Business › Re: A Loggerhead With My Fiance Over Joint Account by AloneTK: 3:20pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
It is very possible.
Each of you should and MUST continue to run your respective private accounts.
Decide on a fixed (equal) amount that you both will be putting in the joint account (whether weekly/monthly or yearly). Terms and conditions must be put in place too- No withdrawal without both parties agreeing to it.
You both MUST be recipients of bank alerts (phone and email) and each of you must be in agreement as to when and what the funds would be used for.
However, my take is this- Joint bank accounts is not COMPULSORY for Relationships/marriages to hold! |
Autos › Re: Airless Tyres Set To Go On Sale - Flat Tyres Would Be A Thing Of The Past (Pix) by AloneTK: 9:30am On Jun 15, 2022 |
Haakeem: It would nt come cheap. True! And many vehicle owners will suffer for it in the hands of miscreants in a country like Naija. All those petty thieves would ensure that vehicles parked without their owners around are grounded. |
Family › Re: Why Are some Men Neglected In Marriage By Their Wives After Having Kids? by AloneTK: 9:22pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
That couples drift apart and dote more on their kids more isn’t a case of one of them Indulging in infidelity or being a deadbeat. Getting married to build a family is totally different from jumping into an arrangement to becoming a “Mrs” or a “Mr” to someone. Keeping up with the demands financially, emotionally and physically goes a long way in not making a spouse feel ignored within the home. For the numerous comments on posting of pictures, please note that some individuals don’t even like using their own pics as DP, let alone allowing their spouses upload their photos on social media. Besides, knowing what to keep on and offline about your life is key. That being said, if you feel your wife is focusing more on the kids, rather than sulking or accepting it as fate because some already said mothers are wired to have all the love their kids have to offer, get up and strategize. Sometimes, you have to play a little politics to earn their love and friendship. Everything is not all about MONEY! They are from your loins after all  |
Business › Re: Femi Otedola Spotted In A ‘Molue’ Bus, Unnoticed by Passengers (Photo, Video) by AloneTK: 1:11pm On Jun 11, 2022 |
This can't be a recent photo.
Molue is no more. |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Presidents GDP Performance Since 1999 (SEE PHOTO) by AloneTK: 10:09am On Jun 10, 2022 |
4.8% to 0.81%
The next President get serious work.
Na to dey Cast, Bind and BLAME! |
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Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by AloneTK: 3:31pm On May 05, 2022 |
Abidele: Relocation Sales: Cordless Drilling Machine
Cordless rechargeable hand held 10mm Raider drilling machine for sale Qty: 4 pcs Location: Lekki/Ajah/Sangotedo/Abijo axis( Lagos). Price:12k each Is the Cordless Drilling Machine still available? |
Politics › Re: 2023 Presidency: Again, Northern Elders Say No To Zoning by AloneTK: 11:45am On Apr 29, 2022 |
In a sane system, Credentials, Integrity and Capability should be the parameter.
But their greed and selfish ambitions would not let them do the right thing. |
Travel › Re: "Help Me Buy Food Too"- Lady Tells Her Bolt Driver (pictures) by AloneTK: 4:42pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
habsydiamond: She won put something for belle b4 she start the day's job. 
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Politics › Re: Oyo School Principals Begin Subtle Campaign For Governor Makinde by AloneTK: 10:04am On Apr 27, 2022 |
ATTENDANCE- Coercion in disguise!
Boot lickers everywhere. What happens to Non-Partisanship?
Same thing Lauretta Onochie was accused of.
But it's bad enough that workers are threatened with job loss if they failed to attend. |
Politics › Re: Osinbajo, KSA, Others At Ebenezer Obey's 80th Birthday Party (Photos) by AloneTK: 4:20pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
preselect: one is a professor, the other a musician. why prof no go get grey hair? the grey hair is from being an authentic professor. Polithiefcians in Nigeria dont do any thinking or mental activity with regards to governance and hence cant go grey due to the weight of the office. Cant you see Buhari-de-terror looking more young? the modafokas aint doing no shit at work That aside, the demands of the office come with stress. Ageing on the corridors of power comes faster than when you are out of office How old was Fashola when he became Governor? What was his appearance like before and after his time in office? |
Education › Re: National Open University Of Nigeria (NOUN) Students by AloneTK: 10:08am On Mar 14, 2022*. Modified: 10:23am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Enskynelson: Go to remita.net Amount N15k Hello Sir, Could you pls tell me if clearance fee is what I should click on or academic gown rental fee.
I learnt we are to pay 15, 000 for clearance. Does selecting "clearance fee" of 15k cover for both or its only for clearance. If it does not, how much is for the academic gown fee? I'm trying to generate remita code now, and I'm not sure if I'm to click Clearance fee or academic gown rental. Thanks |
Foreign Affairs › Re: India Fires Missile Into Pakistan Accidentally by AloneTK: 12:32am On Mar 12, 2022 |
Beneath the apology is a faint smell of lies and deceit. |
Travel › Re: Ibadan To Lagos Train Stuck In The Forest As Fuel Finishes (pictures) by AloneTK: 2:40pm On Mar 10, 2022 |
similoluwa921: What a Joke!! hope Folake dey inside sha??  [/quote]Or you meant "Hope Folake4u NO dey inside sha" [quote] |
Food › Re: Which Of These Biscuits Made Your Day Way Back? by AloneTK: 1:55pm On Mar 10, 2022 |
Okin (Short cake) Nasco And this other one they called Biscuit "Alata"  |
Politics › Re: Abba Kyari, Maina: Nigerian Criminal Suspects With History Of Illness by AloneTK: 11:20am On Feb 22, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Abba Kyari, Maina: Nigerian Criminal Suspects With History Of Illness by AloneTK: 11:17am On Feb 22, 2022 |
[/quote]I see no reason why he should not be allowed to travel abroad for medicals. It's just that the only option must be an American Hospital. Quality medicare is certain for him[quote] |
Christianity Etc › Re: Christian Woman Trying To Cast & Bind A Traditionalist On A Busy Road by AloneTK: 10:30am On Feb 22, 2022 |
A case of being more righteous than the Pope. You don't have to criticize/demonize if you must win someone over to your side |
Education › Re: National Open University Of Nigeria (NOUN) Students by AloneTK: 8:21am On Feb 22, 2022 |
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Education › Re: National Open University Of Nigeria (NOUN) Students by AloneTK: 2:26pm On Feb 21, 2022 |
Enskynelson: Contact whoever advised you like that. Please do you have any info about graduation list for postgraduates. The new list consists mainly Bachelors category |
Education › Re: National Open University Of Nigeria (NOUN) Students by AloneTK: 12:40pm On Feb 18, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: This Is A Must Watch For All You Nairaland Feminists by AloneTK: 4:36pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
Poco, do not feel compelled to respond to this. I needed things to calm a bit before addressing this. I received your mention with an open mind, devoid of any emotion or should I say displeasure. Could it be that there was a misconception somewhere along the line to have made you lashed at me like that?. There was simply no basis for that as I wasn't telling you what to do. I merely asked if you could ignore the comments. All I did was just to promote peace (I was too forward I guess).
Even before I lost access to my previous account, I never insulted anyone, same with this current one. When someone's ways are not compatible with mine, I simply ignore them and move on. Even if the other guy had responded to me the way you did, I would have given him the same response as I gave to you- APOLOGY.
Things aren't always how we perceive them. Perhaps, I was wrong to have approached the two of you, an action I'd try to be mindful of next time, where you are concerned. Once again, my apologies if you felt offended by my words. |
Nairaland General › Re: Why Russia Backed Down From Invading Ukraine by AloneTK: 3:25pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
rhymez2much: Good analysis..but for your information. Ukraine is not part of NATO yet..and even the U.S president has made it clear that if Russia invades Ukraine..no troops will be sent to Ukraine.not even to go and rescue Americans in Ukraine True. "Partner" is the word, but it would give them some sort of cover from the R.bully until they are finally absorbed, which of course may take a very long time. |
Nairaland General › Re: Why Russia Backed Down From Invading Ukraine by AloneTK: 3:25pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: This Is A Must Watch For All You Nairaland Feminists by AloneTK: 3:20pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
[quote author=pocohantas post=110308043][/quote] My apologies. |
Nairaland General › Re: Why Russia Backed Down From Invading Ukraine by AloneTK: 3:02pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
Dawn91: One word NATO
 Insightful! |
Romance › Re: This Is A Must Watch For All You Nairaland Feminists by AloneTK: 2:55pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
[quote author=Dawn91 post=110307299][/quote] Peace is all I asked, from both of you. |
Romance › Re: This Is A Must Watch For All You Nairaland Feminists by AloneTK: 2:52pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
[quote author=Dawn91 post=110307163][/quote] Guy, you sef bone. E don do |
Romance › Re: This Is A Must Watch For All You Nairaland Feminists by AloneTK: 2:49pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
[quote author=pocohantas post=110307073][/quote] Poco, can you just ignore? |
Romance › Re: Don't ask What We Bring To The Table, Women Aren't Suppose To Bring Anything by AloneTK: 2:07pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Is it women generally?
Perhaps you should have specified "African Women"based on how most of us view things in this part of the world.
This is because in the West, all the burden are shared by both parties to the union.
Doing the dishes or laundry, dropping or picking the kids to/from school, settling the bills etc aren't gender-based responsibilities.
That's why it's called MARRIAGE! |
Family › Re: Marry A 32 Year Old Good Girl Or Look For A Younger Good Girl? by AloneTK: 11:01am On Jan 19, 2022 |
oldienavie: A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.
I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately. 1. Is being god fearing associated with only ladies below 32? 2. What school of taught came up with that? And how does that make you traditional? I'd really love to know why ladies in their 30s should not be considered for marriage. |
Family › Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by AloneTK: 3:56pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
It's either most people do not recognize or deliberately chose not to respect boundaries.
Marriage is one of such.
Do the little you can if you truly care, but from a distance.
The distance means everything- To them, Privacy. To you, Honour. |