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Sheistoopretty:
Then stop posting those pictures, they are not funny is this how you intend making people laugh with stale pictures when you finally become a comedian tomorrow?

Sheistoopretty:
How is this now funny? Like, where is the part where we are supposed to laugh?

Burdenbearer:
Pls, can u help me with a Bank Cleaning job or Customer service or teller job? I have OND. I'm in Lagos.

Solofresh2:
Hello Nairalanders,please I need you to clearify me on something
A bank cleaner job with 26k per month in Lagos or a guest house Job with 4k per week At Ibadan, free accommodation.
Please which one is better

richmond500:
30b per month?
and u knew this figure cos u are the tax collector abi?
seeiously, shame is scarce

Johnnyjohnnyman:
Good morning all. My wife and I separated in 2020 for seven months we have reconciled in september 2020 and she took in the same month but I still have doubts because while she we were separated she had cheated on me with her colleague at work. Which I had Proofs. The reason why I have accepted her back was because the fault was mine I didn't cheat on her. I lost my job and my boss gifted me 300k I didn't know tell her anything and I confided to my sister in Benin Republic I sent her 200k to buy goods for me and she duped me. When she found out she started abusing me to the extend I had to leave the house and moved away to stay with my mother. I still doubts about the paternity of our fourth child because she doesn't look anything like me nor her mother. I strongly believed she was already pregnant that is why she came back begging me to return back home. The more the baby is growing up the more she is looking like her colleague. Ever since we had reconciled everything is perfectly fine our relationship is stronger than before but I can't stop thinking about the baby not being my own. I want to take her for a secret dna test but if the result came out I am not the father my family will be ripped off and I don't want divorce but i can't also live not knowing if I am truly her father or not. What would you advise me to do should I go ahead with the secret dna or not I just want to know the truth bur I am scared of the outcome

MadarasBlade:
So you suggests that he moves in with a wife that insults him at any given chance?

I think he's better alone.

I continue to tell men, if you don't have money, sorry for you,.

IamMobisola:
Lol, you are all the same sef.

Heimdal:
Believe whatever you want to believe.
I hope you end up with the kind of woman you think you deserve.
Shalom.

IamMobisola:
It's not assumption, it's the truth. You probably have been missing tweets on twitter and post here on nairaland about this topic.
They say "Men are polygamous in nature", that's the excuse your gender uses to justify them cheating.
They said women shouldn't leave their relationships because their men cheat because "men are by nature wired to have more than one woman" but when a woman cheats, she shouldn't be forgiven. And hundreds of comments from yiur gender were in agreement

Your gender said this.

omron:
Hello Good moring Romancelanders .
I really need a very urgent advise ,its affecting me emotionally and am confused.
MY name is Joseph am Abeokuta based live and work in Abeokuta,About 5 weeks ago I met this lady a graduate very beautiful, tall, and charming on my way to visit my Mum during weekend so I stopped her while driving and we chat and exchanged numbers,Since then we av been in constant communication, The funniest part of this aspect is that ever since I met her she go deeper In love with me even more than I do ,she calls me morin day and night to ask of me ,ask me what I eat how my day was going and all that even when am moody and she observe she will make me happy and crack jokes and all that, One day I was broke cos someone owe me money and could not pay she noticed am not happy and asked me why I told her am.broke and this lady sent me #5'000 naira to my bank account that day for me to manage till the next day, I just kept wondering why she love me this much and one day I asked her why she love me this much and she said its natural ,I invited her to my house one Sunday and she came to cook for me and tidy the house and we jist,so I tried to make attempt to have sex with her but she refused me and told me that it's the first time of coming to my house that it's not proper ,meanwhile she told me she met a guy while she was schooling at Obafemi Awolowo University ile ife Osun state they both graduated then and relocated to Abeokuta together and they were living couples life after school.so when ever this lady comes visit me she will be hurry to go back to the guys house which am not so much happy about ,...So this last Sunday she came to my house and confessed to me that it was the guy who disflowered her and that she never had sex with any other guy in her life except that guy,,,so this last Sunday again I tried to make attempt to have sex with her but she was dragging with me telling me no way no access I asked her why and she started crying ,and was so emotional ,she told me her conscience is disturbing her that the guy did not offend her and that she loves the guy so much and she loves me too ,that the love she has for both of us is equal and she does not want to be having sex with two guys at the same relationship and now told me that the only thing that can make her have sex with me is if she breaks up with the guy that I will have to be very patient and wait for that day to come and I now asked her what if the day does not come and she said all in God's hand ? I tried to persuade her for sex that Sunday evening she was dragging it with me and suddenly she left my room in annoyance carried her bag and left crying.....I have never seen the kind of this lady before in my life and after she left I felt bad and I hated myself ,,,,when she got home I called her to check on her and she told me she has reached home and she was apologising to me for refusing me sex ...Please am just so confused I don't know what to do ..she calls me more than 12 times a day asking about my welfare and my day ,am the first person she calls early morin with WhatsApp video calls and she is very caring ..what should I do...am thinking of deleting and forgetting her ..How can she say she loves me and having sex with another guy and refusing me ...please I need a very good advice..I really love her and I feel like marrying her but I don't just want to waste my time...Thanks for your concern my dearest nairalnders God bless u

IamMobisola:
But this same gender expects ladies to forgive them and take them back when they cheat.

Batam:
What has life thought you to think that your advice to a simp on this forum will change his mindset

MadarasBlade:
Tell him to rent another place and visit his family every weekend. Women do not respect men they help or cater for, she might act all kind now but down the line her negative traits will surface. It's how they all act.

Axis313:
Actually since things went south for the man,and the wife became the breadwinner of the family,the wife actually behaving rudely towards him,that's why I think at least he should reach an agreement with her to keep the documents if at all he's going to live under her roof.
But,it's just an advice sha,he is considering other options.

anonimi:
Should it remain in this current reality

LUAN1:
no you don't love them. If your younger brother behaves that' way you will probably talk sense into him, example (assuming): your younger brother got a car of 5m for his girlfriend just to impress her in The City while your parent are still in the village without a bicycle and still leaving in your grandfather's old house., You go think say the lady bewitched him, No. Na SIMPing dey worry your brother.

Zonefree:
@bolded... Any time you read or see a man make this comment, get ready to read some bullshît coming from him.