True Talk; Free the Kids

tjskii: ,honestly I spose spank ur bumbum for dis post,

Which on be spank again, u wan oyibolize coboco, abi u no from naija...? say flog or bulala. lol

The Poster make small sense sha, its just that some men can eat five women food o. And it's only women that are trusting God to find MR. RIGHT that starve themslves in the name of watching their wieght, but when things normalized...

Pragmatic

Suger cane and pure water

LT SHANGY: THE PREMIUM TIMES are truely not competative in the media world. THE MILITARY ARE LEAVING MALI NOT BECAUSE OF THE BOKO HARAM INSURGENCY BUT THE FACT IS THAT THE MALIAN OPERATION IS NO LONGER AN AFISMA OPERATION, IT IS NOW A UN OPERATION(MINUSMA). IN PROTEST TO THE RWANDAN GENERAL APPOINTMENT, THE NIGERIAN MILITARY WILL ONLY DEPLOY A LEVEL 2 MILITARY HOSPITAL, A FULL SIGNAL SQUADRON AND THE POLICE UNIT.

Thanks for this info, you leared some air...by answering your name.

What! ppl full here wey d pretend o...What are you not telling me...? If you are in the Publice and you feel like farting, creat some noise and let the thing out (no skin pain). When in church and the thing hold you, Wait for the halelujah moment and let it go (God won't kill you for being natural). If you can't fart B4 your lover, then someone is pretending here...My friend, The creator know that their will be pressure moment and so, gave us that exhaust bhind, so use it. let out the pressure friend B4 it let you out.

Person dey find meat inside soup, kpomo dey raise im hand...na wa o.

Valiantvaliant: The comments so far imply that all men are addicted to football but thats not so and i am one of the few exceptions, so ma'am if you are intrested, do indicate,

bbpreye.:


So?

You need deliverance by floging by a cele. Prophet.

The woman provides emotional need for the family while the father (Besides financial responsibility) must be there to provide the authority the family needs. In a situation where any one of this is lacking, there is bound to be misbehaviour from the child/ren. If u, as a man explains away your duty in the name of trying to provide for the home, you will have to live to contend with rebellious children in the future.
And there are some fathers that are around and not available, this too can cause problem for the child. The worst thing that can happen to any child is to be mentored by his/her pairs or wicked nanny.
I am telling you this from experience. No matter how busy we may be, we must create time and make a conscious effort (whether mother or father) to be there for our children and play our role(s). And not wait to blam the woman… women must not pay for the irresponsibility of the men.
To properly understand what i am talking about, google the consequence of single parenting and let us know your findings.

Taiwo20: Heaven never sure for me but if i get there somehow i wud ask this simple question?

why did u allow Eve eat of the fruit?

You can only be in heaven if you allow heaven into you....Jesus Loves all.

Married and dating ladies are in the best position to clasify their men...If you know what i mean. Although sincere men will always say the truth. Ladies, I hope and pray God will give you a kingdom man, marriage is not meant to be endured but enjoyed, ensure you make your choice wisely. I hate men that beat their wives, infact i consider them lesser men-boys in men's body. My wife is not complaining about me though, and i believe that if we are giving a second chance to marry, she will chose me as much as i will chose her. The thing is fun for us o.

Irresponsibility is the man that refuse to repond to his abilities...at home, office, etc. If you know what to do and refuse to do it... complet it.

Yes! I will Marry Her again, No nagging, Extrimly hard working, no how to cook good food, has giving me two lovely children and respect my relations and friends. Although she is not perfect, we are learning adjust every day. Love U Princess!

Niseamaka:


If you are already married,your husband should consider himself lucky b/c if you are practising all you`ve enumerated,
your marriage will be one of the few without constant squabbles.And if you are not married,upload your picture for the
single guys, you are probably the hottest marriage material on this forum.Marriages are very problematic but with a mindset like yours,about half of the problems in most marriages will melt away easily.

Stop hoping and act if you are single...the grl make sense die. gud for her man!

neyostica:
A helper and not a partner

U can only ask for help when you have a need of it (vision for life before marriage)
When a man has no vision and go ahead to marry in the name of finding a help mate, the marriage become a mirage instead of a miracle.

Women, don't marry any man that has no vision...even if he has money now, he will waste it and become a liability, But when he has vision, anything is possible.

debrief08:
My dear I didnt even want to comment when i saw the ones on how that will make him cheat. My Lord, I am dealing with mood swings now and I didnt know how i will react so i just kept quiet. Is a wife so valueless in Nigeria now that any small issue will automatically be an excuse for the man to cheat and will be justified? Is that what we have reduced our wives too? I had to de-learn every thing I previously thought I nknew about marriage and re learn, When I read somethings here my heart just sinks, haba, How does a human being who is meant to be a partner and helpmate get reduced to the level i see here. If you dont give hime s3x everytime even when you are sick he will cheat, if you do this he will cheat.
I am not in anyway tolerating the womans actions whioch i regard as totally childish but I am just so sad that everything is an excuse or a reason to cheat.

Men that cheat on their wives after little aguement, has been noursing the idea in their head before the aguement. I can't cheat on my wife for whatever reason, Why? because i fear God, have respect for the covenant of marriage that we have, i love and respect my wife and will do my best not to break her trust and above all, i don't want my children to hate me whent they grow up. Don't be discourage about marriage, their are individual diiferences and nothing is impossible with God.

But if my wife makes it a habit of refusing to serve me food or even cook after an aguement, then their is something she has not learnt. what men love most in marriage is, respect, Sex, Food etc. therefore, i will seat her down and talk it over with her, if she won't refuse me sex because of aguement, food shouldn't be an excption. (any way, marriage is a full time ministry -so to say and must be given all it takes.

ferhyntorlah:
Pls help me tell your wife that one of your fellow Nairalander said she is indeed a virtuous woman. Reading your comments about her just made my day.

I love it when women like her know how to handle 'hot' situation via her calmness. It shows she values your union.

I will tell her that…lyk I will always say wickedness is not a gift, every human being has a seed of it, but we all chose to work hard and be (good) like God. Before we marry, I knew I could get angry at the slightest provocation and I vow never to hit my wife and I told my wife to help me keep my promise to God and her. And she has been very helpful.

I hear a lot of people complaining about women nagging… it is in women’s nature to talk and God has wired all men to listen... not just with the ear, but the heart men should learn to do that. Adam was careless about that and Satan took advantage if it.

Are you married…I pray that God will help you meet a good man that will bring the best out of you

[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]ferhyntorlah(f):Pls help me tell your wife that one of your fellow Nairalander said she is indeed a virtuous woman. Reading your comments about her just made my day

I love it when women like her know how to handle 'hot' situation via her calmness. It shows she values your union.

I will tell her that…lyk I will always say wickedness is not a gift, every human being has a seed of it, but we all chose to work hard and be (good) like God. Before we marry, I knew I could get angry at the slightest provocation and I vow never to hit my wife and I told my wife to help me keep my promise to God and her. And she has been very helpful.

I hear a lot of people complaining about women nagging… it is in women’s nature to talk and God has wired all men to listen... not just with the ear, but the heart men should learn to do that. Adam was careless about that and Satan took advantage if it.

Are you married…I pray that God will help you meet a good man that will bring the best out of you

My First year in marriage, it was fun and it is still fun. My wife was virtually a virgin-in all things (if you know what I mean) when I married her. At first it was frustrating, but when I saw her teachability, we took time to begin to learn and grow together. We have not ague or quarrel so to say, any time am angry and blowing hot, she will just keep quite and patiently Waite for me to cool-down ( I love her for that, as that has help strengthen our relationship), and then she will apologize for her action and try to adjust. She use to call her mum about everything, I had to put my foot on the ground for that to stop. Of course she could call her mum as much as she want but not on issue that pertain to the family, especially the ones we could handle. In marriage, I learnt about how delicate female emotion is and ensure I protect my wife’s. It breaks my heart when I see her cry (even though it’s the most cherished hubby of women), I also leant how analytical and meticulous women are in their thinking. I take advantage of my wife’s a lot (you need to have a concrete plan of vision, then ask them to think it through for you and at the end you will clearly see all the advantages and disadvantages) and it has save me from a lot of errors. Generally marriage is fun, if you married the right person and not your fellow man. Singles, stop testing the waters, plunge in, and you won’t drown… Our most challenging expeirnce was when we had our first child, it was thru CS, and was very challenging I thought, it was not going to end. I thank God for saving her life and giver her unusual strength.[[color=#000099][/color]

You need to see your Pastor...it is not normal.

oh i thought that man of fraud, oyedepo, sent some spiritual missiles into boko haram. the more these men of fraud open their stinking mouths the more bombings

I am Sure she is another loosed one on the net! How old is she sef? I hope you attain the age that he is now in your life time and be able to affect the people around you in a way and don't leave only your grave behind as the only pointer to your existence.

I pity you!

Let her get on her kneels fast, and remain on her kneels until their is a shift, If she keep quite, the enemy will have a fill-day. I pray that God will raise up on her behalf.

Chindi, If i may ask; What is it dat we enjoy up to 90% in diz Naija sef?!

What we are enjoying up to 90% in dis country is food, the poorest person in this country can (somehow eat once a day), eat and be strong so that we can make the change that our fathers were not able to make. If 9ija is not there yet, we can push it forward, after-all individuals are making discoveries and inventions that is moving a whole nation forward.

Nayah, gud thots.

Some People are so used to negativity and as a result, have become so negative that they don't see anything good in anything, Ask what is their vision for Nigeria, Negative; What do they expect out of life, Negative; What is their perception about their own future, negative. Does it has to do with how they grew-up or they just don't want to accept change? If you don't lyk 9ija, try Sudan, Somalia, If the govt has failed, what have you done uref? How many people's school fees have you paid or how many helpless people are you feeding? I believe in this Country and i know that we are the giant, but if you think otherwise, what are doing to make that happen, atlist from you domain.

I am a better man!

More futuristic, and Meticulous in all my dealings.

U humbled BABE!

The building is even still standing, in my village na unda tree dem de learn book. God Dey!

Cheap Phone!

I wonda y  will one want to get pregnant b4 marriage (in the Name of fertility or whatever), I am an advocate of total abstinence. The primary aim of marriage is intimacy, children should only come as a result. If you marry for sex, children (or do it b4 marriage)etc, when u are done with all of that, u will begin to hate the relationship, but if the aim is love and intimacy, then u can cross all berries and conquer all frontiers together. If my gal demand sex as a prove of love, i will forget the relationship (i am married kid tho, and we abstained). I encourage women to avoid this type of idea, becos they will be the worst hit when it backfire, especially emotionally, but every man is still subject to his opinion and belief and will pay the price according,  FEAR GOD!

Bros, U fit Marry o, Wisdom is the right application of knowledge, if u know what 2do, u will leave where u are.

, Remember, you are not competing with anyone and also not leaving to please anyone, beside you will not be at the level of 40k 4ever.

Mental preparation is superior to financial preparation, am sure u are ready mentally n emotionall. Altho ur wedding might not be the talk of the town, but i know it can still hapun n u will still be happy.

But if ur wife have eyes for big things, then u need to do a 40 days fast first, b4 u commit dt 40k

ENJOY!

I don't think following an aguement and allowing temper to flare is necessary. whether you believe that Jesus is Lord or not, ? or that God is a fable or not? it doesn't change a thing. When their is war and you are a soldier, if u like defend yourself; if you like stand until you are hurried out of this life to eternity. that is for you to decide too. All i know is that, you can't add to God or take from him. He is God and nothing can change that.

It is only now that we are here in this world that we can say whatever we feel like saying and believe anything you want, and feel fulfilled or justified, One thing i know is that, heaven is real and hell is real,  God has giving us all we need to live a godly life including 'military kind of life', decide what you want and follow through. Remember! You have one life to live, it is important if you make the most of it.