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Iamzealousman:
This is my thought exactly
But when I withdraw from her she would call still or rather send a chat.
It won't be nice of me ignoring her chats or calling knowing also that she's very much concerned about me getting a good job.
But right from day 1 she knows I like her but I just wonder why if she doesn't like in return the way I do she now always trys to make contact with me.


I could spend hours(probably because I am jobless) lookin at her pictures waiting to know how long a time she uses on line feeling jealous because if isn't with me.

I have deleted her number a lot of times I still end up saving up her number

Better control yourself before you’d do something that would lead to massive embarrassment. Ask her what she wants. Friendship or relationship? Ask in plain terms once and for all. If she says she doesn’t know, my brother, run for your life. Don’t let woman play with you like a puppet on strings. It won’t be funny o.

Just avoid her. She knows your feelings and she is enjoying the attention while denying you what you want. You are the one experiencing heartbreak even before entering a relationship. Better break free bro. Avoid her.

Iamzealousman, she said “no” to your advances. She said you should stop walking together so people wouldn’t think you were dating. These are major pointers.

You need to ask her what exactly she wants from you. But bear in mind that it won’t be a relationship.

You cannot continue filling the void of friendship for her while you yearn for something more. That is emotional torture.

You should not punish yourself cos my guy, she will always tell you no. Continue ignoring her. She will get tired and leave you alone. You should stop checking her status or anything that would trigger the frustrated affection you have for her.

Maybe later, you may become friends, but for now, it is impossible as you are already emotionally invested in a one-sided “situationship”. There are other women around. Forget this one. She will just use you for one-sided companionship.

To leave the country na war. To stay na war. Any small thing death penalty.

Manipulative evil lady.

She later agreed to do but it was a trap! If he had gone ahead to knack her, these feminists would have called it coercion.

The young man made the wise decision to refuse her.

Olosho agreed to come on a vacation then started forming hard to get. She’s mad. She should carry her body and go.

If na one werey guy, he for arrange like 2 other chicks for knacking while she was still in the room. If she vex, make she go rent another room. She dey mad.

Stay in your brother’s house till you get a better apartment

Imagine. You don’t even know if your brother has a current girlfriend. Maybe na boyfriend him get. This matter the wrapper.

Who knows the evil he may have done at some checkpoint or duty post?

He should protest and see what ordinary Nigerians face.

As long as policemen collect bribes; as long as police are on the payroll of these drug barons, nothing will change. There are few problems in this country that cannot be traced to police corruption and brutality.

Magnoliaa:
Awwwwnnnn. God whennn??

See beautiful couple na. Ayiii!

Shey I wee nur goan drag one man like this and snap pre-wedding pics, too? It's doing me like it oh.

It's the freshness and handsomeness and pretty-ness for me.

Happy Married Life in Addy, OP.

Abi wee shu du awa own ni, Afro Knight?

No vex o. What if I say you must carry belle, and it must reach 6 months belle before we marry?

I’m just asking ni o. What if?

Young? Yes
Black? Obviously
Sexy? How?

Thought they said we should stop sexualising women. Anyway congratulations to her.

Magnoliaa:
Really? You didn't know her age all this time? So you don't actually Keep Up with The Kardashians?

Don't worry. I'll enhance my body too like that for your viewing pleasure; you won't have to be looking out. And I was going to post one audio like that, declaring my love for you, I don't know why it's not going. I'll keep trying.

Oh and I'm fine. I just finished playing 'psychologist' to a friend, and I ended up making myself feel good as well.

How are you, too?

I’m fine.

Do big yansh. Not too big though. Make you no wound person.

Magnoliaa:
Why you dey tok am like say you no know before? You thought you were older than her?

Lol. I never knew her age before now. Always thought she was younger. She really looks good for her age. I guess I was carried away by her body. Enhanced though, it’s so appealing.

Drive carefully.

Life no get duplicate.

So this Kim babe senior me well well?

Magnoliaa how you dey?

This is weird. Makes no sense.

Nigerians no dey forget something Even if he scored that goal, we were not prepared for that tournament to be honest.

Happy birthday boss.

I wonder why people gloss over the glaring detail here.

Did the man fall down from the sky to engage her? The only reason she got engaged was because she was steadily cheating on you. If you like, turn a blind eye to that detail. It tells you about her sneaky dishonesty.

She has sized you up and decided it would take some time before you became buoyant enough and she believed she couldn’t wait for that long. So she dumped you and chose someone who is ready in her books.

It’s not new. Girls have been doing this for ages. When guys dump them they say we used them but when they dump guys they say they followed the man who was ready. Conveniently forgetting the fact that they cheated steadily before they chose the new guy.

Forget her and her fake tears and move on with your life.

Only Reno can explain what happened to this petition. If it violated any guidelines, he would have been notified.

Magnoliaa:
I just dey read the comment again sef and I realised no single sense dey there. Watin he comment no even get head and is totally off topic. Watin I come dey get angry for? Talking about Arab and lust and slit skirt and hypocrisy kinikan kinikan. I now feel pity for him. The need to always slam women fit craze some of these men's heads, make dem dey drive rough and jam-talk with their mouths.

Trouble maker. Keep shut. This kind of talk doesn’t strengthen the bonds of friendship.

Magnoliaa:
The joy this sensible comment of yours gave me ehnn, unlike one idiotic Arab-worshipping e-goat up there. Ode oshi.

I was going to drag his smelly balls for that comment, but your comment pacified me. There are still sensible truly logical ones of you out there.

Na mumu cows and sensless child redpillers like those above dey tarnish some of una wey dey see truth and talk am as e be when need be.

You don vex.

No vex.

ejimatic:
We don't have
an ambassador in the country again? Flimsy excuse

Embassy officials extorted her friends and family. They only cared about making money from her case.

Blaming the dead girl is so convenient. Evil government.

Anyway, Nigerians abroad already know that without strong connection within the embassy or the ministry of foreign affairs, they are ON THEIR OWN.

Davash222:
You expressed your feelings to a Nigerian girl?


Una no dey ever learn.

The only feeling legally and morally acceptable to express to a Nigerian girl is Konji feeling. Any other feeling expressed is foolishness and should be met with utter disgrace!

Wetin happen?

Bagehot:
Dude, accept that you need a side-chic. You cannot think clearly if deprived of sex for too long, and would over time start to slowly lose your self-esteem and unconsciously do stupid things around women. Your wife's biological impulses of having a child have been fulfilled, hence she is no longer so motivated to sleep with you.

I used to be like you before I realized I was subscribing to a stupid western construct propagated by a media pandering to women they can sell stuff to. Get a side babe(s), and know peace.

Leave him. He wants to be chivalrous to a woman who uses sex as a tool for manipulation and bargaining.

What his wife is doing to him is extremely wicked. And she’s doing it because she knows he loves her. And she thinks he loves her much more than she loves him.

It’s quite shameful but not surprising to see men confess that they still engage in transactional sex within their marriage. They pay their wives for sex that both of them will enjoy. They pay her for a boring sex where she lies still like a sex doll, while the man does all the work. Their self esteem is dependent on their wife’s reaction to the gifts and money they use to purchase her body for the night. A big disgusting shame.

Superstriker, if you’re not careful you will join this league of married men whose happiness is tied to how much they can pay for sex in their own homes.

This kind of wicked character will put strains on the love in any home. As a Christian, your wife’s body belongs to you and yours to her. The moment she begins to hoard it like palliative, just know that she has used her hand to invite discord.

Guys who use money to buy a woman’s love during dating should brace themselves for the possibility of ending up like OP and eventually, like the other men on this thread who have to act like sugar daddies to their own wives in their own homes.

slimjohn2k5:
You are wrong bro. You cannot just go and meet Ur wife to open leg because your penis stand.

You need to make her happy and put her in the mood. I was thinking like you till I found my way out and I am happy with it

Some slaves were happy with slavery because their masters beat them less than other slaves and gave them old clothes and allowed them to work in the house and not on the field. It didn’t change the fact that they were slaves though.

Magnoliaa:
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Sayyyy whaaaaaaatttt? Ah. Buoda Afro. Ah. Ah. E de beru Olorun! Ha!

Well, that’s how I see myself.
What more can I say?

Honestly l don’t blame the man. He just wanted peace. A pity she found out. Now he has lost his precious peace.

I think he is the one who needs to be compensated.

Papa, you are a legend.

Magnoliaa:
Ah. Sorry, no. You're guilty by Virtue of Gender Association. So una must collect dragging too.

Face the culprit abeg.

Also, I’m not a badoo. I’m a gentleman. A decent faithful, extremely humble gentleman. I don’t know anything about sexual activities.

tiffanyfan:
So a man in love is now a SIMP ??

No. A man who knows a woman is bad for him but keeps letting her manipulate him into accommodating her toxic behaviour is a SIMP.

Try to stop eating from a business of 2 months. Let it grow.

Iyaebe:
Are you among those men who don't believe in one man one woman?

I don’t really support polygamy. But I understand why guys get into polygamy.