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FisifunKododada:
I neva understand the men that find pregnant women attractive...its something that I cannot stand.

Fact has it that making love to a woman during pregnancy helps her very well during delivering.
Not only that they need sex but because is good for both the baby and the woman.
Some men don't like making love with a pregnant wife regarding the shape of her body.
Some don't like it due to the fear that he doesn't want anything that will happen to the baby and not to talk of sex being the cause.

Individuals differs but making love to your pregnant woman is advisable, majorly because of her delivering.

bluebay:
Thank you very much. I do love her but it’s fading away due to those character of hers. I now derive pleasure giving her money to go visit her parents so I’ll be all alone at home. My family already asking questions of her always going to see her parents almost everyb2 weeks and they aren’t happy with it but they don’t k ow I’m behind it just because I wan peace of mind like I am right now. All alone at home.

It's alright.
You can now look for someone that will fill in the vacuum in your heart so the memories will not hurt you.
Congratulations in advance.

Katier00:
Lack of communication. I can't communicate my utmost need or desire to my partner

Your challenge is that you are feeling insecure with him.
You think you are not fully accepted by him.
You think he doesn't really love you.
Is he open minded?
Does he have the qualities you desire in the man you want to spend the rest of your life with?
Does he care and give you the attention you want as his woman?
Insecurity will make you not to enjoy the union as you are supposed to.
Insecurity will steal the love you have for him and keep it hiding and this will affect the greatness of your union with him.
If he has the qualities of the man you want to spend your life with, please give him the chance to proof it to you so you can enjoy him.

Insecurity also some time is caused by the ugly experience of past relationships especially when you give in everything for the Relationship to work out well for you guys but later were rejected by him.
Be open with him, make him to see and understand that you mean well for the Relationship and you will enjoy him.
Let's discuss

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bluebay:
Good morning
And thanks for the respond . Actually, she already have a son for me and am planning for the marriage this November but to be honest, am feeling discourage for her character . Am a Yoruba boy and she’s Urhobo, Am from a polygamous home and I must tell you that the second wife, which happened to be the urhobo ruined the family and brought my father the level he is now and that’s what made my Mother dislikes the urhobo. At first, my mother rejected and forbided me from having an urhobo lady but it took me a whole
Year to convince her . But now, am beginning to see similar character in her for she easily raises her voice at me, she hisses at me over little issues, she barely listen to what I instruct her to do but rather, do what pleases her . I’ve been tempted several times to let my hands on her but I just ignore and this makes me a weaker man everyday to the extend if I instruct her to do something, she just shouts at me and I keep quiet like a bitch. Please help .

The disability I found in your union with her is home training.
The fact that your Dad married urhobo and she is not okay for the family doesn't mean that every woman from that particular area is bad.
The disability I found in your union with her, like I said earlier is home training.
She lack that due to how she was brought up in her family.

Solution.
Marriage is more than giving birth to children.
Marriage is more than having sex.
Marriage is more than holding hands together while walking down the street.
Marriage is more than eating from the same plate as husband and wife.
Marriage is more of friendship, more of heart to heart talk which brings the couple together on daily basis.
Marriage is more of respect, humility, honor to each other and then love.
From what you have seen in her recently regarding her character, do you think you can cope?
Do you think you can endure?
Raising your hands against your woman brings you down to nothing, it will drag your respect on the express road of Lagos so please don't fight her, I like yourself control in that.
If you think you can't cope, then she should excuse you, i know you love her but marriage is a world of it's own and life of it's own. Is not just about today but in the next few years to come, will you regret getting married to her or will you be happy you married her?
If you think you will regret based on her character now, then please let her go because a broken Relationship is far more better than broken Marriage.
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They have failed as husband and wife.
Yes, to make love with your partner should not have timetable but some respect and decency needs to be applied.
This is where Maturity comes in, for the fact that the lady has breast and hairy vagina doesn't make her Matured and also that the man has penis and hairs around it doesn't make him Matured.
It's obvious that some level of maturity is lacking in them regarding the fact that they would have waited for them to get home before thinking about sex.
As a married couple, their home is the best place to make love and not in their car.
Sex is good but some level of Maturity and respect needs to be applied

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bluebay:
My woman is stubborn barely listen to simple instructing but rather offend you and say Sorry .

For how long has she been doing it?
I have heard people saying that "you will know the true nature or characters of your partner when they're angry or when there's disappointment"
She maybe doing it to be sure of who you are and how you react to situations.

If none of the above, call her attention when you guys are alone, with love voice, try let her know the danger involved when she defaults your instructions, look into her eyes like you do when you want to appreciate her love, as her to tell you what she's facing emotionally, make her to understand why she should share them with you.

Don't be harsh on her, don't fight or abuse her.
Her imperfections makes you perfect and your imperfections make her to be perfect somewhere too.
No man is perfect

Let's discuss

hakeem4:
read on natural selection. There are more evidence for natural selection than for creationism

I think your profession is decieving you, that's if you are a scientist, if not then your Brian has been formatted and something need to be done urgently.
Remove God from your life and you will become lifeless.
Jesus Christ, the son of God is the only way.

hakeem4:
gods word didn’t make me. We are all evidence of evolution by natural selection

Please can you prove it?
I need proof if you are real

hakeem4:
Well if maraji opinion makes Muslim commit genocide, then it’s not maraji’s fault. It just shows that Islam is not a religion of peace !

But this doesn’t make Jesus the way also!

The only way is science!

Who made science?
How did science came into existence?
How was the world created?
Everything on Earth including the existence of man were made through the words of God.
Who you are today is not because you are handsome or because you are smarter than your equals but because of the mercy of God shown through the death of Jesus Christ on the cross of Calvary.
Jesus is the only way.

Do you know of a marriage that has withstood the test of time, lasting forty years or longer? Do you know a couple that has been together so long they have taken on each other’s characteristics? Have you heard of a spouse passing away, only to have the healthy spouse fall into decline soon after? The two had become one.

In Ephesians 5:31, Paul quotes Genesis 2:24, explaining God’s design for marriage from the beginning: a covenant relationship that reflects Jesus and his love for the church. Jesus laid down his life for us in love, and he asks us to do likewise.

It can be easy to read this portion of Paul’s letter to the Ephesians and hone in on what our spouse should or should not do. But his point was not to give us ammunition for judgment. Paul begins by calling spouses to “submit to one another out of reverence for Christ” (Ephesians 5:21). There are no qualifying conditions not even to submit only if one’s spouse does the same.

When we marry, we enter into a covenant relationship. Each spouse has a role in this holy union, but if we become more focused on our unmet needs or our struggles, the union suffers. Marriages impacted by disability may be more susceptible to having unclear roles, and...
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UyaiIncomparabl:
The topic is self-explainatory I assume.

I will be clocking 35 years old next month, on the 21st, so time isn't on my side any longer. I'm so tired as to the threats friends and my parents have been dishing out to me recently. I really think I need to settle down. I'm a very fair skinned beautiful young woman, age is just but a number, you should know that. I'm petite and a bit bulky at my bossom region, not so bulky though (smirks). I'm highly intelligent and in dire need of someone who's highly intelligent than I am. I'm very Sapiosexual.

For starters, I'd appreciate if you're dark skinned, but if you're a little on the light side, I might consider you but I'll appreciate better that you will not be as light skinned as I am. You must be very rich, please. If your parents are also rich, then that's an added advantage to your CV. You mustn't be ugly. You must be very neat. No short men please. 6ft and above, but not too tall either.

Ages 31-37. You must be based in Canada or the USA, having a citizenship of either countries is a very sacrosanct advantage. You know how Nigeria is these days. I'm tired of the stress it gives me, I really don't like stress. I'm too soft.

I admire charismatic men, so if you think you fit my profile, do not hesitate to hit me up.

I repeat, only if you fit my profile. I don't want kids sending me mails. I'll be irate if this happens, and hell usually let loose when I'm very irate.

Nairalanders, I'm tensed please. Make this easy for me, and you too of course. Let's be positive.

Amuocha, I believe you can call on your master to take this to the front page, thanks.

Lalasticlala. Mynd44. Farano.

I understand your situation and wish you the best of luck.
You have made it clear what you want and where you want it too.
What matters most is that you have those qualities you expect from the man you are wishing to spend the rest of your life with.
Please understand that I'm not under rating you, I'm only concern on how you guys will enjoy your Union when you finally meet each other.

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dirtydiva:
Maybe your mind moved faster than you can ever imagine, hv seen my cousin sister of dsame age with yours just rubbing cream when I enter to deliver msg to her, yes I saw everything but not moved despite the fact that we are far from each other and only sees on Christmas period. Learn to control your mind and your body will follow

There's boundaries between you guys couple with the self-control you have, that's you didn't feel anything when you saw those charming things in her body.

PortHardcore:
Pressed? If you mean if she really had to go,it never look that way.
Im 28 she 23.
There is another bathroom but its further away,this bathroom is close to her room.
Nothing special about the bathroom.

We just cousins,i never grew up with her but i know her for 12 years.
I know all her sisters/brothers and she know all my siblings.
We close, very friendly.

No weird history,just cousins.LOL!

Is not advisable for you guys to make use of the bathroom at the same this is because of gender difference.
So many cousin that are having sex to each other today, it all started one day and not overnight.
Be mindful of her closeness with you, is normal to be close to each other as relatives but you should apply caution.
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Your man doesn't really like the way you cook it.
He prefers the one you buy outside for him.
Have you thought about the difference between your own and that of the woman he always ask you to buy her food for him?

Your colleagues maybe enjoying your food, maybe because you give it to them free or the friendship involved.
The fact remains that we all have different ways of understanding taste.
What I mean is that, you should try to understand how your husband understand the taste of your food, what you don't use that the woman outside is using.
He may decide not to tell you so you will not feel embarrassed or inferior to him.

Make findings to know what makes him prefer the mama put ewa than the one you cook.

thesicilian:
Who remembers this song Iya Basira by Styl Plus?

People, people make una come oo
Iya Basira wan kill me eeeehhh

DaySpringer:
These are very very good points that you have raised. It is going to be very hard for a man to continuously display these traits and at the end of the day be a playa

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Babygal2020:
Good morning NL, pls I urgently need a Christian Marriage Counselor. I'm about losing my marriage!

Can I get the full gist?
This will make me to know where to start from, at least something transpired, so let me know what it is.

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You care for her, you give money to offset bills for the house.
You bought her car, thanks to God you have the money but have you thought about drilling her well in bed?
Women love sex more than men but sometimes they don't speak out about it.
One of the reasons why some men lost their ground in marriage is when he is not giving his wife good sex.
When you guys were dating, she maybe nursing it in her mind that you will Bleep her better when you finally marry her.
If you look carefully, you will see that someone else is giving her what you couldn't give her in bed.
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friendlyadvice:
Also rub deodorant on your dick and balls

The penis gets irretating over time because of that.
Keeping it clean, shave it when the hair has grown so it will not breed fungi and bacteria.

When you care for the penis, you will enjoy sex.
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Katier00:
i am not chasing him away. If he opens up to me, i will give him some advice but coming here to say this, at 15 tells you a lot about his personality. I am a mother and I know when a child struggling and op is not. Take your memory back to when you were 15 and relate with this story

Yea,
By then I don't know anything about girls, I was told that if you approach a girl she will be pregnant so I was afraid of getting a girl pregnant.

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Lemskey:
The questions I ve for u are;
1)The relationship u expect to get emotional, financial ,spiritual and moral satisfaction, do you intend to marry the girl?What is d aim of the relationship?If it is marriage,I agree with u but if not I disagree b'cos d babe has no reason to be dedicated to the relationship but focused on what she can get in the immediate.

2)When u say financial satisfaction,do u expect a 9ja babe whom does not expect to be ur wife to spend money on u?

3)Why are u not ready to give her the same support, especially financially?

4)Moreover,most of our acclaimed decent 9ja babes are not different from the prostitutes u see on d street or brothels,just that instead of going public,they ve domesticated their's.

When a woman spreads her legs for a man for financial returns,what do u call that?U think this generation of 9ja girls will open it for u if u ve nothing to offer or if they don't see any financial potentials in d immediate in u?

I don't have anything to do with a lady if is not to nurture the Relationship for Marriage.

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