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3nity7:
guy take am easy, you came through a woman, she feed you, cared for you, protected you with her very life. And don't forget your sisters too, you don't want some one to chose saving a snake over them when they are in danger.

Perception is everything. Everything your mother does/did for you is for your own survival, everything your gf/wife does for you is for her own survival.
Try to understand that you mean different things to different people. To some people you are their father, to others you are their son, brother, uncle etc.

I'm not against the generality of women, I'm only here to ensure that they don't manipulate you. Why do you think women are concerned if their mother-in-law likes them or not?. Have you heard about women complaining about their father-in-law??. This is because Eve cannot manipulate Eve.

Your mother knows what women are capable of and that's why she is concerned about the kind of woman her son marries. Your father is never concerned about the type of woman you marry.

Let me make this clear, your mother or sisters do not belong to the category of women who MAY likely want to manipulate you. In fact, the best protection you have against your gf/wife are your mother and sister.

Monkey no fine, but him mama like am. If you like be an slowpoke, be autistic, be blind, be lame, be deaf, be dumb, be illiterate, be poor as a church rat, your mother will never abandon you. But it takes the grace of God for a girl to like you if you have the above.

The world is a cruel place, women try to make their negativity look like positivity. Let me paint you a scenario, Do you know that verbal abuse is more dangerous than physical abuse??

Because woman verbally abuse men, they really see nothing wrong with it. But when a man physically abuses a woman, all hell is Let loose. Now people will tell you that when a woman slaps you, you should just walk away. But I'm telling you today, when a woman slaps you, invoke amadioha with your right hand and give her a deafening slap. NO ONE HAS MONOPOLY OVER VIOLENCE.

Some people will come and say a real man does not touch a woman, but let me ask, should a real woman touch a man or verbally abuse him?

Brother, I'm not asking you to be misogynistic, all I'm telling you is to know how women think and be ready to counter them at any given time.

N/B: I DONT SUPPORT VIOLENCE.

Shalom.

DonroxyII:
Wickedness Loading in the Alpharic-Redpilling Post ... You have been so Hurted & Wounded ...

Men are the Maintaners of Women

Men are to Date Not Boys ...

The Difference between a Man and a Boy is Simply "Maturities" ....

Don't do Pass Your Self But as an African Man, It's Your Job to Take Good Care of Yourself & Good Care of Your Woman Vice Versa !

If you are a man, women have succeeded in brainwashing you that the difference between a man and a boy is maturity. That concept is flawed. That is what I call manipulation. When women want you to behave in a certain way that meets their needs, they tell you, you are not matured. See eh, these rules women make are because they don't like you. If a woman likes you, all these maturity rules will be dumped in the trash.

Have you noticed that when you are horney, your judgement about women becomes flawed?. This is why women are against healthy mastur.bation. This is why a wife will deny her husband sex and will report the same husband to his family if she sees him mastur.bating. This is why prostitutes request for their money even before you touch them. They know that once you cum, you realise that they ain't even worth the stress.

Women are masters in manipulation. Why can't men learn that act of manipulation too. Let me tell you a secret. If you like a girl, and you know there is a high possibility of you simping when you meet her, just invite her to a date. Before you leave your house to the date, master bate and empty your balls. You will realise that you are more confident, you may even end up canceling the date because it's too much stress.

Now ask yourself this question, why do women hate having another woman as their boss?. This is because Eve knows what Eve knows. They know they cannot manipulate their fellow women.

If you see a woman and a snake, kill the woman first before killing the snake.

No it doesn't

Infact desist from being manipulated by women. If you like, make your dick be like yam, you can never fill a woman up. A place that a full grown baby with big head pops out from, that's the same place you want to fill with you 8 inches dick??

I say this again, desist from being manipulated by women. Don't try to satisfy her. It's one of their acts of manipulation. They tell you that real men satisfy their woman. Sex is ot a do or die affair. Climb her, release your poison and step down. If it takes you more than 5 mins to be done, then something is wrong. Have you seen a lioness or goat or dog or any animal complain that they are not satisfied?? Na only women dey complain. If women want satisfaction, they should go and buy electro ic dil.do.

As a man, climb, pour, come down and go about your normal business. Don't spend more than 5 mins there.

Women get Hot and attracted to men the same way men get attracted to women.

You see, Nature has made it in such a way that they are able to bottle these feelings. If this is not the case, women would have been extinct a long time ago. Life has made it in such a way that we are attracted to things we can't easily get and once we get them, we begin to look for other things we don't have. This is the idea behind men being polygamous.

So don't apologize for being polygamous. Women want a wealthy man all to themselves but they don mind sharing a broke guy with other women.

Here is an experiment, women get hurt when a rich guy cheats on them than when a poor guy cheats on them.

Rich guys=Extremely beautiful women
Poor guys= Ugly girls

The good thing is that there are very few poor guys. Infact, men control 99.9% of the wealth in the world.

Do a mental exercise. Picture all the women you know, and Check how many of them you think are richer than you apart from the wealth they get from their husband and boyfriends.

In summary, everybody gets attracted to the opposite sex. The difference is that men are expressive when they find you attractive.

As a man, don't be decieved that looks don't matter for a man. Human beings are a creature of beauty. This concept is what bad boys understand and good guys don't understand. Bad boys exhibit that sexual vibe that attracts women like magic.

It's the same concept women use to get the attention of men. A woman wears a skimpy gown and she acts surprised if she is sexualized?. Her major aim of dressing that way was to attract your attention. Women understand the value of beauty and this is why they go under the knife to enhance their body. You as a man, what is stopping you from spending the money you make to enhance your own beauty?
Infact it is cheaper to bed a woman if she is sexually attracted to you than if you spend money on her.

Here is how it works, as a man or boy (there is no difference), spend money on yourself, go to the best barbing salons, buy clothes that fit you. Buy clothes that sexualizes you in a male sense. Eat good food. Use good cologne so that you smell nice. Once you look well taken care of and with a little bit of arrogance, women will flock around you. Remember no one is ugly. Money is the filter for ugliness. Stop chasing women online because you cannot predict if she likes you or not. Chase women physically, because you can read if she like you or not. Women don't usually get the attention they crave for physically and that is why they live their lives on social media. That's why they pose and take sexually revealing pictures in order to get their attention. Infact, if you physically see and talk to some of these girls you see online, you will realise that they ain't even worth your time.

Lastly, don't spend on women. Spend on yourself and women will come to you. Women understand the secret of investing in their physical looks to attract men and men should also understand this secret too.

As a man, a woman is something you acquire. How can you be below someone you can easily survive without. You are stronger, richer and better. Why would you bother about someone who is weaker, poorer and less in value than you??

Men Invest in yourself!!!!

Men are naturally polygamous. Remove religion that tends to bend the natural will of human beings. We all know that women love men who are capable of providing for them. In the same vain, men love to have a variety of women.

Women's weakness is wealth
Men's weakness is multiple sexual partners.

As a man, never subdue your sexual urge. If a broke man does not deserve any woman, when such a man becomes rich, he does not also deserve monogamy.

The greatest power women have is not pussy, it's their ability to manipulate men. Once you refuse to be manipulated by women, they say you are not a REAL MAN.

Be it known today that a real man is a HAPPY MAN. If monogamy makes you sad, please try polygamy. You owe no one explanation of your life choices.

The below words are the worst form of manipulation women use on men.
-A real man
-A mature man

Don't ever be fooled by these words. When women want you to behave a certain way, they bring up that real or mature man shit. A REAL MAN IS A HAPPY MAN. Infact, the idea of getting a woman is this " I have built a certain level of comfort, come and share in it". This does not in anyway give her authority over the COMFORT you have built. My phone, my car, my gifts are a way of making sure I ENJOY the comfort I have built. In the real sense, a woman is a kind of comfort you acquire. So if this comfort no longer serves my purpose as a man, I will collect EVERYTHING I HAVE GIVEN YOU.
Just so you know the kind of people women are, THEY ARE READY TO DEAL WITH THEIR FATHER'S POVERTY, BUT CANT DEAL WITH THEIR BOYFRIEND/HUSBANDS POVERTY.

People don't understand that to men, giving a lady money whatsoever is a form of investment. If A man takes you to a restaurant for food, or sends you money or does any form of monetary favour for a woman, he has invested in that woman. And just like every investment, you expect your reward. For the women crying foul here, why not advice women to reject every form of monetary assistance offered by men. If a man asks for a date, then the lady should pay her own transport and pay for whatever she eats at the restaurant so that she will have the moral ground to refuse such a man when he makes sexual advances. You can't expect a man to spend on you and gain nothing no matter how you try to spin it.
Refuse a man's money and you have the right to refuse his sexual advances. Accept a man's money and accept his sexual advances.

I don't understand why people hate this girl. So because Hilda did hers she should not attempt her own Cook-A-thon. Overtaking is allowed. She owes no one no explanation. So if my neighbor bought a car yesterday and I decide to buy a car today then it means I'm a copy cat. Let's just wait for GWR to recognize her. She had the courage most of the people castigatting her don't have. Some of them are even scared of "what the world would say" and hence they can not try any challenge in Life.

Chef Dammy, even if the world rejects you, be proud that you did something great. It's not easy to cook for 120hrs.

Letsmeet:
Please everyone, what's your opinion on this?
Is it wise to date a young lady from a divorced home?
If She is very nice, quiet, respectful, the most understanding person in the world, doesn't even quarrel. Has a good job and many other good qualities.
But if her parents are divorced, and live in the same area, and she lives with both of them.
What is the likelihood of her divorcing in future? Anyone with similar experiences please?

Divorce is a very bad thing to occur in a family. Divorce has both physical and mental effects on the children. You have to understand that the motive for Divorce is different between Man and woman.

For instance, if the girls mother initiated the divorce, she has automatically shown her female children that once the marriage is uncomfortable, there is a way out. Furthermore, she has unintentionally shown her male children that women do not marry for love, rather marriage is transactional for women. It means that the day you stop "being a man" irrespective of the reason (poor health, job loss, bad business transaction etc) your wife will Divorce you.

Men hardly initiate Divorce. Women always think that there is something perfect outside their matrimonial home.
Women from divorced families no matter how good their qualities are, know only two things;
1) SURVIVAL
2) DIVORCE IS THE WAY OUT FROM MARITAL PROBLEMS.

Please in all you do, avoid such girls.

N/B : The only reason I support Divorce is in the case of domestic violence. No union is worth your life.

hotwax:
For the past years, our workspace has been witnessing high rate of career growth of our female counterparts, especially young girls. We guys feel so dejected and demoralized whenever promotion list is published.

It is a norm that ladies who don’t do anything at the office, those who don’t work get promoted while guys work like donkeys. This has made us lose many of our talents to our competitors.

You see female IT students squaring up to fight a Manager, threatening a Manager. We had a case where a Manager was summoned and warned to desist from correcting a particular female industrial attaché. He was told point blank that he would lose his job. When its time for promotion, ladies (both married and single) wear skimpy skirt to the office, expose cleavages e.t.c.

Late last year, we had management shakeup, the new management is dominated by women. Our MD is a woman. This has changed things significantly. They published promotion list last month, men dominated it. I got promoted too.

Things have now changed. Suddenly ladies are courteous and respectful. Office spaces is now always full to the brim. Our female folks are now working seriously. They are now nice. They are learning some processes they care not to learn before. They don’t use to work, now, they are learning the Hardaway.

In those past years, I lost respect for women in offices especially those career miniskirt ladies working in offices. I used to wonder who they fcked to get to where they are.

Women actually prefer to work under men than under their fellow women. This is because, it is easy for Eve to manipulate Adam but Eve cannot manipulate Eve. Let me explain something here, when it comes to anything that has to do with sex, romance or boy/girl relationship, women are naturally ahead of men. They are able to sell sex even without actually sleeping with you. The are subtle, devious and manipulative. Men hold the power to everything in this world, so women through sex will always try to manipulate men to directly or indirectly do their bidding.
We see women as helpless, but in reality they can actually do most things we think they cannot do. Their act of helplessness is actually a camouflage for them to survive in this world. For instance, if a man is traveling on a high way and his tire gets punctured and he comes down from the vehicle to fix it, you will notice that other road users will continue driving without anyone stopping to offer a helping hand. In contrast, if a woman's tire gets punctured while driving, once she stops the car and steps down you will see that other road users who are men will automatically swerve out of the road and offer her a helping hand because she will feign helplessness. Notice that if this happens, road users who are women would not bother stopping to help their fellow woman, its always the men.

This is why I always advice people, never be fooled by women. They understand the power of manipulation. All their lives, they employ this power subtly such that you cannot detect what they are doing.

In marriage, if your wife denies you sex, SIMPs will advice you to " seat her down and have a heart to heart conversation with her, help her out with domestic work and blah blah blah". But if a husband denies his wife manly protection or provision, nobody will talk about " seat him down and have a heart to heart conversation with him, help him out in his business or try to understand what's wrong".

In the end, we all know what we are doing.

CuriousMind2022:
It's a known fact that most Nigerian girls marry who they consider ready for marriage and not necessarily who they love. I am exactly in that dilemma and the question I am asking myself is whether I should continue in this loveless marriage or slowly drift and walk away.

My marriage is barely 2 years and a few months, but it has been a rough journey for me. Things I never envisaged I would experience in my marriage, I have suffered, from utmost disrespect to verbal abuse.

I came to the conclusion that she doesn't love or care about me based on what happened yesterday. I was recently transferred from my base to a new location and because of that, I would only be able to visit weekends or twice a month. Prior to that, we barely had sex once a week.

We had already had sex the normal once we usually had it (Saturday morning), but I wanted more because I will only be coming back after two weeks. I initiated a move on Sunday morning, she declined because she was thinking of preparing food for our baby before we leave for church. We went to church and came back, and as usual, my wife was in her undies (just panties and bra) in the sitting room (This was what she wore throughout that Sunday).

I watched her walk around the house in that and that even turned me on the more. I am a practicing Christian, and I try not to look after other women lustfully, but common this is my wife, even God sanctions that. After being turned on throughout the day, I went to my wife in the night, (note she slept in the sitting room with our baby leaving me alone in the room) to enjoy my conjugal rights with her, but she gave me excuses that she is upset and not in the mood.

I left and went back, seriously konjified, I managed to sleep. The next morning, I woke up with my urges and went to the sitting room to have my morning devotion, but I could barely concentrate because I was still very Hot. I explained to her that so really wants me to go to my new station like this knowing fully well I will not be coming back until 2 weeks time. This woman did not care!

I took my bath, prepared myself, and set out for my office. I was not happy with her but I kept my cool and left for work. She had demanded that I dropped some money for her before leaving and despite the fact that I was not happy with her, I dropped the money in a conspicuous place where I know she will see it before leaving. This was my own way of saying I am not happy with what you did, but I still cared.

I try to do things I usually do for my wife even when I am angry with her. This is my own way of saying I may be angry with you, but I still cared about you and I am open to a resolution. On the other hand, my wife doesn't care what happens to me when she is upset. She immediately stops cooking for me ad any other thing she does for me when she is upset. It is obvious to me now that to my wife I don't really matter in the grand scheme of things. She is only caring and concerned, when she is not angry (when we are good and we don't have any issues). I believe that when you love somebody, you treat them right and show genuine love and care for them even when you're upset with them. This is what I have constantly shown to my wife in our 2+ years of marriage.

Back to my story of what happened weekend/Monday. My wife never bothered to call me to check if I arrived safely since I left the house yesterday. I even called her once (primarily to check on my daughter), but she didn't pick up and she didn't call back, and up till now, we have not spoken.

She obviously does not care whether I arrived safely in my station or not. In this country of insecurities, a family member of yours will travel and you do not care whether he/she arrived safely, that is the height for me, and in the actual sense, I should be the one upset here because she left me high and dry, despite knowing fully well I am very Hot.

I am a family-oriented person, I have always dreamt of having a peaceful, loving, and Godly home but unfortunately, the reverse is the case for my wife. I began to understand why family background is very important in a person's life, after getting married. My wife is from a family where they place little or no value on marriage. Her mother had children with 2 men, and my wife is obviously working very hard to follow that same path. She shows little or no enthusiasm in making our marriage work. I am always the one to initiate moves to resolve issues when we quarrel, whether I am right or wrong, I do not care, my focus is just on making my marriage work and my home peaceful.

This last episode shook me very hard, and I have been asking myself whether I want to continue in this loveless marriage or opt out. Working and living in a different city will even make it easier for me.

I needed to let my thoughts out and thanks to Nairaland, I have done so.

Here is my advice for you.

Women know men love sex and armed with this fact, they will do everything within their power to weaponize sex. Do you think you wife does not know what she was doing when she wore only her undies and was walking around the house She knows perfectly well what she was doing.

Let me teach you something about human beings. Our senses do not function optimally when we are in need to quench our biological thirst. For instance, if you are hungry, you make bad choices when looking for something to eat. If you are thirsty, you make bad choices when looking for something to drink. In the same vain, people tend to be loyal to people who can feed them, or quench their thirst or cure their urge for sex. Your wife is banking on the fact that she can cure your urge for sex and therefore she weaponize's it. The day you are able to feed yourself, or quench your thirst or satisfy your urge without depending on the person/people you formerly depended on is the day you enjoy true freedom.

Don't be scared, your marriage will not end badly. Look for a girl to satisfy your urge or better still, in order to save yourself the stress of having to woo a sidechick, just engage in "pay as you go". When ever you are Hot, get a runs girl and satisfy yourself. Since your wife is denying you one of the most important things in your life, please deny her all the most important things in her life. Reduce the money you give her to 20% of the original amount. Reduce the affection you show her. Smile when handling your phone for no just reason. Go out more in the evenings. Improve on your personal hygiene.

Remember this even if you forget everything I have said above " YOU ARE LIVING OUT YOUR LIFE TIME THE SAME TIME YOUR WIFE IS LIVING OUT HER LIFETIME. DON'T EVER PLACE YOUR HAPPINESS ON ANY WOMAN.

YOUR TRUE LOVE IS YOUR MOTHER BECAUSE EVERYTHING YOUR MOTHER DOES FOR YOU IS FOR YOUR OWN SURVIVAL, AND EVERYTHING YOUR WIFE DOES FOR YOU IS FOR HER OWN SURVIVAL.

The day you are unable to provide whatever you're providing for her is the day the marriage will end. You married a woman who sees marriage as transactional. Deal with it.

IN THIS GAME OF LOVE, WOMAN ARE NATURALLY MORE INTELLIGENT THAN MEN. BUT ONCE YOU TREAT HER THE SAME WAY SHE TREATS YOU, SHE BECOMES SUBMISSIVE.

Find out what your wife loves best and deny her from having it. If your wife is the type that is very happy when you help her out on domestic work, please stop doing it. If she loves money, please stop giving her money. If she loves attention, please stop giving her attention. Whatever she loves, please stop doing it for her. And always have a smilling/happy face.

Treat her exactly as she treats you.

SenecaTheYonger:
Make her feel young, take her on dates, cook for her sometimes, tell her to rest while you take care of the kids. She’ll be more happy to have sex when she feels pampered. After having sex, take some chores from her on that day or the next, that way you’re training her mind that when she gives you sex, you’ll take some chores from her. She’ll be more inclined.


I swear some of you only get married so you can turn your wife to sex machine.

Bad advice. This will make her weaponize sex. Op pls don't follow this advice. You can help your wife out without demanding sex from her. Infact, help her do some house chores happily in the morning, then during the evenings please go out and satisfy your urge and come home with a smiling face. Reduce the attention you give her, reduce the money you give her. Smile while chatting with your phone for no reason. Become picky with her food. Invest more time with your children. Spend more of your free evenings outside the house. Don't ever give her slightest reason to see you as a sad man or to know that her denying you sex is affecting you. Be happy going to work. Begin to dress well. Buy a new cologne, cut your hair every two weeks. You don't need to buy new cloths, just make sure your current cloths are always neat and sparkling. Do this consecutively for 5 months. Your wife will get the message that her position in your house is greatly threatened. She will adjust. There is power in action. Forget too much talk and take charge of your life.

Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

Please look for another woman to satisfy your urge. Don't follow the advice of "seat her down and have a heart to heart conversation with her". If you do this, she will weaponize the sex even more. Reduce the attention you give her. Reduce the money you give her. Do all these with a smiling face. You are living out your life time the same way she is living out her lifetime. Do not let anyone deny you of something you can provide for yourself all the name of marriage.

In the immortal words of Theodore "T-Bag" Bagwell, " We are prisoners of our own identities, living in prisons of our creation."

Marriage is a prison of your own creation.

beekind:
I am a 38 year old Nigerian American citizen dating a 26 year old Nigeria girl.
I grew up in Nigeria but travelled out to the USA when I was 25 years old, I am a citizen now and doing really well for myself.
I met a beautiful and godly Nigerian girl on facebook and we have been dating for some months now we are now thinking of marriage, she is in Nigeria while I am in the USA.

Some weeks ago my dad asked me to do some tests and send to him, (He is a medical doctor), I did them, turns out to be fertility tests and all was perfect.
I just told him about my fiance and my plans to get married in some months time and he said she has to do fertility test before he can agree to the marriage.

This was very shocking for me as he insisted that it is his position, I haven't told my fiance cos I dont know how to and my fiance is scheduled to pay my parents a visit for the first time in Port Harcourt in 2 weeks time.
My fiance is from Delta but lives in Portharcout as my parents while we are from Port harcourt.

My dad has said if I cannot tell her that he will, what do you guys think ?

Honest advise please and admin kindly push to front page for wider advise.

Thanks.

Why do Nigerians hate accountability?
Your dad as a medical doctor thinks doing a fertility test is a step in the right direction to prevent a possible fertility problem from occurring in the future. He even asked you to go for the test as his son. In as much as we require HIV, hepatitis, blood group and genotype tests to get married, we should also require fertility tests from both man and woman for marriage. Also to prevent the worst kind of fraud in human history which is paternity fraud, EVERY CHILD born should also undergo paternity test.

Donkmore:
fasting of good and better than eating always.

Don't be decieved, apart from religion, there is no benefit to fasting. If you hungry, chop. If you have the urge, Bleep.

The will subtly look for attention of men with money. If roles were reversed and Davido tries to draw the attention of this small girl, people will fill social media with chants of pedophilia. If Davido knack now them go say him no get control. In the end, we all know what we are doing.

Sex and release of semen is just like every other urge. Can someone practice "hunger retention " or " thirst retention " ?? The answer is NO. Whenever you feel the urge for sex please have sex. People should stop lying and attributing some special kind of attention towards sex.
In the end, we all know what we are doing.

Bigboy2221:
My girlfriend of 7 months just told me that she now like another guy and is confused between the both of us

That she developed feelings for him when we were having issues he was her emotional support

She said I should give her some space to sort herself out and this girl has been giving me attitude resurrecting old issues we had not knowing is because of this

I thought Nairaland was wrong when they said girl are loyal to their feelings now I have experienced it first hand

Please folks in the house what should I do?

At all times you must hold your guard. Do not be emotionally involved with a woman. Be it your wife, or your girlfriend. The trick here is that your girlfriend is loyal to her feelings/emotions. In other to counter this, you should be loyal to your reasoning. Once you get a female in your life, always look out for what will benefit you. If you asked her out because of sex, endeavor to always have sex with her at least everyday. She will never hesitate to drain from you whatever reason that made her date you.
Furthermore, always let her know that your love and feelings for her are dependent on what you gain from her. If she asks for 5k, please knack her very well before giving her that money. She may say that it's only sex you know, remind her that it's only money she knows.
The hard truth is that the new guy done knack your babe, maybe the guy knack her wellla. Please look for her sister or her best friend to date and knack. An eye for and eye.
In the end, we all know what we are doing.

NotAMan:
This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

Stop entertaining rubbish all in the name of marriage. Pay her back in her own coins. Stop entertaining a bully all in the name of being a real man. A real man is a living and happy man.

Brokeness:
Maybe due to some financial constraints or some bad economic policy in the country. Would you still stay with him?

Kings, stop entering into marriage because of love. We should emulate women when it comes to marriage. Women don't marry for love. They marry because you're capable of providing something.

Your love for a woman should be dependent on factors only you can decide. If you want peace, marry a peaceful girl. If you want ass and boobs, marry someone with ass and boobs. The day your peaceful wife becomes wicked, please divorce her. The day your wife with big ass and boobs no longer looks attractive to you, please leave her. This is because, the day you're unable to provide, that your loving wife will find someone else.
Don't worry about your kids thinking you are wicked, with time, they will understand why you acted that way.
Most importantly, never leave your child/chikdren born in wedlock to be raised by a bitter woman. She will turn that child against you even though you were a good dad.

GEJDHERO:
PLS I NEED ADVICE .Am on a crossroad..i know i have to settle down soonest but i also desperately need to buy a new car.I HAVE BEEN USING MY OLD CAR FOR 10YRS NOW

Please buy a new car. You can always get married when you want. Do not be in a rush to get married. In the end, we all know what we are doing.

Your wife is weaponizing sex. There is no gain in being in a marriage where two people don't feel equally loved. You have to make a harsh decision. No matter how much you love her, please do no endure any maltreatment in your marriage. We only have one life to live. As your lifetime is running out, her own lifetime is also running out, so why do you allow a person you call your wife maltreat you sexually??
Please divorce that woman and remarry or remain single. In all you have enough sex as much as you want. Don't feel any form of guilt. The urge for sex is just like the urge to eat, or drink water or use the restroom. The faster you act, the better. In the end, we all know what we are doing.

There are no formulas to these things. Post or you no post, just be with a Kind hearted person.
In the end, we all know what with are doing.

Just to trend.
Foolish people dishing out foolish advice. We are Africans, Our marriages should be the way our forefathers married their wives.
In the end, we all know what we are doing.

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[quote author=IyaTola post=122550192][/quote]In all you do please marry a kind person. As an African, your marriage should be the way our fore fathers married their wives.