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snitchbitch:
80% of women are prostitute( pardon me ). It only depends if they are WILD prostitutes or DOMESTIC prostitutes. The wild ones are the ones that stands in the hotels for commercial sex trade while the domestic ones are the so-called girlfriends we keep at home with the false impression that we have a decent clean babe all to ourselves, but unfortunately when we are away they sneak out to have sex with other guys and sugar daddies, now tell me how are they different from the roadside prostitute. My brothers, it is the same thing o. So whether you admit it or not if your wife sleeps around with Chief when you are not in town, then you have a domestic prostitute in your house. So don’t judge other men who sleep with the wild prostitutes in hotels because you are in their shoes too.

Now the 5 reasons some men refer prostitutes are:

1. A prostitute does not expect you to remember her birthday, not to talk of buying her gifts. You don’t also have to take care of her responsibilities like buying her body cream, paying for her hair do, etc. Yet you still enjoy maximum sex for a little fee which cannot be compared to the expenses we spend on our so-called clean babes. A friend of mine said his girlfriend won’t let him touch her or even talk to her because he didn’t give her a particular amount of money she requested. If this young man must give her that money before he would touch her then what is the difference between her and the prostitute out there?

2. You don’t need to remember the safe period of prostitutes because non of them would come back telling you they are pregnant.

3. Prostitutes won’t compel you to get married to them as the last thing on their mind is marriage.

4. Believe it or not, prostitutes are more disease free than the so-called clean babes. This is becos every man thinks her job is risky so there is need to protect himself with a condom and at the end 100 men may sleep with her but with a condom but with the so-called decent clean and homely babes, Emeka thinks she is decent so he doesn’t need a condom, tomorrow Kalu will think the same and do it with her again without using a condom and Alhaji will also think she is decent and safe so he too goes without a condom and at the end she has 100 men who have slept with her without condom yet she still parades herself as the homely, decent, clean, mummy’s pet babe, and the cycle continues. What a shame!

5. A prostitute does not expect you to satisfy them, they would do anything to satisfy you and make you come for them again unlike the clean homely babes who expect you to take them to cloud nine while they only lie on their backs and spread their legs like frozen chicken.

Now, with the afore-mentioned reason, why won’t men go for prostitutes, tell me! SaintStephen MrRight

We would not, if not for anything at least to carry them out to occasions so as to make us more responsible instead of going out with wild Hoelosoho.

They say try as much as go for lesser evil.

Realtalk20:
Because it is one person's opinion. Typing something in bold font iny social media does not make it true .

Marriage isn't a dumping ground for people's problems !

You are meant to have gotten a handle on your problems before embarking on marriage or else that marriage would be nothing but a long therapy session , dull, stressful and exhausting.

Fix your problems before marrying someone and dumping it on them!

Imagine where both parties come and dump problems on each other , that isn't a marriage that is a workshop.

(Notice how I didn't need to type in bold font ?)

What the writer mean by ready to marry off his/her challenges is Marriage is the coming together of two imperfect being coming together as one to be perfect...

oscarmoney:
Hello everyone... I need your advice
Am 22yrs old n currently in 300L
The issue here is i have a girlfriend that we had bn dating since last year Nov..we both love each other and things are going well between us until recently when she told me she need told m she need some financial help from me wch I was not able to render cuz I have lot of bills to pay at school.Have told her to chill for me Still am buoyant enough to help out
Now she is acting strangely and not reciprocating d Love back..Am now tired of d relationship self cuz d love too dy totori my brain too much
Should I breakup with the girl or should I give her time [color=#990000][/color]

Read the last paragraph repeatedly and ponder on it then use it to answer ur question.

donstan18:
He should have married and impregnated her back2back while sponsoring her in the University.

Aside your wife,daughter or sister, no Nigerian woman is worth sponsoring in school with your hard earned money.

Funny enough most still believe his own girl is an angel different from others...

Why on earth would you spons a girl u are not married to in institution hoping her to turn to Angel during the process still baffles me...

justnock:
"Have you gotten the Alert?"

"Have you gotten the alert" and "I didn't forget you"

Most people if not all av suffered in the hand of those 2 statement and the latter nah the Greatest scam statement of our time.

Naughtysite:
I have seen more intelligent ladies without University degree than those with a degree.

Any man who makes that a criteria is dumb. Education does not shape a womans mindset.

Brotherly, you've said it all.

Lemme add a scenario case to back up ur saying, I eavesdrop a girl and a guy conversation on Maryam Sanda case the guy was trying to explain the scenario and justify the court decision, the guy as not ended his speech I wish u could see how this girl attacked him.

Funny enough I dont think the girl knew what transpired from the on set of the case...

I just have to shook my head despite her level of Education she still failed woefully to analyse a case despite what she studied in school related to the case very much...

clarocuzioo:
This is even a wrong notion.
I take my statement of account for example. I have had hundreds of millions belonging to other people pass through my account, which is meant for projects

What happens when a lady asks and I print my account statement and she sees #150M as my account balance, when I obviously know the purpose of the money.

I will use the girl and do anyhow I like, and at the end dump her stupid ass.

I remember those days I finished school and was waiting for my service. I was working with a construction firm, and I was given a Hilux as an official car.
When am coming back from work and see a fine big girl, I will just place the Bill of Quantity for the road I was constructing then on the front seat, and park. When the lady enters, she will pick it up and hold it in her hand to sit down, definitely she will look at the document she is holding, and when she starts seeing figures in the BOQ, her head go scatter.

That's the easiest way to carry a lady and Bleep her that day without wasting time because you just pressed her mumu button.

Also I have bleeped so many bankers because when I go to withdraw money and they see my account balance, they will be Hot immediately, even the married ones.

Seeing money in people's account doesn't necessarily mean it's theirs.

It is called Audio Money.

I was conversing with a girl and she start to feel herself that girls are now getting smarter now guys cant do and undo anymore.

The best format to bleep a girl is to deliberately show off your account balance by leaving ur phone within her reach to make your job easier....

@BadRadio are you trying to turn our Girls into Hoe business cause am not understanding the way u pple are trying to legalise hoelosoho is alarming this days. Go get a life....

GraGra247:
Abeg step aside too. Is the guy a Saint? Let him kneel before shango shrine and swear also that he never cheated on the girl. Has he paid her dowry or even done anything concrete to give her assurance of certainty he'll marry her.

The lady was probably looking for assurance of marriage elsewhere because the guy was only having sex with her without any concrete plans of marriage.

You can't totally fault ladies sometimes in these things. Sometimes we guys have a good share in the blame.

Better dont start what you wont finish.

What do you term as a cheat let's take it from there.

Davash222:
Hoes don’t change. Even if she repents and start Evangelism, she’ll still be Hoeing religiously. A Hoe is a Hoe ad infinitum!

Biko, help me tell him well, it's just like saying a devil would back off his bad atrocities...

Wilson125:
We are just 5!months in the relationship, everything is going fine, the love keeps growing even stronger, but the problem now is, the more i get to know her, it seems to be killing my trust for her, she keeps telling me a different person from the One she has been acting, she told me she had been in just 2 relationship, which i am basically the 3rd person according to her, but only few of her sexual experience was actually with these 2 guys, the rest are with some random male friends n different stories, sometimes i get to realize she was cheating on either of those guys she was dating at that moment, with the way she was carrying herself, i actually saw her to be the kinda person she was portraying which got me trusting her, lately i’ve been in doubt, her Past doesn’t match who i think she is, with the nature of my job that keeps me away, i am scared if she can actually be faithful, i know they say people do change but it’s kinda becoming hard to believe, she has given me the impression that some of the things she told me back then were lies.. I really do love her and everything is fine except for the diminishing trust and i think this will be a problem, don’t know if i should confront her about this or i should just over look (which is hard )? She has become so comfortable that she tells me a lot, i feel if i should put it to her,she may start being conscious of it, which will be her coating herself just to be who she wants me to see.. or should i just quit at this early stage?

Note: she has started she’s no longer the person she used to be back then..

Will really appreciate your advice..

Toh, believe girls at your own Peril especially those their words are not in line with their action....

How can you tell me you love and yet you acting the opposite all in the name you dont want to show me you actually love me.

Brotherly focus on her action not her words!

ikaboy:
children of hell.


The end is near

Sorry, child of heaven....


This Is why the Nation is in regression, what were u expecting when you see the headline styles of clothing chei in romance section?


Get out there and get a life and stop being a hypocrite tueh!!!

crackkhaus:
It's usually a guilt-driven attack which is why the argument is always faulty and lacking depth.

Any woman who has held on to her virginity all the way up till the day of her wedding night, is in fact a legend worthy of all commendations...especially in our present world.

There's no need diminishing her effort just to make themselves feel better.

In fact I wish this topic could reach first page to see other views....

crackkhaus:
This is a very faulty argument and as much as I don't get in on the virgin/non-virgin discussions on this forum, I always have a good laugh anytime someone comes up with explanations like you just did, in an attempt to counter the virginity proponents.

You see, whether or not a virgin will still end up lose is really not the point.
The point is that it's much better to be safe than sorry.

It's like telling someone that there's nothing wrong in buying a tokunbo car instead of a used car, because all cars will develop faults at some point during use when in fact, the chances of a used car developing faults sooner is much more probable in comparison to a brand new car.

Do you understand?

Help me tell them cause I dont know their motive behind the sudden attack on a virgin. If you are not saint you dont need to paint those saints as a bad one all because u felt inferior to them....

Ariza:
You almost made sense.

I asked a mild question and u failed to answer, do you know my motive towards the question?

Michellekabod2:
I advice you stay clear off these topics else they will read a different meaning as to your motive. Try reasoning with them from an intellectual perspective they try to pin you down by questioning your motive. I was talking on the vagina some time last year,exploring facts and discoveries about it and one miscreant accused me of having a hidden motive to teach girls that there is no repercussions for promiscuity (to be honest my intentions didn't go that way,I was just talking about vagina as a topic ).

You can't educate a fool,many are destined to die fools. Just leave everyone to their own ignorance,let them cling unto it like a parachute because contrary to what people think of truth,truth doesn't necessarily set people free it actually shatters egos . the truth is no longer hidden but rather people hide from the truth as falsehood gives them solace

Kindly tell the world her motive since you know it, the way u people try to package bad stuff in a mild way nd turn sth good to a worthless stuff is alarming this days....

You happened to be the one hiding under falsehood with the pretence of being on the right way...

Ariza:
If only these guys know what goes on in virgins minds, they will realize most are sex freaks waiting to be launched. Lol.

Are u a virgin?

If No then your arguement is baseless because OBJ can never force me to buy a book on how to become a handsome guy written by Olusegun Obasanjo. I hope you grab my message? I love speaking in parables....

SultanOfPuna:
Search for Ubanja Threads on Nairaland He has Topics on how to deal with those kind of ladies..

Dealing with such ladies is the easiest bro all you need to apply is reverse psychology.

I dont miss your call you cant see my flashing either....

czarr:
We can't find them here in Nigeria ...but we won't give up the search

They are on the verge of extinction....

Osobi32:
Women are the greatest scammers in the history of relationship, they will spend 5k to get u boxer and singlet as a birthday present then come give u small body that's all..... Two weeks after she will demand for 20k or 30k from u. No be scam be that?

The worst of it all "my money is my money and my boyfriend money is our money"

They spend 5minutes on call with you with their call card when they want to request for financial assistance...

Hamachi:
Love has been compromised.


No love anywhere in the society..
And I'm not surprised at the rate of divorce..

As you advise ladies to stop living a fake life also encourage the men to accept women for who they really are and not what they're bringing to the(table) marriage.

When you see a woman doing the little she can to earn, that alone should tell you she's hardworking,
Not when she's doing a professional work you can only classify her as a working class lady.

In as much it is very bad to live a fake life..
Part of the blame should Go to the men.
Fake people attracts their likes.

In the End of it all...
Love has been compromised...

I come in peace..
Happy weekend

In as much as I concur with you love has being compromised.

Relationship are built on benefits both females and males are guilty of this acts and this act is very rampant among girls.

Based on what ladies are bringing to the table doesn't literally means she should bring huge money along we just seek for sth beyond sex alone...

Skseries:
the response from her gives me the avenue to create topic to talk abt, it gives me the feeling that if I bring up something interesting I can get good response with her, am not in the habit of asking if u have eating or asking redundant questions when I chat, as long as I get more than a word response from a girl I chat I can walk my way around and crack her into talking freely, once I chat a girl for like 5min and check all Tru and all I see are just one word response am done... My number one rule is never force conversation.. I enjoy chatting just for the fun of it doesn't necessarily mean I Wanna toast u.
I can chat a girl today make her laugh her head out and tomorrow boom am gone have deleted the number.

Truth is some guys also can't talk to a girl.

Am not disputing the fact that some guys are just 3 timid to engage a girl and dont forget average Nigerian girls sees conversation as an interrogative section whereby a guy will lead the conversation as a FBI agent and she sit down there replying as a suspect.


I met a lady towards ending December last year mehn she's muah when it comes to convo (it was during our conversation I came to know she's a graduate) though she has the general mentality of girls "if u didn't strike a convo they wont either."

In conclusion girls won't lead a convo until u do which is not suppose to be....

Skseries:
if ur responses are like this then the guy is over boring, chai! If every lady response is like this then I doubt me personally will ever complain. I apologise for miss interpreting u with my earlier response.

Guy, what's special over the above convo, I asked a guy here with me if a guy chat u this way what will ur response?

He said a guy that chat this way shows he's not interested in chat then I asked what if a girl chat u this way, he replied with he will "okay" the chat b4 she does...

Ardar:
You completely missed my point here. Let me give you a scenario.

MORNING

Guy: Hi, Ardar how was your night?
Me: I slept well thanks and yours?
Guy: Same
Guy: have you eaten this morning
Me: No but am about to.
Guy: What are you planning on eating?
Me: Don't know yet but am thinking tea and bread will do for breakfast or just noodles.
Guy: Ok, that's cool

AFTERNOON

Guy: Hi Ardar, how was your day?
Me: Boring but ok, nothing major happened
Guy: What did you eat this Afternoon
Me: Nothing yet
Guy: Why? Don't you want to eat?
*I start getting irritated*
Me: I'll eat but later
*Proceeds to Change the topic*
Me: how far that stuff we talk about last week?
Guy: Ok yeah about it........


Those questions when asked once are not bad but when you continuously ask them especially when there are other important things I'd like to chat about, it because stale and boring.

I am not one of those girls around you that reply with lol, ok, wow, that's nice etc, I chat well when am in the mood besides am not even the chatting type, I prefer communicating through calls.

Both party seems to be boring from what I observed up there....

The guy is 3 boring and you yourself is not excluded, most girls are boring they hardly initiate chat....

kollinzgee:
do you mean 90% if naija girls are dumb because most of 9 out of 10 girls chat this way.

Guy I respect you oooh, u still dey chat girls for this century follow ladies chat and see better outcome....


I dont know how u strike conversation with ur woman but try pressing her mumu button deeper she will respond beyond the way u expected....

sod09:
you could have ignored or potassium the bot

I just av to, some people are meant to be put in place failure to do that causes ill pollution to sane people....

FergieRaww:
Never seen a more useless club and fans that celebrates draw than Arsenal

A well versed pundit said "Arsenal’s draw at Stamford Bridge means they have now lost just one of their first six league games under Mikel Arteta.
And the fact that it was achieved while playing with 10 men for more than an hour, and with a back four that included Granit Xhaka as a makeshift centre-back alongside Shkodran Mustafi and Bukayo Saka at left-back, made it all the more impressive."


Despite Arsenal being a subject of criticism a Pundit who watched it live gave the above commentary.


You that watched the match at Amuloko location from a 3HD tv is here spewing trash....

Princerichi0:
There was a girl I dated for 2yrs. She insisted on no sex(vagina peneration). We do everything else; kissing, cuddling, MouthAction(she give the best Mouth Action though). Once I insisted on vagina peneration, she offered me her a**. We should have an*l sex. I didn't go it though. I decided to let it go since she ll do anything to please me sexsually but not let me f**k. I left town for like 3months no communication. When I got back, I called her. She told me she was no longer a virgin.
Now, if she could keep vagina peneration from me for 2yrs. Why couldn't she hold out on the new guy for 3months? Women are amazing.
P.s
Please ignore the typos

No vex bro, are you sure shes not a loose before u left sha


Your case remind me of a girl i conversed with, she told me a guy was actually telling her about his past about what girls has done to him.

She said the part that got her attention most was the guy told her his ex succumb to kissing, smooching, fingering etc but strongly reject V penetration.


The part that cracked me up was that our guy finally penetrated her ex and he was left dumbfounded because the road to the girl oil rig is as wide as Lagos Ibadan Express road and as free as the road of Abuja. and the guy asked his bae that he thought shes still a virgin as she claimed from the on set of the relationship and the girl honourably reply him with....


You deflowered me with those fingering and our sissy guy nodded his head in affirmation and his brain later processed in the right direction after a year of break up that the girl has been fucking many dicks without his knowledge....

DExponential:
Arteta out!

Who else notice we bottled the match simply because Guendozi was jogging?

Let's face reality these players ain't good enough to be playing for Arsenal only few of them deserves to.


Arteta still have a lot to do with this team from bad belle board to not good enough players etc....

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Riele:
Brace up , it's a long post on Men's wickedness



Men , when will you all stop this nonsense .?

This is serious, before reading through your message I was painting what has your guy done to you to made you so bitter to make you tag Men to be all wicked not until I finish reading then I realise reverse was the case....


I would have support your write up if to say your headline as what's this country turning to....


Firstly the country is messed up and it gonna take a lot of sane Nigerians to pull Nigeria up away from the mess it is at the moment because a lot of things has being damaged.

You ranting here on Nairaland wont solve the problem.

Kn short your ranting on social network without action out there is of no use....

Tallesty1:
Nobody travels for love.


The men travel for sex and the ladies travel for money.

Gbam!!! The bitter truth most would find difficult to accept. Well, they should argue with their keyboard bro...

delishpot:
I also encourage women to multiple date. It gives them these same benefits you listed up there.

I concur with you, mind you who will be at the losing end between both Party

Better forget all these equality stuff and face reality, am not in support of Men womanizing around though it's how nature wired them to operate.

Sister, safe guard ur chastity and see how guys will be running after u, in short don't get carried away with virginity nah scam. Guys out there be it Nice guys or Alpha guys still value virgin girls....

Nnemuka:
How do you guys just meet someone, invite them to your house and expect sex? that is disrespectful
If you want a hookup, why not pay a LovePeddler for sex.

Now every guys that invite u to their hood wanna av fun with u.

Sister, wise up this Is 2020.