₦airaland Forum

TheKingIsHere:
Tell ur goddess to return the brand new SUV that she stole from him. She can come and pick up this second hand trash

KillAlabi2021:
Making love to a prego
Is my forte

frosbel2:
Keep believing this CONMAN, if you like don't dig yourself out of your hole.

Jesus this , Jesus that - nonsense.

You think when God was making man and woman he added the BRAIN for decoration ? Use your brain and skills and support from others to move forward and believe God to open doors and help you prosper.

Adeboye is a motivational speaker who has perfected the art of religious scamming and in the process
CONNED millions out of their hard earned money.

Redirect your resources and BRAIN for success.

Princeofasia:
This has nothing to do with the husband and wife fight na. It looks more like a cult wahala. Them Don dey find am. It's just a coincidence

AljaanIVQ007:
what's the essence of maturity, if they can only keep birthdays but not marriage?

MartinsD12:
Because the man no get money and she is the bread winner we no go hear word women self are not supportive at all, u no ur man no get and u get why not fix him up, help the family and not bragging and feeling like almighty over that

kotv:
He looks about the s
Same age as his wife. Isn't he twice her age?

Horus:
Birth control and abortion are integral elements of a white sponsored genocide directed against black africans.

The UN and its “partners” in Africa are demanding stepped up efforts to brainwash African women into wanting fewer children.

Also on the agenda: more Western-funded “family-planning” and “reproductive-health” schemes to reduce the number of Africans on
the planet to levels considered “desirable” by the UN

Eze2000:
Who told you they are docile? Do know how fast a mob beheads thief down there? Imo is home to the most intelligent and strong-willed people in West Africa and i kid you not. These people can be quite smart, men and women both! There is a very good reason the ministry of education in Nigeria places federal exam cut off marks for imo indigenes as the highest. Please go and check. It has not changed in 40 years!

In 1989, Imo cut off mark in Federal common entrance was 750. None of the northern states had cut off a mark of up 400. Niger state, home of IBB, then president, had 320

I sat for Federal common entrance that year so i know. It just gets worse with time.

Ojukwu is from Imo. And technically, imo never fell during the civil war. It was the stronghold of Biafra.

Dpharisee:
How come witches and Witchcraft are not found in places like Lekki, Asokoro, Maitama, Shell Camp, Banana Island only in poverty stricken slums, perhaps witches abhor constant electricity, clean running water, plenty money in the account, Ferrari and G-Wagons

ednut1:
People like this deserve to be killed and fed to the pigs. Useless mofo. He earns 6 figure salary e no get mortgage and car repayments ba. Idiot

freshvine:
you know we're mouthed. maybe she badmouth her hubbly and he lost his cool. POOR GUY!

couple with the fact she is lazy. i cant totally depend on a man

amakadihot87:
.....i wount comment on your mum cos she is not my mate....but your sis ,do you think she is in anyway in the same class with chioma's beauty?

wiloy2k8:
Sharap

Cordis92:
I am not trying to be insensitive to what happened to you, but you looked for it.

How can you be advising someone who has taken alcohol and upon that throwing your bread on him?
If you had not pushed the advice, nor threw your bread on him, he would not had brutalized you.

Next time, know when to advise him, possibly when you are on bed and talk to him subtly.

Pray and learn to be patient. Avoid anything that would cause problem, get something doing and take care of your son, with time he will change if God wills. You want justice to leave him and go where?

baddosky1:
Don't mind the yeye woman. She can't beg him for sex but she wants to go and do it outside the confines of marriage. Mtchewww!

jerflakes:
No you cannot, you deepshit

Do you know the meaning of: for better for worse?

benjibabs:
1.) did you really tell your wife you will not discuss the subject again after trying twice? So, how would you resolve the issue na? Oh, you will grab one of your side chicks already inviting you, Shey? Wrong move! You will only end up destroying your home. Biko, don't do it.
2.) I don't completely agree with dumping your female friends just because you got married; some friends are worth keeping. However, those ones that are inviting you to bed, you need to get rid of them double fast. They are temptation and trouble waiting to happen. If you keep communicating with them, it will happen one day. Those ones with good heads on their shoulders, make them your family friends. Never keep female friends who your wife is not friend with. I'm talking of close friends and not acquaintances.
3.) I read a book where the author describes the mind of woman as a stack of books and the mind of man as a set of books in a shelf. If a woman desires to read the book at the bottom of the stack, she will have to remove all the books on top of it to reach it. For man, he can simply reach and pull any book to read any time. In a nutshell, if your wife has anything on her mind bothering her and se.x has been pushed to the bottom of the stack of issues, you will have to help her clear the issues before se.x can happen. We men can keep issues aside and enjoy good se.x and tackle issues later. So, open that channel of communication on the issue again and get to the bottom of the issue. Don't be too quick to say she has no issues because you provide everything she needs. A lot of times it is not about needs. You will be surprise what you will turn up. Most of the time, it is something simple but overlooked.
4.) Men are visual, while women are emotional. No matter how tired you are, if your wife walks around in se.xy lingerie, you will respond and perform. For women, visuals alone will not do it. You need to press your wife's emotional botton to get your desired response. It seems you have chores and other distractions under control, but are you engaging her? Do you guys spend time together before retiring to the bedroom after work ? Read Onegai's response again about spending time with your wife. Don't ask for se.x, create the atmosphere for it.
5.) Your wife's attention is divided when the kids start to roll in. It will only get "worse" with increasing number of children. Your alone time with your wife will be reduced to almost nothing; cuddling in front of TV while watching a good movie will disappear, se.x anytime and anywhere in the house will suddenly go extinct
etc. Onegai wrote about kids timeline and what to expect in her second response. Read it again and that will give you a good picture what your wife might be going through since you mentioned you have kids. Taking care of children is a FULL TIME job. I doff my hat to all mothers in the house; may God bless their efforts on their children. With children around, you have to make conscious effort to plan for se.x, otherwise it will be left in the back burner, either by one or both of you.

Now, go and put together a creative strategy to get enough of the "Wetin call" to your satisfaction. And, while at it, get rid of all those side chicks you are using as safety net.

ghostwritter:
The woman is so lucky, if any woman ever try that sh1t with me ehn, i will strangle her to death in her sleep.
Opening ur toto for another man?