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RomanceRe: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Akinbahm(m):
Ariza:
Funny thread! grin grin grin Guys have suffered o. grin grin

But you know,if y'all don't turn every visit to sex rendezvous ladies would trust and visit more often without you wasting time, efforts or money. But the Nigerian society is so fvcked up that it's a common belief that visiting a guy in his house equates to getting intimate with him. And you guys keep aren't doing any better. Lol.




Preshy561 come and read this. grin
The funny of it all, if the babe reach our side without being grinded like dry pepper nah the same girl go call person "Mumu guy wey no sabi"

I once invited a babe for my villa based on platonic visitation after her arrival I still stick to my decision I even took her to my room for gist without any form of penetration nor smooching.

Before she left that same day I took her to chicken republic to catch some cruise and we departed from there.
I later invited her again to my greatest surprise she told me wetin she wan come do and end the convo with I be omo ase.

I discussed the issue with both males and females they ended up saying she wan con Bleep but I bleeped up.

Till date the girl still dey run away for me i swear....

Wetin una u pple want self?
RomanceRe: Am I Wrong?? by Akinbahm(m): 11:18am On Jan 09, 2020
ubunja:
I have lost count of the number of women I slept with who had given their Bfs the 6 month rule.

Any guy must know. If a woman is not sleeping with you, telling you she's not ready blah blah blah, best believe some guy out there is hitting it. Free. Daily.

How many times have guys come crying on NL about girls who told them "no sex before marriage", or "I'm a virgin", only to discover the girl is spreading legs wide for some guy. Any guy with ears let him hear.
Brotherly, no matter how u rant to their hearing they wont listen, their brain is being blindfolded with sweet talk of equating sex out of relationship & d beauty of the hoe they perceived as Angel....

biko, leave them let them learn through pragmatic EXPERIENCE and not by delegated EXPERIENCE
RomanceRe: Am I Wrong?? by Akinbahm(m): 11:01am On Jan 09, 2020
Jewessgratitude:
I keep telling girls, wise up! No more premarital sex. It doesn't guarantee marriage. If he can't stay, let him get the hell outa the way for the real G.
Dont let them finish all the juice and plump body meant for that innocent man that will come and be sucking air. Biko.
I keep telling guys also, they should Man up and stop acting like a sissy!!! If she cant maintain the relationship without asking for a dime, pls dont hesitate to dump her sorry ass into Atlantic ocean...

Dont let one leech come down to drain ur hard earned penny all in the name of one feing & useless love.

If u feel like spending spend it on ur siblings, parents, friends and/or take the money to Masjid for sadaqah or Church as a offering at least u will have a better reward instead on a hoe that would end up betraying u nd ur money for the highest bidder that comes her way.

Jewessgratitude:
She's giving you attitude cos three years of being with you is just a waste.
No meaningful plan or arrangements to do the right thing. So go and do the needful.
Those fucking three years, I hope the girl is upright morally (that's I hope one agbero for iyana ipaja is not servicing the engine)
RomanceRe: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by Akinbahm(m): 9:43pm On Jan 05, 2020
Ifakiland:
OK lemme make it easy for you. To get a girl to love you, do opposite of what she'd expect from you to her.
If it's a rich, indoor girl you need, stead of taking her to some fancy eatery to eat fried rice and chicken, take her to eat amala and ewedu at a buka or take palmy and bush meat at a bush bar. If it's a girl from a rough neighborhood, take her to a posh place, if it's a church girl, be a guy she will wanna change, if it's a hoe, be a guy dat wanna change her... Etc....do dat and see how easy each respective girl you meet will fall for you. Girls ain't the same, but yoy get them via same method....just don't rush, chill, understand her first to see who she is and be what she's not.
Some guys would still have issue to assimilate this, at times I wonder does one av to open their skull to put things inside b4 they can grab sth easily as ABChuh
RomanceRe: Who Is Else Is Confused Like Me ? by Akinbahm(m): 9:40pm On Jan 05, 2020
Jewessgratitude:
Lol grin grin grin

Dont get it twisted.

Now one thing you guys should understand is this..

Like ubunja rightly said, you dont need anything to WIN a woman's love which is very true. if she truly loves you she'll fall for you even.without giving her nothing. Now that is the winning stage. Shes yours truly.

Now another aspect is keeping her. How

Now you WON her but you need to keep her by now giving her something. Yes! No matter how a woman loves you and want to be with you, if you dont take care of her, she'll be wearied and begin to loose interest. Quote me anywhere. WE ARE LIKE THAT! forget any girl coming here to form "I dont ask my man anything" all na wash. It is natural. So you need to give her and take care of her to keep the love you won without a dime.
Hope you catch.
Nah girl dey give guys O.T again...

Take five ur head dey there....

FamilyRe: How A Woman Expires(lesson To All Women) by Akinbahm(m): 9:48am On Jan 05, 2020
yanabasee:
Not funny.... The Bride price is the most problem that keeps the ladies this long.....


Up north, this doesn't apply. But down south and east.. They face this problem. Young people can't make the right choice anymore. This tact is just to sell their daughters to the rich men only.
Guys are not smiling with Marriage these days, no one want to carry burden (Responsibilities) beyond his capacity.
RomanceRe: As A Lady, Mention 3 Things Your Man Can Benefit From Dating You? by Akinbahm(m): 4:01pm On Jan 03, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
KPEK, KPEKU AND KPEKUS.. THAT'S ALL I HAVE TO OFFER.
Only genius would interpret this rightly

Meaning that they have nothing to offer except Pussy....
RomanceRe: Why Are Nigerian Men So Unromantic? by Akinbahm(m): 3:51pm On Jan 03, 2020
Jodha:
My sister ask them biko......

Yhu want to take me out on a date ....yhu cannot be romantic and open the door for me like a proper gentle man...
I hope say u will reciprocate d gentleness by locking his room door when u pay him a visit in his quartershuh
RomanceRe: Do Not Judge Her By Her Past. by Akinbahm(m): 10:37am On Jan 03, 2020
donbabajay:
Some ladies are victims. I know a nice, decent lady that was raped and had to do an abortion. She’s the almost perfect girl, smart, intelligent, understanding etc. will you now leave a girl like that because something happened to her that wasn’t within her control?
This kind past is still understandable but using it as a justification for your Hoelosohoism is seriously frowned at by the consensus of Alpha males...
RomanceRe: Confused! Don't Know If She's Saying The Truth Or Playing Me!!! Help!! by Akinbahm(m): 5:49pm On Jan 02, 2020
ATTemi:
Depends on ur definition of complicated.

Happy new year.
Making it hard for yourself as if they happen to be a core course one must not fail in tertiary institution....
RomanceRe: I See No Use In Having A Girlfriend. Change My View!! by Akinbahm(m): 5:47pm On Jan 02, 2020
Michellekabod2:
nah,women have made some men great. I am talking from experience. Also what do guys have to offer?
Sis, I dont belong to the Males sect that offer girls only money and Prick, I offer beyond those duos to girls that proved she's not only offering sex and if she only offer sex then I'll offer those duos to her alone....
RomanceRe: Using A Condom Is A Sign Of Lack Of Trust by Akinbahm(m): 10:46am On Jan 02, 2020
richesbhc:
Their is no feeling like diving in raw.

Raw is sweet
I hope your sorry heart wont fly out of your body after u get the real bargain...

Trust these girls at your own Peril.
RomanceRe: I See No Use In Having A Girlfriend. Change My View!! by Akinbahm(m): 10:30am On Jan 02, 2020
Varlfott:
grin grin

You girls can't help but show your disgust at the fact that there are men who don't make women their priority. You can't handle the fact that there are few men who don't put you at the center of their lives like most men do.
They realise guys are waking up and that awareness is adding salt to their woes....

Varlfott:
've come to realize that it is women who need relationships, not men and yet it's them that are the architects of majority of the problems that come with relationships.
This is the pure fact some guys failed to comprehend, the earlier they start to understand that they (most GIRLS) av nothing to offer other than PUSSY & PROBLEMS the earlier guys start having peace of mind....
RomanceRe: Confused! Don't Know If She's Saying The Truth Or Playing Me!!! Help!! by Akinbahm(m): 10:13am On Jan 02, 2020
ATTemi:
It is too early to start 2020 with girl matter, go and make money.

The bitter truth: she has made love with her ex already, 4gt that tales by moonlight story she dey tell u.
Girls find it hard 2 stay faithful with a broke guy!
After making the money then he should start chasing girls. Why are you peeps making girls matter complicated for una self?
RomanceRe: Confused! Don't Know If She's Saying The Truth Or Playing Me!!! Help!! by Akinbahm(m): 10:09am On Jan 02, 2020
slimanyd:
Next Time , Say sluts and whores fall for such things . Av met ladies, As in, obinrin, seems, you don't understand me, I mean beautiful and cultured ladies who money can never shake , flip your dollars and park your Bugatti beside them. They've made up there mind on who they will marry no matter the guys present status.

Mehn , I duff my hat for those kind of Ladies.
Awon omo alalubarika, those types of girls one should never regret not using condom with them...
RomanceRe: What Is All This About Nigerian Ladies by Akinbahm(m): 1:47pm On Jan 01, 2020
Rebelworld:
You sir, are what is wrong with this country. You indulge women then complain when they turn on you lmaoo. My point is , if it was a guy would you give him that lift and also give him that little change you gave that lady ?
Guys with their antics...

No be Bleep make u help am?

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Fans Thread: The Red & White Army: 2025/2026 EPL Champions! by Akinbahm(m): 10:15pm On Dec 31, 2019
Jodera:
I will answer you with all sincerity and without bias
1.. No, he's not justify either his price nor his starting position.
2.. To be sincere, I think he's not cut out for premier league, or maybe he's been under the wrong manager at arsenal. I see him as a deep lying playmaker, but he's not fast enough nor intelligent enough to play the role in EPL.
3...no no no! Not at all.

But I wanna know why you ask these questions
Thanks for being truthful, now my point is the youngsters in Guendozi, Willock etc should be allowed to grow in peace, we can decide if they are good enough either for starting 11 or bench in this team when they get to the iwobi age.

It is up to the board to bring in top midfielders like Thomas partey to allow the youngsters learn and shape without pressure.

That majority of fans are hopeful on Guen, willock etc than Xhaka and Elneny for the future says a lot about our so called older "better" players...
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Fans Thread: The Red & White Army: 2025/2026 EPL Champions! by Akinbahm(m): 4:32pm On Dec 31, 2019
Jodera:
To be sincere, everyone knows xhaka is better than guendouzi
Wanna ask you some questions and I want you answer them without any form of bias....

Has Xhaka justify the position he was being bought for & the amount we paid to land him?

What's Xhaka best Position in Arsenal and has He delivered in that position according to you as a sane fan?

Has he justify the amount we bought him and feel the void left but coquelin?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Fans Thread: The Red & White Army: 2025/2026 EPL Champions! by Akinbahm(m): 4:06pm On Dec 31, 2019
kokaneprodigy:
no one said they don’t want him to grow. Whether u like it or not Xhaka is still better than him as at today reason managers post Emery have been starting him.

You don’t help a young player grow at the detriment of team performance it’s counterproductive. There’s a way managers with brain and ambition transition this young folks into the team.

The argument was, “ does he deserve to start ahead of Torreira, Xhaka and Ceb in EPL games when they are fit?” The answer is No everyday. FFS Emery even played him in 10 while Ozil was available, isn’t that madness?

That Xhaka at his level ain’t performing as expected does not translate to Guen being better than him, you are not even sure what Guen will be like at Xhaka’s age when you look at his (Guen’s) current attributes.
In short Xhaka is better than Guendozi cause I hate baseless arguments....
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Fans Thread: The Red & White Army: 2025/2026 EPL Champions! by Akinbahm(m): 3:26pm On Dec 31, 2019
kokaneprodigy:
this is still emotional, he didn’t deserve a permanent starting spot he was only being favoured by Emery. Xhaka is bad yes, as it stands Guen is worse case closed.
There's no player who deserves permanent starting spot in this squad, maybe Torriera and Auba, the rest are either not good enough, not good at all or are finished at top level in Epl.

Xhaka is bad and it's clear, but concluding Matteo is bad or worse is just pure emotions on your path, Guendozi and other young players in this squad deserves to grow in peace.

That Elneny and Xhaka are booted out before Guendozi and Willock says a lot.

Blame the people at the top for failing to bring in quality matured players instead of fielding youngsters like Matteo,Nelson,Martinelli,Willock,Saka,Smith Rowe etc to compete in the toughest league in the world....
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Fans Thread: The Red & White Army: 2025/2026 EPL Champions! by Akinbahm(m): 2:58pm On Dec 31, 2019
kokaneprodigy:
Your speech is quite emotional, you forget he isn’t playing for free.
Bro, let's know your stand towards Guendozi you just 8 him for no reason....

Spy has analyzed the boy without any form of bias which you failed to towards both Guendozi nd Xhaka....

On a Neutral ground does a calibre of Guendozi should be competing with Xhaka who has spent 4yrs in Eng on Arsenal Jersey?
RomanceRe: Do Not Judge Her By Her Past. by Akinbahm(m): 2:54pm On Dec 31, 2019
ubunja:
like the past is some box they stuffed everything into and thrown into the sea. Lmfao. When the "past" is still lurking in their phone book contacts under a female name. When the "past" is the father of her child she still sees regularly to "collect" support money and she doesn't want you to accompany her there. Like wtf?? Who are we kidding here?
Anytime a lady start to lecture me with her PAST, I always be like see girl no matter how u sweet package ur PAST it doesn't freak me cus it been long I give a f^ck last.
RomanceRe: What Has Been Broke Ever Taught You? by Akinbahm(m): 2:37pm On Dec 31, 2019
When you are broke you will view life from another dimension and give u room to know who truly love u unconditionally.
RomanceRe: When She’s Always Talking About Her Past Relationships by Akinbahm(m): 2:23pm On Dec 31, 2019
Arthurwinner:
asking for a friend tho,
how do you handle a girl that is always talking about how she learnt a lot from her past relationships, like she went to some bar without telling her boyfriend, she didn’t even take the boyfriends call for some moments then later she picked up claiming she wasn’t with her phone, but the issue is that the boyfriend asked her why she went out without telling him, she replied that she can’t be calling the boyfriend to tell him where ever she’s going, that it was used against her in her past relationships. She normally bring up her ex shi when the guy annoys her also, like she will say this is why she got off with her ex.
Matured answer required quick
She left her Ex because she couldn't manipulate him so, she's trying to use her Ex issue to manipulate u.

Bro, wise up, follow ur head not ur heart and hold onto what a lady tell you like a pinch of salt....
RomanceRe: Do Not Judge Her By Her Past. by Akinbahm(m): 1:51pm On Dec 31, 2019
ubunja:
Lmfao. Only desperate loser men with zero self esteem who don't know their value will accept such corrosive advice.

A woman's past is her future.

From the dna of her past lovers that are lodged in her brain for all eternity to the damage her body has sustained after whoring to the Fatherless kids she comes with. And someone says ignore all these and forgive!!. Lmfao. Only Incels will welcome such trash as gold cause they are starved


New year, Higher standards for men.
What's even funny is the way they package their atrocities under the pretence/disguise of the word "PAST"
RomanceRe: Reasons Why Guys Hardly Forgive Cheating Girlfriend Caught by Akinbahm(m): 1:36pm On Dec 31, 2019
Shyluck:
them say once a hoe always a hoe. We will find it difficult to trust her again.
A pussy once bleeped cannot be un bleeped and once u bleep a pussy u av an edge to bleep the said pussy anyhow anytime anywhere.

...The above quote alone has psychologically effect on guys that alone can give once brain & emotion trauma....
RomanceRe: Why You Should Date/marry A Non- Virgin Over A Virgin. by Akinbahm(m): 1:27pm On Dec 31, 2019
favoryte33:
It's a no-brainer for me.over the years,virgins have always been over-rated.Do not get me wrong.In the days of old a girls virginity was seen as a sign of purity but as time went on,the so-called virgins seem to prioritise the myth that comes with their sexuality over the need to hold themselves with dignity. The virgin girls you find nowadays keep drenching in the squirt of their own manipulation which they term sexual fantacies. They pick sex tools as a trusted companion over fellow humans&some,spare not their fellow gender engaging in sexual fantacies which they deny the oppositegender(males)of.They lay humble like sheeps but beneath their thoughts they crave to be devoured like wolves.opportunity just haven't reached them yet. My people,be wise. Now,i challenge anyone to dare debate with me why a virgin should be chosen over a non-virgin.
From your own view why do u think they are overrated?
RomanceRe: Who Is A Broke Guy? by Akinbahm(m): 8:21am On Dec 31, 2019
Jodha:
A broke guy is a jobless dumb lazy motherfaqker...
You spew out this trash just because u wanna comment first, well, u still av 15hours and 50minutes to let go of this mediocre mentality....

RomanceRe: Who Is A Broke Guy? by Akinbahm(m): 8:15am On Dec 31, 2019
AfroKnight:
Two definitions.

1. A broke guy is one who doesn’t have the amount of money need for a particular purchase or service, at a given time. That way, many men are broke at certain points.

That is the old definition though.

The prevalent but honest truth these days is,

2. A broke guy is a man who habitually resists the manipulative inducement to waste money on a hungry, indigent girl who has standards she herself cannot afford, without the financial input of a man.
They would come for your neck now but all the same take 5 bro....

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Fans Thread: The Red & White Army: 2025/2026 EPL Champions! by Akinbahm(m): 10:06am On Dec 29, 2019
Spy360:
For once in a long time you made sense.
That we should keep Xhaka and integrate him into Arteta system right?
RomanceRe: Is It Wise To Accept A Girl Who Says She Loves You With Another Guy by Akinbahm(m): 9:27am On Dec 29, 2019
FROGMAN101:
I had to re-read your message to understand the sarcasm. Nice. Experience is the best teacher.

When I read stuffs like this and come to the part “We both fell Inlove” I just stop reading.

You simps will never learn though.
Bro, am fucking tired reading all these trash topics that entails "what should I do, does she still love me, should I marry her etc" wtf they will see glaring answers to their dump questions they would still rush down here to type nonsense things....

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