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Oluchi3:
Good evening. My name is Oluchi, I'm a fashion designer. I sincerely need your advice as I'm so depressed and I'm having suicidal thoughts. I'm really crying as I'm typing now.

Since I was born, I have never been approached by any man. I'm 36 years old and No man has approached me not to talk of proposing love/marriage to me.

It all started when I was in senior secondary school. I noticed no guy ever told me he likes me or write me a letter back then but my friends do receive love letters from our male class mates. Even the ones I'm more beautiful than. Well, I didn't pay attention to it becus I was thinking maybe I was too young for that.

Then I became more concerned about the matter during my HND 1. Through out my ND no single guy ever said Hello, I was so worried. I told my mother she said I should pray about it.

I have gone to different churches for prayers, I have done different deliverance, some pastors even wanted to take advantage of me by sleeping with me but I refused because that's not of God, some have collected lots of money from me in the name of deliverance. I have seen hell

I have met with just 3 men in my life and I was the one who actually approached them by the advice given to me. I noticed after like 8 months the relationship will collapse if I ask him when is he coming to pay my bride price. They will just start acting up and the next minute they ghost me.

Even my last relationship that ended (the 3rd guy). We dated for almost a year, he even cheated on me I still forgive him and asked when is he coming to pay my bride price, he started acting up and ended the relationship. It's been 2 years now and no man has approached me.

All my life no man has approached me and I'm really depressed. I try to stay happy and busy but I find it difficult to be happy. I'm depressed. My younger brother is married with 2 kids.

I'm beautiful, hardworking, I dress decent, I'm brown skinned, I'm average height and slim. But I don't know I'm so depressed.

I might not be so experienced on women matter but with the few ones I have been with taught me something that men actually knows what they want
a guy can date a woman and have no feelings for her because her attitude doesn't suit him but he won't mention it to her
when you meet a guy just let the affection flow and stop pressuring them with bride price
and you can keep 1 or more at the sane time

tensazangetsu20:
Entrepreneurship is not that glamarous and the fact that you can code doesn't mean you would be a great entrepreneur. There's a lot to know like sales, marketing, assembling a team. You also need funds to push your product into the hands of end users. Kuda has lost over 6 billion naira and most of that money was on advertising. Someone who struggled to save a laptop where do you want him to get the funds to build a product, launch, get users and scale.

read the article again
most of the money wasn't on advertising

IyaTola:
Congratulations

what do you think?

had an eye on Tesla ever since it stock split so I bought $7 worth today for long term

Zee0007:
Heaven is not made for Christians but believers. You can be a Christian and yet not believe in Jesus Christ.

Once you are a believer, you will make heaven. But heaven is not the final resting place for believers. It is a temporary place to stay before the new world is created. A world where one is ageless and not bound by time. A place for eternal rest and koinonia.

The new Jerusalem. You don't want to miss it.

do you mean new Lagos because Jerusalem is in Asia
and I don't think the Israeli government will want to adopt Nigerians

adeoyekay:
Once you accept JESUS as your LORD and personal saviour heaven is yours.

what if I was born in a place where Jesus or Christianity is not know does that mean I won't be going to heaven?

Lamanii22:
I’m a mom of one and I decided to become fit and trim but it has been the other way round, I’m getting chubbier when I’m supposed to be losing fats. I’m very much dedicated when it comes to my exercise routine, my food has totally reduced as my tummy has really shrunk so I don’t eat much, I dont Even eat dinner. It’s just disheartening for me when I’m not losing weight…. Or maybe there’s something I’m not doing right you guys can give me some tips that has worked for you… thank you.

what you eat matters more than working out
stop junks and carbonated drinks

it happens sometimes I remember one of my friends experienced this some weeks ago it likely to be an illness more or ulcer like the case of my friend

HelinaO:
Please I will want to know the market day for Aswani market now,since the COVID 19 is easing.

what's the right date now?

I don't know but I just added more MTN stock

yMcy56:
Yes.

thanks

jesusjnr2020:
Lol!

Even with pictorial evidence? Yet you could believe those said to taken from mars by scientists? Or have you been there before yourself?

This is obviously not about the Truth but the fact that you're passionately and obsessively opposed to the things of God.

So stop pretending that it has anything to do with Noah's ark.

https://answersingenesis.org/noahs-ark/noahs-ark-found/noahs-ark-mount-ararat/

https://m.jpost.com/archaeology/has-the-location-of-noahs-ark-finally-been-proven-using-3d-scans-680890/amp

I can't believe you believed this picture
but when this same people show something like this and say it a dinosaur 1 billion years ago you would say it impossible

Mrshroud:
Here's the list

Imageline F.L studio - Many Big producers in Nigeria use FL studio for making those addictive and fascinating beats that often culminate to hits in nigeria , FL studio is mostly used for beat making , though it has audio and voice recording capabilities ; Those capabilities are most often overlooked by producers in Nigeria. Personally and for lack of a more euphemistic word I'll say F.L Studio's Voicing Recording and Processing ambience as at the last time I checked is somewhat amateurish and least-advanced.

However FL studio more than compensates for this ; providing a comfortable and easy digital atmosphere to make your Beats/instumentals which can then be exported in wave format for subsequent audio recording .


Though FL studio presents a very easy and comprehensible front, don't get it twisted , there's actually a complex side of F.L as well.



Although if you are a fairly good pianist , you could start making good 'uncoordinated' music in FL studio within minutes , upon first introduction. 'Uncoordinated' because , a layman could nod, tap his foot to it and even call it 'standard', but a pro will identify spot that there's more to be done.



Infact Some producers I've spoken with Say their problem with FL studio is that It appears too common and simple that it makes Production look less professional because its so simple , and almost everybody uses it.

That's about how simple and accessible FL studio is.

During my early days as a producer , I used F.L studio solely, in Fact FL studio is my first Love.
So from experience I can say, you can make good music that Can compare with any in the world using FL studio as long as you know your way around even if not nearly perfectly well.

To Use FL studio you'll have to spend extra on Third party Sound Pluggins Called V.S.T and probably effect pluggins as well.

Examples of such sound pluggins are Nexus, Ravity and Hypersonic.

These pluggins integrate into F.L studio to complement and make for an extra-consolidated and comfortable archive of virtual sound resources, e.g pianos, synths, Baselines, Brass etc .

The latest FL studio edition is FL Studio 12, you can download a Demo at their official website. Just Google 'Imageline Official Website'.

must you know how to use the Piano before using this

yMcy56:
The first approval of block acquisition of 50.6% already gotten from NGX.....
Now at the stage of getting approval for mandatory take-over of the remaining 49.4% shares from SEC......
Once approval is received, it will be published.
* The amount paid for the 50.6% has not been made public yet.....at least, to my knowledge...*

https://doclib.ngxgroup.com/Financial_NewsDocs/36633_INTERNATIONAL_ENERGY_INSURANCE_PLC%20PRESS_STATEMENT_COR.pdf

please did mtn pay dividend recently

UncleDaddy2017:
My wife recently put to bed our first child. While at the hospital, it's been my wife's godmother who travelled down from another state specifically to be with my wife. Infact, she came straight to the hospital and she has been the one sleeping there with her at night. While I stay with her by day. When am at the hospital to relieve her, she goes to our house to sleep.

My wife's mom and my mom (both live few streets away from ours) do come to the hospital during the day ... So fast forward to yesterday Sunday.

My mother-in-law told my wife she will come after church... Hours after church closed we still didn't see her. Only for her to show up with a big traveling bag. And she knew quite well that my wife's godmother put up at our house.

My house is a one bedroom apartment.

When she came, I asked my wife that now that her mom is here, how will all of us sleep in this house as my wife, our baby and the godmother will sleep in the room, while I stay in the sitting room. She became angry and said they will all stay in the room. But that if I don't want her mom to stay in the house, she will just tell her to go away.

So I told her that the proper thing to do is tell her mom to wait till Wednesday when the godmother lives, then she can come. Besides her house is only few streets away. She can be coming during the day and go back home.

So this night now, the mom has bathed and has gone to stay in the room. The godmother who's now feeling sleepy, had to stay in the living room as she can't go to the room bc her mom is there. Me on the other hand, can't sleep in the living room bc her godmother is in the sitting room.... So I sat at the veranda until 11pm. The cloth I had on was the one I wore since morning. I can't go to the room to change as the mom is there. Neither the living room bc the other woman is there.

My wife later came to me outside and was annoyed that I dont welcome her mother in my house.

Do you think I'm wrong to have told my wife to tell her to wait till Wednesday before she comes?

NB: my mother inlaw and I, live like mother and son until she came yesterday Sunday.

why don't you find somewhere to stay till Wednesday so that the room can accommodate them

akinade28:
Disclaimer: I'm not married and I'm approaching my 30s. But I have had to let go of guys because of the reasons you mentioned. I cannot imagine myself getting married to a guy I'm not attracted to or vice versa. Why should I suffer someone's son because of my selfish reasons.
Sis, don't just consider what the man has to offer you (husband material and money). Also, consider what you want to offer the man. Marriage should be based on selflessness, not selfishness.
Attraction is also important in marriage. Don't marry someone you are not attracted to or admire. Attraction is important for good sex
life. You will suffer yourself and the man.
I'm tired of seeing threads of men complaining about their wives denying them sex, cheating or disrespecting them.

what if he doesn't attracts you after marriage what will you do??
do you know a lot of good looking fit men becomes obese after marriage
what will you do in that case
divorce him or stop having sex with him?

Juliusdaughter:
I met a man through my long term friend and he has made his intentions about marriage known from the start. He loves me, is attracted to me and loves to do PDA when we are out together.

He has everything a woman would want in her husband, but I am not attracted to him neither do I have feelings for him. I love him as a friend tho because his physical attributes will not matter in that instance. I am slightly taller than him, even tho I'm not a tall person, I am dark skinned and he is darker than me. He has a really small stature and you wouldn't know he has money or works in good company.

He has told me his plans for us and it's a really good one, he works in top management role and he earns over 20 million naira per annum.

I have told him what I feel and he is really persistent, he says I should try and reciprocate his feelings and love towards me and the feelings will grow, that I shouldn't worry about the height of our kids
I can't lie, I don't feel proud this few times he's done PDA with me, I see the way that makes him happy, making me feel like a trophy wife.

There was this other guy I had feelings and attraction for, and it disappeared the first time I saw him and realized he isn't who he said he is. This confirms to me that feelings is flimsy and depends on circumstances.

To married people here, both long or short years in marriage; is attraction and feelings one of the major things holding down your marriage? Did you marry who you weren't really attracted to but you're happy now in the marriage? How will I deal with public perception of us especially when it's comes to flaunting him as my husband?
I have entered my late 20s and I don't wanna waste time, I don't wanna waste my time in vain waiting for the guy I'll feel all these for, what if he isn't worth it?

you are in your late twenties and height is still your problem
you have seen a great man but height is why you would be rejecting him
is he shorter than Lionel messi or wizkid?

TheManOfTheYear:
Hey all.
I finally got my first offer

My base salary is 400k and I'd be resuming as a Frontend Developer for a new startup.

Don't give up.

congratulations bro

Blessedmercy8:
It's high time men start taking skincare routine seriously. I mean... See the aging difference between the man and his wife. This man aged really quickly and I don't want to believe the age gap between them is that much.
A simple skincare regimen would have prevented this.

Any woman would quickly loose interest in her man if he's looking old like her dad. I want to believe his looks is one of the CAUSES of her divorcing him but she won't say it.

This might sound dumb but only to the dumb ones who will quote me to say trash.

he is 76 she's 54
that some huge gap

life is too short for you not to try everything shit you want to try start your bakery

Blessedmercy8:
Hmm.. he's 40 and I'm already 41. When are we now going to start having children if we still delay?


Exactly my point.


Ok.

so what was your final decision

DiomaKitchen:
Pls desist from making nasty comments in public spaces. If you don't like the meal say so, no need to drag my husband into it.

you know this is the internet
some people lives are so miserable that they find it fun to make jest of good things
example is that guy you don't have to reply him

Princebizzie:
I must tell you that this is a big lie, let me tell Yoruba will massively support and vote Tinubu, when Igbo people come to their sense, we may work together later in the future. It is not going to be easy for Yoruba to support and vote Peter Obi, we supported and voted Goodluck in 2011 only for Igbo people to start manipulating in against Yoruba. In the entire South, Yoruba will still be somehow comfortable with south southern thant the Southeastern people because of their utterances. Igbo will have to learn how to play politics otherwise no one will support them to become President in Nigeria. One does not need to think he is wiser than every other person in life. I will stop here for now but again the OP lied up there because we love and we will vote Tinubu next year to become President. Cheers

you are speaking for yourself
I would rather vote Atiku than vote Tinubu and I am Yoruba by the way

Fxwarrior:
In response to the demand to create a WhatsApp group for gold Alert, I have considered it.

If you wish to be added to the group, kindly send your WhatsApp number to : 08097727916.

Remember at a point, there might be monetary charges, if you're okay with that, welcome onboard.

Cc: Pristine664
rainlover

the contact isn't on WhatsApp

thebosstrevor1:
Seems lagos looks like the most advanced state in Nigeria

isn't that obvious
people will still come and say Tinubu made Lagos

I noticed something about this aboki especially the ones around me
they barely drink alcohol but they can abuse any kind of substance

udede:
in the christian religious denomination i belong, polygamy (polygny) is normal and we know how to practice it peacefuly, she can't harm anyone because everyone has their own spaces.


As for divorce, she simply refused to go (actually I'm a husband material with good looks , without being a simp,) in our church you can't divorce any woman without an evidence of adultry or witchcraft. More over she is very harmless and likable, i even have her permission to marry a second wife

what's the name of your church

udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)

what denomination is that

Iamdbull:
Dbull on this one!!!




When I listened to the album I felt like deleting all my songs, the guy is good, but then if I had the facilities to record as many songs too I will get better

I just love this your vibe this guy

TastyFriedPussy:
First off, who makes clones of an already shitty looking website? like what are you trying to achieve? And secondly, if I'm to be brutally honest with you, that your portfolio website is the ugliest looking website I've ever seen in my life. Like what the 4uck? I just can't believe that someone with 75% front end skill would build such an eyesore. 75% ohh, not even 20%. I've seen 1000 times better portfolio sites even from devs who've only been learning front end web development for only 6months, not to talk of someone claiming to have 70% front end skills.. Guy, that thing is ugly and looks
extremely unprofessional..

My rating?
-10/10

I just checked your profile and I saw that you are about to start your own tech journey
it so bad you made comments like this on another person's post out of pure hate and dishonesty

paulolee:
all were painful bt personally None pain me pass dt algeria 1-0 for afcon wey mahrez score last minute free kick.
e pain me bcoz one guy jus use mind say mahrez go score n call 20k, I stand opposed n we both set our fones bcoz cash no de at hand..
mahrez score n i shock, e be asif na magic..
I ask am how e take dey dt sure, e say e jus talk am, as I.opposed n people attack am, e jus bet mk e no b asif e fall.e bea hands say e no get mind..
na so I go start to de find 20k cash d next morning because of dt mumu akpeyi...
generally my painful match Is dt Chelsea vs city ucl final dt Chelsea won, i lost huge cash n still never forgive pep n city 4 dt heartbreak BT DTS life..

honestly this is one of my most painful moment as a football fan