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Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that .

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

If you like, keep him waiting for years, the man that won't only sex with you will still leave you when you finally let him have you. My advise to you all, if you must sleep with a man, sleep with him because you also want the sex and you want it with him not because he wants the sex. By so doing, even if he decides to move on, you can also move on without feeling much bad. Most of you that come here to complain always have this expression that it is all about satisfying the guy and then he disappeared. Does it mean that you girls don't get something from the sex?

This is not love, this is marriage for facts. The guy either married the lady to give her reason to be happy irrespective of her condition or he is one of the guys who can't stand heartbreak and then decided to go for a woman he believes no other man wants but him alone.
Don't be deceived, many people have their selfish reasons for doing a lot of things we call love.

sapele914:
Illiterate minded Ipobian read before you comment.

In the Originating Summons marked FCT/HC/GAR/CV/47/2022 by Somadina Uzoabaka against the Attorney General of the Federation (AGF) and Prof. Mahmood Yakubu.

Don't mind those idiots, they can't live a normal life without mentioning Tinubu.

The sit of that vehicle doesn't look like that of a man who have share in a 30m loot, I guess he was already on their list for a reaso6best known to the killers

Vixlot:
The election is done and dusted, stop wasting your time

APC Wins with the following:
South West- Six States
North Central- Four States
North West- Six States
North East- Four States
South South- Two States with G5 support
South East- 25 % in Imo & Ebonyi

God Bless Incoming President Bola Tinubu

Keep it on a low key, we want them to feel it much in February. The pain should be reserved till February.

If no be say I no won insult person for this January, you for hear am for my mouth. This good for nothing, bad son of circumstances.
You insult a woman by telling her that you regret sleeping with her and you have d gut to come here and look for fans that will bail you out, who and who are your fans in crime on nairaland?

Make I hear say no be India

As much as I am not Obi's supporter, I appreciate this man's prophecy, this is how a prophecy should be stated so that when it comes to pass we can say yes, it was foretold and if it fails, we can clearly say, sir, this was not what you told us.
Unfortunately what many supposed men of God are doing this day is hedging eg, if care is not taking Obi will win / fail, there is danger in the air, we need to pray to avert the danger, someone in Aso rock will die, we need to pray seriously etc. These are gambling/hedging not prophecy

Polchiz:
The guy is surely drunk.

Igbos are not just the five South Eastern States.

The Igbos in other states in Nigeria and diaspora can form additional five states.
Igbos in Lagos alone is more than Bayelsa's population.
Over 40% of people in Abuja are Igbos.

No be only 40%, I think Igbos in Lagos and Kano constitute 70% of the population of those States. Is obvious you people don't know your place wherever you find yourselves. No wonder you keep abusing the hospitality extended to you.

MICHEALADEX:
The respect shatta wale in Ghana so much...he called for it and they brought it back

He only go by the street rule, the street get no respect for anyone but rules for everyone. They knew he was involved when they stole it.

chibnnodi:
I love Oshiomole. He's still the best of all past and present governors. May God Almighty give him more strength and wisdom.

Hatred will not allow many people to like this sincere message

EgusiSoup:
We have come to the end of the year again.

God has been so faithful throughout 2022 and we are grateful for His mercies.

How did you fare with your 2022 resolutions and what are the new targets for 2023?

Please share, you may inspire someone.

What is your own 2022 resolution, what did you achieve a d otherwise, what is your 2023 resolution? Let start with you first Abu you no get resolution ? Amebo

How many followers does he has? When someone that you are better than is calling you out, just know that one if those who envy you just decide to show himself.

telad:
This new note is getting more confusing.

I got this new 1000 naira notes like 30 pieces this morning in between many old notes.

I sorted it out and just run all through mercury light because I was in a rush to check it individually. Everything was fine.

But I was shocked when i got to the bank, I was told the golden security detail is missing on 1 of the 1000 naira notes, even though all other details were present.

It was also validated under their mercury light at the bank and it was valid.

Long story short, it was tagged fake and perforated. Could this be an error from CBN or Fake money has bypassed the mercury light check?

You didn't get the news about the fake one on time. The fake is out there and I think someone earlier took his time to pick point the difference

Righteousness2:
Don't be deceived by titles.
Title is not a ticket to Heaven.
Any man or woman can bear Priest, Deacon, Pastor or whatever.
Afterall few months ago, we saw those who were hired by a political party.

By their fruit, you shall know them. It is not by titles or by wearing Big cross.

Hired you said. From the beginning I had always known that you are one of the fraud stars hiding under the religious umbrella and the recent political games exposes your true person.

May God bless and keep them stronger together. When it comes to marriage in recent time, 10yrs no be child's play.

PoliteActivist:
A guy will never say this to a girl who crushes on him no matter how ugly.
Women can be wicked

Exactly why I don't feel much pity for them when some guys put them in certain ugly position. Just look at what a lady who had collected 20k from a guy had the mind to say to him

Pierced:
Make sense.......yam of that size goes for 600 to 700 at mile 12 market.

Which market did u buy it from?

Na 1k to 1.5k yam for pH be that o. I mean one

Urheadmaster:


Is this better than failing to win world cup throughout is football career


Cristiano Ronaldo son will have to break the only record of his father failure to win the world cup throughout is football career
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Lol, if na so that means say your papa don finish you with plenty assignment be that. Make I list them?

Samakus:
Objectivity over emotions. Chai, I'm going to hurt someone

Objectivity gives you some fix variables to hold on to when the marriage journey gets rough and tough, unfortunately such fixed variables don't exist when your decisions are based on emotions.

Samakus:
Hi guys. It's Christmas morning but let me have your thoughts on this.

Just coming back from early morning Christmas service of my church. I have a friend (a girl] that is just a normal hello/hi kind of friend. Nothing between us.

At the close of service, she met me and suggested that I marry her. Initially I thought she was joking but she reaffirmed her stand saying that she has been given all manner of ģreenlights but it's like I take her for a sister. She bluntly asked that if I like her, I should marry her and that she will provide half of the cost of the wedding. I didn't know what to say cos truly, that's a first time for me.

She knows my woman and I told her so but she's was like, 'your woman can't give you this offer that I'm giving you and it's better you marry who loves you more than you love her.

I don't really like her in a romantic way. I See her more as a friend but this move from her got me thinking.

I love my woman and but I know she's not ready right now either. What will you do if you're in my shoes.

Insults are welcomed too. Based on nairaland way

Well because you say insults are welcome, I will assume that you really need the advice. On that note, this is my advice. Now that you have to see her differently from the person you used to know, you need time to study her from that perspective. While doing that, don't give her the impression that you are giving her a yes/no for an answer. This is the time to bring fact to the table, ask yourself what you want, then what do you have currently and which one can you let go, your response should be base on facts. Success

Moh247:




Tonto should let Churchill also be part of the boys growing up phase


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Let her finished her mumuness first. Tonto will regret her action at last. That boy will definitely not want to be a stranger in the life of a man who's cabon copy he is

Let's assume you are right, where will obi get votes that will give him the win?

naijablood:
I started observing this pattern since 2018
I was posted away from my then girlfriend to another state for NYSC hence couldn’t engage in serious relationship through out my service

…But seriously that year was one of my favorite in terms of financial success.
As a serving corper I was also working freelance for two different companies in Lagos. … coupled with other gigs … I was in money.

After service I met a lady and we kicked off a relationship, within 2months of us into the love affair, I lost the two jobs as a freelance was done with service so had to start some money making venture, but was tough, well the relationship lasted four months.

After three months of us breaking up I had a business idea, year 2020, got into it and within two months I made my first million was single for a year.

2021 I met a lady and started meeting … and within a space of 6 months, I was back to square one…

Early this year was tough and depressing, and by June, we were already having relationship problem, hence some space between us.

But from September I notice some positivity, business took off I started saving up and by November I had to buy a property to compensate myself for a hardworking year ..

Now my problem is I’m disturbed , this lady been asking for us making the relationship official .. but I’m scared loosing it all … I keep getting back to the ground when I’m in relationship…

But will I be single for life … I’m just lost.

You know your problem and the solution already. Stop premarital sex, it doesn't work for everyone and you are one of those it practical doesn't work for. Do you still need more explanation?

See my own o, with rice 50kg

ojun50:
CBN is not serious
In a branch here in delta state dey brought 4 hundred thousand to be share for more than 5million people.

you only get two piece of the new note if you are redrawing 100k

What is the entire population of Delta state? Tomorrow una go say politicians no dey sincere, this is how they all started. 5m banking population in Delta state, na true

after4:
Nah the urchin wey go come talk sey nah tifnubu do this one I dey wait for

Na Obi supporters wey go talk say papa no get share of praise for good things wey him pikin do I dey wait for. Sanwo Olu na pikin wey him political Papa train well. Unfortunately Obi, refused to born any pikin all through his 8yrs, the guy dey fear to train pikin.

dumahi:
No sane person would disagree with that. But, make the Indian no yab us. Na only recently we take over from them as world poverty capital.

We're getting it right in 2023. With God and our POsitive action, all things are POssible.

Just like no sane person will choose Anambra over Lagos in terms of development in the two states, putting into consideration, only the period when the two presidential aspirants from the states have say, either directly or indirectly in the affairs of the states

pleasureosondu:
I'm yet to see a prominent Muslim like Atiku and Tinubu specifically condemn these Islamist jihadists, yet they want Obi to condemn IPOB that's fighting against marginalization or Niger Delta militants that's fighting against the crude oil wells owned by Muslims and stealing the oil revenue. Thunder sc$tter una

In a simple statement, you are saying Obi is not different from any of the two?

Roboto11:
So if I take a picture at Buckingham Palace I'm suddenly a Prince?

Lol, shey you don see how their brain dey work na

Naijalarry:
Atiku is from the North East.

Tinubu is only but a visitor.

That is not part of my comment. Argue base on my comment