₦airaland Forum

sukkot:
alright guys so its been raining like crazy for the past 5 hours and i know that ajah area where the test facility is would be flooded and so i want to reschedule for another day. can this be done and how ? thanks

Willbright:
Sometimes you just try to do your all, but your all might not be enough. Had to open a new account to hide my identity.

I have this girlfriend or let me say fiancé( I’m planing to do the normal rights in December) then we get married next year. Both families have met and things are going on fine. I stay in UK just completed my masters.

My fiancé on the other hand works in a bank in Nigeria, she got the job this year. She does not lack anything and I do send her stipends from time to time .Lately anytime we talk she has been telling me most of the guys at work have been asking her out on a date bla bla bla she would just brief about it and we will talk about other things. I really didn’t take it serious.

Yesterday we where talking again and she made mention of it again, this is like the 5th time she is talking about it, and to be honest a feel a little bit sad. I have been here for 2years and never in my life have I even gone out with a girl. She told me she is already feeling like going out with this guy that he is nice.

Told me this guy threats him special and he is even the manager where she works.this is someone I call my fiancé, I told her I’m not comfortable with her going out with the man and she said it’s just a date. I’m boiling inside and I don’t want to overreact, in the past this same man have adviced her to leave me saying I’m too far away and I have warned her severally never to have anything to Do with him. The thing is it’s like she has made up her mind already, the man also drop her off everyday after work and she stays alone.
Am I overreacting by trying to call it off?

There is no day we talk and she won’t bring this particular guy up in her talks, I’m seriously fed up. Why go on a date with someone if you are in a relationship?

YourMrBoo:
Should we tell him

Juliusmartin01:
if you know you don’t have something good to say just keep shut and get out.,the people giving good advice here are not humans like you?

Tunjibalogun:
I'm a Catholic but once in a while I get to attend pentecostal churches when invited by colleagues though. So I went to this very well known pentecostal church. I found out the following:

(1) They've now modelled their church into several services just as it is done in the Catholic Church unlike before when they go to church by 7am and return by 2pm

(2) They have the pictures of their daddy GO inside the church just like the Catholics use those of Jesus

(3)They also had ornaments like holy oil just like in the Catholic church

(4) They have communion service just like in the Catholic church. I took their wine and communion though
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dippyyoo:
Yes

VirileNelly2420:
I honestly struggle to understand u.

Wen I said "guys", I meant d man and his multiple wives.
Dats, provided dey're faithful to themselves

VirileNelly2420:
Yea. If u guys are faithful.

Cos wen dey remain single out there, dey can be jumping from one man to another. Dey would b free as a birth. Flying around at will, and perching wen pleased.

Don't u think so?

VirileNelly2420:
Yea. If u guys are faithful.

Cos wen dey remain single out there, dey can be jumping from one man to another. Dey would b free as a birth. Flying around at will, and perching wen pleased.

Don't u think so?

JuanDeDios:
Yes, because they're in a recognised institution.

charles664:
Please i need support and guidance.

I am a MedLab Scientist working in one of the labs in Nigeria.

i have gotten my HCPC license.

I have applied for so many jobs. i keep getting "unfortunately my application was not considered".

Is there something I'm not getting right?

fman:
But the girls no wear hijab..
For them holyland...
But for here............

Blessedmercy8:
I disagree with your second point. It's the men that suffer rejection the more. That is why they have to go the extra mile to brine with gifts.

Blessedmercy8:
Ok, I get. I'm not hurting though.

The thing is when a lady discovers she's not loved, she stops pestering but if it's a man, he won't stop, rather he'll start gifting the lady thinking that will make her change her mind until it ends in dramas like the one in this video.

Andres28:
For this blasphemy against the almighty GOD.You are going to pass thru hell in this life b4 you eventually die.pain and sorrow shall be your name from today..people will spit at you while you are alive.your whole skin shall peel off and flies will feast on your flesh..i curse you today just as JESUS cursed the fig tree.

Preshieben:
I'm tireeeddd already

Is it just me or is there anyone who's experiencing this?

I'm actually a very forgiving person,
I mean, I forgive people who hurt me and move on with my life even without them apologizing,but I keep getting hurt over and over again.

One of my male friends and I had a misunderstanding five months ago which he claimed I insulted him and promised to deal with me...I sha took it jokingly till last week Sunday,he apologized and said we should get back to how we used to vibe before...I agreed.
Fast forward to Wednesday evening...we decided to hang out in his place(that was our normal meeting point before our fight tho)

He told me it was a trap after I entered the house and he locked the door,he said he was gonna deal with me for insulting him...long story cut short,he raped Me brutally without protection ( I've never had any sexual relationship with him before)
After the whole incident,I Left to the hospital and was examined,I was drugs and I got the doctor's report too and headed straight to SSS the next morning and made my complain with the prove,he was arrested and beaten,he admitted to raping me and was transferred to the police headquarters..
I was called this morning and the IPO asked if I really want him to go to prison or forgive him?


Omoh....remembering that rape is life imprisonment,I'm feeling guilty already and thinking of going to close the case.
WHY this Feeling
Why can't I just let people suffer the consequences of their actions?

rofemiguwa:
Do not cancel and reapply. Write a cover letter if you feel so strongly. If u want my advise leave it alone. And pray it passes through. Sometimes is best to keep your application simple.

Leave it. U already have several visa after that. You genuinely forgot. Let it be.

No go complicate your matter

Pekela:
Hello house

I applied for a family visit visa on the 30th of June and got this refusal yesterday. I have been paying myself salaries between 400k to 500k for the past one year from my company and my company name is shown in all the credits in my bank statements without no single credit from other accounts. However the ECO wrongly mentioned that they noticed I received money from undeclared source.

Please do you advise I go administrative review?

MatrixReloaded:
Beta use your acc so u can also get the "CBN grant when received foreign currency to your account.

SMGGroup:
I still have one more question. How is UBA bank going to receive it since i didn't give him any number linking the transaction to UBA.

I don't know if there is a UBA unique number that i have to give him together with my name as beneficiary

SMGGroup:
What you are saying is that i don't need to have an account with Wise. If that is the case, what number should i send to him in order to get the money through UBA

SMGGroup:
Kindly tell me how to use Transfer wise. Can anybody just show me the process pleaseeeeeee

SMGGroup:
A UK friend wants to send money to me and asked for my bank IBAN and BIC numbers. I don message UBA on twitter alongside series of emails, yet no response.

Is there any other way i can get him to do the transfer without using IBAN and BIC, whatever that means.

Note that i cant go to the bank because it's weekend.

Sergio103:
I want to ask....

How will queen Elizabeth feel when noticed that the school to be named after her in Nigeria is on strike

Favorolasupo:
lol
how are you over there?

Favorolasupo:
well..im okay actually..Thanks for your concern...
I understand what u are saying even if u dont understand mine..you are very right,,i agree..u get wisdom..pls dont keep quiet,,keep commenting...(No sarcasm here pls)...God enrich you with more wisdom..Gracias!!

Favorolasupo:
U should have kept quiet instead of making sexist comments..I wasn't blaming the guys for anything coz in reality both the two guys and the woman are both stvpid and wrong..I was just concerned about the fact that u only condemned the woman for sleeping with two guys when u supposed to have condemned all of them together...Well as for me i am not on any side whether male or Female..i dont know what you think i am but im no fvcking feminist..i dont give a fvck about feminism..I would have said the same thing if you were Female...Stop the habit of pouring your aggression on only women especially when the two genders are wrong..Hasta la visita!

Favorolasupo:
see the way you are talking as if you have seen the woman before..I dont know why some Men want something they can't give God from women..They always want a woman to be perfect as if the Men themselves dont have flaws...Hating on women and insulting them wont change anything in this life...at least if you want to marry,,Na woman u go still marry unless you are gay...And im very sure it was a woman that birthed you

Natbrowny:
U just called ursef silly and stupid. Coz u just repeated wat she's tryna point out.

U no get sense ooo. In trying to probably make her give u her number or audience. U just typed nonsense and mocked ursef.

Dumbass.

SlayerOfSatanst:
I and my girlfriend just came out of the bar where we finished drinking, we met another guy just outside the bar. The guy looked angrily at my girlfriend, she quickly introduced me as a neighbour to him. I was angry and left but she remained with him. When she came back I asked her why she introduced me as a neighbour, she said the guy is her cousin and she don't want him to know that I'm her boyfriend.




My spirit did not agree with that story. How do I get to the root of this?

Bradford111:
Yeah love is not enough but someone(lady) that really loves you genuinely won’t mind you being broke because she sees a future in you and won’t leave you because of the above you mentioned if that’s the case then Is not love bro