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The Ginger you and I know is tremendously rich and no doctor will tell you.
So many people use Ginger to cook stew or jellof rice and that's the only usage of Ginger they can think of, mean while Ginger is tremendous for human health.

Has anyone told you the benefits of ginger to the human heart?
Has anyone told you how ginger helps in indesgestion?
I have taken out time to explain it for everyone in this article and how to prepare it to get the juice.

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Then the LORD stretched out his hand, touched my lips, and said to me, “Listen, I am giving you the words you must speak.
Today I give you authority over nations and kingdoms to uproot and to pull down, to destroy and to overthrow, to build and to plant.”
Jeremiah 1:9‭-‬10
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“I cause everything to work together for the good of those who love me and are called according to my purpose for them.” Romans 8:28

Be rest assured that the best is yet to come!
Taking rest and leaving our worries at the feet of Jesus allows us to go about our daily routine without entertaining anxiety. Afterall, God does not give us promises that He does not intend on keeping. Do we really believe that He is faithful to keep His Word? If we do, we will not let anxiety fill our hearts; we will take our rest in God. However, we must labour to come into our rest (Hebrews 4:11). This means there are things required of us to ‘work’ at before we can enter into this place of assurance. Consistent worship, praise, prayer… these are some of the things we can do to stir up our faith and remind ourselves of the promises that we should rest on.
The rewards of our labour are endless! Our heavenly Father acts on our behalf when we trust Him, because He is a faithful God! So whenever anxiety hits, it’s time to hit the prayer or praise position!

‘Let your rest in God’s promises be so real to you that you can hang your coat on it!’ This is what my mother would tell me whenever I had taken my eyes off God's promises. Are God’s promises as real to us as the air we breath? When we make God’s Word our daily bread, it becomes our reality.

We may not be in this place yet but we can ask God to help us become secure in His Word. The benefits of this rest are invaluable;
You have confidence that God has gone ahead of the situation
You focus on what God is doing in this season and enjoy it to the fullest!

PRAYER/CONFESSION:
Heavenly father, I choose to rest in the promises in your Word. I ask you to feel me with confidence that you are faithful to keep your Word, and the grace to trust in your ways of doing things. Lord I do not want to rely on the physical realm- i know that you are working behind the scenes and bringing every Word concerning me to pass!
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Many marriages today are running on empty, the unionism is no longer found in their Marriage any more. Finding tangible ways to help your husband guard against overload is a good place to get fierce with your role as helpers, which a wife, originally is.
Helping your husband to have a rest in a day is one way to help your husband be his best which you have always desired. Today’s world is busy, noisy, and draining. We need to lighten up the loads and enjoy our marriages, not to endure them.

Just how tired are you? And how tired is your husband? Do you ever take a vacation? And are you getting enough sleep?
Do you know that sleep deprivation makes us more prone to accidents, weight gain, diabetes, and even heart disease? Researchers tell us that people now fantasize about sleep more in their lives. It would seem that the average person today is seriously tired.

I have once asked myself, how effective I am at finding rest for my own soul?.
I can’t give away what I don’t have, is only what I have that I can give to someone else.
I can't give or help someone else to have peace, rest, joy and happiness if I don't have it.

Most times the ways we try to rest don’t really rest us. Sometimes we drift into addictive or numbing behaviors that has made us to look as if we are not with our senses again rather than rest our souls.
Too much social media, work, or exercise leads you to work harder, run faster, climb higher, grow richer, get thinner, and accomplish more, but leaves little time for resting your soul.

Do you long to do more than just damage control to manage the swirl of life?
We can to get to the root of these challenges if we truly want to lighten our load and guard our marriage against exhaustion.

It’s been said that “fatigue makes us all to lack courage.” I believe this applies to marriage as well not just on individuals. When husband and wife are exhausted and their faith becomes weak, we are left vulnerable to undesired lifestyles.
Don’t you wish we had a warning system that would alert us when we begin to drift into patterns of living that are not in anywhere going to benefit our soul? Overload is that signal.

Be at alert to it and ready to lighten the load.
Remember that rest is a compulsory thing to do for yourself for the happiness of your Marriage. (Exodus 20:8-11).
Do you have a weekly day of rest? How can you create a day of rest together with your spouse?

Consider the promise found in Matthew 6:33. How could trusting in this promise and cultivating contentment honor your Marriage and lighten the load therein?
What are some things you and your spouse could do to lighten up, enjoy your marriage, and find real rest for your souls?
You have the Best answer.
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My crush of 3 years told me last week that she will soon get married.

Boom! Immediately I heard this, headache, Fever, Catarrh, Malaria and even Typhoid hit me
It was then I remembered the proverb that "A man that stays around a lady without making his intentions known will serve guest Palm wine during her wedding"

I'm in Severe pains my people. I even told her last night that I'm having Catarrh and she told me to take hot water and Rubb..

Who told her that my Catarrh is Rubb induced? It's love induced oh.
I think I need a break. The only lady I have gone quite a distance to see.
Who get handkerchief abeg?
What a life of pain.
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As grown up as she is, is obvious that she has a boyfriend, or this are the type of ladies that reject handsome dudes that's dying in love for her.

The only thing that attracted her to the mad man is his penis size which she want to feel inside her Hot pot.
Anywell, it may not be her fault..lol... am just saying though because it could be that her boyfriend doesn't have a big size which makes her to admire that of mad man.
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Deathisfree:
I’m single and jobless,My landlady has a shop but mostly she’s always home.
It all started when my landlord travelled,I Have been noticing her for about 2 weeks now. She’s always giving me too much attention she comes up to my apartment with some sexy wears and foods

Last night it was raining, she knocked my door and asked if I was busy. We enter my sitting room,watching the tv and suddenly everything started getting out of hands. To cut the story short. We sha had sex and ever since then. She’s been treating me with love and respect even more than she gives her husband

After the sex. She told me she married her husband base on his money. Shes been giving me too much attention and she doesn’t even care if we are caught or not. Please how do I play my game safe

If this is true story,
I will implore you to seriously look for something to do.
Apply for a job in different organizations you will definitely get a job, even if is office assistance, it's a good job than being idle.
What you did is a serious adultery both in the presence of God and man.
The ugly part of it is that someone else will one day screw your wife, that's fact and not base on whether is acceptable by you or not.

The worst implication for this is that, your greatness is at risk, the devil used her food to decieve you just like Jacob and his brother in the old testament.
Idleness and laziness is what contributed to this by 80% regarding the fact that your mind is idle instead of being busy, instead of being productive as at that moment.
Get yourself a woman, some women are destiny lighter - you may meet with a lady that will lighten up your destiny and that's great instead of lustfully making love with another man's wife.
Lastly....Your Relationship with God is not okay, if you have a good relationship with God you should have been in the spirit and know what, when and why this is happening.

You can eat her free food and make love to her but then, how long will you continue to be doing it?
Don't bury your destiny in the alter of food and sex. The tragedy can't be ameliorated.
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No matter how loaded a vehicle is, the driver's seat is always reserved.
From today, GOD will settle you with His reserved blessings.
He will honour you with blessings to overtake your competitors, favour you to beat your contenders, strengthen you to conquer your persecutors and give you success to disgrace your mockers in JESUS MIGHTY NAME.
Amen.
You are a blessing to your generation.
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Possessive boyfriends are deadly.
They can be deadly to themselves, the partner involved and as such the relationship is a ticking time bomb. Possessiveness in a relationship is tied to some psychological factors and most possessive relationships are like a master-slave relationship.

About three years ago, there was this guy who was dating a certain girl but the relationship was a possessive/controlling one. The guy controlled who she could talk to, who she could greet, what she could wear and so on. He always wanted her in his sight. It got so bad that this girl and the guy were walking down the street one day, they met a friend of mine. The girl had to make a signal to my friend to walk past them as if they didn’t know each other. At night, this girl would call my friend to lament she was fed up of the relationship.

A day came, she told him she was quitting the relationship. She did it face-to-face. That is what adults do. She then left his house that day. The guy, obviously distraught, started flooding her phone with text messages which she ignored. At this time, she was updating my friend with full details.

However, two text messages stood out. The first text indicated that he was going to commit suicide. She ignored it too. Later the second one came in which indicated that he was in pains and dying. With doubts and yet not leaving anything to chance, she rushed to his house only to find him bleeding and gushing out whitish stuff from his mouth.

He had drunk the popular pesticide Sniper. She shouted for help and the neighbors came in to find his dying body. They pinned the incidence on her. This is the reason many people don’t help accident victims in Nigeria. Well, back to the story, she advocated for her innocence meanwhile he was being rushed to the hospital. The guy’s family came around and said if the guy dies, they would hold her responsible.

On the third day, he died. The family of the deceased made the arrest but in the process, she made a call to my friend, the narrator of this story. He met her at the police station and they starting discussing the cause of events to the police. The Nigerian police, as usual, don’t really care so much. They didn’t bother to make further inquiries since grieving family members had made an arrest, then they must be right. It was a lot of trouble getting around the case but the girl had told my friend she received a message from the deceased which he (my friend) had warned her not to delete. It was this time that the message was useful. She explained to the police that she had received a text from the deceased. They demanded to see it. In short, that was how the case was dropped.

Presently, she still trying to pick up the pieces of her life because such experience is a traumatizing one.

This is a classic example of how a possessive/controlling relationship could end. What a tragedy! Many people are in these types of relationships. I don’t have a scientific data but I feel ladies are more victims of these types of relationship as men tend to be the controlling ones. How do you manage a break from a controlling/possessive relationship?

A revered policeman once said “you’re your first line of defense”. Your first line of defense in this type of relationship is that you make reliable people aware of the state of the relationship. I said “reliable”. It is not enough to have people told, it is when you inform reliable people. People who could comfort and stand by you through thick and thin. From the story, imagine if my friend had not been reliable or had not stepped up to support her, I’m sure she would be in jail by now—in Nigeria, it doesn’t take much time for that to happen. Also make sure your own family members know about the relationship. NEVER keep a controlling/possessive secret. When its tragedy happens, the police won’t care.

By the time you start noticing some tendencies of maniac controlling, start archiving messages, emails and record conversions during an argument. [b]DO NOT DELETE ANY. [/b]If the lady had deleted those messages she received in the last moments probably due to anger, she would be behind bars. Keep a cool head at this time. On any day of an argument, keep record. If need be keep a diary with dates and locations.

Lastly, I believe most controlling relationships do involve being physical sometimes, report to the police. You decide not to make an arrest but let them be aware of what you are going through. Most importantly, quit the relationship early.

There may be no foolproof approach to managing a possessive relationship but I’m sure some of the above tips will help
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Bitter leaf which is botanically known as Vernonia amygdalina, (family Astaraceae) is a medicinal herb commonly known by many people as bitter leaf. This plant is indigenous to tropical Africa and has enormous medicinal uses and is regarded as a gold mine by many African communities.

HEALTH BENEFITS
Bitter leaf water helps in cleaning up the body including deworming your body system which means you don't need to take drugs to dewarm yourself after drinking Bitter leaf water.

The present of flavonoids in Bitter leaf water Makes it to be powerful in treating malaria.

Bitter leaf juice helps with the treatment of diarrhoea, stomach upset and gastrointestinal tract diseases like dysentery, it's also great for the treatment of intestinal problem and stomach cramps.

Bitter leaf juice is excellent for the Bones & Teeth.
Bitter leaf contains Vitamin C which is a strong antioxidant mineral that has a special role in the body awesomely for the maintenance of bones and teeth as well as prevention of deficiencies associated with this essential vitamin.

Bitter leaf juice is excellent for the treatment of kidney disease and also in treatment of cancer and many more....
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Put on all the armour that God gives you, so that you will be able to stand up against the Devil's evil tricks.
For we are not fighting against human beings but against the wicked spiritual forces in the heavenly world, the rulers, authorities, and cosmic powers of this dark age.
So put on God's armour now!
Then when the evil day comes, you will be able to resist the enemy's attacks; and after fighting to the end, you will still hold your ground.
So stand ready, with truth as a belt tight round your waist, with righteousness as your breastplate, and as your shoes the readiness to announce the Good News of peace.
At all times carry faith as a shield; for with it you will be able to put out all the burning arrows shot by the Evil One. And accept salvation as a helmet, and the word of God as the sword which the Spirit gives you.
Ephesians 6:11‭-‬17
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Be a Warrior
You may be wondering why I am talking about having a warrior mentality in a study on marriage. It’s because I believe we’re at war. Marriages today are falling apart at an alarming rate. Some experts now say that as many as two-thirds of all divorces are initiated by wives.

It’s time we take seriously our job to keep watch over our marriages and our families. And it’s time to stay strong in our faith. Just the other day, I heard about four more broken marriages in my circle of acquaintances. Sadly, the list of casualties keeps growing.

Let’s remember that we’re emphasizing honor—something we find in short supply these days. I’ve discovered that honoring my husband in today’s culture requires something of a fight. It should sober us to realize we have enemies. Not just enemies of our soul, but also of our marriage.

We wage war on several fronts. Some of our fights are against our own selfish nature, our “flesh.” Honoring our husbands can sometimes go against the grain of our flesh. So our battle for a strong marriage is a battle against our own selfish tendencies, such as self-centeredness, pride, disrespect, laziness, and impatience.

We also find ourselves up against a world that degrades and disrespects marriage. God calls us to resist the world’s wrong messages about marriage and even about men—including the generally disrespectful treatment of men in the popular media.

Finally, we wrestle against the spiritual forces of darkness who would seek to divide our home. The devil is an accuser and a divider who’d love nothing more than to break up our marriages. The Bible tells us he “prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour” (1 Peter 5:8 NIV).

Quite simply, the enemy wants your mind and your marriage. Another version of the same verse warns us to “Stay alert!” and “watch out for your great enemy, the devil” (1 Peter 5:8 NLT). We’re to remain ready and prepared to fight.

This reality is a call to prayer. If you were to ask me what’s the single most important thing you can do to strengthen your marriage and to honor your husband, I would simply say this: Pray for him. Pray like you mean it. Pray like you believe prayer works. Pray like you believe God works through your prayers. And make prayer for your husband a priority.

Part of being your husband’s helper is having a warrior mentality that desires to protect your marriage. What are some of the “enemies” that threaten to tear down your marriage?
What weapons do we have to defend ourselves and our marriages?
The single most important thing you can do to strengthen your marriage and honor your husband is to pray for him. How does your husband need your prayers today?
What are some ways you can be more intentional about praying for your husband? Commit to one or two of those ideas and make them a daily practice starting today.
https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2019/07/steps-to-build-up-your-husband-for-your.html?m=1

Does it mean vulture meat as sold in Nigeria market as chicken meat or ?
Am confused here o, life don't have duplicate.
I can stop eating anything chicken that I didn't kill by myself.
When the hunters get the vulture after it has died with the help of their concoction, what else do they do with it?
Am beginning to detaste frozen chicken because of this.

So many people has been faced with the question, "when is the best time for Marriage?"

To so many people, once he's up to 25 years, automatically he's now an adult, for attaining that age, he is ripe for Marriage.

It's obvious that age doesn't necessarily qualify an individual for Marriage but Maturity does.

Maturity is not just about being physically matured. For instance, huge or tall or number of age you have attained doesn't really mean the you are ripe for Marriage.

The best time for Marriage starts when individual is mentally matured.
Financially, can he stand the financial challenge in marriage without on daily basis crying for help to come from his family or from his in-laws.

Maturity has a lot to do with the way we deal with challenges/or conflicts either personally or family related.
It also has to do with how you plan things, for instance, daily, weekly and monthly personal activities.
The thoughts and irresistible responsibility to provide for the family. Of course even if your wife has a job, the responsibility to provide for the family still rest on your shoulder.
Maturity has a lot to do with how you handle..
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I ask God from the wealth of his glory to give you power through his Spirit to be strong in your inner selves, and I pray that Christ will make his home in your hearts through faith. I pray that you may have your roots and foundation in love, so that you, together with all God's people, may have the power to understand how broad and long, how high and deep, is Christ's love. Yes, may you come to know his love — although it can never be fully known — and so be completely filled with the very nature of God.
Amen.
Ephesians 3:16‭-‬19
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Love Lives Forever!!!!
God wants you to live in the moment. He wants you to savor every minute you have with your loved ones on this planet, but he also wants you to live with an eternal perspective.

I was watching a football game recently on DVR. I knew the outcome of the game because I’d seen the final score on the news before I watched the replay. My team won! Knowing I already had the victory changed the entire experience of watching the game.

As I watched the game unfold, there were times my team was losing. I started thinking to myself, Oh, no! We’re behind! We won’t be able to come back. This isn’t going to end well.

Then I would come to my senses and realize, Wait! The end is already decided. Victory is certain. We’ve already won!

When the opposition would score, it wasn’t pleasant to watch, but I could smile because I knew the final outcome.

You and I are living lives full of ups and downs. There are days that seem like a victory, and other days we feel defeated. On the hard days it’s easy to look around and become discouraged. It’s easy to feel like things are never going to work out.

I want you to be reassured with the truth of God’s eternal promises. The end of the story is already written, and we win!

Jesus has claimed victory. Through faith in him, we can rest assured that he will set all things right and make all things new. We’ll get to celebrate with him and with our loved ones forever.

Love isn’t a story with a happy ending. Love is a story with no ending!

When we choose to love people the way Jesus loves people, the world will change. Don’t treat others the way they treat you; treat others the way God treats you. Embrace the love of Jesus in your own life, and then model the example of Jesus in your relationships. Jesus changed the world with love, and he wants you and me to continue in this. He wants to give you a new heart and a new life.

When you step from this life into eternity, love will be all that matters. Live your life with a heart of love. You’ll be amazed at what will happen as a result.

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TheOdd1sOut:
I used to think Nigerian girls will love you if you love them back. I believed in this cause when I was young, my older brothers and nephews usually told me that love conquers all. And their love escapades shows that (an uncle of mine married a girl he had dated since JS1).
But alas, my eyes are open. Although what I've said above is true, it doesn't work for the current generation of girls we have now. The previous generation followed that cliche, but the present generation doesn't.
All they want is money and they will give you mechanical love in return.
IM NEVER DATING A GIRL FOR LOVE AGAIN. ALL IM GOING FOR NOW IS THE KNACKS AND SEX AND PLEASURE.
Date a Nigerian girl for "love" and watch as she frustrates you.
Truely....
Romance is sweet with Finances.

*Swallows Red Pill*

Love is a beautiful thing, for the fact that it's a beautiful thing doesn't mean it will be all Rossy.
There's no way everyone that has come into your life will love you.
Some came to to teach you the ugly side of love.
Some came to show you the color of love (if truly love has color)
Some people are in your life to make you feel love but can't show you love.
While wondering in the world of love, you will then meet the special someone.
The person that knows the best button to press and make you happy.

The fact that you have encountered bad girls in your relationship doesn't mean that every girl is bad, the same goes to the guys.
I will like you to know that there's is different between love, lust and infatuation.
You know which one that is best for you and you will get it as your heart desires but make sure the happiness in it is greater than the sadness.
If you want to be lusting after girls, it's possible but you can't find true love and true love can't find you either.
(Yes there's true love)

You can be loved by someone special.
Someone, somewhere in your street is Wishing if you can give her a moment just for her to express her feelings for you.

Open your heart, love is knocking on the door of your your.
Love is a beautiful thing.
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So many times, individuals don't know that the food we eat has a lot to do with our fertility, be it a man or woman, the kind of food we eat has a lot to do with our fertility.
The following food will boast your fertility.

1. Beans lentils and pulses provide an excellent source of fibre, protein and other nutrients vital to fertility.

2. Berries, citrus and dried fruits like dates, figs and raisins are an important addition to the diet during preconception.

3. Eggs, blue cheese goats’ milk and plain yoghurt with lives cultures provide many...

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“Life is busy, and love struggles at high speeds. If it doesn’t have time to take root, it turns to lust. I’ve learned we need to periodically reset the speed of our clock, because the best love is slow.” Roger Thompson, We Stood Upon Stars

Have you read the “love chapter” in the Bible lately? It sounds a lot like Roger’s stories.



This chapter, 1 Corinthians 13, is written by the Apostle Paul who was sort of a coach to the early Christian churches. 1 Corinthians 13 is a section of one of the letters Paul wrote to the church in Corinth.






Because of its location and large population, ancient Corinth became known as a destination for sex. It even got its own Greek word korinthiazomai translated as Corinthianize which means to practice sex. It was the hook-up app of the ancient world.



Basically, Paul wrote this “love chapter” to a group of people who lived in a culture where quick sex was trying to replace true love. In other words, this love letter is exactly what the world needs now.



Listen, sex is great. It’s an incredible gift from God for marriage. God knew we’d start looking forward to sex when we were young, and He asked us to save it for marriage. It’s how families get started.

It feels good. It keeps us close, encourages vulnerability, helps us to do dishes, communicate, plan dates, listen better, choose kindness, and so many other things. But, in an entire chapter about love written to a sex crazed culture, it’s not even mentioned.



Here’s what I think Paul, the coach, wanted Corinth (and probably us) to know. Sex is not a destination. It’s definitely not the destination of love. It’s not the vehicle either.

No, sex is just one of God’s many gifts we can share inside a loving marriage. If we live like it’s the destination, we’ll miss out on a much bigger adventure inside the heart of a woman. Even more, we’ll miss out on the true destination of love God Himself.

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