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iamyemiakins:
Let's try as much as possible to balance the equation of our lives when we have the chance or opportunity.

This equation no balance at all, why dwarf go dey marry dwarf

If they could make each other happy, I guess it’s all that matters.
For every Adam, there’s an Eve

abike12:
No, I would not advice a friend to marry a stingy woman either. Life is about give and take and either spouse can be a destiny helper to the other one. Either of them should have an attitude of service toward the other person but the bible is clear on whose primary responsibility it is to provide. I use the word primary because I don't expect any woman in this day and age to not contribute to the household as well.

Fact!
You just confirmed my philosophy about the subject.
Thank you.

MrCover:
Below:

Educated Human Species!
Are we any different from those bandits on rampage?

abike12:
Ladies, stay single until you find someone that respects you, respects women in general and understand his role as a husband in the Bible (if you're Christian). Don't ever marry a stingy man, there's no love without giving, especially with men.

I agree with you Sis.
If I may ask, would you advice a male friend to marry a stingy woman?
I'm curious because I feel both should compliment eachother.

Georgejeez:
Short girls .
There's one on my neck now , she's short ,got flabby tummy but beautiful with black skin , she barely reaches my chest , I wanted to do normal hit and run , babe went to go and fall in love ..

E no get waiting I never do to pursue the babe but the more I try the more she comes after me .I'm currently stuck .

She's got her own businesses, a good cook ,caring in fact everything a right thinking man will wish for in a woman, if only she has height , I swear I for marry her but shortness no get remedy .

I have vowed that I will never have anything to do with a short girl again , never !!

Bro!
Her height was the same when you first met her I presume.
It's really not cool playing with one's heart you know.
Not judging o.

Never done that before.
While I agree that physical appearance is a plus, I consider it bad/ callous to run away if you found him or her not up to your standard or expectation.
It’s not a must for dates to progress to a relationship. Who knows what you stand to benefit just staying friends.
If the spark isn’t there, just try to pass the time with him or her.
After the date, you could decide to block him or her till rapture comes.
Just my opinion.

Frales6:
To kiss am sef na wahala. mouth dey like rubber bird whistle wey children dey use play

Madam haba!
You be one kind character

Frales6:
he started introducing me to his friends around, that I'm his wife....they were hailing him...I shame tire. fast forward to night...guy man no gree me sleep, say him wan nack....omo I provoke bcoz already I dey vex

Just curious!
Didn’t you check out his display profile before you guys met

larryjonze:
ALOL !maybe the solution is not lies buh asking men not to lie when virtually women are bodies of lie make me wana sing you a song, use the door gurl.
Do women even deserve the truth, when these so called women go about with amplifying accessories .. why do women wear makeup, push up bra, pampers and high heels if not to deceive men, can't women look beaitiful without deceiving as well.
Just as you've advised men, the same goes for the ladies if you are ugly or pimples full ur face leave it natural, stop making 36d look like 36dd, some men love dwarf why the heels.
As long as women feel they must lie with their body men have no option. its only fair

You be bad guy
As to the amplifying accessories, lets refine it by saying its a form of beauty enhancement.
Sadly, same cannot be said of moves made by males.
My thoughts though!

pocohantas:
I was not even looking at it from dishonesty perspective . You can’t keep lying to people and still turn around to play the victim. I would think that is some sort of mental condition.

Not everyone would subscribe to being insured by IGI, AIICO or Lead Way .
Guys sometimes create their own insurance.

As to you not looking at it from that perspective, we still cannot erase the fact that misrepresentation isn't the way to go.

larryjonze:
I think principles should count in a world you control the factors, lets be realistic the world as it own rules which except for divine intervention will not bend for any individual.
Heaven help those who help themselves ...food for thought

In this context, those factors are clearly within your control because you are at liberty to make a choice whether to be honest about your position or not.
You know the true situation of things, you know what you want.
Its a simple case of manipulation in my opinion.
My apologies if you find this unacceptable.

truthsayer009:
Lol, since you want to make this about mechanics. Let me bring us back to the original post, It's about Women loving lies. I gave many other examples with context, you specifically picked the mechanic argument. You just don't want to be wrong.

I understand your point bro. And I think I get the point Pocohantas was trying to make.
Both of you have your reasons for sticking to the position you maintained, but I think it should be a matter of principle- "Being Straight"
at all times irrespective of the expected/desired outcome.
Doing that (Being Straight) doesn't come with dishonesty.

pocohantas:
Integrity: Your yes should be your yes and your no, no.

Punctuality: Don’t do that African time with me. I fit use because am poison person.

Fidelity: “Men are polygamous in nature” Be man enough to look me in the eye and say it before marriage. If you pull that stunt on me, the Lord is your strength.

Same for me.
About the latter (in bold), I don't seem to understand how people feel comfortable not respecting time.

Triangles1:
I don't like people who play the victim card just because they turn off the table against them.

Kettle and Pot.

You were right!
I'm surprised he never talked about how he traumatized Daniel during the 2003 election, and how he barred all media stations (TV and Radio) from airing anything about the guy's campaign.
Not to talk of how he tongue-lashed the civil servants, especially the teachers having realized he was definitely gonna lose his re-election bid.

Superrman:
Pls help!!! This is what i get when i log in ‘Due to the numerical limitations on immigrant visa issuance prescribed by law, this petition is not eligible for further processing at this time’. My priority date is 2017, pls what priority date are they currently working on? F2B Visa category

I think its August 2015. You can also check out the visa bulletin just to be sure.

https://www.uscis.gov/news/alerts/dhs-withdraws-affidavit-of-support-proposed-rule


Does the above signify a kind of relief for applicants?

davodyguy:
Just completed external plastering today.

The roof facial is also of concrete rather the common board.

rgle wires

Please, which cost more between the roof facial and the common wooden facing board?
Kindly revert.

akeensbussy:
I don't know how much they sell plank in Benin but let me tell you the best method to adopt.

buy 2by12 plank

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Malicious22:
13years that’s if it doesn’t retrogress.

Any idea about the average waiting time for F3 visa for rest of the world? (filed in 2012).

RichAbujaGuy:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/regional/ssouth-west/446873-lagos-govt-chinese-firm-sign-agreement-to-produce-brand-new-cars.html

What stops the government from partnering with the likes of INNOSON Motors? Rather than look within and towards one of our own, we keep supporting foreign governments in building their economies.

CalliDora1:
Yes, sex has been in existence but the rate at which this generation is abusing it is so alarming.

Ndi Uchu.

You are right Sis.
But you know it goes both ways, not limited to a particular gender

Prettyangelng:
Please I am begging you never love anybody out of pity. They must like you first even a little. I loved out of pity and now I was dumped not even pitied though I cried so many tears.

Love is fine, no doubt.
But loving either out of pity or out of pressure to satisfy one or some parties should never be considered.
Trust me!
Love, though they say needs effort to nurture, but it must come naturally first.
Never you feel dumped.

BeeBeeOoh:




When Buhari finishes with Nigeria and Nigerians most of us will understand that christianity is free doesn't mean that you won't buy bible. Sai Barber




Who still remembers the picture below?

I find your comment hilarious ..... but TRUTHFUL!

pragmatistm:
You need to hear from laboratory practitioners before you jump into conclusions and castigate an innocent person OK. My wife is a laboratory practitioner and informed me how tedious it used to be with certain AS blood sample and how it always show as AA.

Besides, I reported that even twice during antenatal in a government hospital, her results came as AA. So is it her fault?

Apologies. But since you already have the info from your wife who apparently is a lab scientist/tech, in my opinion, do you think anyone on this platform can help or explain why?
If you don’t mind, let that woman see a Consultant Haematologist ASAP. Not private o, govt teaching hosp. Theirs is the only valid report she could safely rely on.

pragmatistm:
I tell you, she is a very upright person but the fault is with the inexperienced personnels in the various labs.

I need the medical persons to come and say something on this matter. I have just learned that to detect certain AS genotype used to be problematic in the laboratories. Please medical people, over to you.

I don’t think it’s right to describe those VARIOUS med personnel as inexperienced.
There’s a missing piece that only the mother can reveal or explain

Ishilove:
And all the 7 tests confirmed she was AA prior to the child's diagnosis, but after diagnosis the result turns to AS? How very convenient

My thoughts too.

habsydiamond:
As if queen English is a special course in the uni.... Do one have to go to university before being able to speak English.. I don't think so... There are many undergraduates and even overgraduates that can't construct one sentence without leaving out error. If na oyinbo land.. U dont have to go to school to speak... The language is in u like peak milk... Only children from wealthy homes speak good English because of the primary and secondary schools they attended and their urban environmental factors ... I think she's an example of such. If not she for dey blow grammar like this

The attached image could be a representation of [b][/b]“QUEEN’S ENGLISH” (Hilarious...)

setobaba:
Good morning,

I’ve been thinking and watching on this for few ....

Do either of these two things:
You both talk to a counsellor or Sit her down and have a chat with her.... PRIVATELY!.
Coming to a forum like this won't help. My opinion.

All are invited to the table

craigkoel1989:
Anytime my wife makes me angry I destroy things, the first day she made me angry I destroyed the television remote, another day was the dining table and yesterday I smashed her Android Samsung phone even though I later became remorse and bought her a new one.

I am afraid I might beat her one day.

What is wrong with me and what can i do to stop it?

This is not the right place to get the advice you seek.
However, this is what I'd propose-
"Walk Away" anytime you get provoked. Trust me, it helps. At least before it gets to the point of "Unintentional Murder"

Getting there