend has also rippled to other relationships of real legit hard working guys

abobote:
At end you will realize that marriage doesn't worth all the stress.

My wife has become so toxic, that I regret even paying her bride price.
I for leave the thing for baby mama wey e dey before, coz that time she de respect me well.
I no go ever wed her

Sorry bro....to get good woman na luck these days.....if na "i missed my period" start your marriage....chances are high u don enter one chance

Samantha123:
This is not about being a man. I'm a woman, but I'd probably have done the same thing.

You're only saying this because you're not in his shoes.

And since you're talking of the importance of humanity, why don't you ask the Op for her contact details?, so that you can send her those funds that she needs.

See tackle.....i love reasonable women....sadly...una no plenty for nairaland

osukaam:
Is been long I heard from Lalasticlala o

Be like the lalasticlala don get work for exxon mobil..
Maybe e don resign leave seun work

Lalasticlala be like ....o lord thank you for this meat

AishaDant:
Op, you could have still helped her.

We are human beings for crying out loud!

Human beings have empathy and can be sensitive to others.

Op, you don't know tomorrow. Everything must not always be to your advantage. Sometimes, close your eyes and just be human.

Well, if you're comfortable doing it. Fine! Just don't lose your humanity because you want to be a man. Smh!

Its weird that begging from someone you barely talk doesnt sound irritating to you women.....what's worse is that you women even guilt trip the man for not allowing himself to be exploited...

McEphiks:
She no go see

I trust you

Ammmy:
I'm a 37 year old lady that has a child, although my child isn't staying with me. I don't know what is happening to me? I'm a beautiful lady that is looking younger than her age. Ever since l quit my last relationship, strange things started happening. Like I'll be walking on the road and men will start admiring me, then if there's the one I sense is decent and responsible that's asking me out, I manage to give him attention. Now there's a guy that's been calling me all these while the one day he decided that we see. He told me right away that he wants us to have sex bla BLA BLA. He doesn't want a relationship just a hook up stuff. I got pissed and walked away.

Another guy I met recently has been pushing for us to see. So he came around my area and told me he's around, I stepped out of my house and went to see him at the street where he was standing, on sighting me he started moving forward with speed, I was following then he stopped and entered inside a Keke someone parked along the road, then he asked me to enter the Keke so we can talk, but I refused and said I can't. Then he said I should follow him to a hotel so we can get a room. I looked at him from head to toe, hissed and walked away. What is happening to me? The men I meet these days are not even talking about starting relationship talk less of marriage. I've been so depressed. Am I getting old? Or have I reached that stage of not meeting reasonable men again?

Its normal for all women...u will meet some men that are serious and want to date you and get to know you. Some will not want you but pretend to get sex....while some will tell you straight up they want sex...

dont beat yourself up over being 37 years.. yes..u are not in your prime...but a lot of young girls too are searching....
Just package urself well and go out more often..party..church..community gathering...if you dont mind tell the elders of your church u are open...

.all these facebook and instagram connect dey mostly look for quick sex..only few are serious

McEphiks:
Lol

What happened to all the guys she's been chatting since May this year?

She don collect from all of them....na op own remain make e complete 50k for the new party clothe she wan buy

Baitullah:
You called him stingy because he didn't bend to her request? After 3 months of sidelining him.

The girls sisterhood is strong indeed.

Women dont see anything wrong in men being stupid for them ....they will say shebí is gift
.did i force him to give me??


. but when their son or brother, or family member is doing mugu with his hard earned money they will quickly call him to order

Nonexisting1:
Looking at her picture, she doesn't have much options.

Wickedness is in your blood...

Toks2008:
Her life, her choice, people should learn how to mind their own business.

I see nothing wrong with the photo.

Nothing wrong??
You wey your wife dey use hijab....u don dey form woke....wonders shall never end

We4all:
He feels the women are leaving him because they don’t have any competition.

Exactly.....that one left and still kept the queen title on her Instagram thinking they will send royal envoys to come and beg her...

..king wey suppose get like 7 wives.....anyone wey do anyhow..make e dey go

fadilaMaikiriki:
Because what you and your friend are saying, they're not nice. That's not a nice thing to say to someone.

Oya sorry...

fadilaMaikiriki:
Nace ka fita dega nan. Ka bani yaushi. Kana zage ni, kuma kuna maganan de bana soo. Kai de abokin ka (yad2eidi).

I ddnt insult you...i ddnt even talk to you....u came at me first, telling me to get out....get out of where?? Is this your father's house??

fadilaMaikiriki:
Bakin ka aa wurin. Kai de abokin ka ku fita dega nan. Kuna bani yaushi.

za ku biya ni kwamishin ga duk wawayen da suka fadi don wasanku

Persephone1:

Ah ah ah ah

Do i get the mods here now or not. Tsk tsk tsk

Sigh!!! Nairaland is where your life matters..i understand .....pele....i ddnt knoe i was getting to you all along...dont cry ooo

Persephone1:
Are these words suppose to hurt me? I'm getting the opposite here. I'm literally laughing my flat ass out right now. Your emotions are running wild all over the thread.

Now back to business, I ask again in what context do you mean women cry wolf when they aren't the ones complaining?

Im not trying to hurt you...u keep thinkimg you are important....you are very irritating......and i'm only letting you know that clearly..i even said so in my comment.....jumping into my comment without understanding the context,demanding for an explanation in a very patronizing manner, like who the fvck are you..

Look nigga....i dont like your tone... the fact that you think you are something here means you dont deserve a civil dialogue from me...


now get the fvck off my mentions

Persephone1:
And he keeps getting sillier

You are gaslighting.

Lol......You would have mean something to me which will give me a reason to gaslight to you because i want hide something from you or not make u get what im saying.... i never wven spoke to you...

Nigga, u dont mean shít...i dont even know you.. what could be the purpose of gaslighting you?? I mentioned someone..u ddnt read the person's comment to get my the context of my comment....u just rushed at me like a lunatíc..

Look nigga...u are nobody narcissist trying to make himself somebody on nairaland.... like i said...u can asslíćk all the women on nairaland but keep your pathetic, aśslicking, night in shining armour campaign away from me ...
its very irritating

Persephone1:
I see .. perhaps you show me what you mean by "crying wolf " because last time i check women aren't the ones complaining of females low response to threads. I've seen threads like this a couple of times on this section and they are mostly created by Males.

Like your kind up there you would rather twist your ways out of mistakes than taking responsibilities. Lol

Twist myself out of mistake?? What mistake are you talkimg about??

I should show you what i mean by crying wolf?
Who are you to demand anything from me??

...are u trying to make yourself something important on this faceless forum ? Cos i dont get why you mentioned me insinuating nonsénse even after i cleared you...

Look if you want to make yourself women advocate..thats fine ....its a free world.... but drag me into your pathetic, aśslicking, night in shining armour parade.... its very irritating

Persephone1:
Women aren't the ones creating threads like this. So how are they crying wolf?

The truth is always bitter.

What is this one saying??
Did i say a woman created this thread.??

If you dont understand context, dont u thing its best not to jump on my comment..