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FamilyRe: My Wife Records Our Argument by Aguogba(m): 2:46pm On Feb 03, 2022
Ogalanyaidi:
Thanks for your response. I just got married and I don't want a divorce.
Agreed, she is extremely intelligent and I can't really predict her intentions. How did I know?
I play card games well but she would always beat me to any game we played together, even card games. She thinks very deep and it marvels me.

Who is the sponsor of your stay abroad, as in who get kpali?
FamilyRe: My Wife Records Our Argument by Aguogba(m): 2:45pm On Feb 03, 2022
Ogalanyaidi:
Thanks for your response. I just got married and I don't want a divorce.
Agreed, she is extremely intelligent and I can't really predict her intentions. How did I know?
I play card games well but she would always beat me to any game we played together, even card games. She thinks very deep and it marvels me.
Who is the sponsor of your stay abroad, as in who get kpali?
FamilyRe: My Wife Records Our Argument by Aguogba(m): 2:42pm On Feb 03, 2022
ObamaMessi:
I'll not advise you to divorce her but i'll ask you to delete such recording and never you engage in a heated argument.Threaten her with divorce and if she seem not to mind or continues her ridiculous acts, take any decision that will save your life.
We don't know who is sponsoring who on that marriage.
TravelRe: I Have Finally Left Nigeria by Aguogba(m): 10:08pm On Feb 01, 2022
Good luck bro. Try and learn French.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Saw Ielts, Toefl And Immigration Apps On My Phone by Aguogba(m): 9:42am On Jan 31, 2022
Romanoff:
The age is the first hindrance.

Second is they live in separate towns, one in Ontario, another on Toronto.

Then one is a muslim, the other a christian.

Ko le werk noni.
Toronto is a city inside Ontario province. just as Ikeja is capital of Lagos state.
TravelRe: How Much Do I Have To Budget For Visa To These Countries? by Aguogba(m): 12:14am On Jan 28, 2022
BuyAndSellStuff:
Hi Travel gurus,

I need help on budget estimate for student visa + tuition to the following countries.

US
UK
Canada
Australia
Poland
Germany
Netherlands
Sweden
Russia
France


It doesn't have to be an exact figure, just an estimate of how much to be budget is fine.

Thank you very much.
A) MSc in Sweden
1. You pay 3.1m- 4.5m as your school fees depending on your M.Sc course.
2. Have like 5.5m (800€ x12 months) deposit in your personal savings account for upkeep.
You're good to go.

B) PhD in Sweden
1. Absolutely free of charge for all, irrespective of nationality and course of study and research interests.
2. In addition, you get a monthly stipend of 1700€.
3. It comes with automatic residence permit for you and your family with an easy path to citizenship.
4. More than 50% chance of postdoctoral retainment.
PoliticsRe: Betsy, Ikpeazu's Daughter Inducted As A Medical Doctor (Photos) by Aguogba(m): 4:27pm On Jan 19, 2022
wwwihy:
Why are they all........

Make I know finish my Sentence
Na the wife cause am, in fact, both husband and wife ug!
FamilyRe: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Aguogba(m): 9:50am On Jan 18, 2022
Why am I the only person that feels that this story is incomplete and as such there is no basis for advice or conclusions?
1. Why did your wife have an abortion? (A)Did she conceive without you? (B)Medical advise? (C)unplanned pregnancy? For options B & C why were you not aware?

2. ...."we still have a case we have not concluded" can you shed more light on this.

3. Any other salient info you missed out.
Foreign AffairsRe: Britain: Prince Andrew Loses Military Titles And Use Of HRH by Aguogba(m): 10:25am On Jan 14, 2022
NwaNimo1:
Eliza is brutal........

[img]https://c./q3JykfKE65EAAAAC/boom-yeah.gif[/img]
Same Eliza and her family that impoverished west and central Africa through colonial and neo-colonial rule. How mean are they when corruption in sub-saharan Africa is involved?
CrimeRe: Kenneth Emeni Pleads Guilty For Money Laundering, Faces Up 20 Years In US Prison by Aguogba(m): 12:32pm On Jan 13, 2022
As part of his plea agreement, Emeni agreed to pay $904,126.96 in restitution.

This is the part I always highlight that a lot of us don't usually pay attention to. Besides prison time, there is always restitution.
CrimeRe: Bus Driver Defies Police And Lastma Attempts To Arrest Him In Marina Lagos by Aguogba(m): 9:13pm On Dec 15, 2021
You value authentic EU fashion? Check my siggy.
FamilyRe: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by Aguogba(m): 12:18am On Dec 09, 2021
50pseamer:
She came here on her own on a temporary visa, but I met and married her and she is now on my papers waiting to become a citizen.
Our child attends Kindergarten, she has not complained really of anything regarding Sex , I do most of the work and I ensure she is satisfied.
1. Your spouse that you sponsored is behaving this way, I can only imagine if it was the other way round. e.g issuing kitchen automatum against your mother? that's kind of rude.

2. If your child attends Kindergarten and you are working a lot to support the home, it is very logical that you come home and meet very "minimal chores". In fact, if she works less than you do and she is considerate, her target should be to compensate by doing most of the house chores while you help out whenever you can.

3. The paucity of intimacy is what you guys can figure out.

4. While it seems almost all the blames tilt towards her, make sure you find out what her immediate and long term goals are and how you can help her achieve them. That will give her the mental security that most spouses lack which can in turn chronically ruin their happiness. For instance, her immediate goal could be that she wants to study to become an RN but yours is to make babies, and more babies. If your goal of having kids continuously clash with hers (study), it becomes bittersweet for her. So, ensure that family and individual progress is balanced.

5. Good luck.
FamilyRe: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by Aguogba(m): 10:11am On Dec 08, 2021
PapaGfad:
I couldn't resist commenting on this because I don't like to see couples suffer unnecessarily.

First, I need you to understand that most ladies of this dispensation maybe good but certainly not prepared for marriage. Their dream of marriage is far from the actual reality of the institution.

You have done well to speak out.

Now, please relax and restrategize. From the way you sound,you seem to be more passionate about the marriage than your wife.

Don't beat yourself too hard. Relax and keep your head together. If there is one thing you must do now, it is for you to let your wife know that she is not doing you a favour. You are both in a contract; you are both in a business. If she can no longer cope, you should be ready to show her the way out. Your kids will not suffer! For the kids, a sound minded divorced parents is better than a warped, depressed and uncoordinated parent

Please and please, don't go about this with ego o. You need to be manipulative and strategic about it. Never attack a woman defensively, you will not win o

Lastly, I have only provided you a surface answer. Only you know what and what is hidden between the two of you. I cannot begin to ask that now but I hope others will give you a more simpler solution or perspectives.
You're very smart and your comment shows that.
This long story OP wrote did not tell us up to 50% of the major issues in their marriage. E.g, who sponsored each other's stay abroad (who has "papers"wink. Weak sex life, has your wife ever complained of anything or did you notice something?Are your kids homeschooled or attend daycare?, etc.
CelebritiesRe: Uche Elendu Accused Of Being A Bully In Secondary School. She Replies by Aguogba(m): 7:04pm On Dec 07, 2021
Kriss216:
FGGC Owerri girls wey dey show us Boobi that year for school. We dey share same fence with them. Corrupt girls.
OGSSIAN spoted
Music/RadioRe: When Last Did You Listen To Radio ? by Aguogba(m): 5:13pm On Dec 06, 2021
Radio garden is always there for me
EducationRe: Sylvester Oromoni: Video Of Dowen College Student In Pains Before He Died by Aguogba(m): 9:23pm On Dec 03, 2021
CSTRR:
Expelled and prosecuted.

That is a criminal offence bordering on murder.
I guess you mean manslaughter.
SportsRe: Messi Wins Ballon D'or 2021 Award by Aguogba(m): 9:52am On Nov 30, 2021
OJEEMAH:
Jan-Feb, they said Ronaldo deserves Balon D'or.

Feb-March, they switched to Mbappe.

March-April, they screamed Dias.

April-May, they say na Kelvin Debruyn.

May-June, they change mouth again say na Kante cos of his display against Real Madrid in the UCL.

July-Aug, Jorginho join queue.

August-Oct, they begin scream Lewandoski.

Oct till date, the dragged Benzema in

But we still maintained our stand that nobody can defeat Messi.......Now their eyes don clear.
You finish work, they actually did
BusinessRe: Pound To Naira: Can You Believe This Tiny Coin Is N780? (Pictures) by Aguogba(m): 3:15pm On Nov 25, 2021
All of Una wey dey compare money equivalence and purchasing power should realise that there is never a basis for comparison between one economy and another. Though it may seem like simple mathematical proportions,there are numerous factors that come into play before you can compare the values of different currencies.
If you earn NGN300k/month in Naija
It translates to NGN10k/day
and NGN1,112/hour 8am-5pm Naija work hours.
how many loaves of bread can your hourly pay buy in Naija?
While someone earning just 10€ can buy 20 leaves of bread with their hourly pay.

On the flip side, someone paying 1.2m/ANNUM as rent for 1bedroom flat in Naija will be complaining of expensive rent. That translates to 100k/month.
Same apartment here in Europe goes for 800k/MONTH!

So, it is not that easy to compare all these metrics.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Is Under Investigation – EFCC Chairman, Bawa by Aguogba(m): 11:21am On Nov 25, 2021
Mumu EFCC
PhonesRe: We Should All Be Making Whatsapp Calls Instead Of Regular Phone Calls by Aguogba(m): 10:03am On Nov 24, 2021
Nkem96:
What about those wey nor get smartphone? Make we use Bluetooth call dem?
Falls under emergencies.
PoliticsRe: 2 Nigerian Internet Fraudsters Arrested By FBI To Be Jailed For 22 Years by Aguogba(m): 9:20am On Nov 23, 2021
Baawaa:
After the jail term they will send you home
Did you also read the part of RESTITUTION?, that's what many scammers fail to remember. That once caught, you will pay back every cent you earned through fraudulent means. Most times, it accrues interest.
FashionRe: MGBA To Host 21st Edition, Unveils 30 Contestants For Grand Finale by Aguogba(m): 10:51am On Nov 20, 2021
Ogun, Zamfara, Cross-river
CareerRe: When Your Career Makes Your Colleagues Dislike You by Aguogba(m): 12:48pm On Nov 18, 2021
Ussycool:
I am not a Audit officer nor a Manager but from the look of things, every job has two side of it. If you are harsh type (tough boss) that lack human sympathy, then 80% of your coleagues will hate you.

The man in question is to be blame, he should have understand that his relationship with people around him matters a lot.
My piece.
Human sympathy is why Nigeria is the way it is. Let us focus more on doing the right thing. Why is it a big ask for Nigerians to simply obey laws?
EducationRe: EKSU VC, Edward Olanipekun's Son Graduates From UK University by Aguogba(m): 10:16am On Nov 17, 2021
haiti007:
Imagine, you made your son school abroad to get "quality education" while he is coordinating the affairs of a state school here.

Does that means that he doesn't believes in his own lead institution? huh
And when you attend their matriculation or convocation, he will be reading out speeches on how his administration is running a "world class" curricula that churns out globally competitive graduates. We're not ready for real change in Nigeria.
HealthRe: Antibiotics After Sex by Aguogba(m): 9:36am On Nov 16, 2021
[quote author=Sirsesan post=107646376][/quote]They actually do respond when properly timed and administered by professionals. Such is used for victims of rape.
TravelRe: Illegal Immigrant, Jubril Deported, Banned After 'heroic' Act In Spain (photo) by Aguogba(m): 10:38am On Nov 15, 2021
starbuck:
They should have been considerate at least..
Deporting him was too harsh of a punishment because I doubt if they will be able to encounter his kind again in that country
There is nothing like considerate in the developed world when it is CLEAR that a law has been broken. It is worse when you even beg for mercy or try to bribe the enforcer. Laws are sacrosanct here. You break the law, you face the consequences.
RomanceRe: She Blocked Me After Discovering I'm Nigerian(photos) by Aguogba(m): 12:02pm On Nov 10, 2021
All of Una funny shaa, polish people hungry pass you self wey dey find foreign friends.
PoliticsRe: Buhari Says Nigeria To End Wheat Importation Soon by Aguogba(m): 10:32am On Nov 10, 2021
JavaScript90:
how can you ban wheat importation when there is no sufficient local production. this will make the price of wheat to triple. indomie bought for 200 will be sold at 600. what did Nigerians do to deserve this Dundee?
And once wheat price goes up, other grains will also go up, cos their demand will become higher. This will in turn affect every grain-dependent product. Baking flour, pasta, noodles, livestock feed, etc
CrimeRe: Roberts Buncis: 15-Year-Old UK Boy sentenced For Stabbing His Friend 70 Times by Aguogba(m): 11:48am On Nov 09, 2021
The fact the "sane" adults are hyping Squid game and violent video games only proves that heinous crimes by children such as this can only increase if nothing is done to outrightly sensor/ ban such audiovisuals.
TravelRe: Traveling Abroad: Your Guidance Needed by Aguogba(m): 5:16pm On Nov 04, 2021
sayhi2bammy:
The so called "dustbin" is always being cornered home by those officials at the close of their shifts.
No be Naija again?
TravelRe: Traveling Abroad: Your Guidance Needed by Aguogba(m): 4:46pm On Nov 04, 2021
ImpactBooks:
Hello NLds!

I have been a family member of this group to years and what I have found most interesting about this forum is it's educative and/or enlightenment opportunity it offers.

Yesterday, a thread was opened which discussed the way and manner Immigrants are being extorted, most especially, at the Lagos and Abuja International Airports. One cogent thing that I learnt about the thread is that the first-time travellers are more evenurable to the Airport Officials illegal activities even though some argued that giving anything to these officials is by choice ESPECIALLY WHERE IMMIGRANTS TRAVELING DOCUMENTS ARE VALID AND COMPLETE.

This is where I need your guidance.

I will be travelling out of the country for the very first time by next month. Therefore, I need guidance on two things:

1. For someone that is travelling on invitation base on medical ground, what are the valid travelling documents that the person needs to have to make it COMPLETE? This information is needed in ensuring that my travelling agents did a thorough job regarding my travelling papers.

2. I have taken my first dose of the COVID-19 vaccine and my second dose is scheduled for 19th of this month. Once these doses are taken, do I still need to take another vaccine before my departure again or I only need to do another COVID-19 test? If it is the latter, between what Internal/period do I need to do the test, where and at what cost?

Thanks as I await your guidance.

Blessings
1. This one u mentioned invitation, make sure u pack all your luggage by yourself and if possible lock your suitcase with code or padlock.

2. Do not bother to include toothpaste, body spray, mouthwash or other liquids in your luggage, especially hand luggage, it will end up in the dustbin at the airport.

3. I know you need travel insurance certificate since you're travelling as a non-immigrant.

4. You also have to be vaccinated against yellow fever and have the "yellow card".
PropertiesRe: Building Under Construction Collapses In Lekki (Photo) by Aguogba(m): 3:47pm On Nov 02, 2021
Fellow Nigerians, stop using these recycled steel reinforcement made by rogue Chinco companies in Nigeria!

If you must build anything exceeding one storey, look for IMPORTED MILD STEEL from Europe (Russia, Ukraine, Germany). They're are expensive but those in the construction industry will appreciate what I just said here. Why do you think all these Berger and Setraco import their steel by themselves?

Tip: Any 12/18mm steel reinforcement that u cannot bend the first 1meter tip with your ordinary hand to form a "U" is "calamity in waiting".
It's more brittle than tensile.

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