Fear woman!!

czarr:
.....I know my mother.lool
if my wife stab me in the eye,she go support my wife,the way my mom treats my girlfriends, I dey fear.
dem fit even gang up against me sef.

lol...It's your duty to correct the impression now before it gets out of hand.

Nollywood screen goddess, ChaCha Eke Faani celebrates 2-year wedding anniversary with husband, Austin Faani and daughter, Camara. Pictures taken at the new mansion she just built in Asaba, Delta state.


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The rivalry between mother-in-laws and their daughter-in-laws has been from time immemorial.

Men will never understand why their mothers and wives are always at loggerheads and find it very hard to get along.

In Nigeria, you often hear some ladies say they don’t want to get married to a man whose mother is still alive because of the many horrible mother-in-law stories they have heard.

Some of these ladies have seen their sisters, friends and other family members go through some very harsh treatments in the hands of their mother-in-laws and therefore wish the mother of the man they want to marry dead.

Even before marriage, some ladies are already prepared for war with their husband’s mothers and every one related to the man the moment she enters his house. They already have plans of how they will deal with her and put her in her rightful place.

The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law war could get really messy sometimes, to the point of scattering the marriage. Most marriages have failed because of some very troublesome mother who decided to make the life of her son’s wife, a living hell or because of some very troublesome wife, who has refused to accept her husband’s mother and family.

Most of the time, the men are caught in between as they do not know who to support. If they take sides with their wives, they will get in trouble with their family and if they decide to support their mother, there will be trouble from the wives.

The mother is the first woman a man comes in contact with. A man is first his mother’s son and as it is said, no matter your age, you remain a child to your mother. Some mothers find it difficult to accept the fact that their son or daughter has grown and should be allowed some independence.

The wife on the other hand feels like she has left her parents, friends, old life and sometimes country to be a part of yours and thus has high expectations. She wants to be the number 1 woman in your life.

Not all mother-in-laws are evil but some ladies have grown up with this notion that all of them are monsters.

It is expected for some daughter-in-laws not to like their mother-in-laws and to expect them to be meddlesome. As a result, both women may tread carefully around each other from the start, reacting defensively to almost everything.

The mother-in-law has her way of doing things, the wife being from a different family background has her own different way of doing things. This often causes friction between both women as both of them want to have their way. The wife feels it is her house and can do as she pleases while the mother feels it is her son’s house and she also has a right.

Sometimes, both parties may want to please each other but don’t know how to go about it as some people are very hard to please.

There is uncertainty on both sides. The uncertainty itself can lead to jealousy, anger or sadness. The more uncertainty there is, the more each woman is likely to keep the other at arm’s length. This can sometimes destabilize the marriage.

Most mother-in-laws want to help out, but don’t always feel welcome enough by their son’s wife. Also some daughter-in-laws would want their mother-in-laws to help but don’t know how to ask them.

Mothers- and daughters-in-law are supposed to be family, yet they don’t know each other well. There’s always this friction between them and they seem to be walking on eggshells around each other.

There is no script or manual on how to cope with your mother-in-law or how to treat your daughter-in-law.

Ladies should learn to cope with their husband’s mothers, no matter how hard it is. In life, there are different people and they all have their unique characters and behaviours. I believe if we learn to study people, with time, you will learn how to live and cope with them. No one is perfect, we all have our imperfections.

The same applies to the mothers. Learn to treat your son’s wives like you would treat your own daughters.

Every woman was, is, and would be a daughter-in-law. The mother-in-law was at some time a daughter-in-law and a daughter-in-law will someday become a mother-in-law. This is life, what goes around, comes around. When you understand this, you will be careful how you go through it.

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Cc Lalsticlala

@Op u have nailed it. i have printed it out for my babe to read. she is guilty of some.

lol...the pix is a good description of me during my school days. My roommate was an exact opposite of me. He has removed his eyes from books is only when he either wants to eat, bath, wash, etc.

If studying hard is the yardstick for becoming rich in life, aah! i for be nobody today oo!

@ Op, as far as i'm concerned, your thread is trashy and baseless. What are you even connoting here? abeg go relax for one corner. We have more inspiring and informative threads to read. If you claim to hate se.x or hate associating with the male folks, then keep it to yourself. I live my life the way i choose to, ditto to every other persons. So park well!!

Who talk say better thing no good for Christ sake?
Akpabio is second governor i respect so much after Fashola...selfless leaders.
No wonder all his running mates for senatorial seat withdrew for him.

Baba abeg security, unemployment and corruption should be your no.1 focus.
Take your time to appoint credible and sefless cabinet members.

Now you have finally seen a football field to play

My guy called me yesterday and was crying that his guy was killed by his girlfriend at Egbeada Housing estate, Owerri. and here is the news on paper. But what for God's sake, is happening to some of our girls nowadays. Since this year till date, i have heard of about five to six similar cases.

My fellow guys, please lets be extremely careful with these daughters of eve. Cos satan has resorted making judicious use of them to cause catastrophy of all kinds.

Pinshure of the peeper peeping the peepee or adonbilivit

Baba i doff my cap for you till infinito. You are a selfless leader.

Come oo! am i the only person that has been observing the automatic disappearance of the cunny FFK since his clueless master failed woefully.

Their abunna go sweet oo!

hensben:
bro something dey there believe me.

another woman wrapper in the house...labbish!

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hensben:
rokiatu all these things you are flaunting hmm..deris god oo

Abegii...nothing special. I handles different sizable sizes & shapes of that thing at will...plz stop the hype, its not worth it.

tellwisdom:
What is this??

Its harvest proceeds.

Swaggerless breast

Like seriously, am yet to believe this is true. wtf! looking at the damsel and oshobaba makes me wonder how this magic started.

Rubbish making frontpage every now and then...NL is begining to piss me off.

After sucking our country resources dry.

Still finding it very difficult to believe. Could this be love? Osho beware of future heart attack oo!

Madam Cash, abeg give me rice and ofe akwu with two kpomo!
Bring one chilled zobo

CeceNene:
I think they should form an association

National Trekkers Association (NTA)...Ndi ara!

Ndi ara!

SHARIAREPORTERS:
Dem don see him wassce certificate?

where is GEJ thesis?

★BIO-DATA:

◆ NAME: Muhammad Buhari;
◆ DOB: 17th December 1942;
◆ NATIONALITY: Nigerian;
◆ STATE OF ORIGIN: Katsina State;
◆ HOME TOWN: Daura;
◆ MARITAL STATUS: Married


★[b]EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUND:[/b]

◆ Elementary School, Daura ~ 1948-1952;
◆ Katsina Model School, Katsina ~1953;
◆ Katsina Provincial School (now Government College Katsina)~1956-1961;


★MILITARY CAREER/TRAINING:

◆ Military Training School, Kaduna ~1963;
◆ Officer’s Cadet School, Aldershot (UK)~Oct.’63;
◆ Platoon Commanders’ Course Nigerian Military College, Kaduna ~1964;
◆ Mechanical Transport Officer’s Course, Army Mechanical Transport School, Borden (United Kingdom) ~1965;
◆ Defence Services’ Staff College, Wellington (India) ~1973;
◆ United States Army War College ~ 1979-1980;


☆MILITARY APPOINTMENT/EXPERIENCE:

◆ Platoon Commander, 2nd Infantry Bat. ’63-64;
◆ Mech Trans. Officer, Lagos Garrison, ’64-65;
◆ Transport Coy Commander, 2nd Brigade,’65-66;
◆ Batt Adjutant/Commander, 2nd Brigade,’66-67;
◆ Brigade Major, 2nd Sector, 1st Infantry Division, April to July, 1967;
◆ Brigade Major, 3rd Infantry Div, 67–68;
◆ Acting Commander, 4th Sector, 1st Div!’68–70;
◆ Commander, 31st Infantry Brigade, ’70-71;
◆Assistant Adjutant-General, 1st Infantry Div. Headquarters, ’71-72;
◆ Colonel, General Staff, 3rd Infantry Division Headquarters,1974 –1974;
◆ Acting Director Supply & Transport, Nigeria Army Corps Hqts,1974 –1975;
◆ Military Secretary, Army Hqts. 1978-1979;
◆ GOC, 4th Infantry Div.~1980 – 1981;
◆ GOC, 3rd Armored Div. ~ 1981 –1983;


★POLITICAL APPOINTMENT/EXPERIENCE:

◆ Military Gov., North Eastern State ~’75-76;
◆ Fed Commissioner for Petroleum ~ ’76–78;
◆ Chairman, NNPC ~ 1978 –1978;
◆ Member, Supreme Military Council, ~ 78-79;
Head of State and Commander-in-Chief of the Nigerian Armed Forces ~ Dec 1983 – Aug. 85;
Executive Chairman, PTF ~ 1995 – 1999;


★ AWARDS AND MEDALS:

● GCFR: Grand Commander of the Federal Republic of Nigeria
◆ DSM: Defence Service Medal
● NSM: National Service Medal
◆ GSM: General Service Medal
● LSGCM: Loyal Service and Good Conduct Medal
◆ FSS: Forces Service Star
● CM: The Congo Medal

Source: http://dailymail.com.ng/biographyprofilecurriculum-vitae-of-general-muhammadu-buhari-at-a-glance/

Mekybliss:
That guy is materialistic. Please tell him to refund the sex

SMH for you. is it the se'x both of you enjoyed or the one him alone enjoyed? You must be a good example of such type of girl in this topic. Some women think they are smart, not knowing that their smartness is foolishness.

This is the height of craziness. NTA #NigeriaTrekkersAssociation

If you like send her msges from morning till night everyday. if she no like u, she no like you be that.