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QUESTION PLS.

God forbid

If your wife or your husband contact HIV
Luckily you yourself don't have it.

What will you do.

Please be honest.

DMerciful:
To be forewarned is to be forearmed. Now you know there are 60,000 Patrick Sawyer on the loose.

Will they hear this one.

Loose males and females

millionboi2:
D kind chemical women pour on deselvs

My brother is not a small thing oo

I like my color o

Some women feel so insecure. They feel that men goes for fair women more.

A friend once told me that her husband always look at fair women with passion thats why she decided to bleach her skin.

I told her she do well, for me I can only excersise and eat healthy and use natural cream.

I told her I cannot change my body complexion or do surgery to attract or keep husband.

Richdad50:


Most acclaimed 'hotties' or hot girls never make it into good homes or marriages. They often end up in the arms of very violent men who abuse and treat them badly.

Sexiness should not define a woman rather loveliness. One who looks lovely is sexy and most likely loved.

A man is either a hunter or a gardener. The former goes for the kill and aims for the game that brings pride and glory. No wonder he aims for the 'sexy' ones. He wins her heart against odds only to destroy and make carcass of her. He crushes her self worth, confidence, and esteem. He leaves her doubting if she was ever beautiful, ever worth loving.

The latter is helpful. Weeding out every awful character, he never caves into your past. He is gentle as he watches you become a perfect woman. Like a gardener, he believes in your potentials and the hope of forging a lasting relationship of love and respect.

Richdad

Rich daddy

U too much.

You talk like an elder with gray hair of wisdom.
I always read your comment.
Thanks for all the sensible comments so far.

Some peoples gray hair na iberberism

computergeek:
See fine woman. Ageless beauty.

I love where she wrote that the university gave her back the confidence she lost from domestic abuse. It's never too late to set yourself free and find happiness again. Congrats to her.

Bia Papa Favour (Lalasticlala), is it only Aunty Vicky film you were watching when you were small? Ah ah? I don scroll tire for throwback.

From this film lalastica posted I can guess his age.


40_44years.


Pls lalastica if I'm right , I will like to become your prophetess from today(AKA MUMMY IN THE LORD)/ sugar mummy

This lady can eat food in movies like,,.........

She loves loves fooood in movies

I don't know about her love for food in real life.

Congratss

Once a girl child is involved in a marriage, its not advisable to divorce.

Is either the step father or the father himself will defile the girl.

If you must divorce don't remarry.
Divorce affects girl child so much

shawnfamous:
Imade wants to talk to her dad and it's making front page, was thinking it was something serious.. Is there any other forum that one can switch to?

See me see wah ala.

Vyolet:
It is better to go traditional, visit women that sell local herbs, show them, they will recommend the herb you will drink and also use to bath, it will clear off in no time.

Blend and drink cumber , carrot and little lemon and drink everyday

sexiestharam:
I don't know why most women are so daft and brainless. Can you ever hear a man say his eyes and blokos gets him the most attention? What an idiotic thing to say by an idiotic woman!

Emptiness every where.

Most females are empty

Dear doctor, OE pastor.

Whether the bible keeps silent or not.

Nothing on earth will make me change my look through surgery apart from exercising and eating healthy.
Not even husband.

Because I know nothing last forever.

Moreover I want to have responsible descendants and not plastic surgery descendants

Boyfriend and girlfriend sex is no longer a hidden thing.

This world has truely come to an end

Only mouth na did one get.
Mchew

Mum u. Mum u

No train from rivers to common Enugu. Lagos

The goddess of adamawa has spoken

Aisha buhari/ezekwesili 2023

Abia state governor should see this

I'm impressed.

That means she does her make up by her self and it looks good like this.

She looks like a goddess while mercy always looks like a sex................doll

In marriage sometimes when husband doesn't command more money or power, if the woman is from a bad home, and if she is rich, the family of the woman may have greater influence on the woman.

Or maybe the woman was trying to sell her integrity in order to protect her family , taking care of bills.

Once a woman believe in her marriage she can do anything to support it and make it Rosy.

Deziani , I hope this is not what led you to want you did.

Now your husband has come out to wash his hands clean in the public.

Although I don't your condition now. I don't know if you can even talk to clear up what your husband said.

God knows the truth

ThankGod

Bob risky we are waiting

Writercruze:
If you are among the people asking the question “what does friends with benefits mean”, you will find this article helpful.

Friends with benefits (FWB) is a common type of relationship. It involves two people spending intimate time together without any form of commitment. In other words, it’s a relationship in which two people agree to have sex without commitment.

Even though the FWB relationship is fun, it’s not as easy as you think. It’s not always easy to continue this type of relationship without catching feelings.

One thing you should know about FWB is that someone will always get hurt. Sadly, only one party may see the relationship as a mere friend with benefits. And the other party may be hoping for something more, and that’s where the heartbreak comes in.

It’s natural; someone is always going to get hurt in an FWB relationship.

Challenges With Friends With Benefits Relationships

FWB relationships come with their complications. It always starts on a good note, and you guys will have fun. But as time goes on, the guy or the lady will start catching feelings. And this is the beginning of trouble.

Let me tell you a story. My friend had a terrible experience with FWB. He had an office romance with one of his colleagues at work. When the whole thing started, they agreed that there’s no string attached, to have fun. But over time, the lady started catching feelings.

She became very jealous and started fighting other girls. At some point, she was begging the guy to marry her. The guy ended things with her, though, and was heartbroken.

That’s the problem with FWB relationships. You and your partner will always have an agreement at the beginning, but someone will always get hurt.

So, I am answering the question, “what does friends with benefits mean” because I don’t want you to be the victim in the relationship.

The rules are simple; there are no strings attached. If both parties can adhere to this, nobody gets hurt. But it’s not always easy.

Rules To Make FWB Less Complicated

More often than none, friends with benefits relationships often end up in complications. But I’m going to give you some rules that will make your FWB relationships less complicated.

#1. Be Clear About It From The Start

Transparency is the first rule of Friends with benefits relationships. Ensure that both of you are on the same page. Never make the conversation one-sided, and be clear that your partner is comfortable with it.

With this understanding from the beginning, you will enjoy your FWB relationship because it will be less complicated.

#2. Don’t Expect Anything More

The greatest mistake people make in FWB relationships is that they often expect more. No matter how nice your time together seems, always keep to the original agreement.

Don’t forget that the essence of an FWB relationship is to have fun. And when you start expecting more than this, you may be living in a fool’s paradise. Do you know why? The answer is simple – most people in an FWB relationship has a serious partner somewhere.

#3. Try As Much as Possible To Check Your Feelings

It’s normal for you to catch feelings when you spend too much time with that person. There’s always a possibility of you having feelings with your FWB partner. Once you notice this, try to reevaluate the situation of things.

Remember, you are only in the relationship for fun, nothing else. So, the next time someone asks you, “what does friends with benefits mean,” tell the person that it’s a relationship when you are not allowed to fall in love with your partner.

#4. Ensure You Read Your Partner’s Feelings Always

Always ensure that you and your FWB partner are on the same page. It’s the easiest way to avoid being hurt. Try to occasionally ask your fun partner how things are going with you guys. It will help to make things less complicated for you guys.

However, once you discover that you and your partner are having feelings for each other, discuss with them and reevaluate if you guys still want FWB or something more serious.

#5. You Can Either Agree to Make It Public Or Secret

Depending on what you guys want, you can either make your affair secret or public. But it’s advisable to keep it under the wrap except you guys decide to have something more serious and committed.

During my undergraduate days, two of my hostel mates claimed to be relatives. They were always together, and nobody even thought that the boy and the girl are making out.

The affair was so secretive that nobody was able to suspect anything. Guess what happen? The girl got pregnant along the way, and they are happily married now.

So, most times, it’s better to keep your FWB relationships underwrap and see how things go. I have seen many FWB relationships that turn into a more lovely relationship. But never expect anything serious from FWB. Otherwise, you will suffer a severe heartbreak.

#6. Have Some Ground Rules

Yeah, you heard me right, ground rules is essential in every relationship. But if you are with someone for fun, you should lay more emphasis on it.

Is it cool to visit unannounced? If your partner sees you with another person, are you guys going to behave like strangers? These are some of the ground rules you should have in your FWB relationship.

#7. Know When To End Things

As beautiful and exciting, a Friend with benefits relationship seems it’s not real. Always have this in mind.

Your partner may be giving you multiple orgasms, but you guys aren’t dating. There will be no romantic communication, surprise dates, dinner together, and many more. The only call or text you receive from your FWB partner is when and where is the sex will take place.

So, always know when to end things. Otherwise, you will get carried away by the fun of the moment. And this could affect your love life significantly.

#8. Always Use Protection

Using protection is another way to make an FWB relationship less complicated. You know how complicated it will be when you missed your period. Unless you are willing to be a baby mama, always use protection.

Outside unwanted pregnancy, there’s always the possibility of having STDs and STIs. So, the use of condoms is a must in FWB relationships.

So, have I answered the question “what does friends with benefits mean”?

Final thoughts

Friends with benefits relationships are often fun. But someone is always hurt. Follow the rules in this article; you will not have issues with your FWB relationship.

Source: https://www.naijalovetips.com/the-truth-about-friends-with-benefits-nobody-will-tell-you/

Mchew.

Just say a well "polished adultery

Some will leave with your school fees to another school.

I have decided to go to fashola court to retrieve my money

Private school business is a tough one

ultron12345:
Excellent write-up

Anyone who thinks school owners are greedy should go and set up his or her own school.

How can you be working in a school where students pay N10-15k as tuition per term (3/4 months) and be expecting to collect N100K as salary per month. And it's not like the students will pay the N10K on time oo, majority will owe till a day before end-of-term exams before paying up.

Out of 20 pupils 5 are already bad debt

Congrats

Congrats

helinues:
Only honour? No money or gifts?

Dangote is stylishly stingy

He is .

He is doing business, if he is not not prudent enough you may go bankruptcy

Ah Yoruba women are number one.

They can bleach anything bleacheable.

They don't mind bleaching a month old baby

You have finally become a saint.

Like as if we don't know.

During your regime those that spoke out what happened to them eh eh? oga saint obi


Wouldn't it have been better they passed the bill that time so that people will know their boundaries.


May be it will help me to save my data.

This is the only forum , where I'm free to talk

LoydJ:
Living in Nigeria should be included as 1000 ways to die hard.

I like to watch that program o�

During jonathan i time cross gender was a crime
Now we are in buhari regime who is a Muslim, cross gender is no longer a crime.

Please what does qoran say about cross gender?