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Chumachu:
Omo, e be like we plenty wey like pocohantas sha.

Not your kinda like bro

Etinosa1234:
Never been paid for coding yet...

Still in the learning stage??

oweniwe:
If you want to be a rugged coder, forget two of them... Learn HTML and CSS as much as you can.

CSS might seem confusing at first but as you master it, its like difference between motor mechanic and ordinary motor driver.

Which one be rugged coder again

I feel even after learning HTML and CSS,it won't be a bad idea to learn wordpress also.

ZIINI:
Eleribu nii op yii sha

Abi you sef dey trip for poco

SILENTandSMART2:
It means i accept what you said or you're right,


But due to complexity of yoruba language in dis case it mean say you're wise ❤️✅

Wise kee you dia!!!

SILENTandSMART2:
Lol aswear i never see her comment before,

Oboy try to dey understand things i was referring to the OP not the girl at all

That OP is eleribuu original

If i may ask what's her online personality? , I don't know her self

I knew you were referring to the OP.

Read the last part of my post,I mentioned her online personality.

Tozic:
Hey!
if you don't mind which part of the N.E are you from? Just checked ur profile.

She is from Borno state and stays in Maiduguri.

Don't ask how I know.

SILENTandSMART2:
You're eleribuu OP,


Haha , so you created a thread because of a pussy,


You mad or what?


You dis eleribuu OP you stupid ,


Eleribuu man,


You're a crazy man

Ontop woman



People find it difficult to understand that online personality differs from offline personality.She might not be whom you thought her to be offline!@OP

PS:I like her online personality because she is very playful and rarely takes things too seriously.

butterfly55:
Please, I need your positive comments. I'm the only son of my parents after six girls. My mother pampers me a lot and guard me like mother hen. She always want me to be near her. She always want to control my life, choose what I should do and what I shouldn't do. What I should wear and I what I shouldn't wear. Anytime I disagree with her intensely over her control of my life. She will cry and guilt talk me into accepting her own ways by telling me that they looked for a male child for a long time and later God bless her by giving me to her after many years. She will remind me how her husband parents looked at her like she had failed before God bless her with me. All my elder sisters always support her controlling of my life. My dad supports her too. All the school I went to, she make sure that it was close to her, from primary school to university. After my first degree, I move to another state to pursue a second degree in law. She supported the idea because the university which is in Calabar is near to the state where my family stays. They stay in Uyo. Now I'm in year three and since the lockdown, I have began to learn things like barbing and driving which will not be possible if I'm still near her as she believed that she and my dad will find a job for me at Uyo when I finished my schooling. To cut the long story short, she don't want me to do anything apart from schooling and after that I have to come back to Uyo to work. But I have different perspective, I want to establish my own businesses like barbing and fishery. Currently I'm learning barbing but she has began to nag me about when I'm coming back to Uyo for Christmas since school will not resume this year again. She said my sisters and my dad are also worried that I should come home and be with them. Please how do I convince her that I have become a man, that I have ideas I want to develop? How do I convince her that I will not be home for Christmas without causing any family quarrels? Please advice me, help a brother out. Thank you.

Which one should we believe??

I mean are there 2 or 3 people operating your account
Your matter just tire person

maximizer61:
thanks bro

You're welcome!

Ishilove:
My ex. He was always on NL and back then I was always harassing him to register me because of all the interesting topics he usually showed me, so one day, I held him at knife point and forced him to register. He chose my username because it is my mum's pet name for me.

But you once said your boyfriend chose the name for you because you have beards.And the name means "My bearded lover"...

HotPoundedYam:
You are not alone. Introvertism is an habit that is very hard to break... In school, if you are on your department Whatsap group, try to start messaging and doing video calls with course mates most especially the girls. It's best you break it before you get thru with institution.
It's affecting me now

In my own case,I can actually message or go meet a girl.But I lack things to say.After the exchange of pleasantries,I go blank!!

maximizer61:
Samething with me, mine is worst, 2yrs in sch nw i havnt had a conversation with any girl

Few things I have for you.
+ Dress well and neat.Not necessarily expensive.Groom your body,hair,nails e.t.c....It builds confidence.

+ Start by greeting any girl beside you.You may not start a convo yet.Just get used to greeting them first.Only a girl in a bad mood will not reply a mere greeting.

+ Start with a girl you have something in common.I.e Your coursemate.After you have been greeting for somedays,ask for her name and introduce yourself too.

+ When next you see,greet her with her name and ask how her day went or how her class went.You can proceed to ask what class she has next.I.e Hi Grace.How are you doing?How was Dr.John's class?.
She will answer and probably ask you too.Answer and you can then say "Okay,we'll see later,bye"

+ When next you see,try to make the convo a little longer.You can't be asking about class everytime,so you can decide to talk about your school as a whole,favourite chilling sport,experience in the first week of your freshman year etc.

+ It shouldn't be only one girl,have at least 3 girls for a start.



The aim is to get you comfortable at talking to girls.Asking out,wooing,dating can come later.Just make friends first.
If you know any guy that has many female friends,you can roll with him because you will be forced to talk to his female friends.

These are what I'm doing now to get better at talking to girls.Now,I can walk up to any girl but my challenge is not knowing what else to say asides greeting and basic intro.

Good luck bro!

Jeeez!!

Not even a single paragraph.Who's gonna take pains to read it??

Well,my own experience was when a girl I was crushing on in my place of work sat on my laps.She jumped up within 10 seconds of sitting....I guess you know why.

Prudent5217:
I will advice you apply first. A recruitment officer will contact you then you can explain yourself proper, probably you get lucky. Aside that from requirement its compulsory.

Okay thanks bro

Prudent5217:
you can still apply it matters not. Application process is lengthy my profile of 2019 is still valid up till today my only issue is you need to have a sponsor in UK which is required for accommodation purpose.

Asides accomodation,is a sponsor compulsory?

frypuffpuff:
...I'M FROM THE COMMONWEALTH
The Army is not currently accepting applications from Commonwealth candidates or inviting them to the UK for assessment during the COVID-19 restrictions...

That is expected.

Have anything to say about my challenge?
Do I need someone to stand for me there or I can go solo?

ugo4u:
Getting into the British armed forces isn't difficult as you are a member of a common wealth nation. I'll send you the link if you're interested you only have to present your credentials after applying online and wait for the enlistment Officer incharge to call you. The process isn't difficult at all.

Yeah true!
I once heard about it.

My challenge however is that,a british citizen or permanent resident(not sure) has to stand for you,sign for you and provide some of their personal details.Now,I have no one in the UK and people will be kind of skeptical to do such task for someone they barely know.

But nonetheless,you can please send me the link.There might be light there.
Thanks brotherly...

AirmanB:
Then go for Canada, citizenship is after 3 years of staying in Canada... Max military age is 35, as a reserve max is 57

After 3 years of being a permanent resident you mean?

Thanks,I thought about it too.Seems promising.

AirmanB:
Which country, French Army?

Since I will be going for greener pastures,I will choose a country that presents great opportunities.No country in mind for now.


I would have preferred USA or UK because of their military but,it is not easy to get citizenship in these countries.Even as a PR holder in USA,you can only hold ranks of the lower cadre!

AirmanB:
Depends on the country bro, (some countries says dah one must be a citizen b4 one can be given a chance to join her armforces, some countries takes 3-12 years to gains their Citizenship, if u want to join without being a citizen, den u will be given a non Commissioned officer's cadre), I would advise you to join their military ova dere. Bur if u have d love to say your won country,den u can stay back n fulfill dah dream.

I'll consider joining over there.Thanks bro

pozehnani:
I'm impressed with these kids especially the girl.

Daddy's done a nice job.


https://www.facebook.com/100003394026168/posts/3336716466451455/?app=fbl

What of we that are not igbo??

Bia take time o!!

Oh mehn,as i dey go through this thread,my morale dey high go.

Since when I dey pikin,I don talk say na soja i go do.But you see ehn,I'm caught up between leaving the country and joining the military.
The decision is difficult to make,I just dey confused!!!

My families don't support me joining the military(even the soldiers among them too).

I am really confused gentlemen!

Tungfamily:
Biden can never win, Amen

Congrats trump

Mumu man.See for yourself!

virginprincess:
I created this tread because of those of you insulting in a created by kranediggy, i want to make my explanation more clearer............. haven't you people seen in a situation whereby a man married a woman then ask her to sit at home to start bearing children for him even though it is not the woman's choice, you guys were attacking me like i said something bad or strange....... i also said a woman's money is not suppose to be shared, i meant it is not suppose to be shared between her and her husband, i am not saying the woman should not spend on her children, she can do stuff like buying of clothes, taking the children out and so on, but core responsibilities like paying of the children schoolfees, house rent and so on is supposed to be for only the man, if not why is he called the head of the family? you guys should learn to read and understand before attacking someone, .

Don't you have other things to do asides seeking attention on NL??

Olarewajub:
Many introverts are in soft work. I mean programming, graphic design, SEO writing, affiliate marketing, social media management, etc.

Check Nairaland Programming, Career and Investment sections. You might find something interesting.

Cool thanks

inkle:
Hiya fellow introverts,
Please I'm in need of any female that can accommodate me in Lag even if it's for a token....for at least 3months before I get my own place. I just got a job in Lag and I'm relocating. I don't have friends to ask for help. I'll start house hunting as soon as I arrive Lag.

Please Please help if you can.

You never stated your preferred area in lag!

Damikjay:
I think female soldiers will show more compassion to the citizen than their male counter part.

They are more brutal than their male counterparts.They can kill with punishments!!

sweetveek:
if u have any source of income, try to be saving it and pray for bit coin to drop like in February,then u buy and wait for it to pump and cashout...na watin me self dae pray for too

Nicey

Thanks bro!

sweetveek:
I'm actually a student currently doing nothing oh,, I've been indoors since February me myself and i. different strokes for different folks.. I'm waiting for my own opportunity to come too

Hmm

Well,thanks.

sweetveek:
lolzz...no business idea sha..just pray for an opportunity to come ur way

Thanks for replying.But this is not what I want.

What opportunities?How can opportunities come my way while indoors listening to Enya?How did yours come?

I don't want to ask too much but please explain things to me...

sweetveek:
its not that easy oh, especially when they know you have the money and you yourself knows that too...but this is what i have been doing,mayb it will help,have separate bank account for spending and savings,make up your mind never to touch the money in your savings account except mayb for investment or emergencies,then the other account can be for borrowing and daily spendings...once the spending account gets below a particular amount,stop giving/borrowing money to people

Any idea of which work an introvert can do to earn?
To do business na war.How do I start telling people to patronise me(something I dread totally)