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i dont agree that i was not interested in her. i guess i am just tired of women playing unneccasiry hard to get. they act as if being in a relationship is a bad thing and that they have no interest in meeting someone as if they would be doing u a favor by dating or marrying you. then on Friday they go for night vigils to pray to God to send them a husband cos they are 35yrs old, single and fast becoming obsolete in the singles market. really dont get it. i think most women are just plain confused and dont know what they want.

i apologize for offending you. no more something for singles. its up you now

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ok ill try to make it short, here goes,

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there is this girl that i wanted to meet not too long ago and for no apparent reason she gave me the cold shoulder. in fact i would say she was really very rude in her approach at turning me down. well i didn't like the way she acted so i decided to look elsewhere. its about two weeks since she rudely turned me down (i am not saying every girl must say yes just that i think you can say yes without trying to crush the guy at the same time) she is now trying to be friendly with me but off course i am no more interested, not after the way she treated me. i guess she is another case of a woman who played too hard to get because her recent behavior show that she's realy in to me now. i guess its too bad for her because i am not interested anymore

The lesson? Ladies should learn not to overdo the hard to get thing because it could easily back fire.

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The question lots of women ask me is "how do i know when a man is serious or just out to have sex with me". For starters, i guess i should let you know right now that about 70% to 80% of the men a woman dates in her life time will be interested in one thing only, "SEX". So how do u know which percentage just want sex and what percentage want a serious relationship? Here are five signs that give you a clue into whether or not a man is serious about you.

1. He doesn't rush the sex issue. When a man is making too much fuss about sex in the begining chances are that thats all he is really interested in.

2. He is not always asking you for money. When a guy is always asking you for money he is propably dating you for what he can get from you and not for love.

3.He always has time for you. When a man loves you he will always have time for you. when a man starts to give the excuse of being too busy to call you or see you then he really isnt all that into you.

4. He wont return your calls. If he often returns you calls then its very likely that its the real thing. on the other hand if you have to call him 10times for him to call you once then you are not that special woman in his life.


5. He sparkles when you are together. When a mans countenance brightens up and its clear to you that he is happy to see you whenever you visit him or he visits you then it just might be love. this is especially important when he still acts this way after months of dating (like 8 months).


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Gallaria means cimena, a place where u watch movies on a big screen and eat pop corn and hold your girl tight . you can get to do that and if you dont have a girl the cimena will provide a girl for you to hold

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well i hope you survive this. remember what happened to tupac because of a girl. i think you should go on and write you will.


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yes a very small number of women do but not many women do. most women just think that its fun to let men try to get close to them so they can reject them. i guess it makes some of them feel really important.

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because women dont like to take responsibility for everything. when things work out a man is wonderful. when things dont work out, a man is a loser. they just like to let things happen and expect the best outcome. unfortunately in life there is a action and reaction law in operation. what do you think would happen if the men too got tired of being nailed and decided to stop toasting? i think the women would riot and beg the men to please come and toast them and promise to be of their best behavior. guys, i think we should try a toasting strike o so these women will learn to appreciate us more

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I have come to the point where i wish women would do some of the toasting sometimes. naturally i am an old fashioned guy who believes that men should do the asking out. but the way some of these women behave these days plus the kind of isho (nail or rejection) some of them dish out to guys these days makes me wish some of them would actually try doing the work of toasting men sometimes and see how it feels to be nailed the way they do. Really wouldn't mind seeing women toast men for a change.

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i've asked that question myself a few time but at the end of the day i guess its true, "women really don't know what they want". i guess on some level it a mans job to give a woman direction, to help her decide what she wants.

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I didnt know one could meet the celebrities on this site. Nice hi mukina2. i had a friend by that name when i was in secondary school. could you by any chance be the same person? my name is mike. was in the science class. do you remember richard ogimi? he was head boy in our set and we used to roll together. really would like to meet you one on one though

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By default? yes! but since your asking this question on this forum it means that you have been thinking. when smart people think they go out and look for answers. when they get answers they get solutions and stay out of trouble. my point is that by being aware of the potentially destructive effects of broken home and taking steps to ensure that you are not left vulnerable to these effects (by making up your mind to have a healthy and successful relationship irrespective of what happened to your parents, reading good books that counsel in this area, seeing a therapist if there is a need to do so) you can neutralize these potentially negative effects and have a happy relationship, marriage and life

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well i guess ladies just have to be more careful when picking a boyfriend. dont know what his game is but he sounds nuts. maybe you should be dating me instead

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guess you have been going to the wrong places and talking to the wrong people. maybe its something about how you dress or talk. i think you should take a close look at yourself and see what the problem is. then again, it might just be a phase in your life


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i have told him the same thing but he says every girl he has met since then has been inadequate and have not been able to make him happy the way the other girl did. i really dont see anything he can do about things now the way they are and i do feel a bit sorry for him cos i actually advised him against letting go of her on some silly excuse but he didn't. knew the girl myself. she was a really nice person. i think she would have made him a great wife but at the time he didn't think so.
i think he also let the negative comments made by his mother about her get to him. i guess the lesson to learn from that is that you should never listen to what others say or think about your partner if you are absolutely positive (well at least positive enough) that they are right for you.

hmm thanks for the name calling. do have a nice day.

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hmm, David. i think you have a criminal mind. if you dont have any useful advice to give on this topic please keep your mouth shut. thanks

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well i pray my friend gets over it too someday soon like you cos his behavior is really giving me course for concern.

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your not serious are you? the guy could loose his life if he tries such.

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I think you should cut your coat according to you piece of clothe (or your size, anyone). truely speaking, if she doesnt love u, ur in big trouble

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o yes ladies fart but i really don't know anything about it smelling sweet. think it smells like any other guys, "not so good".

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Well not me, actually its a friend of mine. He dated this girl whom he was in love with and due to a little misunderstanding he broke up with her and started another relationship. now he believes that he can never love another woman the way he loved the girl he broke up with but she is now married to someone else and has a child for him. I told him the best thing for him to do was to forget her but he says that he loves her too much. What do you think about this guys situation.

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The monster thing happens with men and women. not all men are monsters and not all women are saints.

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well i really sympathize with you on your plight but i think that it will be difficult if not impossible to have a mail friend and not include sex in the whole deal. its a really tempting arrangement the way i see it. not sure you will be able to resist the temptation.

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