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Her father wants to use her and cash out or he is owing the Kaduna man. If not i see no reason for the threat to throw others out because of her.

I hope this is fake news ooo

Iwantpeace:
like I said before I spent the yuletide season in their family house and never will he do that. i m very positive about that . how comes he is doing this now??

Then talk to him. Reporting ends two ways;your husband will ignore you or the men will quarrel.

donstan18:
No matter how caring people will rush to condemn the lawmakers, the truth remains that deep within, 99.489% of Nigerians don't want them back to avoid Coronavirus in Nigeria.

That's the truth.

Fact. We cannot manage the virus here better than China. They know that. Even WHO will discourage that.

Good one. Thanks you for bringing home something to favour the youth

Two cannot walk together except they agreed. Work on your agreement level

On the other thread people are arguing about overstay of visa. It clear that the reason for this is insecurity. Identity management is all about profiling. When we are not serious about National ID registration and allowing unidentified people roam our land.

Some other countries will use this as a reference to follow suit. I think this ban has nothing to do with Visa overstay. That's just the official reason.

Countries with weaker health system like ours. Government should shut border.

Amen

I saw this on AIT yesterday. As in you trust people to self quarantine. Who does that

Congratulations bro

How much is delivery to PH

@sassysure You are so right. Wasn't an easy decision for me at that point. Had projects to run and management kept making promises to pay. I focused on successful completion without knowing i was being played. It was all in the past now but I was a big fool sincerely.

Tayeni:
What some employees don't know is that some business men don't depend on the particular business you work at. . The OP talks about some employers sending their kids abroad to study, has he stopped to ask himself.... maybe the source of Mr boss' wealth is not from Mr employee's struggling unit?

why would you expect your salary to rise, if the bottomline has not risen. Everything still boils down to how hard it is to scrape a buck of profit in Naija.

I had to respond to you because I had a personal experience of what the OP wrote there. And in my case the business was milked for the boss children to school abroad while I was owed for 11months. I was struggling to pay for my child in nursery school. Most bosses who have another source will find a way to loan from the viable to support the struggling business. Just know that some people don't have conscience.

antivirushop:
more polo and joggers short

Where can I get things like this?

This same mile 1 police station that did mass arrest around my former office took food vendors,suya seller,persons waiting for keke,passersby, person's buying food and ladies of the night and tagged them all as criminals. We bailed our security man with 10k. His offense was buying food at night.
They are simply evil.

#Justice for Chima#

Oh Babe you went too far and staying with your guy is not a solution. The hot sex you are enjoying may bring another belle. Do your parents go to church? If yes visit the pastor/Rev to handle this reconciliation. It will take wisdom to resolve this. It may take years for them to forgive you. I had it rough in 2019 and chopped insults even from children wey i fit born. It's not new nne. Next time reply insults with success. Prove you are not an efulefu.

Thank you for this. This evil is happening daily among us and is rarely spoken about. We need to protect our children boy or girl,they are our future. I remember when a minor seminary was temporarily shut down because of this issue. Also there's this case of a school where junior boys were forced to do it by the seniors and some contacted hepatitis.

LINTUNE:
have heard u but I want to ask u a question,if ur elder bro was to be in the OP shoe,what would ur take be..what would be ur reaction when u went to visit ur bro,and saw him washing is wife's clothes ,and doing other chores such as ,cooking and sweeping the compound, simply becos he recently lost his job,and his wife is providing for the mean time...I need a honest answer

If it's my elder brother becomes a house husband God Forbid,i will ginger him to get his arse out and work or do business. There's nothing wrong in him washing his wife clothes my husband washes mine but it's not a full time job nor will it put food on the table. Sitting at home and doing house work only will kill the morale of any ambitious woman talkless a man. You can only do that for a meantime while working your way out. Those that value their spouse taking over their manly duty reciprocate by taking care of the home more. It's never a problem for a family that walk together.

strungup79:
I'm 42 years old and married with 3 children (2 boys and a girl). I got married to this beatiful lady 13 years ago and everything was bliss until three years ago when my business experienced a serious down turn.

My wife on the other hand witnessed an upturn in fortunes and practically became the bread winner in the home.

Her good financial fortune had me focussed on trying to get myself back on track. I tried getting a job, but it was not forth coming.

My business continued to dwindle and then I resorted to doing small odd jobs just so I could contribute to the family upkeep.

My wife's upturn in fortune however brought out the ugliness in her. She started trying to assume control of the home. She stopped consulting me on decisions concerning our home, rather consulting her parents. She practically turned my kids against me as she painted me as irresponsible.

We initially had assess to each other's account, but now she has accounts hidden from me. I just found out she bought land somewhere, though she doesn't know I have that knowledge.

She has become rude and disrespectful and her parents and siblings have taken over my home. I am so pained because all I ever did was show her love and respect.

She didn't like the fact i tried to have order in my home and that seems to be my sin. I have never hit her or been wicked to her.

Right now, I'm pained and confused. I don't know what to do. Someone please help.

I lot of my my instead of our that the first problem in your marriage. I love the fact you are even doing some odd jobs to assist in the home financially. However someone has take over your position. Why not join your wife in the business. Take this New Year as opportunity. Make her understand it's not a competition together you can do better. My husband is also a my my person. I so hate that attitude.

Try to win her mum and everything will fall in place. If that doesn't work move on. Please when you eventually marry please protect your wife. I know a lady who lost her life in 2019. Her crime is marrying a physically challenged man. The girl was at the mercy of his family and bullies.Thank God you have a job. Because in their case the man is not working, the wife lost her little job and all hell broke loose. She died of heartbreak.

Oooh I have been looking for this opportunity where was l?

Eifechukwude0:
My only goal this year was to try and stay alive and leave a normal life,but it obvious i have failed myself,my parents,humanity and God.i have made all the mistakes i should have in my entire life in this year.hope i make it till 2020.the clock is tiking fast.i am already feeling my soul leaving my body.GOD HAVE MERCY ON ME

Stay alive,keep breathing and see what the future holds.

Successful completion of a coating project I was involved. The day I walked out of my last job after several months of not getting paid. Paying for my Certification exam.

brookz:
That moment i got a wake up call to come and receive my AP Letter,

Bought a brand new tear rubber GAC SUV Trumpchi 6 months later,

And now presently in Dubai holidaying.


All this happened between Feb - now.

Finally, all thanks to PMB's administration.

I key into this as my 2020 testimony

Cheato64:
bro are you married? Women are not easy as you think oooo, how is it my responsibilities, I go to antenatal I see most women if not all coming by themselves.

It's recommended that both parents go for antenatal especially to listen to the teachings and clear any confusion they may have with the healthcare providers. Most men don't go but that how it's done in developed countries. You following the SOP is a good exception.

Ndibunna:
This guy explainss it better


PIPnator10:

***Remember that foreign professor on the internet who talked about igbo apprenticeship. How an igbo man comes to the city, brings along his apprentice and settles him after some years to go start his/her own business. Well a lot of different (new) businesses have been started by people associated with Obi Cubana and the most recent, Cubana Chief priest started his own outlet.

So Chief priest own is a franchise. Kudos to Obi may God bless him more. If you are up bring up others

ScotMisile:
Don't believe that crap they are all biz men and shareholders in Cubana group .. ... Only boasters and lists will tell you Cubana pays chief priest... Who does that?

More believable that they are all shareholders. Only profit will drive such zeal. Salary? Mbanu!!!

EnaibeSam:
Yes, it works for me too. I married my wife last year with Npower stipend of 30k. I got married in one room. But now to God be the glory, we are living comfortably in a self contain. (You know how much a self contain could cost in Warri). By the grace of God, in the first quarter of 2020, I'm opening a medicine store for her, with a budget of about 500k.
No matter how much you are receiving, if you cannot plan your life with your little income even if you are receiving 200k a month, will still remain broke always.





And our baby will be three months old on January 5th, 2020.

Did you save 500k from the Npower ,running your family only on this 30k please i need to know.

As in you are earning 30k and no savings,no investment? Then your wife or her family should be in position to support you. Why not start by improving your income by increasing your stream so when children start coming you can take care of them. Don't build your castles in the air be realistic. But if no more hope except the 30k,wife no income, then go marry and una go manage. Everybody has the right to love and family. But it no go easy especially if you live in the city.