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Mondisweets:
If you dont love someone u can never be patient, loyal to him nor will u tolerate or trust him so i don't understand what the purpose of this thread is

U just don't get do you,...most people don't even know what that word love means(me sef don't know)...you can be loyal, patient and respectful to a stranger even without necessarily "loving" him...now if you can be like that to a stranger u know nothing about...y not to ur spouse...but the reasons they give is that, they don't love him or her again

Personally I feel it's not good...me I prepare the list then show Oga...he then goes through it and make some "adjustments"

pickabeau1:
fairy tale wedding or marriage?

Meant marriage

I don't believe in that word "love"...you know as in terms of "loving" someone who is not related to you by blood....i feel they are a lot of other important ingredients like Tolerance, patience, mutual respect, loyalty, being content with what you have, TRUST,etc which should be in a relationship other than the so called overated love....so many sad stories on family section, with one of the partners claiming she (it's mostly a she)still loves the man despite what he did to her....my advice to ladies out there...most especially the unmarried ones is to drop this notion of a fairy-tale marriage...where u live happily ever after with a handsome Denzel Washington-look-alike Prince Charming with 16 packs ,...try to be realistic and practical in life. Nobody knows u better than yourself...you know wat u want, knows what qualities u desire in a partner, and most especially should know when to have the courage to say No to a relationship that lacks these ingredients mentioned

@ all, Wow, thanks

Just don't know why I love this guy

alutacontinua:
Since you're sure that this lady's parents have correct head on their neck, could you please ANONYMOUSLY tip them off dt dey're abt to give their daughter out to a beater?
As CC said, no matter what you say, she'll nit listen. Best thing is to come up with a plan that would not implicate you and let her parents know the situation of tinz.


I know you might wonder why you'll go that far, but trust me, if d man kills her orlands her in hospital, as a friend, u'll also bear some of it!

Best advice so far

greatgod2012:
The fact is that, a single lady who agrees or accepts to date a married man knows shes causing distraction in someone else's marriage, and whatever one sows is what the person reaps, even in multiples, so, when the lady finally settles down, somehow, sometimes and anyhow, someone will also cause distraction in her marriage too. Its not a curse, its called "karma" and this karma is immortal, always alive, active and agile to repay everyone accordingly.

Not until we treat others the way we want them to treat us, things cant be normal and we cant get there.
May God help us all.

So by your logic...the wife who is being cheated upon is being "re-payed" by karma for probably cheating wt a married man when she was single

ocheezie:
I'm assuming you had a Christian wedding. And that this is a form of sickness for your husband. And that in the marital vows,you said 'I do' to...in sickness and in health,till death do us part. U can't divorce him on grounds of ill-health. If u weren't going to have pre-marital sex, u should have done fertility and other tests prior to taking those vows. Hard as it may sound,adoption is an option.so many kids out there seeking motherly love,even around you. The solution lies with you and ur man, not here,not with his ur family or friends. Talk it over.what if u divorce him and the next man,God forbid,has d same issues,or develops something like it afterwards? U move again?

Actually she can divorce, am a catholic and during my marriage course, I was made to understand that one of the conditions on which a marriage can be anulled is infertility, which is applicable in this case, cos the man is infertile

My dear is not easy ooo, I suggest u postpone d wedding till wen in level 300, at least by den sch stress don reduce small

I have never boarded a plane...us na Ifeanyichukwu/ Ezenwata Night bus thingz

5minsmadness:
But how come anytime the man asks for it you see the woman complaining 'sex is not food, are u an animal, am tired , I have headache, etc '. But when the action starts they want it to go on and on as if they have been starving for it since? Why the initial shove-offs?

Can't really say but most times such woman actually consciously or unconsciously pretend

How do u expect her to demand for it...where we live in a society in which every "decent" lady is expected to "hate" sex

kilokeys:
she fell in love... now she fell out

we have to throw the annoying husband inside a well, then make her fall for him once more.

then seal d well..

Hehehehehe

I got married at the age of 21/22...which was the age I have always wanted to get married

hollabeesy2014:
Epidural is my middle name.... hmm who wants to die, ta n fe ku? am sure even d hebrew women would av opted for it if it was available

Hehehehehe

UNN
ABU
OAU

Thanks

osemu8:
I am serving in rivers state,I am in d best position to tell u guys that there is nothing like state allowance here,those who served since 2012 were not paid,make do with ur 19800

Hmmm

Analystshariff:
You are welcome to d house.
Pls introduce urself.
Your name, skul, your prefered state of deployment.

Ok

richybanky:
March

Ok, thanks

This should be my thread, already knew I was'nt going this year...please when are we going Febuary or March

Is it true that Rivers State hardly pay thier corpers

O.p u forgot to add hair-dressing

Tell her she is a rare gem among women...she is unique in her own way....but erm she should watch the way she goes about telling people she is a virgin...when we were in school...a girl was unknowingly "arranged" for her then bestfriend's brother...who raped her and took her virginity

chucky234:
What is this one saying sef

Am saying or asking are you for real?

chucky234:
If you truly love him then mourn him forever,till your dying day because that's what true love stands for..
You can move on with your live and attend to your every needs but always have in place in your for him,always.
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Recently a dog was discovered to have spent the last six years sitting beside its dead master's grave watching over him,that's a good example of how a loved one should be mourn.

Are u for real

So what's the big deal...funny enough such type of marriages tend to last longer

leb0gang:
he is 30 this year.

Chineke!

Mummy sef

@ O.p, if my niece who is yet to be married gets pregnant for a man talkmore a foreigner do you expect me to pat her on the head and congratulate her...anyway I don't know the moral values of where you from but from where I come from...dem no dey look pre-marital pregnancy wt good eye...my advice is for you to develop a tougher skin and try and ignore them

Dem no beat am well