aroundtheearth:
Smh at any grown man fighting over a piece of meat that should go to his kids. It's really not that serious.

What a loving, selfless husband would say is, "Honey, share it amongst the kids. Tonight I will go without". Then next time you give him a huge piece for being a wonderful father.

cococandy:

she’s a human being too.

I know your definition of happy home is one in which she’s considered last after everyone else.

In my definition of happy, they get to take turns. BTW, Why must a “happy home” by NL standards involve the wife being the bottom feeder? Just an observation that’s very noticeable.

Anyway fair is fair and if there’s sacrifice to be made, she doesn’t always have to be one doing it.

I know I’m not typing this essay for one piece of meat sha . I mean it in a symbolic/figurative way. Because the meat thing is not that serious IMO. But this can be applied to other things as well.

sysengr:
I prepare stew and soup that usually take us a week using half kilo of meat evenly shared.

My husband can not eat without meat oooo . Only one meat per serving which goes to my husband.

Sunday dinner, I refused to give him but shared for the children. Big problem started ooo.

Please I need to know, is the meat always meant for him?

cococandy:
What about you? Are you not deserving of it?
Sometimes you put yourself first too.
I know the thought process that goes into such decisions but sometimes you need to put yourself first too.
Rotate it. Once in while consider the kids first, or him first or yourself first. But not always yourself last.

And this applies to other things beyond the last piece of meat (obviously).

UyaiIncomparabl:


Ask your ancestors!

UyaiIncomparabl:


My previous post was a lie. I never meant that. And hey, don't ever quote me again. OK?

UyaiIncomparabl:


And you had to go dig out my previous post?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Yes, sex is stress to me. There's no fun in having my poosy stressed. I hope you get now?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Women LOVE sex. A whole lot. Don't be deceived. Except the sexually mutilated ones, though.

There's a Facebook group I can tell you to check out (even though it's strictly women), you'd see comments of single and married women voicing out their sexual fantasies and asking for advice to "up" their sex game for their man.

GatewayP post=100616395:
After pleading and begging her to come, she finally agreed on one condition, that I will give her money for her hair. And the thing is that I don't even have the money, I'm broke honestly. So I made plans on how to raise the money and I got around 5k.

DigitB:


You people always trying to attack Black People. As is whites are better than us.

Fo0lish f00lishness!

Classickj:
did Abraham need visa to leave his father's house

myami:
Are you aware that 60%-70% of girls in that age bracket are into prostitution. Are you aware that most of them have more than one boyfriend they mess around with? Are you also aware that young girls of nowadays go around with condoms just in case they sleep around?

Yusufisraelj:


I have read the post, my challenge is not context, but clarity.




Am begining to get your context of baggages




Supposing the lady would be willing to learn and be nurtured be they even young or older.

But in the generality of your point, the likely hood of disappointed expectations, frustration and bad experience is less likely in the younger age bracket - and this is true, however I beg to say with some exception's as well (there are ladies/gentlemen who were sexually active from as little as 9 and it continues into their teens - just citing intimacy as example, I know this bkos I've seen some).


This now my assertion, baggages or not, the most important thing in my opinion is establishing a place of understanding between the two people who want to be committed to themselves, sharing same values, aspiring to a common objective and diligently working towards it and more importantly showing each other love in appropriate ways while they both strive to be better in all ramifications.

@bukatyne
The thinking of a man subscribing to a younger age bracket in the context of the writer and yourself is uncalled for, bkos I've met younger ladies who have had multiple sexual partners, some raped at the age of 9 repeatedly and we're active in their teens even to their early 20s, psychologically these set of ladies were something else, one have had more than 15 partners at 24 years and then they grow pass the 25 age bracket already life has happens to these people and some never choose that path but shit happens, we must be able to capture those people in the context of this discuss. your point and the OPs is noted the age inclination is what am having challenge accepting

Yusufisraelj:



Hmmm seriously following, but I have two questions and one observation;

1. What do you explicitly mean by baggages?

2. A man looking for stability, should age be a factor?

observation; at bolded I have observed mostly, that ladies within the stipulated age bracket you mentioned are attention hungry and most unstable in their approach to the opposite sex, anywhere the attention comes from they seem to want to give a listening ear to any Tom, Dick and Harry.

I find that highly repugnant sincerely, a lady must understand what she wants for life and settle for it when she sees it and have something she wants to do with her life, commiting herself to that, am not saying she can't have male friends but up and down, dates upon dates, most of these girls don't know jack on managing the opposite sex, equally don't know what they want, will just be dangling around like lose Cannon.


For me stability is key, and it seems the older ladies understand this, I've seldom met ladies with clear cut plan for what they want as regards marriage and life within this your stipulation and how they've prepared or preparing towards it, it's just scattered in their mind somewhere, what's the cause for this Randy approach to life and destiny within this age bracket

Carchoice:
does this explain something to you?

bukatyne:


I get your point bet....

25 years is no longer young if we are measuring baggage wise.

Besides, a 28yr old lady might be a JJC when compared to a 20 yr old who have seen thinggggggggggggggs.

I also a fan of young/few relationships.

grossintel: