3kay945:


Hmmm. But akara dey cold o

There is a difference in not getting attention where your comment comes in.
What I'm saying here is, to pick someone who aligns with your goal.
Should I pick the wrong person just because I wanna belong! Lol, we are wired differently.
There's nothing wrong with my akara, whatever that means!
I'm just too morally upright, what can I do? Smile!

DemonInvoker:

If You Laugh When You Can Also Cry When You Need To....Being A Female Caught At The Wrong Side Of Forty Is Not A Pleasurable Something.

Smile, why don't you say it this way.
I wish you well, I hope you find someone who's compatible with you.
The game is different, I never came here to lament about not getting attention, I came here to explain how difficult it is to select a partner who understands you in the simplest.

Jefferic:


Honestly I'm serious. The 10 years I'm saying is worst case cinerio. I strongly belong to the sch of thought that sex b4 marriage is a sin. That's just it.

That's simply interesting. Time will tell!
If you truly belong to this school of though, I commend you!

Telstar:
That guy is a wussy.

Hmmm! How are you so sure about that?
So you are,what lol?

Jefferic:


My dear, search no more. You have finally meet you searching bus top. How old are you? I can date you even for 10 years without sex till marriage and I will not cheat on you.

Smile! This seems like a sarcasm to me.
I can't date for 10 years, lol

[quote author=Rosement post=101272256]Yes, sis. Having the same experience over and over can be so frustrating, I think I'm going to follow your footstep on this matter.

The both of us are not broke, we exchange gifts on special occasions. I use to prepare food and take it down to his office to surprise him.
I am in a healthy relationship, we treat each other with respect but the problem is we agreed to wait till our wedding night but now he is suggesting that we start having MouthAction.
Perhaps, he does not understand that I'm not trying to keep my hymen intact, I take fornication as sin.


Most sexually active guys see sex as a way of expressing love, don't blame them. We are wired differently,just like the way your reason could be stupid to them and their own reason could be strange to you, smile! I feel we all have reasons for choosing our paths, just like the way we have our reasons for not wanting to sex and all. Like me, I had this mindset since I was little, I promised to keep myself.
People will be like what if you do what he wants and it works for you then there is another thing what if it dint work.
Why don't you sit him down so you two can rub minds, from his responses you'll know what you're in for..
There is something they call compromise, are you ready for it? Will it be worth it?Think deep you only have answer to it. No matter what the advise is, you only have the answer.
I really don't express myself here on this issue but you made me to, I felt noone will understand till I saw some similarities in your question.

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Hope I'm not too late to answer this question.
What I did was to stay away from relationship. I got tired of breaking up for the same reason, I was tired of hurting so I stayed away from relationship.
I understand you perfectly well, like if you dont date,how will you get to know him and all. You have to choose.
I don't joke with my job, I'm a hardworker because I have got me and me alone.
I take myself out, breath and smile more. I chose this path to keep myself, I have been called a fool several times because of several opportunities and all but I choose not to regret it no matter what .
I haven't met a man who understands why I want to keep myself but till then I do what makes me happy.
Shalom!

DaddyRochie1642:
Charly Boy is ageless for his age, I wonder his secret

He exercises alot. I have seen him twice while briskwalking around Opebi, Ikeja.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright

Congratulations.....love science



I can bet my balls....na that one with 1.4kg go later mature and big pass

You don't need to bet your balls, lol.
You're damn right on this one

Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.

Bro let me advise you!
You're in a toxic relationship.
The love is onesided, it will end in premium tears.
You better move on without looking back because your mental health is at stake.
She will keep making you feel like you're the problem abi na you too get wahala.
She's using you to satisfy herself.
Stop putting up with her narcissistic behaviour, she is not your girl .
Love is Kind and peaceful not the other way round.
Bye bye

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Mikecold:
Did she also mention how the so called small state is the one footing her senate wages together with monthly allocation for the entire Adamawa state.


I wonder why northerners don't have shame, they are the ones that suppose to be thanking Bayelsa for funding their barren Terrorists enclave yet the peanut Bayelsa gets is what they also want


I am not surprised her co- parasite from Yobe is holding brief for her instead of acting like a supposed senate President

The wise one has spoken, gbam!

Zzor:
I can never like him,neverrrrrrrrrrrr

Congratulations Zzor! That's the way alot of people feel about you here, smile.

meobizy:
This noise. I mistakenly clicked a video to listen to the track. I couldn’t recognize his voice in it. Abeg, he should do better next time. I don’t like the commercial sound.

Go ahead and call his mobile number to explain your bitterness to him ��
To appreciate person just dey hard some people, ah! I don taya for people like you

bwambasolomon:
I have a fiancée whom I started dating about two years ago. We work together and we are on the same level, and earn the same salary. Each time we hanged out to just have fun, if we got to a place where prices were too expensive, I would say to her but this things are much cheaper elsewhere.

For example, we went to a place though inside the same premises, one part of the lounge sells bottled water for 250 while the other one sells bottled water for 500, she then suggested that we go to the part where water was sold for 500. Note that it was in the same premises and there was absolutely no difference between the two, it's not like one was VIP area and the other was not. We ended up going to the 500 naira side. All that we ate which of course was double the price, I paid.

Each time we went to the mall, we buy things normally. But there's something about malls which some of you may have noticed, certain things such as pots, plastic rubbers, electronics, and so on are usually unreasonably exorbitant. So I said it would be better for us not to buy things that were too expensive that we could get outside for cheaper prices, but we could buy other things whose prices were reasonable. The next thing she started saying was that I don't have class, it's classy people that buy such things.

So one day we went to a pharmacy in that same mall, because she wanted to get some drugs, the price they called for her was about three times what it was outside, so she said it was better to go outside to buy it. So I just told her that since she has class she should buy it now, the next thing she started insulting me, she gave me the insult of my life. That wasn't the only scenario, there were many other cases like that.

She had started to stay with me after a while. Every thing in the house belongs to me, and I made sure everywhere was conducive for us. Air conditioners every and so on, good house, good compound, surveillance cameras and so on. Initially I was shouldering all responsibilities like food, the car washer who washes the both of our cars, the security man, fuel in the generator, NEPA light, repairs in the house and so on.

Please note that we work in the same place and earn same amount. Sometimes when I was short of cash, since I knew that her own money would still be there, I would borrow from her to buy food stuffs and other miscellaneous, and pay back by next salary.

She contributed just about 10% of expenditures in the house which was majorly just food stuffs. Note that I buy much more foodstuffs 5 times more than what she buys.

That was not just it, the relationship was usually filled with arguments, I can hardly have a conversation with her, she would begin to argue.

I want to ask few questions here:
(1)please is there anyone who doesn't know that Egusi causes pimples for those who are prone to having pimples?
(2) Is there any one who doesn't know that if something is very hot, it is not advisable to put in the fridge?
(3) here anyone who doesn't know that garlic is medicinal?
(4) Is there any one who does not know that it is not advisable to put on a generator when it has been drenched by rain?

But this girl will argue with me, insisting that I must put on the gen when rain has beaten it, because apparently, it is not her property. And the fridge is also not hers which is why she won't care if it gets spoilt. In short there's usually too much argument over what is clear for everyone to see, thereby it is always difficult to have a conversation with her.

I was later transferred out of the state we were, so I decided that because of her, I won't take anything away from the house, I would buy everything I need in the new place I had been posted to. So I bought a bigger TV for the house we both shared and took the smaller one to my new place of posting. I bought my mattress, kitchen utensils, got an apartment, and bought every thing I needed in the new place. So now, I have most things in two pairs, just so she would be comfortable.

Please note that we aren't yet married, and I agreed to not having sex with her because that was she wanted, I respected that. The only thing I know we do was romance.

So I started insisting that it was high time for her to be responsible, that we can't both be working and she won't be buying reasonable amount of food stuff because I noticed that sometimes, she would go out and buy 3 packs of spaghetti, which doesn't make sense to me. She said her dad is the one that buys food stuffs in her house and her mum contributes for petty projects. But I am not her Dad, I have my own mind. Also note that she didn't volunteer to bring any amount for my project oo, because I won't want a woman to contribute 1 naira to the houses I am building. All I said was that she should be contributing reasonable amounts for food stuffs in the house. We hardly stay two weeks without fights, she must look for one insult or the other.

We went for counselling and the pastors said she has to be contributing for expenditures in the house, we agreed on 60% to 40% sharing formula for all expenditures. So me as the man would contribute 60 while she will contribute 40. Please note that rent was not inclusive, as I volunteered to pay for the rent in the house we were and for my apartment in my new place of posting.
Later on, when she began to see the brunt of the responsibilities that I used to bear she started saying we (Me and the Pastors) are forcing her to contribute. But I didn't know these Pastors before, that was my first time of meeting them, she was the one who knew them before me. But simply because they told her the truth, she started saying we are forcing her.

Please I need your honest opinions on this issue.
Thank you.

Please if she doesn't listen then leave her alone.
There are some girls out there who will give you peace of mind without even getting half of the reasonable treatments and all.
I really dont appreciate people with entitlement mentality and those that are never ready to compromise.
Everyone deserves happiness irrespective of the gender.
If you understand how mental health is key then do what you think is right Asap.
Thank you

Funkybabee:
I think speaking of their language is the problem

Do they speak English there? How can one cope without understanding the language

Hawtakowta:
Just 500k

Go and sell yours lets see

Esseite:
Everyone has right of association..

Please help me tell them ooo,
Abi politics don turn don chieftaincy title again
Naija which way now

darhray:
Am just seriously tired of this life to be honest, suicide keep coming, sometimes i ask myself if i ever ask anybody to create me. Why create me and put me into hardship, where there are people who have never experience suffering in their life, what kind of rubbish formation is this life like for real, its just so foolish and i am just angry for no reason.

no money
no love life
no achievements
just being miserable and have tried every fucking thing, is this how its going to continue? hopefully one day i can just end it all and forget all this deep thinking every hour

Please be calm!!!
Your turnaround is pretty close

Babara1994:

You're just jealous. From your name, we can tell who you are.
You know you are the most disgusting set of women in the country

Jealous
I really dont have time for any man.
I'm too busy building my career, I wish you know me personally then you will know what I'm talking about.
No time to check time.
Thank you

Babara1994:
Beautiful, balanced and energetic woman. Not like our Yoruba women here - very lazy and stingy liars with bleached RED faces and coarse voices.

It is hard to find a Yoruba woman that speaks the truth these days. They can lie away their destinies just to collect urgent 2k
NB: I am Yoruba but I love Igbo and Delta ladies.

You're confused oooo, why generalizing.

Igbos and Deltas suit you very well so they can reset or better still format your brain then add sense app for you later

DenreleDave:


Helo afolashade, can I get to know you miss

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slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright . .....women too get wahalar.....
We real niggarrrrs go dey save money for something reasonable like paying of house bill, weed, alcohol...booking runs babe and buying lexus and benz

While dey will be saving their money for unreasonable things like mixing of expensive creams and organics, buying all types of weavon....plaiting chuku, braiding, Ghana weaving, Bob Marley, thread, Twisting, Rihanna
Fixing eye lash....buying make up tools and box....fixing nails...even the one that shows light in the night...they buy same dress, bags and slippers of the same color

Even my house here is littered and scattered with weavon from my baby sisters

The one that shows light in the night is called, GLOW IN THE DARK!!!

majamajic:
Cr7, still the best !!

Who ask you?
If dey compare you with your colleagues or friends now, na so so vex you go dey vex.

Samunique:
So what's your point exactly ?

I wonder, too much of sense dey affect some people

Driedfish:
Meow meow.



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drizslim:
For this app everything is now news. I tire
We wey be stingy boys no go buy from her if she's not selling 5 for #50

Why dont you go ahead and make your fufu @stingyboysassociation