Yxwqq:
Logic must not be your forte. If he "keeps [his] distance" from her (and not communicate that he doesn't want to proceed with the marriage and by extension, not discuss co-parenting terms with her either), how will play his role of being a father to his child— sneak into her house to spend time with the baby and give him/her the upkeep money? Lol. It's obvious he's going to be an absentee father if he does do what he's considering.

Stop sounding irrational.

rooftops:
Issue you have been handling for six years suddenly becomes what you can't. This is unfair because the probability of you getting a wife is way higher than she getting a husband with her being a mother again

Yxwqq:

Him wanting to keep his "distance" without communicating his decision to her and working out arrangements for his child's care, is. In other words, he will just abandon her and the child, hoping she will get the message. If this is how some of y'all behave, then it's no wonder there're many baby mamas in Nigeria. Ridiculous.

Marriage isn't by why force, but it's not after being with someone for not 1 or 2 but 6-years, promising them marriage, knacking and having them carry your child that you'll suddenly realize you don't want to marry them and should that be the case, you're obligated to tell them wassup.

Goldbw122:
When you get married to her she should change her character because there are stages in life so that is how marriage life is programmed.

Wazzaowner:
Please guy I am at a crossroads, my fiancée loves clubbing and night parties a lot, is it right to marry a girl like that?

FYI, she does not drink or smoke, she just loves the nightlife.

beautyhd:
You people keep creating issues for yourself.

If you don't want to marry a lady then don't promise her marriage and make her wait for you. 6 good years and now with a baby you suddenly realized that it's not gonna work out.

Some people are even advising you to stay away from her, do you know the heartache she will be going through right now.

Tomorrow we will hear an ex girlfriend killed an intending groom to be and everyone will blame the lady.

Do unto others as you will want them do unto you.

gregyboy:


Nawa for u oo, so because of issues you won leave woman wen u give belle to, who go marry d woman now, shey d issues nor dey wen u dey put ur Longman inside her kontos...

I see you as a very useless sombori


The painful thing is d innocent pikin go suffer the fate of your own decision

But wait oo who you leave d woman for wen go come marry am, ehnn

And even your friends dey tell u make u run without warnings, from your friends advise i can tell you're an irresponsible nuthead

I pity the next lady.... In your life, oga do and run

Oga and fix your relationship and stop being a runaway mofo, to have a dick and money is not all it takes to be a man, you need to still have sense

NengiWIDEtoto:
This is pure wickedness bros, na people like you buhari dey teach in language you will understand.

dtruth50:
and u think after u end it, d next lady won't be like her? u don't see the signs of ending throughout the years of being together but boom!!! she gave birth and u started seeing those signs? only God will judge u.
Premarital sex is a sin, flee from it especially women. they are at the losing end

HeavenlyCherub:


So it’s after you defiled her and made her a single mom that sense came to you. God punish you and every single man like you who uses another mans daughter.. nonsense

Yxwqq:


That you're even considering doing that after 6-years of being with her and having a baby together, is totally ridiculous. You and the people who advised you to do that are equally senseless and cruel.

November24:


I was only 13.
Don't acting like a mad dog.
I didn't accuse the person either.

You are the kind of men she is talking about ,why so violent?

November24:
.

It doesn't justify that statement she made.
I'm a victim of abuse not rape anyways because he only took advantage of my innocence,but it was coming consensual

praiseneo:
between the b!tch and that full option !diot Onyii whatever I no know who thunder go first fire

NewDawn2O21:
unfortunately the lala go ignore her comment and will instead ban you.

saphiere:
lalasticlala rule 2.

saphiere:
Rape is bad. Dear men please Shun this act.
A male child is a disgrace awaiting to happen.

PrinceOfLagos:
This one is talking about 2023 election with all the things going on in this country

flamingREED:
Igbos no longer care, dear oil men.
Fight your oil battles yourself.
We're more preoccupied thinking about our large has reserves.
Good luck with your struggles.

... says it's about time PDP connects with the people to save Nigeria

A former Deputy Governor of Ekiti State and a major stakeholder in the People’s Democratic Party, Prof. Kolapo Olusola Eleka, has advised elected leaders under the PDP to connect with Nigerians to challenge the shortcomings of the All Progressive Congress, adding that the 2023 general election will be decided by the masses irrespective of the gale of defection.

Professor Olusola Eleka, who is one of the prominent aspirants in the coming governorship election in Ekiti in 2022, faulted the recent defection of some governors and National Assembly members into the All Progressive Congress, which he described as inimical to the party that gave them the mandate abinitio.

He said: "It is unfortunate that since the coming to power of the ruling party in Nigeria, the country has been moving from one deplorable situation to another. The economy has been on collapse, infrastructures only improve on the pages of newspapers with nothing to show for it.”

Eleka made this known through his Media Aide, Mr Adeola Adebisi, on Friday at a briefing with journalists in Ado-Ekiti, the state capital

“Nigeria is presently in a period where the masses will take their destinies into their hands without much preference to political affiliations. Bandit invasion of secondary schools, kidnapping of innocent Nigerians and killings and other vices are now a common phenomenon in Nigeria under the APC federal government.

"Before the coming of this APC administration, it was easy for farmers to go to their farms without being killed or maimed, students attended classes without fear of being kidnapped or killed by so-called bandits. But what we have today is the complete opposite of what we used to experience. From the northern part of the country to the south, the story is the same.

"Despite the unfortunate situation that the APC has plunged the nation into, it is unfortunate that some people are more concerned about their interests by defecting to the party, even at a time Nigerians are looking up to them for direction.

“While I am not against the right of people to exercise their democratic right of association, I find it faulty that the defectors into APC are citing their interest as motivation for defection and not service delivery, which should be the motivation."

Eleka further maintained that Nigerians have rejected the ruling party in Nigeria and Ekiti, adding that the various agitations, including the famous EndSARS protests and those of secessionist groups, are all testaments to the lack of will to bring Nigerians together and to provide dividend of democracy by President Buhari.

He said: "I do not doubt that APC will be defeated in 2023 poll across Nigeria. Before then, they will be defeated in Anambra, Ekiti and Osun states gubernatorial elections scheduled for November 2021 and 2022 respectively.

“It is a shame and disgrace for any political leader to abandon the PDP, which Nigerians are looking up to for redemption, at this time."

Don’t be a pawn on the chessboard of Politicians, Eleka advises Ekiti Youths

Coldshisha:
Petty opposition

Educationalserv:
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