Donkmore:
fasting of good and better than eating always.

Don't be decieved, apart from religion, there is no benefit to fasting. If you hungry, chop. If you have the urge, Bleep.

The will subtly look for attention of men with money. If roles were reversed and Davido tries to draw the attention of this small girl, people will fill social media with chants of pedophilia. If Davido knack now them go say him no get control. In the end, we all know what we are doing.

Sex and release of semen is just like every other urge. Can someone practice "hunger retention " or " thirst retention " ?? The answer is NO. Whenever you feel the urge for sex please have sex. People should stop lying and attributing some special kind of attention towards sex.
In the end, we all know what we are doing.

Bigboy2221:
My girlfriend of 7 months just told me that she now like another guy and is confused between the both of us

That she developed feelings for him when we were having issues he was her emotional support

She said I should give her some space to sort herself out and this girl has been giving me attitude resurrecting old issues we had not knowing is because of this

I thought Nairaland was wrong when they said girl are loyal to their feelings now I have experienced it first hand

Please folks in the house what should I do?

At all times you must hold your guard. Do not be emotionally involved with a woman. Be it your wife, or your girlfriend. The trick here is that your girlfriend is loyal to her feelings/emotions. In other to counter this, you should be loyal to your reasoning. Once you get a female in your life, always look out for what will benefit you. If you asked her out because of sex, endeavor to always have sex with her at least everyday. She will never hesitate to drain from you whatever reason that made her date you.
Furthermore, always let her know that your love and feelings for her are dependent on what you gain from her. If she asks for 5k, please knack her very well before giving her that money. She may say that it's only sex you know, remind her that it's only money she knows.
The hard truth is that the new guy done knack your babe, maybe the guy knack her wellla. Please look for her sister or her best friend to date and knack. An eye for and eye.
In the end, we all know what we are doing.

NotAMan:
This marriage is shaking and life-threatening at the same time.

The last employed job I had was in a private firm which I got affected by downsizing.

Pending when I will land a good job, these days, I do house and property agent. I also do menial jobs sometimes just to eck a living. Sometimes it takes long before I seal a deal. The last money I made was just something above 50k which I handed over 80% of the money to her for family upkeep and other expenses. She's pregnant with our first child and misbehave a lot.

And now her mother is sick and she wants to travel and as I don't have the 30k to give to her, only to come back yesterday and saw my boxers burnt in anger. Over 10 boxers? And she's even telling me this is just to warn me against the future and I'm becoming very afraid of her. If I have the money, would I want her not to travel to see her sick mother when i know health issue is a matter of life and death?

Also, she's teaching in a private school and complaining of the school owing salary.

This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

Now that she has burnt my boxers, who knows what next? I am even afraid of my life.

What should I do?

Stop entertaining rubbish all in the name of marriage. Pay her back in her own coins. Stop entertaining a bully all in the name of being a real man. A real man is a living and happy man.

Brokeness:
Maybe due to some financial constraints or some bad economic policy in the country. Would you still stay with him?

Kings, stop entering into marriage because of love. We should emulate women when it comes to marriage. Women don't marry for love. They marry because you're capable of providing something.

Your love for a woman should be dependent on factors only you can decide. If you want peace, marry a peaceful girl. If you want ass and boobs, marry someone with ass and boobs. The day your peaceful wife becomes wicked, please divorce her. The day your wife with big ass and boobs no longer looks attractive to you, please leave her. This is because, the day you're unable to provide, that your loving wife will find someone else.
Don't worry about your kids thinking you are wicked, with time, they will understand why you acted that way.
Most importantly, never leave your child/chikdren born in wedlock to be raised by a bitter woman. She will turn that child against you even though you were a good dad.

GEJDHERO:
PLS I NEED ADVICE .Am on a crossroad..i know i have to settle down soonest but i also desperately need to buy a new car.I HAVE BEEN USING MY OLD CAR FOR 10YRS NOW

Please buy a new car. You can always get married when you want. Do not be in a rush to get married. In the end, we all know what we are doing.

Your wife is weaponizing sex. There is no gain in being in a marriage where two people don't feel equally loved. You have to make a harsh decision. No matter how much you love her, please do no endure any maltreatment in your marriage. We only have one life to live. As your lifetime is running out, her own lifetime is also running out, so why do you allow a person you call your wife maltreat you sexually??
Please divorce that woman and remarry or remain single. In all you have enough sex as much as you want. Don't feel any form of guilt. The urge for sex is just like the urge to eat, or drink water or use the restroom. The faster you act, the better. In the end, we all know what we are doing.

There are no formulas to these things. Post or you no post, just be with a Kind hearted person.
In the end, we all know what with are doing.

Just to trend.
Foolish people dishing out foolish advice. We are Africans, Our marriages should be the way our forefathers married their wives.
In the end, we all know what we are doing.

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In all you do please marry a kind person. As an African, your marriage should be the way our fore fathers married their wives.