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1. It makes you religious:
Oh god, oh my god,
2. It gives you your first singing lesson: mmmmm, owwwww, awwshh.
3. It makes you a natural competitor:
Fast, faster....
4. U announce ur own obituary:
Yeee ah! You're killing me baby...
I'm dying, oh l'm finished, gosh! I'm dead
5. Some babes suddenly turn terrorist:
Scatter it, destroy it, dont have mercy just tear it.
6. It makes you respectful:
Give it to me pls, pls I'm begging pls, pls don't stop.
7. It brings out the loyalty in u:
I luv u.. I miss you, U are the best,
You are the owner, no one else, if I no love u I'm doomed.
8. It turns some into beggers:
Yea pls dont stop, dont stop just continue pls.
9. You go come dey answer the call of your ancestors wey no one else go hear except you:
Yes I'm coming, I'm cooooomming, l'm cooooooooooming ooooooooo
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DaySpringer:
I feel that many guys that are pretending can always fake all of these things you have mentioned above.
Yoruba girls are especially known to be good at number 2.

Is there anything you can add that will help a lady to determine he is for real that is so uncommon that she must definitely believe it?
or conversely what can a lady spot that is a bad sign that his man is not for her, especially when he has otherwise been good so far.

Thousands of men can pretend.
But thousands are also real too.
For a real man that is serious and want to take his woman to the alter.
1) He protects the woman in the presence of family and friends, no matter what happen he will always protect her but can caution her when they are together in private.
2) He advises his woman when she does something wrong. He will not raise his voice on her neither raise his hands on her.
3) He will always like to hear her opinion in every discussion. Not that the guy can't take decision without the girl but because he values her opinion as well as he values her presence.
4) He will not keep secrets for her, not interested in another lady, despite how endowed the other girl in the street maybe, his woman is okay for him.
5) Appreciate her in everything she does, and also encourages her when things go wrong.
6) He will hardly keep records of her faults, and he is not ready to use her past against her.
Not that he doesn't care about her faults but because he feels that the future with her is greater than their past life.

aysnoopy:
we had sex and I'm d one that disvirgin her.. I'm 101% sure of that.
I just don't know y I keep remembering and it keep hurting me.

You have to Forgive her and then make efforts to forget the memory of what you saw on her phone.
FORGIVENESS first.

Lemskey:
Everyday,we guys and babes keep blaming and abusing one another here and other platforms.

Question 1:Guys,when u see a babe u like and u approach her for a relationship,what do u actually want from her?
Is it just as a sex partner,love or for marriage.

Question 2:Babes,when u accept a guy's proposal,what are ur intentions?
Is it for just the financial benefit,sex or marriage.

Why I ve asked d above questions is b'cos both guys and babes want to outsmart each other.

1)The guys want sex b'4 they spend or might not even spend at all b'cos they don't want to feel the pain,regret and agony of not having sex after spending on the babe and if d girl shld begin to make demands b'4 sex,the guys will tag her a gold digger.

2)The babes on their part too are not very willing to give sex without at least getting some financial benefits b'cos they don't want to feel the pain,regret & agony of giving their bodies 2 the guys for sex,used & dumped without any benefit or the guys spending on them.And if the guys refuse to spend on them b'4 sex,the guy is tagged a playboy and stingy.

So,at the end of the day,there is nothing like "I LOVE U" or I WILL MARRY U"on both sides.Na big lie
Both parties ve ulterior motive,want benefits and none wants to loose out.

So,in my own opinion,instead of abusing ourselves as the guys call d babes gold diggers,while the babes call d guys stingy & wicked,let both parties face d fact,simply go straight to d point & negotiate at the time of meeting.

The babe shld name her price,while the guy negotiates with her.
In summary;

Guys are for sex

Babes are for the money

We shld stop deceiving ourselves.

U can state ur opinion though.

I disagree with you.
There is nothing to negotiate here.
Any man that wants a girlfriend because of sex should go to prostitution joint and get one for himself.
We need sex, we are not spirit neither is our body firewood.
When a guy and a lady in Relationship only thinks about sex that means they are not ready to make things work out for them.
Once a woman can't support her man emotionally, spiritually, financially and morally at least from 4 months in the relationship, please leave her, she is empty and can't offer you anything.
Don't keep her because of sex because a man can get sex anywhere from any woman he wants it with.

annolomy:
i have a strong urge for sex for my cousin,am a boy of fifteen year and my cousin is three year older than me,she lives with her family in the same compound with my family but different apartment,any time this particular girl will go and bath in the bathroom,i will follow her without him knowing,i will hide in the back of the bathroom and peep through a small hole to see her naked body,anytime i see her nipple i always loose control of my self,then i will hold my dick and masturbate till i cum sperm all over my body,pls i need an advice,because i have began to develop some bad thought in my mind,like raping her some day,i don't know what is happening to me right now.

I can understand your challenge,
I pray for you this moment,
Receive the grace of God to conquer all your emotional challenge, you will not lack the wisdom to think out Solution, in Jesus Christ mighty name, Amen.

Stop been close to her after all you guys are different gender so stop been close to her.
You can't handle Relationship issues right now base on your age, I would have advised you to get a girlfriend but hold on for that for now because you are not emotionally Matured.
Please occupy your mind with something else, read books, think of engaging yourself in any of the sports you enjoy, read your Bible and pray for God grace.
Stop masturbating because you are destroying your soul.
Stop watching pornographic videos and pictures you always watch, is one of the Genesis of your challenge.

Katier00:
Seun please we need valid identity card before someone can be a registered members. Na all these toddlers dey spoil this Nairaland that took us years to build

Imagine if this boy is in anywhere related to you and he suddenly open up something like this to you, will you chase him out of your site or talk to him.
He is facing emotional challenge which if not carefully taken care of will destroy him and the name of the family.
He wants advise, so advise him and don't chase him away.

annolomy:
am not lying,i know what i am saying ,i need a solution to my problem because am tired of doing it

Thanks to God you know what you are doing is evil.
You can stop it if you really want to stop it.
The fact remains that you watch pornographic videos and pictures and that's what makes your mind to start admiring your cousin.
Ask God to Forgive you and give you his grace to stay away from the act.
Stop been too close to her, stop monitoring her movement in the compound so you will have nothing to do with when she wants to take her bath or not.
Raping her will disgrace you and even drag your family on the public.
Go out with friends, read books, find something awesome to occupy your mind with than monitoring her move.

The best way to deal with this is simple.
As a man, after using the toilet, whether you just finished urinating or poo, carefully wash your penis.
Wash the penis thoroughly.
Do it every day and it will become part of you.
Your penis can never smell bad, it will be neat and your boxer too can't smell either because the little drop that would have drop on your boxer after urinating were washed out.
Whenever you come back from work, while bathing, take time to wash the genital area.
Keeping it clean is great and will always make your woman want to have you or play with it because ladies likes playing with penis if you give her the chance.

They were busy watching people that are naked and playing with their body so the electricity got angry and burnt their room

Iberiberism governor killed IMO State before going out

aysnoopy:
Good morning good people of Nairaland. please don't mind my grammatical errors coz I'm not that good.
I'm 28yrs, working and I had a gf of 21yrs. we are very good together and I love her so much. we started dating a year ago and I told I what can make me breakup with her which is cheating. she swear never to cheat on me coz she loves me. (she's a virgin when I met her).
but after 6months of dating, I suspect she's still attached to her ex.. they are very close. I warned her but she said she'll rather break up with me than to cheat. she swear never to do that. I accepted but I keep watching and been sensitive.
fast-forward to last month, I checked her fone for the 1st time. she don't expect it. I notice she's eager to get her fone back but I don't care. I checked and I notice she and her ex are having romantic affairs (no sex though) ..
I confronted her but ever since den she kept begging. her friends keep begging.
I'm a type that if u cheat on me, no matter how much I love u, d love will dropped totally. one of my ex did same, despite our relationship is 4 years, I broke up with her.
she's so afraid and keep saying she can't leave me Coz I'm d one that disvirgin her, but I wish to leave.
she said she never mean to do all those bull'shit with her ex, but I let her know that she still have feelings for him.
each time I remember, I felt hurt and wish to quit. whenever she come to my place, she'll beg from morning till evening but that doesn't move me.
please good people of Nairaland. what can I do?
if you're on my shoe, what will be ur judgment.
I've never accept cheat with any of my ex but this particular girl keep apologizing.

The worst mistake your girlfriend is making right now is that she didn't create boundaries between her ex and her new relationship with you.
Boundaries helps us to control our emotions and protect our interest in our new relationship or Marriage.
She still have feelings for her ex. Maybe her ex was the cause of the break up in their formal Relationship but now want her back.
Forgiving her is very crucial so you will stop hurting yourself.
Within your mind, do you think she's the kind of the lady you can stay with based on what you have discovered about her?
Do you think she's real and truthful with you?
How sure are you that she is a virgin or is it that she doesn't want to have sex with you?
To find out more about her, you should be close with her best friend, even if she doesn't share secret with you, there ones she shares with her best friend.
Relationships doesn't work overnight, you have to nurture it if you guys really want to be together.

Marry her oo
Not after fucking her several times with different styles you want to leave her for another guy.
Please marry her

telkevog:
They are only where the world is gradually heading. One day, it will become generally acceptable by even some of those who condemn it now.

The world today doesn't have anything against the women that dress unclad in the name of fashion.
I wonder why they condem rape and take it as punishable offense.

geadom5:
Ladies will hide inside their rooms for hours dressing up, only to come out naked.

I now ask, could this be fashion??

Is fashion.
Believe me that she's single so she's advertising her market should someone is willing to have them.

The girl is too young to be in a relationship.
She is not considered an adult yet which is 18 years and above so she is very young to be in a relationship not matter how endowed she may may be.
The parents has failed in the part of parental hood simply on the fact that they did not give her sex education which would have nurtured her mind and then know when to enter into relationship.
The parents also failed woefully for not been concerned about the lifestyle of their daughter in school.
Most importantly, the fact that your son or your daughter is in school, either boding or not, no matter their level of education, make him or her your very close friend.
Friendship makes two hearts to read each other emotionally.
Friendship will help you to know when the person emotional life is fallen apart.
We can all avoid or stop our loved ones from committing suicide but that is only when we do the right thing expected of us as a parents or guadian.
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You mean your number can shock someone

I will blame the parents or the guardian that came out with this boy to this place.
Giving this boy this chance to do this is a dangerous decision made by the person.

This is pure bad parenting, tomorrow when the boy makes love with his sister they will blame it on the devil.
Parents are the causes of the sexual saga the society is experiencing today because of the in ability to give their children sex education.
If parents can stand up for their responsibility, our society can't be messed up again.

Is clear that vagina odor and itching is common in women than men that mostly faces itching in their genital area.
This infection can be contacted through sex and also when you have a deep kiss with the person carrying it. (i.e orally)
You may have been taking drugs for so many times now but you are still facing the challenge.

These infection may be in the form of rashes in your vagina and for men, is usually itching you in your penis.
What you are facing is known as YEAST INFECTION.

Here is the permanent home remedy for it and you will be free from the embarrassment.
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The manner has fallen.
Nobody can reject manner so I will not reject it.

In the recent time, the inability of some men to satisfy their woman in bed has become a serious issue and has made so many Marriage to crash.

No matter how you love your woman, if you don't do her well in bed, there are some respect you will be losing out from her.
Some women can speak up that you are not doing her well in the bedroom while there are some that can't say anything about it so you will not see her as a wore.
In all these, the worst for you as a man is when another man start oiling the engine of your woman for you, then you have lost it all.

To end up the embarrassment, these are what you should do right in your home.

Get the following seven (7) fruits and roots ready in your home.
1) Cucumber - 6cm
2) Watermelon - 50g
3) Ginger - 50g
4) Garlic - 20g
5) Date - 20g
6) Tiger nuts - 50gm
7) Avocado pear. (Any size of it you prefer, either the...
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1. God bless all the girls who kept their pregnancies and had children out of wedlock; you are just the very few amongst many who stood bold enough to do what is right with what went wrong !
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Don't let any man undermine you because you have a child. Please don't lower your standard to get such men.
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A child born out of wedlock is not a curse; mostly it means that the lady was honest and bold enough to withstand the 'shame' and have the baby.
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2. There are way more babies aborted than the number of children born by bold and honorable ladies whose honour we no longer see and whose future we sometimes feel must suffer, because they have had a child.
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3. If you can't marry an honorable single mother, perhaps extend your test; check for all who ever aborted a baby and screen them off your list.
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4. So now, a man who has been sleeping with girls, giving them contraceptives and paying for abortions has the guts to stigmatize a single mother and act like she is not worthy of marriage. How stupid!
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5. One day we will all realize that there is no bastard. We just have one irresponsible man and a responsible lady who decided to keep the child and take responsibility.
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6. I rather go for her whose past is apparent in a child, whose moral power to take responsibility is obvious and whose strength of courage is typified in a child she could have flushed out of history than the one whose past is concealed and whose strength is more in hiding the truth.
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7. Dear single mother, your only sin was fornication. Having the child wasn't a sin! Thank you for not joining many others who committed fornication then committed murder.
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8. Before you judge a 'single mum', let's have your sexual bill of activities please!
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9. God is not mad at you because you had a child out of wedlock. His forgiveness covers the wrong that happened; His plan covers the child that was born; His purpose still includes you.
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10. So what about Rahab and all other babes that God forgave and gave a destiny worthy of biblical mention? You think being a single mum matches these women who were purely women of loosed virtues until Jesus encountered them? Do not condemn what God has blessed !

For dose who will ask if I am a single dad, No I am not, but my love for children have no limits.
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